@@RaoVenuon the bright side because of narcissists like this we know who to avoid because they can't help but plaster themselves all over the internet
Lol yooo I know this chick. Yeha I been trying to tell my friend to break up with this girl for the longest. And btw he's not broke. I'm not going to put his business out there like that but he's just down on his luck like most people. But yeah she's f'd up for putting him on blast like this. He doesn't deserve this at all
These women manage to find so many "narcissists." It's amazing how they can all diagnose it accurately. Now, back to this guy not properly celebrating her birthday month.
Who's more likely to get laid? The narcissistic guy who hits on every woman he finds or the shy introvert who barely even leaves the house? Obviously its best to be in the middle but like, between those two only one of them is going out and making the moves
My husband was struggling with a job when I first met him, about 18 yrs ago. I stuck by him regardless and we are doing ok now. Not only is he sweet and considerate but he will go out of his way to help a person in need. I fell in love with him fast. We've been together for 17 years now.
@@pragyanburagohain8751 Who finds a partner with whom the person can spend the whole life with, a rich narcissistic bastard who hits on everyone or a shy guy who earns well enough (not rich but well enough) who barely leaves house but when he does leave the house he leaves for a purpose and not to just get laid?
When we first met, my wife and I both were broke. We, constantly, pooled our money to do things. This continued after we were married. Maybe, that is why we are still together after 57 years.
Outing your "Boyfriend" on Social Media for the entire world to see instead of being an adult and sitting down with him and talking to him is wild, but yeah, you go, girl get your clout 😂😂
Yep, slept with 2 girls in college a few years back that said that. Definitely didn’t consider dating them not for that reason but HUGE red flag about what they expect from a guy
I've only heard of it one other time, a former coworker wanted everyone to celebrate her birthday month, as well as her pre birthday and post birthday month.
@@JGDD7190 Pre and post that's narcissism through the roof .... People need to stay away who make everything about themselves on their birthday that's a sign of complete narc
Birthday Month is all I needed to know. Poor couples are able to survive perfectly fine the problem is they she went to buy expensive stuff and go on expensive trips. She should break up because HE can do better.
@@eplanti Why does this suck exactly? Women have been fighting for a long time to be paid more, nowadays a lot of young women are better educated and have higher wages than young men. So now women have to stop looking men as providers, stop complaining about how much men earn, look them as equals and they are expected to pay more of the bills, just like men are expected to do more of the house chores. This is what women wanted, but of course they are not happy, they are never happy!
@@eplanti wow living in murica must suck if 80 k per year is little money for you lol...here in romania 80 k per year is very rare, especialy outside of bucharest or cluj napoca
Just hope he sees this video about him, then the tables turn and he starts making more money than her, and leaves her because of it. Always stay humble. 💪
Nah she will just make another video saying all man are the same and just bring any topic just to find excuse it was never her fault at first. Nobody can win this if ur this delulu😂
The real question i have with stuff like this, is why has it become commonplace to share all the details of your personal life with absolute strangers? Of all the delulu things you share with us on your channel i think that this isea is the deluluest of all. Exit" Hold up, Birthday month?! Does she think she is royalty.
@@neil__I mean sure, but it's so remarkably commonplace and I think about the amount of them that are self obsessed Vs the amount of them that are just doing it because it's "trending"? Either way it's absolutely baffling to me, I don't even tell my immediate family about my dating/personal life, so the idea of doing it for an audience of complete strangers is off the wall bonkers.
Because these type of people can't think for themselves anymore. It's about appealing to their fans and followers and creating drama where none exists for the sake of entertainment. This man isn't dating her, he's dating her followers.
@@eirmundgundnand9442 That is a great assessment dude and a grim reflection of what social media has done for younger people who haven't known anything different.
"I want my man to be able to handle my expenses at all times no matter how big, but don't expect me to do the same if he goes through some financial crisis." First world women 😂
Yeah, these women are not the feminists marching for equal rights. They are the ones that would happily go back to the 50s if they could. Don't lump all women together.
