My Boyfriend's Secret - What is he Hiding? _ || Smile With Prachi 

Hello silvermist, i know you are madly in love with this person, and it would be very difficult for you to back out now, but let me tell you a trick that i have used quite many times in the past, suppose that in your place, there is your friend, you know that she is doing wrong, and you have to explain her and stop her, and explain to yourself that you would have explained your friend, it might sound a bit crazy, but it works every time for me. Good luck.

When i was 18 i use to think that I'm ready for all responsibilities and i can conquer this world but now I'm 22 and i have realised that everything is a lot more difficult than what it seems from the comfort of your parents house Silver mist trust me you have a lot more things to learn and experience in life before you get married

Silver mist, one word. NO.

Silvermist just imagine you got married to this man (and as you mentioned his parents are against your studies and work) now it's your first day in your in-law's house you got up in the morning cook food wash utensils and clothes ,serve food to your family ,after eating got a little rest ,now it's evening you have made evening breakfast Serve to your family , now it's night you have made dinner , after dinner time to sleep ,your husband loves in bed so now you are feeling little better after such a day which was full of tensins and pressure .Next day the whole event again happens with you ,this has become the daily routine of your life , after 2 weeks you started missing your college life your friends ,you are not allowed to go out alone or you have to take permission from your in-law's to go out and returns home in a period of time ,now you started missing you freedom (you are feeling like a bird in the cage) after a month you realizes that you skip your periods this means you are pregnant .Now are you not that mature to have a child ,you tell your husband that you don't want a baby right now but he refuses BECAUSE this is the only reason that this man had married you ,now you could not do anything except for compromising yourself ,now you starts realising that your husband starts changing he has not that loving and supporting ,now he starts showing his real face to you because you are pregnant and that's what he wants .You start regretting why you have married this man why you didn't listen to your parents ,now you can't do anything except for compromising. After nine months you have become a new born mother at the age of 19 and your financial condition is not that good to enjoy things which you wanted more ,after 4to 5 year you have become a mother of 3 children this is your life at the age of 23 . Now come to present and think- this is what you wanted from your life cook food ,take care of your in-laws, husband and children that's it nothing for yourself . There are many fights happen between you and your husband and you are the one who loose Everytime because you are much more young to take decision according to your husband. There is still one month left for you to think , and this is your gut feeling who wants to save you from that worse situation in your future and trust me gut feeling saves Everytime . And I Know that you have some doubt on that man that is why you have asked from Prachi Didi . Think thousand of times before taking decision And Don't think that you are mean ,he and his parents are mean because they want you to marry him as soon as possible , you are at his daughter's age and no girl will marry him at the age of 37 And you are ready to Marry him,this is the biggest chance for him and he is marring you so that society cannot bully him for not being married . There is many more things to do in your life instead of getting married to a 20 year elder man and give birth to babies. I am 21 year old girl and this is my personal advise not to marry him .Even at your age I will never ever take that foolish decision no matter how much I love the man or how much he loves me , and if he says marry me otherwise I will die I will definitely say go and die I don't care . Trust me after that he will say nothing because no one can die that easily for someone So please please please 🙏 it's my advice and a humble request please don't marry him , refuse him whatever he says and you have to do it NOW , you will find a best man for yourself ,make good Friends and enjoy your college life , explore the world and experience your life . I hope that you take a right decision STAY BLESSED 😊

Silver mist at this age he should be financially independent and planning for retirement not starting a job , he is irresponsible and a kid of 37 .

Dear Tinkerbell, I think the girl is imaginative. He is doing all these to make you jealous, or he might be mentally suffering. Depressed people do make stories like this.

Silver Mist....prachi di is right! I'm also 18 yrs old...nd certainly yr decision is wrong...u r not fully mature ( even I'm not). A 37 yrs old man has the power to manipulate you...! Stop this marriage!

Dear ,TINKER BELL i was in 3 yrs of relationship n my bf also hide things like yours. Once he told me the other girl was his sister with whom he go for camping n stuff n told me not to worry about. Now he is his gf lol😂 He cheats me by hiding things. So think twice before trusting. I m 20 too❤

Silver Mist , I just want to say that kindly reconsider this decision . I’m almost of your age , a bit elder and I can clearly see this is really wrong . You will get better person .

