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2 story: op REALLY doesn't know the meaning of NO contact lol. But seriously, op is just letting her mother ruin her life. Op is a doormat and needs to grow a backbone
Story 1: Okay, if this were an intervention for someone who is a drug addict or an alcoholic or something, then it would be appropriate, but trying to get you to talk to your bad sister whom you've gone no contact with is a pretty scumbag thing to do, and if anything, the mom and extended family are the childish jerks here, not the OP. They are the drama queens and trying to use this as some sort of weird leverage for a future will/estate, which is stupid. OP needs to stay no contact with the sister and the mother, and anybody else that is on their side. Story 2: OP obviously isn't a jerk, but is certainly dumb for constantly trying to allow her back into their life. The mom here is a terrible person and terrible parent and people like that will NEVER change. It sucks that it took years and a bunch of therapy for the OP to really realize all that, but that ust goes to show how awful the mother truly is. OP really needs to stick to their guns and keep her blocked on everything and stay zero contact. Story 3: Honestly, i would've dropped them as a client will all of the crap that went on here. One thing you dont want to dabble in is copyrighted material. Things can get really ugly, even with written permission. At least the OP was smart to have all that written in Nicole's name, rather then their own.... probably saved their bacon in the end. Also good that the OP had a smarter lawyer then Nicole's lawyer.
I get where the mom in the first story is coming from. She probably just wants her family life to get back to the idealized version she has in her head. She probably wants all her kids and grandkids over for thanksgiving and Christmas and without any drama. Your typical mother/grandmother stuff. How she went about it though is very weird. It also makes me think she's going to use her deathbed to try and force them to reconcile again. Which becomes one of those situations where OP would be the jerk if they don't get back with their sister.
I can understand that too, but the mom should've come up with a better way to unite her family (the OP and Jane) rather than just luring OP into the intervention. That's very manipulative and disrespectful for the mom to do.
@@carterjames8829 Oh i agree, like i said, the way she went about doing it was very weird. Now if she had got the rest of the family together and did a brainstorming session, that would be fine. An intervention though is strange option to go with. I would go with drugs and a Saw trap to force them to work their shit out before i'd do an intervention.
The first story, the OP isn't a jerk or drama queen in my eyes. I can actually relate very well. My mom is very entitled, self-centered and condescending. She always tries to turn any sort of family gathering we have (father's day, Thanksgiving, Easter, Christmas, and even my own BIRTHDAY) to try to discuss her own issues she has. My mom is also very hypocritical. She's always been on me about moving on and letting go of the past, yet she holds a grudge against my father for something that happened almost 20 years ago. She also forced me into therapy for mental problems I have that she's inflicted on me and only made worse over time
I have a friend who had to go no contact with her mom after her mom f***** up with the drinking. When my friend was 14 her mom almost died from liver failure from too much drinking, they got her on a donor list, she got a new liver, and the new lease on life, and with 18 months she destroyed that new liver by drinking again. That's when my friend went no contact with her mom
1st Story: I'd have gone absolutely MAD if this were to happen to me. You'd be hearing swearing left and right and probably the sound of a few metal chairs being thrown around and/or wooden tables breaking into pieces.
Story 2: OP and her mother are both seriously messed up. The fact that OP lost custody of her 1st child and is on her 3rd husband is crazy...her mother is an alcoholic and a drama queen...they are people I wouldnt want to know.
Yeah story number 2 makes me think something is off with op. Cps isnt going to take children out that easy now a days. Also the OP is definetly not saying stuff. Also yeah wouldnt want to talk to those kinds of people anyways.
I cant post the horrible things I want to say about CPS on here. The poor OP of the second story. Don't give up! Your child needs you, I hope and pray you get your kid back...
op's not the jerk for going no contact with his entire family all together except for his stepfather since he apologized to him and his wife for their behavior.
The first story, oh hell no you are not. It’s not your mom’s place to fix it. I have issues with my sister and when I don’t talk to her my life is better.
I felt bad for OP of story 2 at first, but there's only so much stupidity I can feel bad about. Its like, she had to appease her mother by excluding her father from walking her down the aile, fine, she had to do the same by excluding him from her baby in the hospital, ok weird, and then the bajillion times she kept caving afterwards is just ridiculous. Also curious as to why CPS took her kids away, something doesn't sound right.
Story 1: Not the jerk. If you dont wanna have a relationship with your sister, you dont have to! Besides, that sister's a dick. Story 2: I don't wanna say that the mom is right (because she's not), but OP here is a little dense. Thwy keep letting their mom into their life, just for her to keep messing it up. Story 3: OP is smart here. Changing a contract to not be sued? Big brained (god i feel weird using cringe words)
Story 2: ops absolutely at fault here, what the fuck dude, you kicked your loving father out of multiple events and chose her over him at every turn, then continued to be the absolute dumbest person I've ever heard, constantly letting her back into your life thinking she changed, news flash people don't just magically change, also on your third husband and cps took your kid because she had a seizure? Yeah im not buying it, i feel like theres a lot op is hiding to make herself seem better
She said in her comment that it was forced and were told to give up their rights to their daughter or for the next 7 years CPS will come and take any child they (her and first husband) had , apparently that worker has been fired. So idk I feel like she’s not being 100% honest on why her daughter was taken away since CPS does try to give parents chances to better themselves before taking away their kid/s as a last resort , but there are some horrific cases where they do snatch kids for no reason or the smallest issue.
Story 1 and 2 .. like really?? If you're an adult.. youd dont have to like anyone.. you dont have to cater to their whims.. its all bs.. adults are not your obligation
I can see a holes on both sides. You guys need to squash the beef on both sides, because depending on what initially started the beef, it's irrelevant compared to you having a healthy relationship with your sister.
LoloNO. Girl tried to steal OP's inheritance, that at least is enough for no contact. Mom is totally out of line with whst she does. No one is required to have a relationship with ANYONE because of blood.
