Thank god the sisters were there to defend her, she had no one with the tux. Some parents need to realize it’s not their wedding and they can’t have everything their way.
@@Tagerrun no kidding! My aunt had the best version of a wedding, if I never got married it would have to be like hers: in the backyard with good simple food, no fancy wear- everyone dressing in casual, including broom and gride. Family members taking the pictures with the better ones doing the official pics. Otherwise court is the best and most convenient. Why would anyone want to clean up after a wedding?
Tho I will also say I’m sure her sense of importance and being a part of the wedding is highlighted and reinforced by the fact that there’s a camera crew that everyone supports being there whose sole purpose is to follow the mom and her interactions with her son/daughter-in-law
Her sisters are absolute mad lads, particularly Rachel. These are the girls that needed to be here the whole time. Mom is FUMING and they do not care and it's super refreshing. They should've been here for all the planning just because they have a voice tbh 😩
I literally broke off an engagement with a man when his mother and sister were incredibly rude to me and wouldn't allow me to decide anything about the wedding. Not the date, not the venue, not even my own dress. And he wouldn't even pretend to stand up for me. They were horrible women that never talked about anything other than gossip about people at their church. He and I agreed we wanted to have it at the Renaissance Faire. Then they found out and told me I shouldn't have it there because they "looked into it" and food and drink would be $25 a person. Once I had doubts, they tried pressuring me into using the venue the sister had her wedding at that was $50 a plate and tried so hard to get me to takeout a loan for the wedding. Etc etc. Everything was a fight. Breaking up with him and his harpy mother and sister was the best decision of my life. God bless their hearts.
Geez I'm so sorry to hear that, definitely can't blame you for doing so. People like that are usually the types to even insert themselves INSIDE your marriage too, and I've known too many couples end in divorce due to it... 😓
@@froggieprincess675 Oh definitely, after the sister got married she didn't move out, her husband moved in with the entire family. My ex-fiance kept trying to bring up me moving in with the family and I kept brushing it off as a joke because that HAD to be a joke right?
@@DuhLikeTotally wow! Sounds like you dodged a bullet aiming straight for the heart! Yeah I doubt he was joking when he wanted you to move in with mom and sister and brother-in-law or yeah brother-in-law right? And where was Dad? Was he in the picture or was he just standing back silently agreeing? Probably just "learned" to keep his mouth shut or was he there agreeing with them? Or did he leave and dodge a bullet as well? I don't know I'm so glad I've never had in-laws that were always trying to intrude. My ex's family is still like family to me. My current husband's family, we're not real close and I still get a little nervous around them sometimes even though Bobby and I have been together for almost 11 years. But we get along. I don't think I'd be able to handle anything like what you just described. Probably would have done the same thing you did and get the hell out while I had the chance. How did your ex take it?
@@rebeccaspookyduran7864 His dad managed to stay out of it. My ex tried to too but couldn't figure out how, so his method was just promising me one thing and promising his mommy the opposite and playing dumb when caught every time. The funny thing is, when we started dating he casually mentioned how lovely I am for liking his family when his exs all blamed his family for the breakups. I famously replied "Oh? They seem wonderful to me". He was in his 30s and I was in my 20s at the time, this was many years ago. I don't imagine his life has changed much since I left, but I haven't checked since I have that whole bloodline blocked online
My mom was literally like this. She walked out of my wedding dress fitting because no one agreed with her including myself. She didn't see my dress till the day of the wedding. She was less than impressed.
That kind of thing blows my mind. Obviously, you want the people who are with you at that to tell you if something looks bad or doesn't flatter your shape, but who the hell thinks they have the right to dictate the style of someone else's wedding?!
@@lilpeanutt yes all in all I chose everything I wanted! My dress was stunning and form fitting ( my mom wanted a poofy dress ) dress that made me look beautiful and sexy 🥰
@@Nero_Coniglio my mom has had a history of being controlling but I thought my mom would know by now I will do what I want regardless of her opinion so she might as well be supportive. But while I was changing into the 3rd dress she walked out.... You can tell she didn't want to he there bc she didn't smile in any of the wedding photos.
"We're not doing a Vegas wedding" " BUT IT'S IN VEGAS" i don't think mom knows what a real Vegas wedding is, they usually involve lots of alcohol and zero planning
I got married in Vegas, and we hired a wedding coordinator. They took care of the flowers, reserving the chapel, and the limo. All we had to do was get the license. They had an Elvis impersonator but we didn't go that route. There are others that are way tacky and off the chain, which is probably what redface MIL wants.
i also love the moms body language lmao. she is trying so hard to supress how displeased she is. all the girls say "oh this dress is perfect" and mom is like "oh yeah" but shakes her head lol
How is the mom's idea of a wedding more traditional?! 😂 She wanted a Vegas Casino wedding with paisley velvet decor. A summer camp wedding with earth tones is much more traditional and classy
Dane needs to just make an unboxing channel were he unboxes weird stuff that he uses when he's recording 😂, like the spray bottle, The ice cooler, and the back scratchers 😂🤣🤣🤣
The mom's really trying to convince the bride to wear a BRIGHT RED belt on a white lace wedding dress? She's gonna have her daughter in law dressed up like a bloody menstrual pad.
