Mother & Daughter Face Off After Jail and CPS Threats! | KARAMO 

Man this broke my heart. The minute she walked out and started talking I knew there was something deeper than the surface. People yell when they have a history of not being heard…

When She Said “I’m Tired Of Being Mad Everyday I’m Tired” I Felt Every Emotion

I could see the break through in both of them. You can tell the daughter just wants to be heard, she yells, screams and tries to rush and talk because nobody listens and the only way to express those suppressed feelings is by screaming or lashing out. Her mom really does love her, they both just have a lot of unlearning to do and I’m praying that God continues to reconcile their relationship ❤

You can clearly see the mom has been holding a grudge on her from when she went to jail. Her daughter told her she was RAPED multiple times and she didn’t even flinch. The child is a direct reflection of the parent

This truly tugged at my heart and made me realize our children are vulnerable and dealing with so much 😢

She ain't yelling..it's her soul.. bleeding and broken to the ground.

I feel the daughter's pain, I know this anger, and even at 34 my mom can make me cry and still treats me like she's better and won't hear me out

“You need to stop” when she’s having a breakdown. Ooohhh that angered my soul.

i’m 18 yrs old & this is literally the perfect example of the relationship my mother and i have. this episode made me so emotional because i see myself in the daughter… i just want to be heard and i wish my mom could understand that. i’m happy that they were able to come together and both take steps towards bettering their relationship. i wish the same for me and my mom.

The fact I’m 13 and I see all my emotions in the daughter…

The mom seemed to be more upset about her not communicating her sexual assault with her than she was about the actual assault. That’s how my mom did me.

You all notice after she blurted out what happened to her she was calmed because she finally got it out.

I think the daughter is upset because her mother looks at her like a bad person. Like she’s always up to no good and she’s ruining her life. As if she’s a criminal and her mom has to keep her locked up at home. That whatever she does her mom will not be proud and will always have something negative to say and she’s tired of it. All the anger has bottled up. All her daughter wants is to see what she sees and that she’s trying to better herself. Moms want the better for their kids and are hard on them to be better and excel in everything. But you have to keep in mind that kids aren’t robots. They have feelings and emotions.

Man tears just started falling when the daughter vented you can hear the hurt I pray they can mend this.

I loved the emotional progress they made. Her mom listening literally meant everything to her. Sometimes people scream because they don’t feel heard. Great mediating, Karamo!!!

The moment the man asked the mum to just listen and then she started pouring her heart out, mahn that broke me. Sometimes all we need is just someone who listens to us. Someone we can confide in and feel safe to communicate with.

Wow! So random. I was neighbors and went to elementary school with Ca’Varri. She was a great friend from what I can remember! I’m so glad to see her but hurt by everything I see she’s been through. I wish you the best girly hope you see this! ❤

I think the mom truly means well, she comes off judgmental and a “know it all” can’t tell her nothing! And she will NEVER forget your mistakes… And that’s how I feel about my parents. I would never tell them my secrets.

I think the mom regrets how she raised her and has to face it every time her daughter does something she deems no longer acceptable. Her problem is that she isn’t taking accountability for the part she played in it and instead is trying to ignore it and force new behaviors. This is probably why she shuts her down in conversation because those hard conversations forces her to look in the mirror. Her judgement of her daughter is really her judgement of herself, whether it’s the old her, new her or somewhere in between. She would be better off acknowledging that she taught her what she thought was right at the time and that she now realizes there is a better way. She should be patient w/ her daughter and help her integrate into this new way of living instead of crucifying her for being what she taught her to be. Our community has to learn how to hold ourselves accountable past, present and future rather than sweeping things under the rug and pretending it doesn’t exist. This will never be effective. & I believe she means well for sure. Our children NEED us to be the accountable and apologetic adults our parents didn’t know how or refused to be. These children are a reflection of how they are raised and we cannot forget that. Whether it’s how they are actively raised or the lack thereof. To hold them accountable is to hold ourselves accountable.

She doesn’t have a problem with communicating or taking accountability she’s just not feeling heard

Lord I bind this spirit of anger and destruction in the family. In Jesus name amen

The MOM definitely the problem. The daughter feels like she’s not being heard & y’all not seeing the mom narcissistic behavior? Pleaseeeeee!!!!!! The daughter isn’t innocent at all but the mom needs to listen and give better guidance. Also, if you’re “helping”’your daughter stop bringing it up. It’s your grandkid you love him stop throwing him in it. The mom wants to be right all the time and perfect.

