Susan Osborne and her son Evan went missing over the Memorial Day weekend in 2017. Secret emails from the missing mom to her best friend lead investigators to a family’s deep secrets. More: bit.ly/2YVejZO
Ladies, never tell an abusive man you plan to leave him! Just keep quiet, act like everything's fine, and prepare... When he's out of the house, grab as much as you can, and GO!!!
Your comment is %100 TRUTH. I wish everyone in an abusive relationship would read this and believe it. It happened to me, but I lived through it. It’s so sad that so many don’t.
People who live in better neighborhoods never want to think that something like that would ever happen near them like that! They are more worried about making a “big deal” over “nothing”, then to actually care about other people . It’s sad really
Off the bat, the mom says that he was VERY protective of his wife, wanted her to look nice, “didn’t mind” buying her new dresses ALL the time. He also bought them a house with his money and possibly made her quit her job. It seems she thought he was being a good husband, but these are signs of a controlling partner!! The level of control over her life is clear here and having her quit a job is an isolation tactic. Ladies, when they start being overly obsessive, it’s not cute, it’s a red flag! Do not tell them you’re leaving get to a safe place!
This was my ex boyfriend…it’s so sad. He has no empathy though. Idk what’s worse my own parents choose him over me and don’t believe me or my ex continuing to call me after I said it was over about a month ago. Now I’m trying to live my best life single. I would always tell him to, “I don’t trust you, you’re going to kill me if I stay with you.” Or “you’re going to hit me if I stay with you” very toxic person. I was even diagnosed with a mental illness which I believe I no longer have through Jesus Christ…and because I left him I’m just back to who I was when I was younger
Yup. There are other signs that women often ignore. There are good husbands that protect and take care of their family financially but they see their wives as equal, even if they don’t work.
Even if there's nothing they can do because its too early, report them missing as soon as you think they are. That way not only do the police have a start date, they would be on em the second they start lifting carpets or something.. I think any man that wants to enter a family's life, especially if there are daughters. Boys make me less worried cus some sick fuks groom young girls, the amount of times I've heard the step daughter ran off with step-dad. Growing up it happened with a neighbor an cus the woman was bit older than him she should of known, getting a 14 year old girl in bath with step-dad no way man.. He said he's in love with her daughter an she plunged a kitchen knife in his chest 😁
I don’t understand why anyone would wait 2 months before reporting your loved one missing? If I don’t hear from my daughter within 48 hrs, I’d freak out!
@Brandon Lester their explanation is actually not an explanation. I still can't u understand why they waited for so long. I really don't get it..... especially that best friend who knew about his secret life. If that was my best friend and she suddenly disappeared, I would alarmed the police immediately.
Maureen Lippincott No, they wouldn’t of. Even if the mother called the same day, she would just be a missing person and they wouldn’t run any sort of forensics until they found a body or if they had enough probable cause to think she is dead, or that something happened in the home. Police don’t come in with a full forensics team the moment someone is reported missing.
You're a good mother. My mother NEVER calls....NEVER. I haven't talked to her in YEARS...I moved and she doesn't know where I am. She could be dead too... Her DRUNK, BIOLOGICAL son lives in her house.....
If you was gonna burn it then it wouldve been everything, not picking an choosing which stuff to burn... mattresses couches yes an certain floor areas... but not other floor areas or other woods? Cmon... huge diff in the way he chose to burn stuff
This guy is by far my favorite reporter for True Crime Daily or Crime Watch. He does not stop he's tough and I love it! I love how he just keeps asking questions outside this guys door embarrassing ones at that out loud for neighbors to hear and it's going to be seen by millions online. I love this reporter. He needs to be used more he really does not let up. Tough guy.
@@MamaUnique77 it also depends on context. If it's during the day my mom is chill but if it's nighttime then she's gonna go out and search for me. If you know your daughter's husband is doing some shady shit then at least go to their house or something.