In my country, putting a red belt on our dress is a sign of virginity. It’s not the most popular tradition at all and I admit when I saw it in the video I almost spit out my cereal 😅😂
“We’re VERY traditional” coming from the woman who won’t drop the stupid idea of a Vegas wedding. Clearly it’s family tradition to be as tacky as possible while making terrible life decisions.
I'm so glad her sisters were there to stand up for her. I understand that she wants her future mother in law to like her so having people that didn't care what the mom thought of them was a great idea.
As much as it was entertaining to watch the mom get laughed at, that girl needs to call this whole thing off and leave that man. He never supports her when his mother interferes and will override her if his mom disagrees with her. If they become parents that Momzilla is going take over her household, usurp her as the mother figure, and screw up the kids as badly as she did her own son. Kids don't need that kind of pain. RUN GIRL! RUN!
@@EmEm78 I don't know. If she already has a kid with him then she's screwed herself over, because now that Monster-In-Law is going to be a constant problem. If I were in that situation, I'd have my husband sign a prenuptial to keep my money where it belongs and sneak in a clause where I had custody of the kid. That man would not be a parent to his child, and his mom would ruin that kid.
Absolutely correct here, like even in the video of picking out the tux, the son only really sided with his mom. Their entire relationship is a recipe for nuclear disaster and I feel really bad for any kids that gets involved. Girl just needs to nope out because in this situation she needs to understand that by marrying this guy, she's marrying that mother.
As someone who works at a bridal shop, we have to deal with moms like this ALL THE TIME. Every time it happens (if it gets this bad) we kindly ask the mom to either pipe down or leave the store.
I had a client whose mother was like this. The bride wanted classic black and white silver line prints. Which would have worked with her theme which was 1920 vintage. Think Great Gatsby. The mother didn't like this and much like this mom wanted a 1980s fever dream and wanted bright neo photos with lens flair, a lot of burning over exposed look. It got to the point this woman pretend to be her daughter and tried to change the package she was going to get which was much more expensive including a lot of photos the bride didn't want and a lot of stuff I would have needed a second shooter for. I said I would send a confirmation email when I made the changes. Before doing that I sent an email to her groom as he was the one paying me and I said here are the changes to the contract. The bride just called me can you please sign it and have it to me by end of the day. I have never gotten a phone call so quick in my life. haha
She keeps saying “it’s a Vegas wedding” as if 95% of the people who get married in Vegas aren’t trashed out of their minds eloping at the chapel O love and then divorcing the next week.
That's probably her plan, a bad Vegas wedding to try for a fast divorce so that she can find someone more "suitable" (read easily manipulated) for her baby boy.
Her inner struggles and emotions are on full display. You guys called it 100%! red face = mad, pink face = repressed tantrum. She's jealous of the bride because she, deep down, wishes she could marry her son. She sees in him, the perfect man she wished she had married. She (sub)consciously conditioned him to be her dream boat. Now that he is being "taken away," her ego flipped into survival/defense mode. The adult version of "dont steal my toy!" Makes for good TV lol
Her face just getting redder and redder as they tell her red is dead, priceless! And she definitely has Rosacea, i have it too, but not as bad, it makes the skin go red and in the more severe cases even the eyes can get red. You can get medication to soothe it, but there's no cure.
There’s the option of trying laser treatments which do work to minimize it. I would encourage you to do the bloodwork to look into Lupus. Rosacea and a butterfly rash can look the exact same. My mom thought she had rosacea for decades, and turns out it was a sign of lupus.
I hope her friends/family who stood up for her all get everything they want in life. The bride needed that support. This mom needs to realize it’s not HER wedding.
You can easily tell that the mom is so used to getting everything her way (her son and husband probably never tell her no). Her body language just exudes anger, and it is absolutely sending me!
@@wordnado9788 true i know her in person and she suffers from rosacea, seborrheic dermatitis, and "being a crazy annoying bitch". thoughts and prayers my friend, thoughts and prayers....
My mother-in-law wasn’t invited to my dress fitting. It was my mom, two of my lovely aunts, and my best friend. I loved it; it was so peaceful and I was surrounded by people I loved and knew they had the best in mind for me.
Man I am so happy that the bride's family/friends are not pushovers and are actually speaking up for her. I would have been happier if the bride wasn't a pushover, or the groom had a spine, or the mom wasn't crazy but ohh well...
Love that you guys are reacting to this show, they're all super crazy! But if you want the craziest of all, you need to check out Matt, Kim, and Kelly. That mother son relationship is pathological
This is giving me flashbacks to my wedding dress fitting. Almost every dress that I tried on my mom had a problem with. And when it came to having my bridesmaids pick their dresses my mom made comments about all of their's too. We were supposed to run all other sorts of wedding errands that day and I drove everybody back an hour home And did all of the wedding errands myself alone.
"I cant believe my son would be on board with all these goofy ideas" meaning she cant believe her son is on board with giving his soon to be wife the wedding she wants instead of what his mum wants?
