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My baby daddy got a restraining order against me| Issues with co-parenting| Mini rant 

The Millennial Mom
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Hi guys, so here I talk about my take on choosing peace or violence when it comes to co-parenting and I rant a bit about how my baby daddy got a restraining order against me.
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Комментарии : 54   
@whipcream7528
@whipcream7528 3 года назад
I hope you never lose strength. Your channel is making an impact. We need more content like this so more women can find the strength to stand up. May you continue with this violence. Sending love and light all the way from Limpopo.
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 3 года назад
Thank you so much, Makgotso
@sarahkarennsiimenameewambe4347
@sarahkarennsiimenameewambe4347 2 года назад
God loves you so much Mama. Thank you for speaking for us who are still afraid to share. My son is 7 and his father has been a dead beat from the moment I found out I was pregnant. He is now happily married with one child but I forgave him I chose peace. Took me 7 years though
@Vuyo0912
@Vuyo0912 3 года назад
U deserve a financial miracle so that u never have to speak to these jackals ever again. Don't ever stop being this amazing Mom... God and your Ancestors will vindicate you. Bazokulwela singadlala amadoda
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 3 года назад
Thank you so much Nokwande 😚
@givenmahlangu1266
@givenmahlangu1266 Год назад
Askies mama, you don’t deserve this. May the new year bring you all the desires of your heart.
@mistiqr
@mistiqr 3 года назад
Mara why do men who abandon their kids not get arrested for child neglect? Nxa!
@MsYamkela
@MsYamkela 3 года назад
It honestly should be an administrative nightmare for them. It must show when they try renew their license, when they want a business loan when they swipe for bottles. A scarlet letter on their chests til they act right.
@cebilendwandwe6857
@cebilendwandwe6857 2 года назад
no woman can stop a man from beign a father. men make decisions that they stick to
@IsabellaS967
@IsabellaS967 10 месяцев назад
“ Men bank on our silence “ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@busishauntelle
@busishauntelle Год назад
I’ve beeeeen binging on your vids mama❤️❤️
@siphiwokazimcoseli8527
@siphiwokazimcoseli8527 Год назад
Hayini!!!!! It is so scary to know that there are women like the wife who are raising children that have to share this world with our children :( because what is she teaching them ngentliziyo emnyama??
@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams
@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams 9 месяцев назад
Worse you can tell the man wants to be present but the only thing stopping the relationship is the wife who refuses to heal😢
@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams
@BecomingTheGirlOfMyDreams 9 месяцев назад
But you know what, he's to blame. I mean if he really wanted to be there he would be. Even if the wife was threatening him with divorce, he definitely would've realized ukuthi she wasn't going anywhere
@Khanya_D
@Khanya_D 3 года назад
Here to binge on our girl's videos again. 🕯️🕯️🕯️For this channel to blow up🕯️🕯️🕯️ I'm sorry these men have put you and ultimately your children through so much. Your time to ubeka izikhali phantsi, uphefumle and wonwabe is coming. In the mean time, always choose violence. Asile amadoda.
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 3 года назад
Thank you so much, baby. I really appreciate this
@audreymadruga7932
@audreymadruga7932 2 года назад
I’m currently going through this (harassment claims/ restraining order) it honestly gets me sometimes but you are so strong
@kavulinyali81
@kavulinyali81 3 года назад
I am present for class 🙌🏽
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 3 года назад
Thank you baby :-)
@kellyliberty7547
@kellyliberty7547 2 года назад
I too chose violence with my deadbeat baby daddy. Have my court date in 2 days so his *ss can take responsibility.
@leratobela5621
@leratobela5621 2 года назад
I guess this works out for the dead beat wife as well, what kind of woman will refuse a child a father...😡😡😡
@katlehokhanyisilesikosana6853
@katlehokhanyisilesikosana6853 3 года назад
It's time you take your first baby daddy to court. The least he can do is pay for your daughter private schooling.
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 3 года назад
I'm working on it, babe. Unfortunately, I don't even know where he lives so I need to find a tracer first. But I am def working on it.
