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My Addiction Recovery Story | DR. KJ FOSTER | Recovery Changes Everything!
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@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thanks for watching my recovery story. If you found this helpful or can identify in any way, please leave me a comment.

@djbond6721 3 года назад

YOUR ALIVE BECAUSE THERE IS A REASON ...YOU CAN HELP ANOTHER ALCOHOLIC AND ADDICT WHEN NO ONE ELSE CAN... ITS A MIRACLE... YOU ARE A MIRACLE .... SO THANK THE GOD OF YOUR UNDERSTANDING, YOUR HIGHER POWER...

@rosesmith1410 2 года назад

You were excellent and I really appreciate it; I shared it in group with my clients; I too am in recovery for 22yrs now. Again thank you!

@dionel8 2 года назад

I'm also in recovery ( almost 2 years) I still struggle with resentment about my childhood, so I identify with that part. And to be honest, my childhood wasn't thàt bad. I want to get over this victim mentality.

@Michaelismylifeangel 2 года назад

You are Awesome 💕

@Globelle Год назад

THANK YOU ❤

@rangamurali7667 Год назад

Like Jennifer Kelley said it has been 3 years since this story narrated here, I barely jumped on to KJ & Tony’s travels and life in France, this popped up today, listening to it, its a story of courage, love, gratitude to the life and the Almighty behind it, for all the raging storm we can be forgiving and search and find peace, harmony, love and contentment if we only try. Things that we can accomplish no matter the age, KJ’s story is a testimony!

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you so much for your kind words, Ranga. I apologize for the delayed response but I have been sick the past couple of weeks and just now starting to feel better.

@mariavecchio5272 4 года назад

KJ I have looked up to you from the day we met!! Your story is inspiring and gave me the courage to tell my story. God You and the Steps helped me though a seamless state of living. My biggest defect was Victim I carried that around for years. I am living a life beyond my wildest Imagination. Thank you so much for your Honesty. ❤️

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

You are AMAZING! Thank you 💜🤟😘

@CarolHamiltonrealtor 2 года назад

I am pretty sure you are saving lives with your work. Thank you!

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

I certainly hope so. There have been so many people who helped to save me and my son. Thanks for watching, Carol.

@sandrastein7276 Год назад

Being envious of everybody else all my life really hit home. And feeling sorry for myself....all self centered. Thank you for this video

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Glad you found it helpful, Sandra 💜

@marymcquillan6417 Год назад

My father, 3 siblings and ex partner all suffer from alcoholism. I am in Al-anon, have been for a few months. The support and understanding of others has really helped me but so do videos like yours. Recovery will be their choice but to listen to success stories like yours gives me hope. I hope your and your son’s path continues in sobriety x

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you, Mary.

@daughterofthemosthigh3366 Год назад

KJ, you did such a great job sharing your story! I am an LADC and I plan to show this video to my group. God bless you, sister!

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you so much 🥰

@erinm1861 Год назад

I cried during this entire video. I wanted to point out how by the end of the video you just really brightened up and your whole demeanor was just so proud and full of light talking about your recovery it was beautiful to watch and inspired me that I may be able to be that bright light too one day. Although it seems impossible to me right now. Thank you for sharing this! I know this is 3 yrs old but I needed it today. I was prescribed 180 tabs of oxycodone 5 mg 13 years ago and every month since. I only recently realized I need help getting rid of this dependency. That’s the first step of a million mile journey.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you for your kind words, Erin. I really appreciate it and glad it gave you some hope. I apologize for the late response, but I've been sick for a couple of weeks and just now starting to feel better.

@user-kh8gl6fu2r 4 месяца назад

You are that " bright light " right now ." Everybody needs help in this lifetime. Addiction is a disease not a lack of moral character. Same as schizophrenia was many years ago. So was fibromyalgia not many years ago...and my medical profession labeled them " crazy hyoercondracts.." I knew they were right. Free help for your journey 10 ways to love yourself Louise Hay RU-vid Sending you a big long hug From NY ❤️

@lindaowen6761 Год назад

I needed this story today !!! 3 years later and God just sent me this to see and really hear you now !! For months I followed your move to France and back. This is the video that MOVED ME. thank you so much,I love and respect you even more now !