Heyyy Silver Mist, Am just having few questions... 1. What is the reason he hasn't married for such long time???? Its really an important question 2. What is the reason that you want to marry a 37yr old??? 3. Did this guy anytime had any relationships??? 1. If he dint have - whats the reason you must know about the reasons behind that in specific.... 2. If yes he had - what was their age n why did he had to break with them the exact reason... May b u might come to know from them something you never knew earlier... N before you take any decision, pls question yourself 1000 times... What are the reasons you want to marry this guy...... Cos I believe nowadays we shud not marry until v r stable financially n be independent n mature to take our own decisions cleverly... Im sure you have many dreams n ambitions so ur parents must be having about your marriage... So first fulfil ur dreams n marry grand way... Lastly... Once you marry... Ull hv kids cos ur bf is 37 im 100% sure ur in laws will not give u time to think if u want to have kids or not... So make sure you understand every responsibility clearly before taking any step... Marriage is something beautiful, filled with magical moments n full of excitement... Be mature be practical make wise decision 🤗 Love from Hyderabad, Yasss....

Silvermist please dont marry him! Not atleast now ! Complete your education. You are just 18 ,So young . And he is 37 years old.He is too old . The age difference is so much.And i totally agree with prachi di. And All the best for your future .❤️

Please prachi share her final decision..if she anytime shares it with you...

Dear silver mist think over your decision once again . I think you should not ruin your life like this.

Silver mist, u have a completeee beautiful life in front of u. I am a child, i m 17. U are just one year older than me. I cannot even imagine myself in a situation u are in. Plss! Study, work hard, get a good respectful job, fall in love with a guy who can stand up for u no matter what , let u live ur life in ur own way... pls dont step into a life which is gonna be full of regrets and compromises...for God's sake...you are justt 18! Still a teenager. U hv lots more to see in life sweetheart. Pls tc...all d best❤

To be very honest that men 37y/o deep in his heart he knows he is just fooling a young girl who is innocent and pure !

Silver mist, I am still wondering how your parents said yes for the marriage! Must have been so hard for them.. Call off this marriage. The person clearly seems to be getting married for physical pleasures and societal status and not because he loves you. Those who love you know what's right and what's wrong for you. And if he would have known, he would have let you go and make you understand that why you two should not be together. You are only 18.. Study, work, travel, make new friends, meet new people and live your life on your own terms. There's so much to life than just getting married and living on your husband's or in-laws' terms and money. Please choose wisely.

I think prachi dii You should talk about depression and anxiety because Nowadays every second person is suffering from depression or anxiety disorder and they don't even know about it and mostly family do not support them .....I think you should make a awareness video ❤

Your advice to Silver Mist is absolutely right Prachi !. I applaud you for being so forthright. Silvermist is a child still n in all probability immature n rebellious...No no it would be a huge mistake if this marriage takes place. ..take care dear friend before taking this huge step....my opinion NO NO...

I like these words " Love is nothing when he doesn't stand up for you when needed".Tqsm Didi .love you🤗

You're absolutely right!!! This is the story of my mother actually, she was 18 and my dad was 35+, believe me whatever you've written has actually all happened with my mother!!! My dad did not found any job for the longest time. And they were relying on my grandmother's money (grandfather's pension) like how miserable is that!!! After 20 years of marriage now they're settled but still not happy...but they raised me(17) and my older brother (23) by learning by their mistakes. For me my dad is the best dad but the worst husband, he never stood up for my mother in difficulties. Note for everyone please never do such mistakes!!!

I m so curious to know about what silver mist's next step would be

Silver mist have you lost it???? I’m 21 still need 10 years to think of marriage..also a difference, when i was 18 i wanted to get married n have kids..but I graduated last year n got to know the real world n now i see life with complete different perspective..PLEASE DONT! There will be so many consequences, love matters just 5% rest everything is responsibility, compatibility, care, respect etc.

