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Mother sentenced to a year in jail for denying father access to their child 

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In an unprecedented moment, a mother from Pretoria was sentenced to 12 months in jail for refusing to give her former partner access to their child. The Gauteng High Court in Pretoria found the woman in contempt of two court orders made by the same court in 2021 and 2022. The judge presiding over the case found that the mother had deliberately disobeyed the courts from the beginning of the matter in August 2021.
Managing Director of Mashitisho Attorneys Incorporated, Kholofelo Mashitisho unpacks this.
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Комментарии : 110   
@wesleysubramoney7472
@wesleysubramoney7472 7 месяцев назад
This is an eye opener to all the vindictive women that use innocent kids as pawns Big ups to all the men out there that are fighting for their kids.facing a similar situation
@leereloaded7614
@leereloaded7614 7 месяцев назад
Well done can we now move to dads who don’t want to support their kids 😀
@BusinessGuidesKenya
@BusinessGuidesKenya 5 месяцев назад
OR MOTHERs Who Dont Support Their Kids
@lambertellis5
@lambertellis5 2 месяца назад
That’s ALWAYS the narrative 🗣️ actually way more than the fact that most Fathers actually take care of their children and statistically children raised with their father (with or without the mother) do much better than single-mother households.
@MissSlenda
@MissSlenda 7 месяцев назад
That serves her right. Hope a lot of women learn from this as this always using they children to fight they bitterness with the other parent. There are still good men out there who want to be fathers to they kids. And to those men who are still fighting with these women, take them to court let the court deal with them. Some women are plain evil!
@LocalEdits_v8j
@LocalEdits_v8j 7 месяцев назад
They system needs to start by putting fathers in jail for not supporting & providing for their kids 1st for me to take it seriously
@user-db2xc3vd5v
@user-db2xc3vd5v 7 месяцев назад
Did you follow the whole conversation Mam?
@LocalEdits_v8j
@LocalEdits_v8j 7 месяцев назад
@@user-db2xc3vd5v I did. My comment has little to do with this individual case but the system at large. Or did that go past your head ?
@tendamudzimugoza5402
@tendamudzimugoza5402 7 месяцев назад
Your the type to end up in prison😂😂
@pontshongoepe5791
@pontshongoepe5791 7 месяцев назад
And ga sa bereke?
@seanmyers8380
@seanmyers8380 7 месяцев назад
WELL DONE. JUSTICE WINS AGAINST TOXICITY
@musajohannessithole8970
@musajohannessithole8970 7 месяцев назад
We know we can send them to jail. But either way, there is no amicable solution if the mother ends up in prison.
@WNdaba
@WNdaba 7 месяцев назад
It's good progress. If this was manipulative tactic by the mother, serves her right. On the other hand some parents both men and women are not good for the child. It's better if they don't see the other parent at all or supervised visits. Some are depressed and are prone to kill their kids. Some use them for rituals. Some hated the kid from conception so they can harm the child through rape etc. The court should also look at such in future.
@RaineJizzle
@RaineJizzle 7 месяцев назад
He was paying 15k per month for maintenance? He is definitely monied.
@VJASK93
@VJASK93 7 месяцев назад
You know how many men I know would let this slide I’ve pleaded with them “but you have rights too” and it fell on deaf ears so seeing this makes me so happy
@elizabethdiotlo7501
@elizabethdiotlo7501 7 месяцев назад
Do they have the funds to pursue such? And also men do not have patience and tolerance as women, they normally just let things be.
@mpumisomniso2139
@mpumisomniso2139 7 месяцев назад
​@@elizabethdiotlo7501😅
@chukuannah3835
@chukuannah3835 7 месяцев назад
Um so proud of the judge woman always take advantage of father child
@thabangmakgatouncensored2023
@thabangmakgatouncensored2023 7 месяцев назад
There are also men who were ordered to pay maintenance but they are continue to be in contempt and are not held liable.
@teem5642
@teem5642 7 месяцев назад
Well thet have to be brought back tk court by the claimant
@thabangmakgatouncensored2023
@thabangmakgatouncensored2023 7 месяцев назад
It has been and it’s still continuing but the man is not being charged despite being in contempt for years. to make things worse, through the maintenance officer, the man asked to settle a lower amount than he actually owes. These cases are straight forward but they take a considerable amount of time and require money to succeed.