I'm 26 and my Mom texts me throughout the week. I get a lecture of a lifetime by her and my step dad for not replying quick enough. Doesn't matter how old your babies are, you always check in.
tanya292 Because she is up in Mantua before in the past with her last husband so they’ve waited to see if she comes back again before calling the police wasn’t that hard to listen
MamaMosie UK yes so typical of these control freaks! As soon as they said she gave up her job.... you know he is starting the isolation from the friends and family! Scary!!
Soo true.. have been single for 4years.. im scared to meet someone who will hurt my kids.. i know the crime rate in Denmark is Low but i am still scared of someone hurting my kids...
@Craig Bob where do you see me bashing anyone? I swear people just add shit to people's statements whenever they want. I stated what I would have done.
@@thecatatemyhomework no she’s up and left a spouse before, under different circumstances. Mom was clear that she’s never taken more than 1-2 days to reply/call/text. Why it took mom 2 months to do something is crazy. I get that she didn’t want to send the sherif and her daughter was ok and then make them mad, but personally I’d rather her be mad, she’ll get over it, than be “missing.”
Indeed. Pack and leave, right away. I got a rule: I don't want to know what's in your phone and will never go through it nor pick it up when it rings. It's not my phone. If I feel I can't do the relationship nomore, I'll leave.
Every couple i have ever met where the man wants to dress the woman by buying her clothes and telling her how to dress and what to wear as well as checking her phone, etc. it's always the same. He is abusive and controlling and very dangerous.
When marrying another person make sure you dig up everything on him, his families, his personal history make sure no criminal records... Just to be safe not sorry.
The mother said he had no family. How convenient. That's a red flag, psycho never introduce anyone who know their true self (like family or long time friends) to their next victim.
Garbage, yes.... mattresses and furniture, no! And I live in the “country”, we used to burn trash (paper, cardboard, etc.) because we don’t have trash pickups available
I agree. At the very least, she should have called and asked the police to do a welfare check. That is not invasive, just concern for a family member that won't return your calls and you have not had a fight or anything. I would definitely have done that and if no results from the police...I would take a trip there to check myself...NOT two months down the road.
I have a friend who not only kept quiet her plan to leave but stashed cash in a secret account and even organized her home In such a way that when the moving van showed up on the morning she was leaving, she was able to quickly get everything out that she needed for her four young daughters who knew nothing about the plan. The guy she left was the step-dad of the daughters, not their biological dad. The step-dad was emotionally abusive to all of them, but physically abusive to my friend, but only when her daughters went to see their dad for the weekend. She pulled off the move years ago and is now in a relationship with a really nice guy and is enjoying her grandchildren and has a great relationship with all of her daughters and their father, (her ex-husband) but not the abusive step-dad. She is happy, but it took a long time of saving and planning to be able to leave. Stay strong ladies. Don't give up!
I just looked up any updates and they’re still considered missing and no one has been named a suspect in connection. I hope the family gets answers ASAP
@@theriseoftony The friend KNEW that she was scared. She said he was crazy multiple times, won't sit with her back to the door, etc etc but still she waited SIXTY FUCKING DAYS to call anyone???????@!?!?!@#@?!dfljgidal;rhgeaiurhgjoet9i8;234wUTYHJ9E3AW-8 674
I know i was out once in the mall my mom knew where i was but i forgot my phone on silent so i missed my mom's call after 2 hours i found 5 calls from her 3 from my dad a couple from my sisters and like aton of messages and this lady waited two months like what !!
@@laurasmith1078 You can't tell. That's the scary thing. Even psychopaths like Ted Bundy talked about the fact that is almost impossible to tell a monster from a regular person.
It is scary! I went through it with my Ex. Tried to kill me and my unborn child at the time. And my mother. Luckily we are fine. Hes now in prison where he belongs. You never know what a person will do to you and your family.
@@MEL-xv9di I agree with you he detects lies and track's the criminals to their home confronting them with the accusations which they don't respond ever because they are guilty the one's that aren't will speak of course.
He needs to improve his diction, and pronounce words properly, he leaves "T" out of of lots of words, like "written" I'm surprised the director let's him get away with it.