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

I'm so glad you found it helpful, Linda. Appreciate the kind words ❤️❤️❤️

@debrasussman725 4 года назад

KJ - my memory of you is and has always been that you are a women of strength, tenacious and a lot of fun. When I'd see you at events in high school, riding our bikes uptown looking for boys and running into each other at the most random of beach parties, you were always kind, smart and edgy. At a time when people didn't share themselves or their struggles, we survived looking for meaning. Higher power had us all along. Love your posts... keep sharing it gives me permission to embrace my deepest self. Girl from the hood - Sayville xxx000

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thank you, Debra 💜 I, too, have such fond memories of our time together in Sayville. And, you reaching out during your visit to Delray was so wonderful. You are a very special person. Thank you for your kind words. It brought back memories and a huge smile. Sending you lots of love 🤗😘

@andyokus5735 2 года назад

@@DRKJFOSTER Go Delray!!!

@jasonslattery4557 Год назад

KJ, thank you for sharing your story. I was compelled from that genuine exhale at the beginning (thank you for not editing it out!). It was raw and commanded one’s full attention like the entirety of your story. You are a beautiful person inside and out. I read the comments and I am struggling with some of the negativity. I love how you reply with grace to all who comment. One’s story is one’s story and it takes courage and honesty to tell it. I am proud of you for your recovery and passion for helping others with your uncensored transparency. There is no one more resilient than someone in recovery. Whatever path that individual takes to get there and stay there is the correct one for that person. I am grateful to call you a friend.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you, Jason. I am so grateful and touched. I appreciate you and your kind words of support 🥰

@xohomeandawayxo 4 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing your story KJ! It really helps to hear other peoples stories of addiction and recovery especially in times where you feel hopeless. It takes a great deal of bravery to be so candid, open and honest about your past. I have huge admiration for you. When you said about going through life with a victim outlook I really feel like I relate to that and had never thought about how I viewed life with a victim outlook. I also really relate when you say you didn't want to be you. I have felt that my whole life too! All your videos are speaking volumes to me and gives me more hope then I have had before! Thank you KJ the world could use more people like you ❤

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thank you, Holly! You made my day. It is so rewarding to know that I am actually helping people! Thank you so much for your kind words 💜 There IS SO MUCH HOPE and so often we just don't believe it is going to get better. I am so glad you are starting to see it and feel it. Keep moving forward!!

@maryann3063 4 года назад

Absolutely loved what you shared, it takes a lot of courage dignity and strength to tell your story he did such a great job! I can see why you named your two books the Warriors guid to successful sobriety and a resilient warrior journal!! It takes a warrior and a peaceful warrior After you’re sober of course for a while achieving the peaceful warrior because as you adressed time takes time etc to become sober, stay and live sober For the rest of our lives it takes constant resilience, and work but it’s so worth it!!!!! Thank you with all my heart for sharing this and being you!

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thank you, Mary 💜 I appreciate you watching. You are such a true Warrior yourself 💪🙏 Sending much love to you 🤟

@davidjohn85 3 года назад

May HIS ROYAL HIGHNESS THE CHRIST BLESS YOU

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Thank you 🙏

@krystalgardiner5591 Год назад

When you talk about being on the floor that night sobbing and praying and something changed after that, I have the same experience. I had prayed so many times before and I never “felt” differently in my life or anything. It took me completely breaking down one night while I was praying over my 2 boys- begging In tears to please show me the way to protect my kids and to help me find the strength to do what I have to do- I literally felt the holy spirit enter me. It started at the top of my head and I can only explain that it was euphoric over my entire body. Like the warmth you feel after an opiate. It started at my head and went all the way to my feet. Ever since then I see things a lot differently. I stumble but I know what path I’m on now. 17 days sober from all substances now. After 8 years of addiction. It wasn’t until that night I surrendered everything and literally was at his feet did I find the strength to make the changes I needed to make. Thank you for all your videos they are helping me so much doing the deep work needed to heal.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Hi Krystal! Congratulations on your sobriety!! Sounds like we had very similar experiences of surrender. I'm so glad you found the video to be helpful and wish you much continued success on your recovery journey 🙏🌺💜

@gabyholliday4360 Год назад

So happy to hear others have to reach their bottom till they reach out for help. Hope you're still sober.

