My Boyfriend And I Cheated On Each Other (Cheating Dilemmas) | ZULA Answers 

A cheetah never changes it's spots, but I do believe in giving chances if i can feel the Cheetah's sincerity to change and that I truly love the Cheetah. 👍

on this issue of cheating, i have heard of many stories from people around me whom have been cheated on and one, who once cheated. i strongly believe that cheating is a choice and not just something that “oops i got drunk and we accidentally had sex”. cmon man, stop lying 🤥. the act of cheating always come from a place where one doesn’t feel contented in the relationship, okay lah 90% of the time. so it might be issues like, not getting enough attention from your current partner, lack of communication, incompatibility in sex or values, trauma from the past or insecurities, i mean the list goes on, you get it. the solution is honestly simple but sometimes hard to achieve, talk it out with them and get on the same page. try working through things before you do things that you regret. if it is beyond salvageable and both of you come to a consensus then just break up and move on. ONLY THEN, if you wanna hoe around then by all means. don’t hurt someone whom you love or used to love, it will just be a haunting thought even if they do forgive you (which results in a lot of paranoia). i do agree with both bolin and brenda as always and HI CAN WE JUST NOTE HOW CALM bolin has gotten from the start of the series to now. give that man a thumbs up!!

Oh no, I may be on the minority here but definitely not a hater, I dont know, I am torn because I think Brenda is not credible enough to give advice on serious relationship and deep sexual woes because she is NBSB (no boyfriend since birth) and she said her first experience of love in high school is puppy love which is even short lived. Some may badly translate her advice as "lacking strength and weight" because she has not been there yet personally, but I dont want to come off as mean to Brenda ok lah? but just saying an objective constructive criticism. More power to Brenda and Bolin

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Nah. You just didn’t live enough. 😂

You 10 years old

Counselling does not involve giving advice. In fact, its a big no no to give advice when trying to counsel someone. It is about giving clarity to someone and identifying emotions or issues that may be not be visible to the person

Valuable? Those advices are the bare minimum. 😂

The "Auntie Brenlin" column XD

@@damienlee927 ah ya as well as options

I dont know, I am torn because I think Brenda is not credible enough to give advice on serious relationship and deep sexual woes because she is NBSB (no boyfriend since birth) and she said her first experience of love in high school is puppy love which is even short lived.

Same! Her reaction to the 2nd confession was ON POINT!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

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hmm maybe toxic people are meant for each other? imagine this: the world is filled with say 30% toxic people. if these 30% date non toxic people, then 30% of people will be suffering from toxic relationships … their mental health is likely to be affected and then sometimes with emotional attachment, they don’t want to leave… or they are afraid to leave since the other person is toxic… now imagine the toxic people (30% of the population) date one another. they may be happy together (as you mentioned) as they are feeding each others’ toxic instincts/needs etc. well some may not be happy together due to so many possible reasons but wouldn’t this still be a better scenario than the first? all I want to say is that toxic people exists and we can’t stop it. neither can we stop them from dating and getting into relationship. if toxic people are happy together then good lor. I don’t see anything wrong as long as they are happy together. maybe they may even stay together for life?

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