That's a lot of anger! I hope she gets to the bottom of it and heals for her son's sake! That's too much anger!

Ngl i was a bit shocked at all that fire coming out of such a pretty face 😂

Whew! This was me a while ago! When she said "I'm tired", I felt her pain. I went through the same thing. Going thru life mad as hell not knowing why and realizing how much being raped affected my life. Bravo ladies. I pray for y'all healing🙏🏾❤✨

She such a beautiful young lady and I hope she continues to grow while her mother stops judging her and really listens to her.

I believe the daughter because the mom is not taking no accountability for anything nobody is perfect like she is acting

Forgiveness is a powerful thing.

This is such a heartfelt episode. The daughter has anger, but it’s really HURT. Mom really does love her daughter and I’m so glad that they had a breakthrough.❤️ Great episode. Love you Karamo❤😊

It’s weird that everyone keep saying the daughter was doing too much. Or must be on some type of substance or have a disorder.. when all she’s doing is expressing herself. I’ve use to have this same type of rage and anger and would lash out because I had soo much hurt bottled in and felt like no one understood me or listened. And it’s like the more someone would try to downplay my pain or tell me I was wrong whenever I expressed myself I would get angrier. I 10000% understand where she’s coming from. It’s like you’re really not trying to be disrespectful it’s just you get tired of hurting and just want to finally be heard especially if you keep explaining your feelings and keep getting them blown off. It’s literally a level of hurt that’s hard to express..Thank God I found my way and released all my hurt and no longer lash out or have anger. I feel for her and hope she finds her way.❤

She’s hurt. Neither the mother or daughter is wrong. It’s how it is when you have a young mother. They may not come across the right way, but they want the best for you.

I knew someone touched her by the rage.. you get that rage from being taken advantage of. How the Mom glossed over the rape .. scary..

This was a heartfelt episode. ❤️ I know a lot of mom and daughters can relate.

This episode made me so emotional because I relate to her so much, sending love and light to the both of them❤

That mom is a piece of work. I see right through it.

Loved this ending, it just shows that a lot of the time-anger is just a symptom to a sickness which is pain. To mend a connection, all you need is willingness from both parties 🙌🏾

This had me crying sooo glad they was able to get everything off their chest I felt exactly how that daughter felt before!!!

The mom saying it wouldn’t even be hard if she tried to take her baby was low and dirty! I feel for the young woman.

Y'all don't understand...I'm 14 and my momma the same way she always starts arguments and stuff like that and when I stand up for myself she hits me...and like she acts Innocent around others and she puts on a fake personality around other people or in public...

I used to work with Denise at Macy’s years ago. Praying for her and her daughter

I felt Ca'varri heart just like she was my child. Ca'varri I hope you will heal for your child. Tears of happiness I hope she has grown.

I really felt this episode so much I’m 32 and I feel the same way about my mother I love her but it’s hard to express things to her because she gets so defensive 🙈 hopefully this lady and her mother can have a better relationship & the daughter can heal from all the pain she has ❤️

I couldn’t skip pass that her mom said if she died she stuck with her daughter child and not “my grandchild will be left without a mother” that showed me she wasn’t lying about her mom 🤷🏽‍♀️

I feel the daughter so hard when she said she's angry every day. I am too I cant even have simple conversations with my grandma ( she raised me) because she's so dismissive. it hurts fr fr

The mother barely acknowledging the violation reminds me of my mom. She pretended to care so that I would confide in her. And within a day, she said aloud "what kind of situations were you putting yourself in 😒?" As though I asked to be graped. I dont see us being close.

It hits home. Her emotions is deeper than what her mom knew about.

i believe that it’s very important for people to understand that everyone expresses everything differently. whether that be yelling or crying or sitting down and just talking. props to the mother for finally letting her daughter express her emotions the way she feels is safest and most efficient for her

powerful. daughter is so brave for being so vulnerable, what a great break through.

I felt this so strongly. This used to be my mum and I. There was a recent outburst just a week ago that lets me know I had still some letting go to do. Today, I can say I’m grateful for how far we’ve both come and how much healing we’ve accomplished cos I know this is our journey and there’s nothing time and love can’t heal. ❤️

I think when you homeschool you have to do things that still socialize your kids and allow them some freedom to make normal teen mistakes. We also have to know if our kids have a leader or follower type personality and parent them accordingly. It’s not easy to create that balance so your kids turn out to be well rounded adults. I have 4 kids and 2 are adults. They took completely different paths once they were grown. It’s just so hard especially when you’re trying to maintain a good respectful relationship with grown children. I will also say keep the government OUT of your life! Don’t threaten it either.