@@mattandrews3874 Oh stop nitpicking, I started to pay attention to the things you were pointing out and it was fine. He seems to emphasize his T's infact.
Update: he’s still free. And engaged to another woman who has a child. And the house, yeah he sold it. Ridiculous. Whatever is POSSIBLY left as evidence has new people living there. So heartbreaking.
@@SartriLLe But she said she spoke to her every couple of days. And what is her best friends excuse? Both mom and bf knew what was up with her husband. Totally negligent on their part imo.
Her best friend and mom knew how concerned she was that her husband was not only cheating but selling himself to other men and how controlling he was but it took 2 months for anyone to report them missing?! Wow. I seriously hope this family and their friends get justice and the closure deserved.
If you find out secrets about a person, especially ones that are contrary to how they live Day to day, don’t tell them. People will go to great lengths to keep their secrets hidden, up to and including murder! Just wait for a time to leave, without notice! Never look back and certainly never see that person again! Under any circumstance!
The "never look back & certainly never see that person again" is so important. NEVER agree to meet them again. Don't fall for his "Just to see you", "Just to say I'm sorry", "Just to return your things"--NEVER say yes. The most dangerous time for a woman in an abusive relationship is when she leaves.
So here’s what I’ve learned watching True Crime Daily. The person that lights up a room, full of energy, happy, tons of friends and special is always the one that gets murdered. Glad I’m none of the above.
The victim wasn't ready to move out-needed to get a job, etc. If I was the BEST FRIEND, I 'd offer her to share my home until she's back on her feet. Think about the kid's safety.
Victoria Serra. If she has children, maybe she didn't want to bring it on her doorstep. Knowing what she knew and how controlling he was of her friend...these men don't let go and a lot of the time they stalk and even kill. Holly probably feared what that danger to her family. She probably also knew her friend's mother would give her a place to stay. I agree about waiting so long to report this lady and her son were missing.
My daughter has pushed us all away. I wouldn’t even know in two months that she was missing. Sometimes, when there’s dysfunction of any sort, the abuser makes the abused push family/friends/coworkers away so that they can cut them off from any help & control them more so. Things aren’t always what they seem.
It could be that the mother was the private person and she didn’t want to be bothered with her daughters problems. Maybe she wanted her daughter just to make it all better so that everything could look so nice, you know like buying her those cute dresses and putting a roof over her head and having her quit her job. I think the mother probably glamorize those things, The daughter waited after finding out what kind of creep this was? There’s so many problems with the story. I don’t think the mother is the innocent that we think she is, she may be heartbroken but the daughter may have stayed in that situation because of the mother stressing to her how great she had it, you know being a stay at home mom with a roof over her head. There’s something wrong with the story other than just the fact that those two were murdered by that degenerate. does it sound like grandma was too close to her grandson, not speaking to her grandson for two months? So awful.
Yes god that felt awful. I feel so sad for her. It seemed like she even felt bad for saying she feels hate for Jerry. Her husband dies then this asshole takes her daughter & grandson. You can tell how much pain she is.
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Yet she could have done something sooner while there was still evidence.
Exactly. Why would anyone want to hurt an innocent child? Let alone another person. I’m not that far into this video but I hope they get answers and the monster who did it goes to jail
Please, if he was former military, he cleaned a lot. Do some research. Also, not sure what the MO was for a gay man to kill his straight wife. It wasn’t children custody issues. And, the mom stated “we thought the prostitution stuff was in the past” so it was as if the wife and mom knew about it before they were married. A lot going on here but one for the record books “gay man kills wife and stepson” it would be a first.
@@vickijo2343 he already outed himself on social media platforms, dating sites, Craigslist, I think I saw a flyer at the local flea market where he was advertising his services
I live over a thousand miles from my family and I talk to my mom maybe once a month. I love her but I like to be left alone. If I went missing she would have no idea for a while.