@katlehokhanyisilesikosana6853
@katlehokhanyisilesikosana6853 3 года назад
@@TheMillennialMom1 Ask his mom for help. Also in the child maintenance group Felicity has a tracer that she recommends. People have received positive feedback from her and were able to start the process. He has had 13 years to pull himself towards himself, it's not too late for you to say you you've tried your best. I know it's draining but you are stronger.
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 3 года назад
@@katlehokhanyisilesikosana6853 Oh wow, lemme go check out Felicity's posts. Thank you baby
@KamoErny
@KamoErny 3 года назад
Im sure u an I share a baby daddy stru... exact same situation u went thru, i did as well. I have a fat maintenance order to show for my violence.
@keamogetswe8083
@keamogetswe8083 3 года назад
I thought I wanted to go the vayolence route for my son. 16 months later the father is still not interested in him. I'm leaving it. Atleast he supports him financially
@karabomonyai2917
@karabomonyai2917 2 года назад
Hey babe. Love ur content😍 But I feel as though u should have said no to the allegations and showed the judge the alleged texts. The judge was goina dismiss the case.
@boi2melo88
@boi2melo88 2 года назад
I'm trying to locate violence, and it's not in sight
@kihumuropeace3305
@kihumuropeace3305 Год назад
Weldone dear!
@Tshego_Mashego
@Tshego_Mashego 3 года назад
Violence all the way! They gon’ say you were crazy anyway, even if you chose peace!
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 3 года назад
"They gon’ say you were crazy anyway, even if you chose peace!" You're 100% right babe
@audreymadruga7932
@audreymadruga7932 2 года назад
Hahha I’m going to live by this. Currently pregnant and doing this alone and I’ve been choosing peace and it’s just been biting me in the ass
@nokwethembandlela5124
@nokwethembandlela5124 3 года назад
Violence babe!!
@palesaluvhengo6098
@palesaluvhengo6098 2 года назад
You must fight for what is right mommy...i chose to fight and it worked
@buhle_hle4973
@buhle_hle4973 Год назад
New subbie ,playing catch ,angisalali
@catherinemumbua8251
@catherinemumbua8251 2 года назад
Did you give birth for a married guy?? Why was there a wife telling you he is not going to be a dad. Also to be safe just don't give birth with someone whom you haven't sat down planned it and agreed! If not it will be your own pregnancy.
@missritaliouz7167
@missritaliouz7167 2 года назад
True
@louiscanthyshakela88
@louiscanthyshakela88 2 года назад
True Indeed
@khetimthembu8465
@khetimthembu8465 Год назад
Well said!!!!
@sinalog9128
@sinalog9128 Год назад
yho i wish i could send a voice note because wowza i hate how some men can get you pregnant and keep away from the baby like you made that child alone!!!!
@kavulinyali81
@kavulinyali81 3 года назад
Choose violence!!!!
@letlhogonolongwato2707
@letlhogonolongwato2707 3 года назад
A nonsense!! 🤮
@ma6542
@ma6542 2 года назад
You are not the best at seeing your own failures and taking accountability for your actions
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 2 года назад
Ok captain accountability
@karabomonyai2917
@karabomonyai2917 2 года назад
Can you please elaborate? I want to understand how you think she needs to take accountability for having a kid by a dead beat???
@TheMillennialMom1
@TheMillennialMom1 2 года назад
@@karabomonyai2917 don’t even bother my love. These are probably the same people who ask rape victims what they were wearing. People are always so quick to expect the victim in any situation to take accountability but never the men.
@ma6542
@ma6542 2 года назад
@@karabomonyai2917 she chose them both .... fool me once Shame on you fool me twice shame on me .... she takes no accountability for the role she played especially with the second guy. Don’t compare this to rape .... rape victims do not have a choice , you did in both situations
@msanelisa6813
@msanelisa6813 2 года назад
@@ma6542 Bold of you to say this as a woman in South Africa. The fact that you wake up every day and think like this is shocking, Hope you were not raised by a single mom or by parents in a toxic marriage. Please block her Millennial mom if you can.
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