So nice for the both of them to have a safe space for their emotions without someone misreading them because of their tone. ❤

I’m 31 in tears watching this clip. I wish i could hug her. This is so trigging watching known you’re not being heard all because of an image of what others think. Loving your child unconditionally comes with no strings attached. Meaning good, bad, ugly, embarrassing, emotional etc etc etc. Love them through it all once a child feels safe, loved and heard the behavior will change. We seek attention in the only way we know how and y’all call it (misbehaving). Parents being a young child or teenager is just as hard when trying to figure out life and still enjoy your youth so please have some grace on our babies. And Children have some grace for our parents. We know parents mean well and sometimes we need to step out of “that parent role” and talk to your child as if you’re a child or their friend and help come up with a solution. All voices deserve to be heard. If you’re reading this I love you so much I’m sending love, positivity and healing your way 🤞🏽💚

You can definitely tell that they love one another deeply!! I’m glad he was able to be that bridge for them🙌🏽

I'm crying because I can feel that there's a lot of work to be done in this Mother Daughter relationship 🙏🏻

Every child's greatest wish is the acceptance/approval/pride/honor/respect/encouragement of their parent. ❤

Dang I pray that Ca'varri gets to the place she would like to get to with her mother, because I can relate to her so much with everything she feels and is going through. It hurts so much when you have a mother that doesn't listen to you as well as two older siblings. The only difference is, I don't have a relationship with my mother, due to past trauma she put me and my siblings through.

this describes me and my mom so perfectly… this episode was very deep.. he handled this soo well ❤️❤️

Sometimes moms have to let our kids learn on their own. It's unfortunate though because usually we are trying to keep them from making a mistake we have already made 😢

Powerful episode! I shed tears! I hope they continue to work at mending their relationship! Many of us have been in their shoes!

I cried the moment she said i love you mom and you know that, i be feeling unheard all the time in my house and i don't know why its always a case of the first daughters and their moms, there's always this gap that is created by the mom and they don't feel the need to listen to what their daughters want but they try to force opinions on them. I hope you heal gurl❤❤

My mom is also judgmental so I sometimes feel like this, I’m glad the daughter was able to speak out and her mom listenened

It took me to become age 24 to have a relationship and conversation with my mom. Parents tend to forget to be there for us and listen because all they see is PARENTING. When in most cases that’s all a child needs is parents to listen and be there for them. At least that’s all I needed.

This child needs therapy desperately . The angry coming from her someone needs to listen we need to learn to listen and listen to learn . I wish I could hug her so many of our children have the problem nobody take the time to listen to them .

I’m so tired of crying over people I don’t know 😂 this was a good episode ❤

My mom is like that, she doesn't listen to me. Now, I kinda stopped talking to her emotionally. Whenever I have something to say I'll never say it to her, I know there is no communication.

The Mother does not LISTEN!!!! The Young Woman needs to be loved, respected, appreciated and heard.

Miss Ca’Varri , I’m so proud of you for being a AWESOME mother. I understand your struggles…😊

I just feel like this relationship is so deeply wounded. Wouldn’t doubt either of them having cptsd. Hope they continue to seek help. It’s what I wish my mom and I could do. 💖

Two things can be true at once. One person wants to be heard and feels like "I don't need you to clean up my mess". The other doesn’t want to "clean up the mess".

I don't know how she didn't just want to grab and hug her daughter. Smh

My mother was like this. She is dead now. I have 4 girls and 3 boys. I can see myself in this girl and I don't want this to happen with me and my daughters. I would never be embarrassed of my babies.

This episode reminded me of my relationship with my mother. I’m nearing my 30s about to get married and I have so much resentment for her. Given the fact that she was the only parent I had growing up, I’m basically being told my emotions aren’t relevant and I should be grateful for the sacrifices she has made for me. She has manipulated me my entire life and now that my eyes are open, it’s a problem. I’m still filled with a whole lot of anger, but a lot of it has just been suppressed 😔

I started tearing up! So happy these episodes are coming back out !!

Poor baby the daughter is hurting and needs someone to talk too but she feels like she can’t bc her mom is judgmental and cuts her off so now she fells like she has to rush and scream when she talks in order to be heard.