I know this video is old but I just have to thank Ken and Buff along with everyone in the comments. I've been going through this issue with my mother and Mrs for a very long time now and it's just really therapeutic to have people on the outside confirm the feelings that me and my Mrs have been feeling and discussed several times. Thank you and much love.
ive known a few people who have gotten married at a summer camp. honestly, with how much camp and being a counselor meant to me, i would like to say my vows there in the campfire circle too. kick rocks mom
I’ve been to a camp every summer for seven years and they have a beautiful stone chapel up in the woods that I plan on getting married at :)) the camp means so much to me
@@jadzial.3394 yes! The camp that i went to means so so much to me. Its genuinely one of my favorite places in this world and to share a special moment like marriage there would be wonderful honestly
The MIL's red face thing is something she can't help, but it's a dead giveaway when she gets aggressive. I would have dumped this dude and never married him if it was just me. Sadly, with a child in the mix already, the MIL will always be there.
Right? Honestly, I don't see how the brides don't speak up more often (but I don't watch the show more than this so idk) but the son is totally under his mom's thumb so I feel like there is no hope for him.
But like they've basically leaned into it. It's not like they just randomly got a show deal either lol. Maybe they figure they'll get money from the show and then they can cut her off. 😂
They need to give the Mom her own wedding , like the spoilt child at someone's else's birthday party that also gets given a gift just so they don't lose their shit. XD
The brides came up sleeves rolled up ready to passive aggressively beat mom down into her place. Side note Mom turning cherry red every time they disagree with her was hysterical!
"we're veeeeery traditional" "who gets married in nature, where does such an idea even come from!? I'm so concerned!!! He was gonna get married somewhere sacred... like a casino on the Vegas strip!"
I can't imagine even slightly caring what my son or daughter do at their wedding, as long as they are happy. I don't get why these moms go insane. The day literally has NOTHING to do with you.
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The fun thing is - this show has a full on makeup artist etc... they decided to let mama go full natural strawberry while everyone else has at least foundation on
I think the mom has rosecea which can fluctuate in intensity with temperature, alcohol intake, certain foods, and emotion...ie mom getting pissy, frustrated & angry or even happiness. It also explains her lumps, bumps etc... Treatments for it can actually make it worse before it gets better too! I've had laser, creams, tablets, peels etc and mine still isn't fully under control - thank god for makeup!
@@emilydavis9548 Omg I didn't know that creep had it - thankfully I have never had the 'pleasure' of watching his videos & know him by reputation only. Whining about it isn't gonna help tho - go to your docs and/or an aesthetician & get it treated you big baby Onion!
It's clips like this that remind me how blessed I am to have a mother in law who I adore. So much so, we used her favorite two colours as our wedding colours and it was a spectacular colour layout with our theme.
Not gonna lie, I thought the title said, "Mozzarella ruins everything" and I'm thinking, "Oh god, what dumbass is making a big deal over cheese." Because honestly something like that being commentated here wouldn't surprise me. 🤣🤣🤣
I know the brid to be probably invited her future mother and law because they're going to become family and she wants her to feel included and everything, but MY GOD this had me cringing out of my skin! Just SHUT UP and let the bride pick what dress SHE wants for HER wedding, lady! lol
I wonder how they're doing now because I think the way people like that mom react to the planning of the wedding is a precursor to what roles they'll play and how fair they'll insert themselves into the marriage.
The best wedding I've been to was at a summer camp! We used the cabins and camped for a few days before the wedding. It was absolutely beautiful, and the most fun I've had in a long time!! The ceremony was in the main building, and the reception was down a hill in a cute open barn-like thing.
i think any dress with the red tux would look stunning on her. she’s so beautiful she would steal everyone’s attention and no one would even look at the red tux. she really is a beautiful bride.
I have roseacea and I would NEVER let myself be seen like that. There are many many full coverage and color correcting makeups to use to not look this horrible
I went on a date with a guy who I didn’t know was a mommas boy and he brought his mom on the date without telling me. Long story short we only had one date lol
My former maid of honor was LITERALLY THIS MOM! Had to kick her out of my wedding because she wanted everything to be how she wanted it, so it wouldn’t be anything close to her wedding (which was called off 4 times) 🙄🙄 I wish my girls would have defended me like this
If I was at my daughter's dress fitting/picking, and my future SIL's mom was acting like that... we'd be outside. It'd be a full on Karen vs Karen smack down
I’m really feelin this channel. Been down lately and I’m just enjoying some fun commentary that doesn’t feel mean spirited. Just having a laugh. It’s good.
As a bride myself who is getting married in 3 months, I understand the frustration this bride is feeling. The groom’s mom is a lot like my own mother, in that, she wants things done her way and not the way I want for my own wedding. We are constantly butting heads when it comes to how she wants my wedding to play and how I want the day to go. I’ve lost count how many times growing up that mom and myself were screaming at each other over how I looked or my personality because I didn’t fit into her perfect mold. I’m really glad that the bride has her friends and family backing up her decisions, and standing up to the groom’s mom in a passive aggressive way because no one should tell you how to look or act on your special day.