"I wanna live more and do more but the money isn't there!!" Sounds like a you problem lady. I ain't even focused on that yet, I'm just focused on building something rn. Go back to your rich ex narcissist bf xD
Let's be fair to the girl, if she's considering a serious long term relationship with this guy, then him being broke is very much something that needs to be considered as it will affect their ability to build a life together. Does she want to sign up to struggle alongside him on the hope that they may eventually build something together, or does she want to re-enter the dating pool in the hopes of finding somebody else compatible that is also more financially stable? There's nothing wrong with thinking these things through. On the other hand, there is also absolutely no reason to be posting this online. If she wants advice, she should go talk to her family, friends, mentors, whoever, and not at random people on the internet.
Exactly. If she wants to be with him she's signing up to struggle with him. If she doesn't want to struggle then find someone who's financially stable. All she's doing here is shaming the guy for not having enough money.
I agree with the first part, but why does she have to post this shit on the internet. Why can't she just ask her friends and family for help, like normal people used to?
Thank you for being reasonable about this and I also agree, I can see her point however it should be a private matter, if she wants to ask for help online she can at least ask an anonymous question.
What do you call 'broke'? Going on trips frequently, have big celebrations on birthdays and holidays is NOT for everyone. Live within your means. Or settle for a rich cheater or abuser.
When women call someone a narcissist, it means she was dating way out of her league. The guy was just being practical, while she was living in fantasy land.
Personality stays but money can come and go. If you break up with a person because they are poor, well... You going to end up alone or be in superficial relationship and be unhappy anyway.
Bruh. She literally said she's constantly paying for him. She's clearly not making enough to be able to afford that. Do you have any idea how much of an emotional stress that might be causing her?
@@claire98 NO WAY you are defending her he is trying, he is celebrating in her birthday month which would cost a lot to him if he gets continued support, he might get somewhere with her she just wants more from a broke lover, IMMEDIATELY
Eh - she doesn't seem to be looking for a free ride, just an equal partner. I don't see the problem. She doesn't need someone rich, just someone with a comparable financial status.
Sounds to me like she likes him and hates him all at the same time. I didn't say loves and hates, I said likes and hates. Perfect in every way but doesn't make enough money to suit my fancy needs.
Ok, if you value money that much then breakup and find another narcissist to cater to you. If your money concern were about raising a family there would be something to talk about but as it is, your priority is your own comfort which makes you definitely not wife material. Just imagine if a man did the same thing, oh boy, twitter would have his balls
*Can we all agree that WTF is this BS the last few years about "my birthday **_month?_** Be grateful anyone remembers your birthDAY. See? It says it in the title ...birthDAY...not birthmonth. And so what if you make a lot more and pay more often...if you love him, why does it matter? He **_does_** think of you when appropriate; you just want his undivided attention 24/7.*
Meanwhile 🙋🏼♀️ me who is a 33 years old woman with many tragics in her life and never celebrated her birthdays since she was 5 years old because birthdays are almost worst than regular days. But I love to celebrate others. 🥰
Apparently from the tiktok comments i've seen, he owns a house, has student loans to pay off, etc but he's the broke one. Maybe he says "no i can't afford to go out this much" to be responsible, but she keeps insisting that she'll pay for it, so he agrees as she keeps on insisting. There's so much withheld information that the only shit we have to go off of are from non-simps in the tiktok comments. So many simps (men and women alike) talking about how the non-simps don't know her personally so they shoudn't judge her but they're doing the same shit. If she's out here on tiktok saying he has a great personality but then he's broke without even providing context other then "he won't pay for trips and shit", that kinda shows there are some lies within her statements.
she literally said her rich ex wasnt enough. shes striving for a balance of her needs being met and deeply connecting to a guy she likes. theres nothing wrong with that
A rich ex boyfriend doesn't mean she won't stay with him.. I had a rich ex boyfriend who could have got me anything i asked for ,but I married my love as we try to make ends meet every passing year. I'll be his forever love and he is mine
I get that it can be upsetting. I, as a guy, stressed a lot over my ex being the one who usually spent more money on us going out (like big trips), so I always tried to repay her by giving back little by little in between those trips, and it usually ended up in me spending more on her than she did on me. Then there was the realization that she only did it when she felt like the relationship was going bad, kinda paying to keep me around, which I was not ok with. Nowadays I earn much more, and I'm hoping that the day I get into a new relationship, I'll try to not pay much attention to it, unless we're aiming to share finances. Not saying that it's the same situation here tho. Looking back, that feeling of needing to repay someone you "love" says a lot about how the relationship is starting to revolve more around money and your own status within and not about love, even if it's one-sided. I feel like if this girl is tired of doing that for him, she should just leave. If he's ok with her being the one paying for all the stuff, she should just leave too. It should be equal, and there should be a genuine effort from both sides to make it work, but money shouldn't be a reason to stay together.