@samm_zoe8154
@samm_zoe8154 7 месяцев назад
But they do nothing to fathers who abandoned their children. F that!
@tshidioageng6918
@tshidioageng6918 7 месяцев назад
.. Lets focus to those who want to be father's but denied the access You can't force someone to be a father he can abuse the child because he was forced to be the father...
@samm_zoe8154
@samm_zoe8154 7 месяцев назад
@@tshidioageng6918 Lol you just proved my point
@thabingxakata
@thabingxakata 7 месяцев назад
They can't do anything to someone who hasn't been served. In this case the lady was served, she was given an order by the court and didn't comply and the dad followed up on that. There are men who are given jail time for not following court orders to support their kids but if you don't follow up as a mom then ofcourse they won't do anything.
@noma6214
@noma6214 7 месяцев назад
They should start sending men to jail for not supporting their children then, financially and emotionally.
@phelphel6157
@phelphel6157 7 месяцев назад
And many of them are not
@elizabethdiotlo7501
@elizabethdiotlo7501 7 месяцев назад
There are men serving jail sentence in contempt of court for not paying maintenance, just it is not spoken about too much. Key words being “in contempt of court order”.
@elizabethdiotlo7501
@elizabethdiotlo7501 7 месяцев назад
Contempt of court, once you take someone to court and court order is issued you have no choice but to comply. It is not her refusing access. Such cases like this takes time and money hey, before we rejoice and deadbeats thinks they can use this case law, they must listen to the merits of this case 💁🏻🤫
@vincentngobeni3413
@vincentngobeni3413 7 месяцев назад
Awesome job justice i hope other women will learn to respect court orders
@chukuannah3835
@chukuannah3835 7 месяцев назад
Well done to justice
@dalindyebogxamza3033
@dalindyebogxamza3033 7 месяцев назад
I am facing the same problem it's been a year now,these social workers are acting like they are helping but they are not...I even missed my child's first birthday 😢 I need help please guys help me
@lynnmotloung2984
@lynnmotloung2984 7 месяцев назад
This happens to women who get denied of seeing their children too and I know it's only 1% but there are father's who are doing this..
@aphiwemagaya3279
@aphiwemagaya3279 7 месяцев назад
And I'm sure the father was paying child support on top for children he was being denied to see.
@jameskillu9171
@jameskillu9171 7 месяцев назад
Did this heartless judge consider the interest of innocent child, who will be traumaticed for one year, for lack of a mother.
@user-db2xc3vd5v
@user-db2xc3vd5v 7 месяцев назад
Vindictive mothers should be jailed. Every child needs to also have a relationship with their fathers.
@tshidioageng6918
@tshidioageng6918 7 месяцев назад
What about the time she took from the child to be with his child?
@eloiselaurence8925
@eloiselaurence8925 7 месяцев назад
Not every child should have a relationship with their father. Some fathers are abusive and neglectful.​@user-db2xc3vd5v
@user-qd1sy9sx1k
@user-qd1sy9sx1k 7 месяцев назад
And people will continue to sleep with people that they are not married to, areyeng
@Thatsong-fr9nq
@Thatsong-fr9nq 7 месяцев назад
She was not sentenced for denying him. But being in contempt of the court order
@ShoniNemavhidi
@ShoniNemavhidi 7 месяцев назад
What was the Court Order?
@trustingnobody628
@trustingnobody628 7 месяцев назад
Content of the court order? Law is not easy. You better study to be able to understand it.
@ERT-rt2rt
@ERT-rt2rt 7 месяцев назад
1) Was the court order not about the denial of the father's rights, which actually also with the child's rights? 2) Doesn't this whole episode give enough grounds for the termination of the mother's parental rights, especially seeing that she'll be in prison for an extended time?
@Thatsong-fr9nq
@Thatsong-fr9nq 7 месяцев назад
@@ERT-rt2rt The title is misleading. Its as if they are defending men's rights but they dont care about men. They just applying the law and it took them so long to do that.This mother felt too entitled. This mother violated the order like 2 times.
