Ms. Pat on Dating a 20-Year-Old Man When She Was 12, Got Pregnant Before High School (Part 3) 

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They shouldn't be TOO strict .. but strict enough to protect you .

Thats you in your profile picture ​@@june7gemini

@@june7gemini too strict is just fine..

​@@tB-zq2dbnope...lots of porn stars had too strict parents, its about balance and a healthy household

Just by they’re demeanor

Ummm yeah o can usually yell a 12 yo by the way they look there's nothing attractive in anyway about a 12 yo. That's just sickening

You peeped that weird azz question wtf wrong with dude smh

Vlad gettin off on it

Desire and legal consent or two different things.... stop trying to be a white knight even for Glads corny azz. Nothing weird about this question. But you’re not worried about the mother basically asking him “are you sure you wanna do this?” The mother is more weird than glad. She should have threatened the man

Nah but some 12 year old girls be already 😈 I was twelve my first time but she was 12 two 😬

He wasn’t asking a question. He is quoting her words from her book and allowing her to elaborate on what she wrote. She is promoting her book and these are her words.

Yes her mom failed her.

Her mom is dead

Kinda a tough subject to be an interview for if your not trained on this subject.

"Vlad sells black trauma"

I agree except on your last point. I think you can get an abortion at 12 and even if you can’t it’s still a sound question.

@@369pendulum You can absolutely get an abortion at 12. It would be INSANE if reproductive health centers said “nope sorry lil kid you gonna have to raise that baby on your own” lol It’s completely understandable considering pregnancies at that age are mostly if not always caused by non-consenting sex and/or full-on abuse & no child is ready or able to be a parent.

...you can be in high school at 12

It's disgusting

Smfh…

She was open...lol

She lied tho said she was 18

@@geraldreid8123 don’t no 12 year old look 18 tho especially to a grown man

Her memoir is even more disturbing. I’m glad she persevered. Her life got better around 19/20.

Very much so

It’s real life 🥹

You should look up recent marriage license in jersey. Old Jewish men marrying 12 year olds. Parents in on it. It’s still legal but people only want to ban gay marriage

​@@claudebanks9170definitely is real life

That just crossed my mind. Her response are like “Really dude?”

@@reginaldbstewart395 Except she literally wrote in her book that she had no desire to have sex with him until several months later.

she should be he dont know her all like that

@@stevenallen1567 that's a woman, where's the decency

@@joojoobaw, they DO NOT read, fam. That’s where a lot of these of societal issues stem from, ILLITERACY/too lazy 😄

Facts... It's been normal since the beginning of man kind, only in America it's considered tabooo. People are really fake & don't want to accept things for what they really are..

Wild ass wotld...smh

​@@WYKJ773if only you knew

This ain't a new story... been happening still happening ... bad parenting + the evil that exists in the world = These stories

And yet the blame would still be the girls. This world so got damn twisted

@Socratesdissatisfied she promoting her life story to be fair no one force these folks to be on vlad and besides,many folks on vlad have been on smaller channels promoting book,film their life story etc. if anything

You said it perfectly

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Man Vlad been in America practically his whole life. She wrote a book on her past experiences and Vlad is here to researched. Plenty of black youtubers can be in his position but they tend to not ask the hard driven questions and wants be buddybuddy all through the interview. Also, Vlad has interview fmr. Russian spies and Italian mobsters but yall tend to bypass the white people he's interviewed. So who's really at fault here smh 🙄

17 is legal age of consent in nearly every state 😂😂😂

She a baby to u, her brother. 17 is end of high school. The vast majority of 17 yr old girls are not virgins.

She never had the ball.

I had a mom like this an no one dare criticize her because shes a woman

... Her Mom was a Madam/Prostitute. I'm willing to bet Her Mother Coached Her the whole time.

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And it also has all the ingredients for a sh•t soup for the kid.

If you mad, dialler 911

Her mom

If you have enough anger to go around, give a lil to all of them. 🤣

@@KKemp-bt6nl 😂😂😂😂😂 no seriously

You should be mad at the mom she has half a brain cell💯

To be exposed to an affair with a married father at 12 is very dark.

@@josiahmitchell8594 It gets worse. I heard most of her story on breakfast club. It gets darker.