Denise G well for your safety you should at least have one or two people that have your family’s contact information who have a time frame of when to contact your family should they not hear from you. For me, that’s my sister. We don’t talk constantly but every couple days if we don’t talk we ask each other a question only we would know the answer to. If I get one, I know she’s checking up. If she doesn’t get a reply that day she knows something is wrong and vice versa. If something happened to you would you really want it in your mind that your family won’t be looking for you for at least a month?
It's quite weird ain't it when she come out with saying get the sheriff to get hold of her those texts should have been put in to evidence first.... it's crazy 2 months she would have been disintegrated and all by then. Ridiculous
My mom waited until her husband went to work & then took my 2 older brothers and left on a bus from Missouri all the way back to her family in California. The week before he had threatened to kill them and burn the bodies. She believed him & starting planning that same moment. Listen to your instincts ❤
Me and my mum did that, but as we were packing the car when my dad returned home because he felt something was off. He was angry, nearly strangled my mum to death, luckily police came just in time, havnt seen him since because I refused to visit him, I even told the judge I enjoy living and if you make me visit that thing I wont see my 13th birthday. That was when I was 12. I'm 31 now.
Then life is as sad as it gets, when we had to do a background check on a lover. Not saying that you're wrong, but it's just SAD. Thank God that now i am too old for the game. :-)
So you have issues with bisexual men who've had interesting pasts LOL.. judgmental as hell. Sex work is work.. and it pays better than your job I'm sure, they can make more than lawyers
@@azarinevil no not at all but what I do have an issue with is the lying and it's basically cheating as well no amount of money in the world can make me stay
Lady Heart I'm right there with you. I have no problem saying that I find it disgusting. Past or not, I can't be with any man that puts his penis in another man's behind...let alone a woman's. It's down right sick and makes him worse than a dog
@@ambermullenax9813 That neighbor was incredible! He knew Chris' normal parking routine and body language so well. That home surveillance video was priceless.
If you are in an abusive relationship- document everything, tell a friend where you are keeping your documentation, make a plan, pack a 'gtfo' bag - keep it small with just important papers, stuff that won't be missed right away, buy a burner phone if your abuser tracks your calls and has access to your bill, start stashing cash early- even a dollar at a time can add up, and when you leave- you have got to leave and not look back. ♥ Love is not a good enough reason to stay.
I had to get a five year restraining order on my ex 4 years ago and then I had to go to court in another city for a warrant that I put on him.It took two years total but I am glad I did it by myself with no support but the help of three good judges and police.I was scared but I didn’t give up.I put up alarm and got a pistol for my car with mace and a big pistol for my house.My daughter just laughed at me and said I deserve it.My family in Va especially my mom didn’t care.It hurt but I was scared going to court but I showed him that I will have him locked up.I been by myself for three years and I love it.I will not and try not to ever get in a situation like that again.It is the most terrifying thing knowing someone is trying to kill you.Be carefully looks and even a guy that give you everything can be very dangerous when you let him go
Update: Unfortunately Susan and her son are STILL missing. Obviously he did it, but the sheriff's department doesn't have enough evidence to arrest the dude. I want to say I feel bad for Susan's mother, but then again who waits two whole months before reporting your daughter missing. Lots of things just don't add up.
So present day, I cant find any arrest of him....what did the blood results show? Is he still living in the same house? 11 months since this aired and I can't find updates, ugh!
Update. Since October, 2019, Elmore County Sherrifs Office has not located Susan or her son according to local news stations. I can't find what the results of the blood test are.
My mom made me call every friday because if not, i'll forgot. I also hates taking calls. I love my mom. I just dont like to keep in touch. After something that happen with my brother, she didnt push me to keep in touch anymore. I do try to keep in touch though when I have enough energy. So i understand that her mother might think she's busy and needs her time especially when she has so much to think about.
The reporter that went to the suspects house to get questions answered is a bad ass. He wasn't going to leave without answers. Keep up the great work, stay safe out there.
Do not ever tell someone you are leaving. Just do it. Let them come home and find you gone. Even if that person doesn't show any signs of abuse before this. Because leaving flips a switch in someone people that you never see coming.