@pumlambiza3922
@pumlambiza3922 7 месяцев назад
And what was the court order 🤔
@nomahlubinyatlo
@nomahlubinyatlo 7 месяцев назад
15000😮😮😮 thats a salary for her mos
@MichelleMdledle
@MichelleMdledle 7 месяцев назад
My husband is in the same situation. The mother of the child has denied access to the child. And although we have been advised from family court it was such a struggle. We are still trying to find out how do we start the process
@babalwandamase9509
@babalwandamase9509 7 месяцев назад
Is he financially supporting the child?,why are you involved?
@user-db2xc3vd5v
@user-db2xc3vd5v 7 месяцев назад
You sound bitter. Be involved Michelle. Support your husband.
@MichelleMdledle
@MichelleMdledle 7 месяцев назад
@@babalwandamase9509 from the day she was born he was financially supporting and she would not allow her to go visit him. If she did, she would have to leave the next day. So it became apparent that she does not want her to go even for holidays. So he stopped because there are no visits or calls.
@MichelleMdledle
@MichelleMdledle 7 месяцев назад
@@user-db2xc3vd5v No I am not bitter at all.
@MichelleMdledle
@MichelleMdledle 7 месяцев назад
@@user-db2xc3vd5v That’s why I said “we” , me and my husband are in this together and the family too.
@lebotab22
@lebotab22 7 месяцев назад
So, if the father abunded the child, not or never support the child, is the court still standing for the fathers?.
@mxolisiinnocent1995
@mxolisiinnocent1995 7 месяцев назад
If you open a case for that the court will order the father to support, if he disobeys order then he may get arrested. if the mother denies father access she will be made aware of the contraventions may be ordered by court to give father access. If the mother disobeys she may then be arrested.
@hildadavids217
@hildadavids217 7 месяцев назад
It is about time that we see more judgements like this. The child need his or her father. My ex husband did not pay me any maintenance for my child. Inspite of that he was welcome to take my 2 sons excess whenever he wanted to see his children and pay their father visits. My children are close to his family. It is not about us the couple, it is about the children. Wake up ladies, leave these dirty manners and allow children to have a relationship with both parents. Children did not ask to come into this world. Grow up and become matured women. Without him, that child would not be there. Rise above everything and think of the children, my Sons are balanced youngsters because of that. Let her go to jail, maybe she will sober up.
@chukuannah3835
@chukuannah3835 7 месяцев назад
No here is clear father support child even the fathers of child are not working allowed them to see child
@lebotab22
@lebotab22 7 месяцев назад
​@@hildadavids217We differ on opinions, yours is different, and it seems as if the South African judges are standing for the men, and i am asking myself a question, are the South African judges a mix of forein nationals?
@lebotab22
@lebotab22 7 месяцев назад
​@@chukuannah3835I say NO, NO,NO, NO!.
@SusanaVorster-qt9vr
@SusanaVorster-qt9vr 7 месяцев назад
Good newS the poor dad have been left out in the cold.my son.died with out seeing his son.do sad The court just listen to the mom it's so sad so glad
@SusanaVorster-qt9vr
@SusanaVorster-qt9vr 7 месяцев назад
So glad and greatful the justice system woke up to late for my son but good for dads that deserve to belistern to aswell through away the key it wil send a message.thanks
@fin2-em2mf
@fin2-em2mf 7 месяцев назад
Maybe your son was a deadbeat ....🤣🤣 parents never want to admitt the truth about their children esp their useless sons
@nosisantsele4987
@nosisantsele4987 7 месяцев назад
Taking a parent from a child who is winning there.Yet again a child suffers
@afrikaazanialuti
@afrikaazanialuti 7 месяцев назад
It is unfortunate. However, we need to have consequences for defying court orders or else they become meaningless. The father was given an order & he compiled. The mother should have compiled.
@nchabelengspeaks5023
@nchabelengspeaks5023 7 месяцев назад
They are taking 1 parent, the father will take over
@nomahlubinyatlo
@nomahlubinyatlo 7 месяцев назад
Who says the child will suffer? That mother deliberately kept the child away from his father. Deliberately. You pay 15000 a month and still not allowed to bond with your child by an idiot that wants to suck you dry? I bet that child will grow to be a better human in the fathers care.