Man these gold diggers I tell you In India they look for the rich guy who earns better and get alimony And there is no prenup here and if you earn less they never say yes 😂
Ok it depends what she means by broke guy.. if she busts her ass working and struggles to pay for basic stuff for both of them while he isn’t doing shit ; or if she wants only fancy stuff and his pay doesn’t give her access to fancy stuff.. ever
i feel like we're all really just gon judge her for thinking about options I understand why people will be upset with her for many reasons but from what I heard, to make decision, we need more context like is she taking care of both? how much is she struggling? why does she think breaking up would change smth? I mean, if she thinks that he could be with a better person who makes more then her and he'll be happy .. if this is the mindset then she's a good person who's just lost or smth most of the time, ik, its becz "my boyfriend is broke and I need someone who can pay for me" but let me tell you, Many women, MANY MANY women arent like that. I've seem many like that in my life. just the gold diggas are too loud... so Im not gon judge her based on only whats in this video..
@@cz5836 yeah it could be... but Im still sayin, from her words, I think its difficult to judge becz I dont think we can paint anyone black or white... I think there's more to the story but yeah if thats what u think, okay!
Its funny how when hes working she expects him to pay but cant be bothered to look after him when hes down i say lose the girl get a dog/cat instead lol
I can see people will start defend her because she says that she pays for trips. I think we need more details to judge because if all the trips she payed were her idea and he told her beforehand that he cant afford it but she does it anyways, then I dont think the guy can be blamed. Its of course really nice of her to pay everything if she really did, but the guy cant really be blamed
I honestly don't like most of these comments. She sounds like she's struggling to pay for both of them. No human should be forced to take on all or almost all financial burden in the relationship. Her concerns are valid, and I hope her guy gets a job with a living wage and that she doesn't start overworking herself for him.
I totally agree. This comment section is so harsh without any real grasp in how challenging this situation is for her. She obv cares about him and isn't a bad person.
I was going to comment on your other comment but fuck it. You are talking to let's be real here, mostly men; who are considered by many to have to carry the entire financial burden of a family on their backs. To a point where a man's pay is considered an important part of their attractiveness. Women have never had an issue with that and in general still seek a man who makes considerable more than they do to shoulder that burden. That is okay, but when the shoe is on the other foot it isn't okay? Especially in an age where women can also make a good salary? I have literally had the great "joy" of watching men die to make enough to support their families. Do you really feel for them too? I know you will say you do, but would you act that way? Should men start demanding their women make a certain amount before we will consider you for dating? Should we be breaking up with you if your job falls though?
Every girl has multiple backups. At any point she can drop him for someone with better finances. I guess she doesn't because he gives her the tingles. Don't feel bad for her.
Yet for the majority of my life and I'm in my 40s, the man has been responsible for the financial burden, but now that a woman is financially responsible, now it's a problem but it wasn't when men were the ones responsible? Lol ok buddy.
Did we even watch the same video? “Financial burdens” my ass. She wasn’t mentioning struggling to pay for food, rent, and utilities. What were her anecdotes? TRIPS and her damn birthday MONTH. She’s not taking on financial burden because she has to for both of them to survive. She’s complaining that her boyfriend can’t split the bill on her financial LUXURIES. So yes, while almost everything you said is valid, it simply does not apply to a video of a girl with lots of makeup (expensive) and a supreme t-shirt (money brand) complaining about her “broke” boyfriend who probably just doesn’t make toilet-wiping money.
So she's saying her ex made more money, but more money isn't the answer, while attacking her boyfriend for not making more money, because...more money is the answer?