People flocking down here thinking it’s all roses. 1984 really wasn’t that long ago. Most of the adults from that time are still living, so the mentality is still alive.

@@duronc6338 now I'm tempted to go look at that video instead of waiting on this one day by day lol

Because, Moron's & Stupid Idiots think just cause of METoo, Feminism, TimesUP, hey look we discovered sexual predators in Hollywood. and sexual predators in @ there place of business. ohh wow. this is a problem. Lmaoo smfh :/ Completely NAIVE, FOOLISH Thinking. its Called "Shock Culture" . its actually is a thing. this has been going, repeating itself since man, woman has been walking on this green grass, blue water earth. and the facts ARE : IT STILL CONTINUES to this very DAY. and its NOT just poor, low income households, impoverished, hood, ghetto people........ smfh :( its also in the Middle-Class income households, upper middle class households as much too. no differently. - but here is even a more scary-facts= there are countries around the world (who are ALLIES of the USA, UK, CANADA,etc) that men in there 20's - 30's - 40's - 50's - 60's even well into there 70's and 80's years......who are Balls Deep in underage P*ssy like a villain. and living life like everyday no one's business. Facts are this: there are plenty of Countries - Nations where the A.O.C is waaaaaay lower then the US, UK. (in the UK) its 16 years old. in Mexico i believe its 13 years old. (YES, I'm NOT lying) in lotta Middle Eastern Lands. you can marry a young female at the Ripe Age of 8 years - 11 years old. all the way to 12, 13 years old. but YES it does, continues to happen. in the Middle Eastern nations its mostly because of "Cultural-Religious, Influences" mainly because of that. I've know other Veterans (such as myself) who meet men over there (while deployed) , like this. Ex: 1 guy was in his ripe 60's. his 4 wives ages: were Wife 1 = 19yrs | Wife 2= 15yrs | Wife 3 = 11yrs | Wife 4 = 8yrs . again I'm NOT lying. this is actually Common Place. again returning back to Mexico. it hit the news (because someone leaked it, otherwise. NO one would heard about it) a Family in Mexico; there Daughter was 9 years old and Fully Pregnant. YES FULL Preggo. only 1st Trimester. (soo it was recent). and she wanted to have the baby.but the doctor's were tryna convince her to NOT have it .because she's ........9years old. !!! but .........allow me to give u some back ground on this type of stories. again this is NOT every day every month in Mexico. but its Truthful. it does happen. u have to remember, Countries like Mexico are GIGANTIC, HUGE. there are Villages, Communities that U Will NOT find on a Map. and the people there "handle private issues" such as this. why do i know. again i've served with Guys, Girls who were Born in those area's, even traveled myself. to various counties, other nations. either through Vacay-Time Off. and Being Deployed - workn over there. in those tight - close nit smaller communities, towns, villages, even IN EUROPE. like in the Baltic States, the Former U.S.S.R nations & Central & Eastern, Farther Eastern Europe Countries = Latvia, Georgia, Slovakia, Albania, Romania, Ukraine, parts of Russia, Turkmenistan, Uzbekistan, etc etc - Lots and Lots of small - tight nit communities, towns folk, etc - there are men who are Married to under 18 young women usually between 8years old and 15 | 16 years old. some are 17 also. and YES, they also have Children with these young brides. they'll have 4 or 5 or 6 or 8 - 10 kids with them. this is THE REAL WORLD i'm talking about. also in S.E.A Nations( SouthEastAsian) there are child brides, but more Importantly there's a HUGE Colossal size "Sex Trade" yes every one knows about the Philippines, Indonesia,,etc the bar girls, bar maids. yes those are mostly 18 and 18+ but in those dark corners, and U have to know who, whom they have underage girls again; girls as young as 5 & 6 years old all the way to 7, 8, 9, 10 - 16 years old. all for a "Price" and they reports say, the biggest clients | clientele are Wh*te males from Europe, and Wh*te males from US, UK, CANADA, ITALY, GERMANY. and to add also Japanese, South Korean's. but they are NO where NEAR as many as there Wh*te counterparts. again this is NOT racisms - bias, these are Forensic reports, observations. I always tell people; u don't have to like it. but people need to realize this is everyday Life for some people.