@topolovgrace1648
@topolovgrace1648 7 месяцев назад
Women are manipulative. That woman failed her child in so many ways
@careerjungle739
@careerjungle739 7 месяцев назад
She will learn that she is not the only parent of the child. The father also has the right to see his child 😅
@overstandself9954
@overstandself9954 7 месяцев назад
Wow this woman is too greedy. I mean 15k and no visits? Children deserve to spend with their father's weather he has money or not. A child needs their father's presents. I can't believe the pain you put someone through by doing that. And at the end the child will found out the truth and will resent the mom. But Karma came fast this time. Other greedy heartless "moms" must learn from this. Thank you for Justice.
@eloiselaurence8925
@eloiselaurence8925 7 месяцев назад
Where would one find the case?
@BKNtshangase
@BKNtshangase 6 месяцев назад
I need to find an attorney to help me as well 😢
@SupremeJ10
@SupremeJ10 2 месяца назад
Its about time
@sharimattera5218
@sharimattera5218 7 месяцев назад
Well done to the courts!!!
@ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni
@ZOE_NtombiYaseMancwabeni 7 месяцев назад
Victory
@netscroller
@netscroller 7 месяцев назад
Good!
@bannanacoconut
@bannanacoconut 5 месяцев назад
vindictive parents
@fin2-em2mf
@fin2-em2mf 7 месяцев назад
For those that have the means....IVF is the way to go...Im not sharing a child with any man...
@phumiphumi2041
@phumiphumi2041 7 месяцев назад
I dnt blame you.
@gontsekganyago4079
@gontsekganyago4079 7 месяцев назад
That's so stupid, this isn't America baby girl
@user-db2xc3vd5v
@user-db2xc3vd5v 7 месяцев назад
Bitterness
@mmeme5861
@mmeme5861 7 месяцев назад
Good...
@dinidi7293
@dinidi7293 7 месяцев назад
It is very easy for some of us to judge the mother without knowing the circumstances that led to her denying the father access. Things are happenings behind the scenes. All I want to warn you as fellow SA is that South African justice system is for sale. It depends who has the money. Take your time read that case for your yourself I'm going to do that before I can judge a poor. The fact that the father had to pay R15k is because the child's needs had to be met. It is not easy to raise a child there are many factors that determines the amount to be paid. The money is not for the mother it is for the child.
@user-db2xc3vd5v
@user-db2xc3vd5v 7 месяцев назад
Dini let's not forget that she disregarded two court orders. That's just being plain arrogant.
@Mamaofthree792
@Mamaofthree792 7 месяцев назад
Finally
@gontsekganyago4079
@gontsekganyago4079 7 месяцев назад
Amandla!!
@realteawithsandy1366
@realteawithsandy1366 7 месяцев назад
Ya good
@pommie7
@pommie7 7 месяцев назад
Judge operates in Spirit of Destroyer against the one who gives life to the child???
@thatomokoena2478
@thatomokoena2478 7 месяцев назад
We have enough of those bitter women
@user-ed3yi2nv9g
@user-ed3yi2nv9g 7 месяцев назад
Shame on the ANC. Greedy, corrupt, immoral, ignorant, incompetent. Nauseating.
@afrikaazanialuti
@afrikaazanialuti 7 месяцев назад
I believe your comment landed on a completely unrelated topic.
@lebonthite
@lebonthite 7 месяцев назад
Ya like 😂😂😂 what hell. This is not in anyway related to politics
@LocalEdits_v8j
@LocalEdits_v8j 7 месяцев назад
Yeah blame them for everything
@user-db2xc3vd5v
@user-db2xc3vd5v 7 месяцев назад
Ah... You just decided to off ramp.
@kellyalexander7347
@kellyalexander7347 7 месяцев назад
Jumping on a train with a bus ticket 😂😂😂😂😂
@thembiaphiri-qo2mc
@thembiaphiri-qo2mc 7 месяцев назад
😮😮😮
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