Mom can't find group home for autistic adult daughter 

Yes including my son, but they think this problem can be swept under the rug but it will haunt them the rest of their lives because it is not going away.

Ethereal Energy I’m sorry for your troubles. I do not know your sons story or if he was vaccine damaged. I do know that the gov allowed big pharma to wash its hands of liability back in the 1980’s with all their 2-5& 30 day safety trials and other skewed tests. Vaccine courts were established to pay out billions to date for kids at the taxpayers expense. Cases can take decades and people like this girl and your son are left in desperate need. Everyday money is misappropriated or outright stolen from funds to help the ones who need it most. Someone has gotten rich off the people’s trust and it’s high time something is done to help these families. I wish I could give you a hug and do something real to help. I know parents of ASD kids are under appreciated, overworked, abused, judged, sacrifice more than anyone will ever know, and many other things I cannot begin to put into words. I will send good vibes and prayers your way that you find the strength to keep going and never give up. Much love

Eurodance90schick Well Marthas mother looks like shes about 65 yrs old, so yea she needs to be thinking long term.

But group homes andnplacements need to change before we put more people in them if been in one Nd it's hell

Pussylover 69 stop trolling

shouldn't have children at 40

@red pill of truth you're a sorry excuse for a human. In fact, you're not even worthy of being called a human, you are just merely an individual

Weilin Neo my 20 year old autistic son gets SSI a nice check each month still waiting to get him in a home he has till August then we lose are TSS just pray that he gets in before that

i might just might want to see people FAIL at putting autistics in group homes and providing care for them especially when they might not need it ! ! ! ! !

You are so correct because it's very hard Bless you.

Weilin Neo it's really not easy

Weilin Neo sorry your parents didn't have a purse or wallet with money in it

Yep. None of us asked to be here and most were not happily pland an most like while parents were drunk on something both or addicted to something an then without u asking to be here they give u a damaged brain call u autistic an lock u up in a home mean while u might hear that these NORMAL adults ALWAYS talk to us the were real BABYS. an lock us up with strangers to wait out the rest of ur sentences here earth. Because we were driving our families coo coo like yeah trying being us. We’re not crazy. We just didn’t ask to be here. No one should ever be born into a family we’re him or her were touched by family in the wrong way their entire childhood into their teens they then showed u their are other people outside so then we get sent to school were then we are in one class room all day. Like a little jail time. Get them used to being alone because when their grown. Well just put them in a home where I’ll bet not all of these people are happy at these places but the news isn’t going to show the ones say. I want out. Let me out of here. I want my family back. What did I do. Y did they do this to me. Sending me to this place. I feel like a god science project for them to observe so that we they get of of college they can make others feel like nothing more then a training course class for Human Resources. Hahah she wasn’t trying to help u make a friend she was trying to use u for future tips while on the job lol she wasn’t a friend

Ok so maybe. 3rd grader. Btw I fuckn love aps

Because preschoolkids cant do that? Its no rocket sience.

Exactly what I was thinking 🤔

her communication level is probably preschool but she's not full on potato

You would be surprised as to how talented these people are in a familiar setting

Could you take in my little brother he's 18 very autistic?

Yes I concur

Kaelin Brown I agree and if she has a live in staff to help her learn she'll be able slowly to gain more independence and learn new skills.

I saw that too and they said she is functioning like a preschooler smh. I have never seen a preschooler cook at all!

A person who can't talk wouldn't be in a group home more like a nursing home or care home. She is a toddler in an adult body. I don't think a group home would be the right placement.

I think group homes stink to sad for her

@@etherealenergy9471 than what are group homes really for ?

Maybe your Friend need Recifient Rights Office ! ? Try Google !

Why aren't they good?

You're smart, think about it

​@@robertmarley8852 what would YOU do if you were in her shoes?..

I don’t think normal is the right word here. You coulda said “live and learn to be happy and independent”

facts

@William Stonehocker I rather stay at a hotel or a barn with horses

@@hannahhorne1438 me too! I used to Love Horses 🏡🐴🐎🐴🐎🏠 !

If you Don't like being in a Group home! Try Recifient Rights Office on Google !

how come every time an autistic act mean and violent. especially toward our parents or just because something makes them MAD! whether they meant to act like it or not! people just seem to judge and assumed things before knowing ! ! ! ! !

Why ?

Mark Guerrero that’s I queaston I need to know

She looks 60 to me. Maybe she had her at 40? Not common but possible.

Polly P. Yeah my mother had me when she was 38 :)

Lolna Mickal Guess its possible. I have a 3 yr old son at 42. Got pregnant with him at the age of 38.

R.I.P.Squirt& Jinxy yes it is

Stress will make you look like that she has lived a hard life.

why ? ? ? ? ?

fairymairah Because I need to go into a group home

She is not a kid. She’s an adult.

Michael Langley you still gotta pay for some things

Hospitals and doctors are free, not homes

She has the capabilities of a toddler. I don't think the roommate situation would work.

R5cali family she probably isn't independent they probably have done those things in the kitchen before. People on the spectrum can do things well if kept on a routine almost like it's been rehearsed. We only saw her make a salad and clean grapes.

is this what group homes are for ! ? ! ? !

I don't know many toddlers that slice vegetables

i think so too 😏☻ ! ! ! ! !