@laurenawal33 4 года назад

You are such a brave and admirable person to share your story. I thoroughly appreciate it and could "feel" how hard it was to go back there. I'm so happy for you and your son. I think you showed true love to your son by doing what gou did. I'm also an Irish Catholic "victim" for no reason, so I totally relate! Thank you for sharing, you are so strong and brave 💜

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thank you, Lauren 💜 I appreciate you so much. I appreciate you watching, your support of my channel and your kind and loving words 😘 I hope you are having a great day!

@raebeautiful 3 года назад

Thank you so much for your vulnerability in this video. I don’t know how I missed it before. Thank you for painting a real picture of what recovery looks like. Your story gives me hope.

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Thank you. I am so glad to know you found it helpful and hopeful 💜

@shyaaammeneen63 2 года назад

Rae, Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice and have a healthier life. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back straight, eyes closed, be as still as possible and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Stillness brings internal peace. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

@mariaoconnell9139 2 года назад

It’s so great to get to hear your story and follow the steps with you. ❤️ I’m new to recovery, and find you so helpful. Long Island originally, now I’m in California.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi Maria - I'm glad you enjoyed the video. Welcome to recovery...it's a wonderful journey of self-discovery and growth. It's truly given me the opportunity to become stronger and more content than I ever thought possible. Where are you from on Long Island?

@juliewillis9539 5 месяцев назад

I guess I are a 12 step advocate. I'm proud of u.

@DRKJFOSTER 5 месяцев назад

Thank you!

@roxanneb4874 4 года назад

KJ, thank you so much for your story. I relate to you in so many areas and I could really feel your emotion at one point when you were talking about your son and I know that feeling well. I am happy that God has put you in my life.

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thank you, Roxanne 💜 I feel the same way. So grateful for you 🙏

@carolynreichert959 2 года назад

Finished this video today & was so moved when you spoke of your son's struggles. Listening makes me feel less guilt and shame over my parenting. KJ, you are a beautiful, inspiring, compassionate woman. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world!

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Thank you, Carolyn. You made my day 💜 Also was excited to see that you'll be joining the Compassion Workshop. See you soon. Enjoy your day 🤗

@ratelhoneybadger 2 года назад

Hello Dr. Foster👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾I'm also an alcoholic in recovery (almost 4 months sober) and I'm so GRATRFUL for your decision to share your experience. There is SOOOOO much I can relate to here. Like yourself, I took my life for granted as a child and was very ungrateful for the opportunities I had been afforded. I was also emotionally neglected because my family went through a lot so I really had a victim mindset on fleek🤦🏾‍♀️I'm in my 30s now and only beginning to build my life from scratch. I'm talking scratch like even taking basic care of myself. I'm intimidated by the task ahead to transform myself but I'm also grateful for people like yourself who show us the way. I have found so much treasure on this channel, I will recommend it to the still struggling addicts around me. Thank you for being of service🙏🏾I wish you many more miracles❤

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi Tshego - First of all, congrats on your almost 4 months sober. Keep going, it gets better and better, or I should say YOU get better and better. Thank you also for your kind words. I'm glad you can identify and you are benefiting from my videos. You made my day. Hope you have a great one today 💜🤗🙏

@michellewharekawa3824 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your story - I love and appreciate your raw honesty and hope by watching you I will inturn help myself

@jenniferkelley6875 Год назад

I realize this is three years old but I appreciate it as if it were recorded today. Thank you for the inspiration.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

You are so welcome! I'm so glad you enjoyed it.

@kingfurious8525 4 года назад

There were some things that I definitely can relate. I wanted to say that I really respect you wearing your heart on your sleeve true bravary thank you for sharing

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

I'm glad you found some things you could relate to. Thank you for watching and your kind words 💜

@fabio-go3976 Год назад

Been following the France stories. This popped up today. Fills in a lot of blanks and adds a lot of credibility to your France tales, never know how to perceive what one sees on RU-vid. Thanks for your strength, honesty and success.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you. I apapreciate your kind words and support.