Dear sliver mist .. should change her discussion and she should continue to study..trust me you will get ur right and best person in ur life..good to be independent

Silver mist. When you're 18 you should invest in yourself. Every individual *MUST* be financially independent cause even when no one else is around you should stand up for yourself. It's a really cruel world especially for woman. Please please continue your education no matter if you get married or not. Please.

in this tinkerbell story...idk y..but i have a notion this "bestfriend" is imaginary

Silver mist you’re just 18 , you’re never going to be this age EVER again and will miss out on so many things in life and all the experiences if you go ahead with this decision. If I were you I would choose my career, my growth as a person, my mental health FIRST before getting married any person , let alone someone who’s almost 20 years older to me. Do not commit so early on in life you will regret it. Prachi di’s advice is really on point! Hope you take it!

Silver mist, there's so much to life than a man who is not working and a family who is so backward. This might sound brutal, no offence to them, but you deserve better! Man, you deserve to go out and make silly mistakes, hangout with your friends and just be! Don't tie yourself to commitments at such a young age. Live freely! I hope you've changed your mind, do what's good for you! All the best :)

Silvermist I too agree with prachi di, do reconsider.

Silver mist. I was 18 n married to a guy who was 36 It was arranged but it didnt work. :)

What a beautiful speaker you're prachi... the clarity is just so good.. you're the best.. love to you ❤

I juss love watching you talking.. makes me feel good.. love u 😘😘 Your voice is very soothening

Please Silver mist don't get married, don't ruin your life. You are going to miss many things your lovely experience in college - friends, college trips and many more

Thank you so much Prachi di for helping people in such a beautiful way.. the more I see smile with Prachi series the more I love u..😘

You gave such practical suggestions didi! Hats off! You really make us think!

Great, right & very practical advise to silvermist...👏

Di u r just awesome. I just want to be like u, the way u think..u became my inspiration di... Lots of love and respect.....

You are great! You respond so sensible and practical.

Teen age is a time when one should invest in oneself- invest in studies, develop hobbies, and most importantly invest in friendship- its the best tym to enjoy with friends before responsibilities of life begins to bother u. be good friends with ppl of opposite gender (this will definitely set some stds for ur partner when u have to choose one in future. And u'll be able to understand ur partner better)

Do you guys reallyyyy think tinkerbells bf is just innocent? Lol

Wow, nice to see such a channel, to help other who r in need .. infact is this a platform for a social change . Good to hear more from audience aa well. Keep rocking akka.

Thanks prachi for this beautiful explanation specifically for 1st one ..recently I'm dealing with this problem. And I talked to my boyfriend about his female friends...... Love u so much love

Prachi well said..i like u too much as you are practical n think good for others.u have to think practical to live a healthy lifestyle

Silver mist pls call off your marriage i can share a similar situation which happened to myself. I was in love with my paternal uncle when i was studying 8th grade in schools. He was born in the year 1990 and me 1998, there was 8 years age gap .. When i was caught, my parents adviced to quit, initially i refused bt later i agreed. This year March he got married, he is not living in place where i couldn't live or he is leading a poor lifestyle. There would be a huge compatability issue which I couldn't even have been adjusted...... Getting into a relationship at vry young is often a disaster... Here i try to advise all my friends here to don't indulge in a commitment without a deep research...

I eagerly wait for your videos every Saturday. And I really respect you for the suggestions you give to everyone. Your videos are really motivating. Please continue this good work. If possible please increase the frequency of your videos. Lots of love for you di❤😘 take care

Suuperb diii.... What you have said is 100% soo genuine and practical... Thanks for making such type of videos to enlighten girls like us about life and society...👌👌 thank u so much dii....

Much love to u prachi....keep up the good work👍👍👍👍👍

Prachi di..... u r a voice for and of so many women... 💜

Di you are best in advices I used one of yours in mlife and it feels really better 💖💖💖

Dear Silvermist... Prachi is 100% right. Im a 30yrs old women and I can clearly foresee this that, if you marry this 37Yrs old man, ur life will be in Peril! Please backout and you will get the best life partner. And DONT CALL HIM AS A "BOYFRIEND". He is your "UNCLE FRIEND"!!!! Even my hubby said the same..