Wish I had a mom like that

That “ BUT LIKE DAMN”. I felt that

This young lady doesn’t even know how to calmly have a simple conversation. It seems like there is a lot of anger and pain. Drugs is a factor, however therapy is needed with a whole lot of prayer and spiritual guidance. Love, kindness, compassion and patience can heal this family. Praying for Grace and Wholeness 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

I love karamo for the fact that he’s like a spiritual healer helping unite people so that they can heal their spirits from within side of themselves 🙏

Her mother doesn't listen. I had notice how her mother doesn't listen to her especially when she brought up how she was violated and she ignored it. How about hugging your daughter your children letting them know that you're gonna be ok everything is gonna be alright. Tell them that you love them and accepts from them afterwards. Also to the children, listen to your mom, especially if you have a mom that cares. This would save you from a lot down the line.

Love this. One of the best mother/daughter relationships I have seen on stage!❤❤❤ God bless them and wishing them the best!

Whew this one gave me the feels! Mama PLEASE hug your baby! She needs you!❤❤

its a pattern in many mother/daughter relationships. most mothers demand their daughters are always soft and polite, the second they show any other emotion its always taken as 'disrespect'. this mother is just COLD. you just heard your daughter got assaulted and you make it about yourself...shes more concerned about the cameras and less about her daughter

The daughter is broken but when you got a mom who is judgemental its hard bc she probably consistently gets beat down about the bad and not the good this happens alot in black culture

She was sheltered and then let go and tried to Fit in…some attention is better than no attention…this hard shell is starting to crack. God bless them both.

I'm going to repost a comment I left under someone else's because some of these comments missed the point. This isn't meant to be hateful! The problem is that too many people are seeing the daughter's pain as genuine anger and not hurt. It's something you wouldn't understand unless you have been in or closely witnessed something similar. I cried with the daughter. There's a lot of generational trauma in the black community with parents and children, and sadly, it often doesn't get talked about. Neither mom nor daughter is "the bad guy." Mom is doing what she knows and what her mom probably did, and her actions have molded and hurt her daughter, who has big reactions because she feels unseen/unheard. I hope they can mend their relationship. Either way, it's not our place to judge these people, but rather to learn from these videos and apply what we learned to our own lives. Wishing you all a peaceful week. ✌🏾 ❤

She's definitely going to need some help.

Karamo… our community needs what you got soooo much!!! I appreciate you!

Aw poor daughter 💔that girl is broken I hope she gets better honestly this is hard to see the way she tried talking loud to be heard the way she cried to see the hurt she really is in and the mother is hurt to she just wants her daughter to be protected and doing the right things mothers are always worried about what they children are getting themselves into and that is wonderful so happy they squashed this.

This just breaks my heart into pieces. SMH. Sigh. I have no words. God be with this family.

I can so relate to this story because i went through alot with my mother and my oldest. Babygirl hurting, but mom trying to understand... that's a start! And she does need to grow. Throwing up old things, coming from the person you love the most makes it hard to move forward!! Mom has to commit to her daughter to help her deal with her hurt and be a better parent.. #Experience 💯💯

I weirdly believe both of them. A lot of shit it’s just a matter of perspective. I can tell the mom is trying to be and do good but I think the daughters feelings are valid…she acts the way exactly she raised and her mom hates that and is very judgmental of her. I’m really feeling the daughter. Praying for a lot of healing for them

I hate how the mum is not listening when the girl is talking like she is screaming because she doesn't feel like she is heard

She look like ekane 😂

Mom acting real polished on that stage lol i can tell she cappin at the extent of how her daughter is

This was like watching my parents and I relationship, but with a different story. Even in adulthood. Unfortunately, I had to disconnect from them, even communication. I had to choose me. I'm glad the mom and daughter are able to work things out. I wish the best for them. 💜

Thank u God am a child free woman because am not ready to be stressed for the rest of my life😢😢😢

I just want to give her a huge hug! ❤ I pray she’s doing better. Anger and rage are exhausting emotions to have pinned up inside of you. It’s literally like a bottle under pressure. ❤

tbh, she should be happy she got a caring mom. not a lot of kids have that kind of mom.

I shed heavy tears watching this because I feel that girl so much, I’m not a mom yet but I feel her because it’s the same for me too with my mother, when you just want to speak but you feel like you’re a mute in the darkness, you feel like how much u could shout no one can hear you…. That made me feel good to see them heal together ❤ I’m very happy for them

She's 1 angry child...wow