@HeartDrivenTarot 4 года назад

Thank you for sharing such a compelling story. You really captured my attention. I have never struggled with addiction to a substance - my challenges have been, however, in overcoming some deeply entrenched limiting beliefs. Surrounding to a higher power is always the ultimate answer, in my opinion. Your personal success is such an inspiration!

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thank you for watching, Laura 💜 Yes, so many limiting beliefs that hold us back from claiming and strengthening our personal power. I thank Louise Hay for her amazing contributions to this world and in helping me to understand and overcome my limiting beliefs. She was a powerhouse 🙏 Thanks again for taking the time to watch. So nice to meet you here on RU-vid 🌸

@HeartDrivenTarot 4 года назад

@@DRKJFOSTER Indeed Louise was! In fact, last night, I was going through a folder of documents I had from the late 1990s. Louise Hay sent me a personally written and signed letter of support in response to a question I asked at that time. I will always keep it. On another note - please let me know if you have any videos on dealing with helping your children launch. I have a challenging adult child at the moment - not quite as tumultuous as the challenge you may have had with your older son - but, quite difficult. He has social anxiety.

@goodthinkingtv Год назад

Thank you for sharing. It seems like there is deep trauma there. So happy you're doing so well now ❤

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Yes, thank you

@jaquelinepaul7384 Год назад

I just wanted to say I know this video is old as dirt but your pearls of wisdom are gold! Thank you so much for explaining this from another parents point of you some thing I much needed❤❤❤

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Glad it was helpful ❤️❤️❤️

@wellnesssmith9206 3 года назад

I am really grateful to hear this video.

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching.

@1coolmister579 4 года назад

You are a brave soul for sharing your story. God bless you. You're such an inspiration of strength. As a single dad with two boys, I can't imagine the pain, the hurt..wow. There's nothing like the blessings of God.

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thank you so much for your kind words, Mac 💜 I appreciate you watching and taking the time to leave me a comment 😊🙏

@wellnesssmith9206 3 года назад

awesome! thank you for sharing!!!!!!!!!

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

My pleasure!!

@adelacortes958 Год назад

Thank you! You are a blessing to many!

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you, Adela. I appreciate your kindness.

@wikilee8928 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Thank you for watching 😊

@carlakiljian5395 Год назад

What a peaceful lady you are! I’ve been watching you and your stories are awesome! God bless you ❤️

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you, Carla 💜 I appreciate you and your kind words. God bless you as well 🙏

@tshtika 2 года назад

Thankyou ❤️❤️

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

You’re welcome 😊

@brunomaximilianogianolio8233 3 года назад

Love you KJ

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Thanks, Bruno. Appreciate your support and kindness.

@ralphfenortner3026 Год назад

Thank you for sharing your story!

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

You're welcome!

@rebeccadubarry8523 2 года назад

I loved hearing your story. Thank you for being a remarkable being🙏🏼 Namaste

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Thanks for the kind words, Rebecca. Appreciate it and you 💟

@mwendwa_m 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing. It has truly blessed me🙏

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

You are so welcome. Thanks for watching!

@Lisa-of3kq 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your story. I am just now starting my recovery journey. Your story has truly motivated me at a time of weakness. I was experiencing a craving that almost won the battle. After hearing your story, I overcame and made it through the night with no drink. ❤️

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Congrats, Lisa!! Recovery is the best decision I ever made. I'm glad you found the video motivating. Thanks for watching and good luck to you.

@leeboriack8054 2 года назад

Respect your candidness in telling your story. Not an easy thing to do, but it will benefit so many in the program.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Thank you. Appreciate you watching 💟

@dionel8 2 года назад

Thanks for your honesty and being vulnerable. God still do miracles.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Thanks for watching, Dione. Yes, the miracles are all around us if we look for them 🙏

@kringlefanten 2 года назад

Thanks.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

You're welcome!

@ianmcnally8501 2 года назад

Your honesty so helped me I applaud your courage.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Thank you, Ian. I appreciate your kindness and for taking the time to watch.

@rogerfournier3284 7 месяцев назад

Thank you. Going on 90 days,and it’s not easy. One day at a time

@ivettecorrea1496 Год назад

Blessed!🙏💜💚💙

@shannonbradley4699 Год назад

I know you made this video, three years ago but alas the power if the Internet, you have helped me today. I am on day 6 and this is not my first rodeo. I also subscribed.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Wonderful! Thank you.