Hello Silver Mist, First of all Thank you so much for writing this letter before getting married to the person. I'm 21, in a serious relationship from last 2 and a half years. Both our families know each other and they are happy. He is 25, well settled both financially and emotionally. I am on the Verge of completing my college and have almost got a job. Despite of all these things I am not getting married right now because I'm too young for it and need to be financially independent and emotionally stable for it. Trust me, I've been in several relationships and have seen my friends being in many and when these kind of problems start emerging love starts to fade and vanish. You're just 18, I assume that you're in 1st year or may be 2nd year that's it (if you are studying) This is the time when you should be experimenting with your hobbies, your talents, and you're free to judge me but you will be experimenting with relationships too. You're not emotionally stable. No matter how much you think that you are mature enough to make this decision but trust me babe you are not. Part 2, he is not working. Just think for once, he is 37, and at this time I guess the boy should have already got married, might have had kids and would be planning for this retired life. Try to know why he hasn't got married till now. A 37 year old guy is very mature, and he cannot ever fall in love with a 18 year old girl like that. There will be compatibility issues, financial issues, and many many other issues that you'll have to face and trust me sis you won't be able to. You'll have no where else to go. Your parents won't support you because it's your decision, you'll not be able to take a job cuz you're not educated enough and lastly I'm sure soon you'll have kids because of his age, you never ever will be able to get out of this scenario once you step into it. Me and all girls and woman out there would suggest you just one thing, *No matter how much you love him and he loves you just back off* Dont marry him, get educated, take a job, enjoy your life babe there's a lot that you need to experience in life before taking up responsibilities of your marriage and a completely new family. Please dont marry sis please.

Silvermist, the moment i heard the age difference, that was the first red flag. Please call of your marriage, the man isn't worth it. You have your whole life ahead. I am 21, i can't even fathom marriage. Please call it off!!! Don't commit this mistake. Live your life, study, fulfill your dreams that old man isn't worth at all.

I'm going to be 18 nd I'm in a relation for almost 2 yrs he is almost 7 yrs elder to me for our initial days we both were blind in our relation after 5 mnths we both have looked back to our lives as it's totaly imp 4 us... last week he called me nd said me i should be responsible in setting up my carrer as well as he is now becz i shouldn't be feeling guilt being wasting my time... silvermist see urself as an individual love is a fraction of sec which makes me nd u blind but still a huge life is ahead of u plz understand sweet heart a good partner always value ur time nd career (even though religion matters in our case we are happy becz we try to bring up if one of us can't manage with somthg)life is not a bed of roses always love nd getting into marriage is completely 2 poles of a magnet plz do reflect...

Silvermist, I know a girl who did such mistake. She was 19-20 when she ran away with a guy who was 20yrs elder than her. He mother told her and the guy also that first finish your studies, get a job, then do whatever you want. But the guy didn't listen and pressurised the girl. Within a year she had baby in her hand. He said she would be allowed to study after marriage but that didn't happen. She was a brilliant girl. One of a topper of her batch. Very beautiful. And that guy looks like an old man. Very Orthodox just like your bf. You know none of her friends are now in contact with her. Her life is ruined. Please you don't do such mistake. I hope you've stepped back. God bless you.

Silver mist ! 17 years of age difference is huge.. And he's about to enter is 40s and you are still a teenager. Lots of things that are highlighted by prachi di are absolutely correct. Yaar! Your life has just started. First live it, love yourself, explore the world.. Then you'll realise how the world is. Then after think of getting married.

Silvermist... it's really really wrong...he is 37 and you are just 18...you have whole of your life to look ahead...marriage is very secondary...first you should concentrate on your career and grow financially independent and then just look for marriage... it's a better approch to Life...good luck dear...plz don't fall for it.. it's really not gonna work the way you are thinking it to be..you can clearly take minimum of next 5years to get settled in life...n then just go for marriage.. but I think for now its not a right choice Plz reconsider your decision

Hey Silver Mist, marriage is a huge step to take at a tender age of 18. You would not be able to see the pros and cons but if you don't call it off, u will have to regret later for not calling it off now!! I hope u take the right decision for yourself and hope u get a happy life that you deserve!! More power to you to get through this phase of life!!

