Heartfelt condolences to this family on losing your precious daughter. I understand how that feels and I agree the discovery will go a long way in alleviating some of the traumatic guilt we as parents feel on facing this terrible loss. The guilt is huge and so difficult to live with. It is many decades since our beautiful baby died, I still cry every day for missing him. I hope research continues in this field.
I cry everyday too for my baby boy. I had been having a disagreement with my mom and she didn't care take care of my 2 babies who had been in nicu 4 months. She did care for my sister's 2 older daughters. I asked her for baby milk bc i wanted some motivation that morning and she said no after it was the only favor ive ever asked her and after giving her almost all my money. I don't like my mom bc i feel he would still be alive :,( i was frustrated & put my baby to sleep facedown but face facing to side and with a blanket covering him in a moment he seemed to sleep and be silent. He had been crying so much. Its not easy...i do not like my mom as result of what happened to my baby boy.. i cant believe its been decades n u still cry for him everyday its the worst hell anyone can ever go thru losing a baby.sending you a :::virtual hug & kisses:::.
I’m so sorry ! I pray for all of the parents who have lost their babies. My grandson just passed one week ago - we are devastated. Forever loved , baby Morgan Timothy 👼🏼✝️💫🙏🏽🕯♾🕊💙🌹
Sincerest condolences to you and your family in your terrible loss. He will be remembered forever, always in your hearts. God bless you all. Yes, it's so absolutely devastating to lose our little ones. My heart goes out to you.
. name is kristen and me and my husband have a 13yr old daughter and we had a beautiful baby girl named madison. She would be turning 9 this September but unfortunately she passed away at almost 2months old in the middle night in her sleep. When we went to the funeral home to prepare for her service it was absolutely heartbreaking when the funeral home director brought in the litte baby sized coffin that would be used at her service. We actually had her cremated as i didnt or couldn't fathom having to visit a gravesite. Now she sits upon a beautiful shelf made by my husband
It’s so so sad she lost her baby. I couldn’t imagine blessings sent to your whole family. Hopefully this new find helps bring out further discoveries that lead to hopefully Sid’s not being such a fear factor the first year. But my son would only sleep with me on his nursing pillow on his belly. He still sleeps no other way then on his stomach.
As a parent who lost her second daughter to SIDS I can tell u we don't ever get over the loss I guess we just sorta learn to continue forward with the "new" life meaning the life that no longer has ur new baby in it. My husband and I also have a 13yr old daughter who was only 5 at the time of her sister's passing. Another thing Mt husband and i went thru after the loss was feeling like our lives were paused amd I remember getting so hurt when I would see other family members laughing and carrying on with day to day life. I had to learn that ONLY my husband's and I's lives were put on hold during this everyone else just continued forward
I have 3 kids 21 years and 11 and now I have an 2weeks old.. I don’t like having my baby sleeping in the crib at night.. they slept with me in my bed.. I think baby’s are in your belly for nine months they have a bond with you.. if they don’t smell you next to them or feel you there.. they feel neglected in the crib alone.. I sleep next to my kids heart beat
You're absolutely right Carolina. My daughter will not go to sleep if my wife doesn't hold her on her chest. It's going to be hell when she returns to work and I have to put her to sleep myself. Babies form a bond with their mothers that no one else can match. It's instinctive with the baby, and yes I believe smell is a huge part of it. Even after my wife gets her to go to sleep, and has to eventually place her in the crib, it feels so wrong to leave her in there alone and when she inevitably wakes up in the middle of the night, it's my poor wife who has to comfort her and get her back to sleep.
The whole bs about putting baby on back in empty crib is bs cuz parents did everything correctly and baby still died! And it’s happened to tons of parents that did everything right! My son was so colicky I had to lay down with him and put him on my bare belly or he wasn’t sleeping at all! And he didn’t die!
Yup. At night, when I’m sleeping, I sleep My 2 month old swaddled on his back. He is always grunting, sometimes chocking on milk, (nose and mouth), and clearly uncomfortable in and out of sleep. During the day, when I’m up, he sleeps like a brick on his stomach. The bassinet is right next to me, so I am always checking on him. He is clearly a stomach sleeper.
I had three kids they are 34, 33 and 30. I was seventeen when I had my first little girl. I noticed that when she threw up she chocked with her vomiting so I always put my babies to their side. There is a lot more things to prevent SIDS🙏 God bless our little angels 🙏👼