@KayeCarterTV Год назад

Thank you doing this video KJ….Sending love, hugs, prayers and kindness ❤️👍🏼🙏🏼

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thanks for watching and for all the love, kindness and prayers ❤️🥰🙏

@helengalligan6767 2 года назад

You have an inspiring story. Your insight into the 12 steps of recovery and positive attitude on recovery in your family is a blessing to me. Thank you.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi Helen - Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm so glad you found the video to be helpful and I apologize for my late reply. I appreciate you watching and taking the time to leave me a comment.

@joannadee3565 Год назад

God bless you. You are helping so many people.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you.

@aurelysmarcano8770 3 года назад

Incredible history thank you for sharing 💕😘🥰🙏🙏

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Thanks for watching, Aurelys.

@elizabethnilsson1815 Год назад

CONGRATULATION ! it shows you are strong and You must be remember that !

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you, Elizabeth 🥰

@TheBiancap 7 месяцев назад

The best talk I’ve heard on the topic of recovery, thank you so much , this is exactly why I needed, ❤

@peterinfante6187 Год назад

Thanks for sharing this and opening up! Your son is lucky he has such a loving mom and angel. Wish I had an ear like you to listen. Sighhhh Be blessed and keep inspiring..

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you, Peter 💜

@jesspixie6535 Год назад

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I can relate so much to you! Thank you for helping others see there is hope♥️

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

You are so welcome. I'm so glad you found it helpful and hopeful 🥰

@nicoleboothe8586 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for sharing your story

@DRKJFOSTER 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for watching!

@lyndsayfowlds3303 2 года назад

Thank you so very much🤗. I quit alcohol 5 years ago. My partner has been in rehab for the past 6 weeks. Everyone told me to “dump” him. I joined Al Anon last month and have now subscribed to your channel and app, and am looking forward to starting the steps and prayerfully and carefully seeing if we are able to start again when he comes out in January🙏🏻🌻

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi Lyndsay! Sorry for the late reply. I'm just seeing your comments. So glad to know AlAnon is helping you and you're going to give it another chance with your partner. Best of luck to you in your recovery journey together.

@Globelle Год назад

I can feel your pain talking about your son. It's palpable. Thank you because my son is 22 and smoking alot of weed to the point of oblivion and I am so worried about him.

@user-wn7yf1ey1b 4 месяца назад

Thank you...

@DRKJFOSTER 4 месяца назад

You're welcome! Thank you for watching ❤️

@irey1978 4 года назад

In the beginning of getting sober I think we all have this dream life should be easy, but we quickly find the devil tries his hardest to break our soberity. He uses our families as tools against us. After I quit weed 8 months ago it absolute hell with my family. It's better now but I wouldn't wish that kind of pain on my worst enemy. For those who are in early recovery stick with it but except your soberity to be tested!

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thanks for sharing your experience, Keith. It's so true 💜 Glad you're doing better.

@lisadixon6617 2 года назад

I’ve watched several of your videos tonight and they’ve all been great for me to hear. I’m drawn to who you are as a person in your videos. I’ve just signed up for your Monday meeting @ 4:00 pm. I also got sober in AA in 08. And I’ve never left. But I did find pills during Covid and it’s been an obsession I never experienced when I quit drinking. Pills have been extremely hard for me to give up with a length of time (no more than a month). Im still hanging in there with meetings, therapy, prayer, and half the time - honesty. My consequences for pills have so far been only internal. But it is scary how much I keep lowering the bar. My life is unmanageable but “it’s not that bad”. All the yets scare me but I’m still on the fence with unmanageability. Never-mind that I went from living a transparent life to becoming such a liar. By the way, I have beautiful, amazing, life that’s like a fairy tail. Looking forward to getting more familiar with you and your channel ❤️

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi Lisa - It's nice to meet you (virtually) and I look forward to meeting you at one of the recovery meetings. Christopher will be facilitating on Monday. He is great! You'll love him. I'm facilitating on Thursday. Glad to know you are enjoying the videos.

@Tamalama88 Год назад

Thank you for sharing your story. God Bless you. Stay strong and keep on keeping on shining your light!