Silver mist call off ur marriage.. I know it's hard., but if u don't call off , it's gonna be even worse.. Ur just about to start ur college.. Don't ever miss ur college life, build ur career.. These days even a single degree is very less.. Your too young to take so many responsibilities.. Beginning of the marriage everything will seem to be wonderful but as the days pass u will see girls of ur age being very successful in their education n career n u will regret for taking this decision.. Plz take it seriously dear..

Silver mist....what Prachi di said is absolutely correct think about urself n also think about the future complications they aren't going to be easy at all and u r too young to handle all of this coz it is going to be very tough especially with the joint family as u need to face allot of adjustments and alot more than u can imagine so plz call off this marriage and one day u will be really proud of urself for taking this step in ur life, stay strong, be brave and more power to u girl...💯

Prachi di, after listening to your words for silvermist my respect for you reached to peaks. You are the best. And Dear Silvermist, you deserve much much much better guy. Okay. Just leave him and don't even feel sorry for that. You may get hurt at first, but time is not just a thing, IT IS EVERYTHING! It will make you get your life together. Hope you have a great life ❤️

Thanks prachi mam

silver mist, please do think wisely your way too young to be married , you havent seen life yet, live your life, its clearly going to be like you are sacrificing your life for that family, please do reconsider and im happy even if you call off your marriage your parents will be for your support.. do what your heart wants ( you wish to study furthur) ,just because your fiance family are sweet its not the truth.

Silver mist plz call off the wedding its not the right time... I m 20 now, when I was 17 I was in a relationship with the same age person..he lied to me abt many things he was manipulative and he was threatening me not to break up and if I do break up he will tell my family abt our relationship and many more..in spite of all this I did break up, things when a little wrong but I involved my elder sister and fixed them...It's not ur mistake its just ur age..people do make mistake at this age...u may not realise this now but in the future , impact of this decision will be really bad and u will regret..pursue ur dreams girl

Di , I am a big fan of yours... Love your videos 💜

I completely agree with Prachi di .... Silver mist just back out ..... be financially independent first. And your parents I am sure will really help you out and think of future ....that you will be independent and one day you will be proud of yourself. Also chances are there that since your young the in laws will completely cripple you mentally and you will be in a more difficult situation .....your just 18 ...live your life...study, win competitions, go on trecking with friends and make your life fullest. And it's an age of taking responsibility of your own self and maybe your parents but not in laws. ....plz see the danger and just back off.

Silver mist - You are too young to know better, but if you go through with the marriage now, on these terms, you will regret not having fought for your life. 18 is the age when most girls are figuring out their career paths. And your to be "husband" doesn't even have a job yet. And if he's 37, his parents must be much older. If both of you don't have a job, and once his parents are out of the picture, who will support you financially? There's too many red flags! I'm not commenting much on the age gap because I'm sure you've heard enough about it by now. But even if there wasn't an age gap, there's just too many red flags that can't be ignored. Hope you make the right decision.

Di a really lovey message and for that reason I just reminded you in the other video.....

Silver mist ... each girl on this earth should get independent. Should earn study work... U r going to regrett when u will see after few years how girls of your age are reaching heights... earning ...educated. Plz dont do this marriage.

Hi Prachi di ! I am person who doesn't cry easliy unless it emotinally touches my heart and till this date i didn't knew that a marriage to be successful needed all this thinhs this vedio was a eye-opner to me !! Thanks for starting such a great work my respect for you has crossed the limit..... Because of you as a teenager i have got an idea that we yongesters don't know anything compared to our parents.... Silver mist and trinka bell please follow as she says ... Things will definetly sort out💕

Love is the most important factor in a marriage or in any kind of relationship. If love is changing then it's not it's lust

And I love your viewpoint

Hey silvermist. Darling please focus on your studies and carrer as you wanted it. Its a big NO to marriage. In the end you are one who is there to safe yourself. So please first be capable and independent and then focus on all this. I agree with all the points of prachi dii❤ Take care honey😘

Hey this is out of the blue, buh can I ask you to do a review on glossier makeup products, if its available to purchase in India. I need a neat, sincere reviews by an Indian.? After all I love every content u make n I honestly trust your reviews.