I don’t care how old my kids get if I don’t hear from you within 24 hours I am coming to look for mines until I find you 👀 A mother’s job is never done
I check in on my mum beginning of the week and every weekend. Once, she didn't reply. I freaked out after a day. Contacted my sister and we were all set to go there when she replied. Turned out she left her phone at home the previous day and didn't check on it when she got in. Phew!
I was in a extremely abusive relationship to were I was pregnant n lost a baby because of him, honestly it took after he almost took my life by stomping on my head repeatedly for me to find the courage to leave, with the help of the police and my family backing me I was able to get out with my stuff with a police escort while doing so. Telling an abusive person that you plan to leave n if you have children that your taking them is not the right move! Stay quiet act as normal as can be, have people who know and are ready to help at any means!! The signs were there in the beginning for me but I choose to ignore them n say he will change he is not like that all the time!!! Don't be fooled ladies n gentlemen they never change!!! Get out on the first sign Please!!! 💪❤
I don't know why these stories go on and on about the victim not responding to calls from friends and family. Of course she's not responding, she's dead.
I don't care if "some people just aren't that close." There's something wrong with her "friend" and mom for waiting two months. I was giving them the benefit of the doubt until they said they knew there were serious problems, especially the friend who knew Susan was terrified of her husband.
If only they would've reported her missing sooner. Two months is insane! A week at MOST, but not 2 months. Especially if the best friends knew that Jerry was so controlling and possessive. I also think he could've caught the attention of police sooner if one of his neighbors called the police on him for burning his furniture. Idk, it may be different from state to state, but open burning is illegal in a lot of places.
I wouldn’t have been sending my best friend or Mom emails with what I’ve found. I would’ve been showing them in person because I would’ve been GONE the moment I learned he was on the down low!!!
Seriously. ☹️ unfortunately for her she fell for the old “be a stay at home mom and I’ll take care of you” ploy. Just code for “I’m going to control you and you can’t physically or financially do anything about it.” Ugh so many red flags. 😓
dianne Dido my guess is because she’s disappeared before. As mentioned in the video. They probably waited to see if she would return. Though I think two months is extreme in my opinion. I would have reported her missing after having no contact from 24-48 hours. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.
Ladies and Gentlemen, when your partner asks you to put on speaker whenever you are in a conversation: 1. be cautious; 2. then run. that is not a normal thing to do when your partner truly loves and respects you.
Who burns their old furniture and not sell it? That’s weird as hell. And if my daughter didn’t call me within a few days I would be calling anyone and everyone to find her. I would be driving around looking for her.
Invasion of privacy is a HUGE red flag for psychopaths. If your partner is listening in on your therapy, listening to your calls, going through your phone, reading your journal etc ie not allowing you privacy, be VERY CAREFUL and GTFO. The only two people in my life who have ever done any of these things both turned out to be abusive and criminal. Feeling entitled to someone’s most private thoughts like that is a trait of narcissists and individuals with stunted empathy. Stunted empathy lends itself to cruelty. They are twin sisters… Protect yourself!
Well if she hasn’t invaded his privacy she would never know that he is escort living a double life. I guess it depends on circumstances, because if you smell that something is fishy going on it’s natural to find out the truth but finding out the truth can cost you a life in cases such as this. Mischief is another trait of psychopathy. We need to educate people on that, they should know how to recognize red flags and strange Behavior.
If I don't hear back from my daughter in 24hrs I'm over there making sure she's ok. No way on this earth would I wait 60 days without hearing from my daughter or my grandchildren. Edit. I feel this way because my daughter has been in violent relationships. I never went a day without communicating with her or checking on her physically.
Trish Jenkins if mine don’t answer me within an hour if me texting I’m texting everyone. I watch to many of these shows. I know what can happen in a short time. Can we say over protective🤦🏻♀️
5/29/21....Sounds like Casey Anthony who claimed nanny had her little girl... Lived with her parents & never mentioned little girl missing tho they lived with her family.....2 or 3 months later she claims her little girl is missing & then clothing in found on close-by wooded lot! Another crazy FL case....