It's not unusual for parents of even regular kids to want a vacation from parental responsibilities every once in a while.

Very true but much of humanity is disgusting, so it should not be surprising

You can't take a child like this on a vacation. My son would go off if we even entered crowds or went in restaurants, or malls the noise bothers him. He can easily get lost. Must be great to live your perfect life easier said than done when you don't live with someone like this.

One thing this mom could possibly look at is maybe a roommate companion for Martha

I’m 19 and I am level 2 autistic with FASD and epilepsy/FND plus coexisting conditions My mother was a single parent who’s also autistic and she needed respite care because my seizures were just too much for her, yes there are some parents who want a vacation But there are also parents who are mental exhausted Parents of disabled people need support two

William Stonehocker truly disgusting

@William Stonehocker you live there?

I am also high functioning autistic and understand. Some individuals may not safely care for themselves and need to be in a group home.

low functioning autistic people exist too. People need to stop acting like only high functioning autistic people exist because my brother is low functioning, can’t form sentences above a kindergarten level, and overuse our water

No one is denying that low functioning autistic people exist

it's not really a group home it's an apartment in the community to be exact (I'm in my 20's) and if I ever want to move out I'll just save enough money and buy a house when I have a husband and after I gain enough skills from my family and become confident at myself it's a major step in life and I shouldn't take it lightly but even if it won't happen then its just fine moving away isnt for anyone

this person is regularly violent when angry or frustrated, and her mom can't physically handle it though. that's why she wants care that's equipped to support her.

maybe that is her educational level. with life skills however she seems to not need help. my aunt was like that. not educationally smart but she could do basic chores

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that's what i'm sayin

Great idea.

Your arm does

@@gleelights9525 - Nope. It's just you. After all, Aspies don't really shower, now do they?

Robert Koch if the mama ape can't cope the trainees/owners can call a zoo

@@sarahparker4276 What a despicable thing to say. This young lady's a HUMAN BEING!! 😡

Than why should they be put in Group Homes for ?

That's the microphone pack.

False.

D90Girl What a heartless person you are.

In a civilized society, yes, it is the responsibility of the tax payers. If you don't like it, move to some 3rd world place where most of the population lives in shanty towns.

D90Girl honstly this is a better place for taxpayers money rather than other things that taxes are usually spent on

I take it you have never been a parent of a child with challenges? Heartless sorry excuse of a human being

I'm glad you didn't have kids. Now what do you think about me trying to raise a distant relative's special needs child since he was an infant. I get no help from the parents or the state. I am stuck. I guess that is what I get for trying to do the right thing.

like they say some autistic adults may not fit in educationally but their social skills are up there

It is working. This is a group home issue. Unrelated.

+Courtney Earnhart Maybe. So what? If you were the autistic adult whose only real support structures -- which are SUPPOSED to double as a source of "love" -- are evaporating and trying their hardest to pawn you off to somebody else, well, you would probably be in tougher situation emotionally than the "poor mom". I'm an autistic adult, and I love my mother, she's incredible and my biggest ally; but there is NO conceivable stretch of the imagination where here life is more difficult than mine. The parents of autistic children have a moral responsibility to empathize with and understand their children compassionately, in the proper context and on the terms that they live in. Face it. The life of an autistic person, disabled by a society that can't even get it's funding straight for "support programs" for us, is ASTRONOMICALLY more difficult than the lives of those perfectly normal parents that allow themselves (disgustingly) to feel "bad" about how their expectations and desires of having a "normal kid" were dashed and they instead wound up with this "alien". Guess what? We aren't aliens, we're people, we're JUST AS MUCH people as you or our parents are, and we deserve consideration, compassion, and comprehension of our issues, our lives, our needs, and our challenges.

With a child like this; you would have no life.

The Conrad What UTTER CRAP! There IS no God! it's about money.

They need to find a home for her because what will happen to her when both of her parents are dead. Also they need to work, they no longer get government support for her and they pay it out of their pockets. Look deeper then just love. They do love her, this is why they are doing this. She needs to be with friends as well and in a routine that works for her and the family.

+The Conrad what you mean is that maybe God is allowing her to be un-able to can't find a group home for her right!? and in if a person has to live in a group home! than why can't they just have their house or a half-way house instead? I need answears! because I think people are judging autistics and no one seem to be sickened by it ! ! ! ! !

In a society that cares for it's old, injured, and disabled, you would also be cared for if you became old, injured, and disabled, should, for whatever reason, you couldn't care for yourself, and your family were unable to care for you. Even though your miserable self doesn't seem to deserve it.

She is old she won't even be able to stop her daughter from going off or running out the house. Society is judged based on how they treat those that need the most help not those border hopping to get benefits.

boardingpass04 She _is_ taking responsibility. The government _already promised funding for them._ All she is doing is _asking for what they were promised._ Why do people feel like their opinions are facts?

boardingpass04 you have no idea what it's like unless your a parent of a special needs person it is a very hard thing to deal with on a 24 7 basis. so imagine if you were the mother and can't help to think what's going to happen to my child when I pass away my child that isn't capable of taking care of her or himself all alone .

boardingpass04 true

@@prakticlej8677well when you pass away you won’t know nothing anyway

Frederick Martinez O trust me u rlly don't

Wow. Im really proud of you.

Why? It's like being in Jail and People seem like they don't want Autistics learning how to do things for themselves !