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you so much!

@MC-fp5rr Год назад

This is so refreshing ❤

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you. I'm glad you enjoyed it.

@maximwilson1482 2 года назад

Beautiful story, thanks for sharing :-)

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Thanks for watching. Appreciate you letting me know you enjoyed it. Have a great day!

@tracidurham 2 года назад

I can't thank you enough for posting this. I prayed to God during an anxiety attack yesterday that I can't do this bslone any more. Please pray I find a meeting. So much in common with you it's uncanny. Thank you. 💜

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Glad you found it helpful. Thanks for watching and I'm praying for you 🙏

@sharronboxenbaum7392 Год назад

An amazing narrative. Thank you for sharing- it helped me understand.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Glad you found it helpful, Sharron.

@Michaelismylifeangel 2 года назад

I personally enjoyed your video very much. You are like an angel absolutely honest also like perfection , I think you are saving lives. I have problem with trusting people but I wish I would know you. May God bless you and your son.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi Barbara - Thank you for your kind words 🤗 and for taking the time to watch. I, too, have great difficulty trusting people, but it has gotten better with my recovery. God bless you too. Hoping you have a healthy and happy New Year!

@vibrantlotus8154 3 года назад

Incredible! ❤️🤩💎🥰

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it.

@dwrdmccabe 2 года назад

Thank you for this! Not even done watching it, but it's definitely helping me in my Sobriety. ❤

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

You're welcome. I''m glad it's helping you.

@janicechilders4885 Год назад

What a GREAT video!👏❤

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you!!

@fredfroghancock2385 Год назад

thank you beautiful lady - i have never really understood addiction but i believe i do now..... God bless you for your great courage and may others be inspired.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

thank you!

@lisaquick1196 Год назад

This was profound, powerful, articulate, and inspiring! Thank you so much!❤

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

You are so welcome!

@beccadawson8206 Год назад

Thanks for sharing. I am at the start and have been preparing for it with a local group. This shows how it applies to others😊

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Glad it was helpful!

@depreezy4960 2 года назад

We watched your story during my “Understanding Addictions” group this morning. We watch a lot of your videos but this one really gave me a new found respect and admiration for you. You’re an inspiration.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi depreezy! Thanks so much for the kind words. I'm glad you enjoyed it and found it inspiring. I was definitely nervous filming it and knowing that it would be out there in the world for anyone to see; hence, the "ums" and "uhs." It helps when I get feedback like yours. It makes it all worth it! I hope you have a great day!!

@depreezy4960 2 года назад

@@DRKJFOSTER I totally understand. I get nervous sharing my story during meetings, but each time gets a little easier. Thank you for your reply and enjoy your day also!!

@shazas1812 Год назад

Thank u so much 22 days sober today xxxx

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Congratulations!!

@magdastar2249 Год назад

Thank you for sharing this wonderful video. You have given a lovely gift to your viewers. ❤️👍

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

So nice of you. Thank you.

@user-zb2ql2zb8d 10 месяцев назад

I love your your you tube videos. I’ve watched your sober video twice. KT, my story is pretty much like yours except you chose to go to college and I didn’t. I was a addict, got sober in 1979 when I was 29 years old. So proud, no relapse, sober years. I call my sobriety “pain management”. Lol I’ve been thru a year of hell….broke my neck in Jan 2023, hubby diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. My Tony died April. 27, 2023. I had to downsize, buy a condo, moved and dealt with all the estate stuff. I wished for a nano second, wouldn’t it be nice to have a glass of wine. Really, Deanna, how would a relapse help my stressful life. Thank you so much for sharing.

@DRKJFOSTER 10 месяцев назад

Hi Deanna. I'm so sorry it's taken me so long to respond. I've been sick and just feeling better today. Congrats on your sobriety. I'm so glad to know you can relate. I can relate to your experience, too. There us nothing - absolutely nothing - that a drink is going to ever make better ❤️

@lewjames6688 Год назад

Thank you KJ. At this point in my life (60’s), I have come to the conclusion that being a physically beautiful person is a very dangerous place. Adolescent girls especially are just so vulnerable, as nobody wants to say “no” to them. They don’t realize their power, and there are bad People constantly waiting to take advantage. Thoughhts?