Stop focusing on protecting children and focus on fixing a fucked up system that allows this to go on.

The scary part is you dont know how common this was back in the day because now that social media is now around you know damn well they would of been investigating or flaming up the guy with the “Pedo” jacket until he was locked up or suicide

Not wild its sick

Yaw have no clue of ur recent history. It’s not that uncommon..js

@@NoLineNoWait123AbCu not lying

​@@NoLineNoWait123AbCit was always uncommon. Stop

I know, cause now adays online white knights are tryna be Heros. smfh :/ you, me, everyone else who .........has a workn Brain, knows these things are NOT always what they appear to be. (i'm NOT making any excuses or defending any predatory behavior) but i myself known of, seen of. girls who i went to school. just from growing up, etc. heck there are TONS of Females who (in intimate convo's ) with me openly discussed , they had waaaaaaaay older BF's. and None of them used those words you describe. in fact all were willing participants. sad truth is : the girls are soooo young, naive, foolish they don't TRULY understand, "Get It" that.........everything is NOT WHAT IT APPEARS TO BE. i meet, a tall pretty black female i meet ( damn near could be model) who out right in privacy disclosed, she was 13 & her 1st BF' was 41 years old. no kids, no wife. had a car, home, money in the bank, etc like actual BF. he dated her. (took out and everything) this was the 1990's era. to be clear. and he meet at the mall. (back when ppl Actually went out to the Mall. lol) she said what made her "look" older then her actual age was her Body, Height. she was (when i meet her 6'3) slim figure. soooo no 1 said anything towards them. soo as she's talking to me. she said she's attracted to Older Men. and her Current BF is 51 years old and she was at the THEN time (speaking to me) 19 years old . when i was in school (Junior High School) there was a hispanic girl who's BF | Fiance was 27 years old and she was only 14 herself. and the convo came up because she was leaving the school to live with him over in i believe at the time he lived in Spain (because thats where) his Job was, he lived there. and she had her parents 100% Approval of there relationship, his proposal to marriage. she said her father approved of him even thou he's 27 years old. he told her (in her words) he will be able to take care of you, etc. also too because he had gud money. smfh :/ Parents - that terminology and title is NOT taken serious enough with some people.

And if you noticed she was STILL JUST TWELVE! it didn't matter what the circumstances were; he was a grown a** man!!! an adult should always know better. She said it was her "boyfriend" because at the age of twelve that was her mindset. Now, that she's an adult, you notice that she said "another molester"

@@horton12wright i notice she had two babies with this ' molestor ' . Bye

Is! Annoying asf

People just be wanting to blame Vlad for the wrong reasons. The 20 year old who got a 12 year old pregnant is disgusting. Vlad is running a business he’s going to ask questions that’s going to bring people to his channel. I’m pretty sure he tells his guest in advance the topics they’re going to be talking about.

Plus on top of that. MS PAT HAS ACTUALLY talked about her story a lot and has made comedy out of it.. so it makes people probably more willing to ask in a blunt way

Grow some backbone.

And she wrote a book with even more details that u clearly aren’t stabled enough to handle.

Vlad is so creepy

A pedo

Sick people.

@@malaysiaa6200 Zacklee! Ain’t no long, drawn out answer.

A sick individual.

She has her moments but she still continues to work through it. She has a heart of gold, she’ll knock you out but when she loves you, she will keep you close. She has played a part in raising about 12 kids that she didn’t give birth to.

You mean other children? Don’t be a damn 🤡

AND this interview’s questions are based on the events in her book.

Whenever I talk to women and they just got out of an abusive relationship or some serious trauma I usually exit. It'll show up in the relationship.

@@joseph5891 yeah bro smart to save yourself the trouble, you'll have to pay for something you had nothing to do with

@@btmusicman5589 this. It could be days, weeks, years but it's going to destroy you.

@@pollyanna147 yep don't bother

Thank God your not her husband😅

Very!

I hear her stand up is funny, and she talks about her life. You have to be Richard Pryor level to get an audience to laugh at your trauma.

Vlad pushin it

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Who is that

@@davonfisher3969 he was an NBA player who got a 12 year old girl pregnant when he was 20

🎯💯 I remember that. Karl is sick in the head