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Yes, I agree.

@B339KLO39 10 месяцев назад

This was a really great video that of course found me on a day I really appreciated it. Thanks for sharing.

@DRKJFOSTER 10 месяцев назад

Glad you enjoyed it!

@ramaniagharkar3914 8 месяцев назад

It takes so much courage to do this. As someone who has struggled with this and also lost their father to it, i can completely relate to everything you say. Let alone suffering through this, but you are helping people everyday! Hope God gives you enough and more strength to continue with your beautiful journey with your children :)

@DRKJFOSTER 8 месяцев назад

Thank you ❤️

@wambuialice957 Год назад

What an inspiring story that made my sobriety journey much easier. Love from norway

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you. I'm so glad you found it helpful ❤️

@annsmith7207 Год назад

Dear KJ: This video popped up on my feed earlier today! So proud of you continuing your recovery. Recently, you were posting videos about your move to Paris lock stock and barrel. And I suppose this video is somehow related to the Paris videos as originating from you and that is why it was on my feed? That's just my guess. Anyway, GOD does work in amazing ways! You made the right decision to go back to the US and hope your anxiety has dissipated. I came into sober recovery very young and have lived a full sober life...one day at a time I celebrated 44 years in December. In my view, I am not "recovered" ...ever... as I continue to be "recovering" on a daily basis and willing to be teachable by understanding I have a daily reprieve contingent upon the maintenance of my spiritual condition. I am from the north shore of Long Island and moved into Manhattan at age 19 and have been here ever since...so another similarity! I have traveled the world building with Habitat for Humanity on every habitable continent and Africa twice going to meetings everywhere and in some of the most remote areas on the planet! Very deep gratitude for the life I have been given ! Hope you will be going back to Paris...when you are ready! Blessings to you and Tony!

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Hi Ann! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and congratulations on your 44 years of sobriety. That is so wonderful! I love that you've been to meetings everywhere. That's such a great experience. We'll be going back to Paris in October, but only for a short stay this time. Sending blessings your way as well ❤️

@annsmith7207 Год назад

@@DRKJFOSTER : That's terrific, KJ and so glad you are staying for a short time. I mentioned in your earlier video about coming back to the US -- I can only travel for 3 months at a clip because I need to touch base with my "roots" as my great-grand sponsor used to say to me. Looking forward to your new videos whenever you post them. That is on your timetable, KJ and not others! ❤

@karencondon2003 2 года назад

So real are 💜🙏🏼

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Thank you, Karen 💟

@carolyngramaglia3047 3 года назад

I just found you on utube i love your posts and thankyou for your story

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Hi Carolyn - Thanks for watching, and the kind words!

@davidwooldridge544 6 месяцев назад

Awesome share!

@DRKJFOSTER 6 месяцев назад

Thank you.

@markoloki4560 2 года назад

I really needed to watch this today and i am in recovery and my clean date is 3/2/2021 and I am learning alot from your story.

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Congrats on your 6+ months of sobriety! That's awesome. I'm glad you found this video helpful.

@denisebrown3936 Год назад

I find listening to you so comforting than you for sharing this You’re a natural at all this

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you. I'm glad you find it comforting.

@user-kh8gl6fu2r 4 месяца назад

Nobody signs up to be addicted. Society pushing " self loathing$ is am epidemic. Trauma has a high stigma..the worst stigma in medical professionals. You are so brave to share your story. For all the mistakes you speak about...I see you as an amazing person.

@DRKJFOSTER 4 месяца назад

I agree. Thank you for your kind words ❤️

@user-kh8gl6fu2r 4 месяца назад

You payed your " dues" and then some.. You deserve them... God bless your amazing journey

@user-kh8gl6fu2r 4 месяца назад

And your husbands..

@annunderwood8025 2 года назад

So blessed that I ran across your video this morning in Georgia. I needed to hear so much of what you said. I’m going to watch your other videos today as well . Do you have any counciling that you offer over zoom or your practice is only in your local area ? Thanks you for posting this. Have a wonderful holiday!

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi Ann - I'm so glad to know you found this video to be helpful. I do offer Zoom coaching sessions, however my practice is full at the moment. I will have some availability opening up as of the New Year when my work schedule changes. I just took over as Clinical Director at the treatment center where I work and it's limited my availability. I'll be opening up my schedule a bit more in the New Year and will let you know as soon as I've added a few additional hours to my schedule. If you would please email me a reminder, I'll respond as soon as I've added some more time. You may email me directly at kj@drkjfoster.org I hope you have a wonderful holiday as well!

@karencondon2003 3 года назад

Thanks again I have to give a speech tomorrow at Alanon and needed to hear this 💜

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Glad you found it helpful. You're going to be great!

@karencondon2003 3 года назад

@@DRKJFOSTER thank you so much Us Long islanders are The Best right? 💜

@shyaaammeneen63 2 года назад

@@karencondon2003 Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice and feel relaxed. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back straight, eyes closed, be as still as possible and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Stillness brings internal peace. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Never be constipated as poor gut health affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

@PauloNideck 3 года назад

I love your videos ! mainly the long ones.

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Thank you. I'm glad you are enjoying them.

@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830 4 года назад

❤️❤️❤️

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Sorry, I'm just seeing your comments Angela! Thanks so much for watching 💜

@laurawinger4339 2 года назад

Such an inspiring story! Thank you for sharing this. In September it'll be 17 years since my last drink but I was able to quit by myself. Found out I had high blood pressure at a check-up and my trick was giving my accountability to my doctor. But I feel like I haven't grown since then. I'm curious if what helped you was "simply" working the steps and the support of your group and sponsor or if you went to therapy as well?

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Hi Laura - Thanks so much. I'm glad you found the video helpful. I went to therapy as well. I still do about once a month and I'm approaching 14 years! Congrats on your 17 years!! Nice to meet you.

@bthomson Год назад

Self image is crucial! Not developing a good self image causes many, many problems. You may have bonded with your dad (and not your mom?) and losing him at such a young age ( not knowing why he was gone and thinking it might have been your fault) may have really harmed your sense of self.

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Yes, most definitely.

@donaldr2784 3 года назад

Keep up the great work 👍

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Thank you, Donald. Appreciate you watching and your kind words.

@donaldr2784 3 года назад

@@DRKJFOSTER My wife is fighting this disease, all I do is put it in God's hands.

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

Yes, put it in God's hands and take care of yourself!

@donaldr2784 3 года назад

@@DRKJFOSTER Thank you

@shyaaammeneen63 2 года назад

@@donaldr2784 God wants us to take some action. Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice and have a healthier life. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back straight, eyes closed, be as still as possible and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Stillness brings internal peace. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

@theanne567 4 года назад

Thank you for sharing this. I can only imagine how hard it is to recount this; not only just for yourself, but opening up to the world wide web. It's very cathartic to hear your experience. I appreciate what you do. You're a great inspiration and role model. Congratulations on your 11 years of sobriety. I am so happy for you that your son has got his head on straight now. Stay strong :)

@DRKJFOSTER 4 года назад

Thank you so much, Anne 💜 I appreciate you watching and your supportive and kind comments 😊

@stuartbowenjr8393 Год назад

Amazingly transparent! Beautifully presented. You’re inspiring! Thank you, KJ! ❤️ do you still write poetry?😊

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

Thank you, Stuart. No poetry in a while. My husband is celebrating 20 years sober in October so I'm thinking of writing something for him. We'll see. Unfortunately, most of my best poetry has come from pain rather than joy.

@stuartbowenjr8393 Год назад

@@DRKJFOSTER hope your day goes well!❤️

@DRKJFOSTER Год назад

@@stuartbowenjr8393 thank you. same to you.

@karencondon2003 2 года назад

Wow That was me too…”could drink you under the table good” I actually would say and challenge people like that 😭💜

@DRKJFOSTER 2 года назад

Yup! My tolerance was through the roof 👌😁

@leopardspots2105 3 года назад

I only drink a glass a wine twice a year and I've never used drugs. My father was an alcoholic/addict and my mother smokes so it made me never want too.

@DRKJFOSTER 3 года назад

I'm curious, any special occasions that are associated with the twice a year glass of wine?

@leopardspots2105 3 года назад

@@DRKJFOSTER Usually Christmas and New Year's Eve.