Di.... ur right

Love from Chennai

Hello prachi. Plz share what silver mist did. She took correct decision after your byheart explaination or...

Hey girl ! u know what ? u r so cute and charming ❤️❤️. take love from Bangladesh

The advice u gave to silver mist is totally right. Silver mist think about ur decisions again before regretting later. Marriage consists of way too many responsibilities for which u are too young right now. Complete ur studies and be financially independent first then think about these things

Silver Mist... Let me tell u, people start working from the age of 22 after completing degree.. Your BoyFrnd is 37 years old... And he is not still working... he is too late to take decision tht he will work in December...becoz he is already very old ... And He is not supporting you to continue your studies and work in future. Every person in the world has right for Education and Right to work. According to consituition of India Article 39(a) As per Article 39(a) women also have the right to an adequate means to livelihood. You have a long way to go. Why do you want to make ur life complicated by marrying that person. Why do you want to go against your Family. All suggest you to call off your marriage. Your parents might b angry little...but they will support you for your good future. Please call off your marriage..

Hey Tinkerbell.. I've been through a similar situation... But the guy was my friend and he use to like me so he wanted me to like him back .. he started to tell stories about this imaginary girl so that I will think "oh this guy has some following ".. but I had no feelings for him... Later I came to know he is a complete trash and now my stalker... But this can't be the case for everyone... Talk to him first so that you won't have regrets later...and sort it out with patience.. and silvermist .. I appreciate your second thoughts and writing to prachi.. Call it off girl... Prachi is so right.. he doesn't have responsibility for his own life or family.. how can he take responsibility for your life... Just think ..anyways let's stay strong and face problems..

silvermist di is right don't go ahead with this marriage I feel like it's a trap set for you please think about it and as she said just go and talk to your parents and say sorry to them and they will support you and stand up for you. If he just starts making you feel guilty that means he is not mature enough as well as di said he is not being responsible enough at all marrying a girl of this age. please think about this very carefully take the required time. Don't just jump into these things. As di said marriage is a huge responsibility don't take it so lightly And di i just love how you are helping a lot of people we need more people like you Lots of love to you Prachi di

hi silvermist, I'm late to write this but if you reading when I'm 17 I'm in love with a guy 25 years old...however this is an arrange and i also like the guy and want to leave everything but as maturity hit I understand what I really want my career , independence and the life I always want to be, both of your mental level is different and in love we did the things we like even when everyone show us the right path . so wait few years you understand yourself what you missing. good luck.

Prachi di u r.. U r really awesome 👏👏💜. You are my mentor of life. I'm very inspired by ur confidenti words. Thank u so much for guiding all of ur young viewers. Love from Mysore ❤

Silver mist just reconsider your decision ur still very young complete ur education and work be independent settle in ur life and Thn marry

Love from Mumbai 💕♥️😘

People here are letting their daughters to marry men more than twice their age whereas I’m concerned if my parents will agree to my out of religion marriage 🙄pls wish me luck everyone.😓

Please understand silvermist now u will be hurt but in future u will definitely thank prachi di for her advice Ur parents will also be proud of your decision .think practically. All the best

Please Silver Mist, never ever go against your parents in this matter. Please listen to them because you are young sweethearts

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Silver mist I am 18 and ik how life of us is but this not the time to get married please back off relationships and everything is fine but not with such age gap ...next thing is now it's time to focus on career and education rather than marriage..please cancel your marriage...life is beautiful please don't make such a huge mistake....❤

Very nice 👍 🌺🌺

Well, TinkerBell. I think there is a forth possibility too. They both are just REAL platonic friends, and the girl is Anxious to meet new people or Has some physical or mental problems. So, They might be genuinely Just Friends but she is really scared or uncomfortable to meet new people. 😢 As an ex- depression patient myself, I can tell you. I would go crazy if the only two or three people, I am really comfortable around, tell me to meet their family, it would just get the s""t out of me, in those days. I think your bf must be waiting for her to recover from this phase to introduce you both. ❤😊

Silver mist I too agree Prachi Mem..u r just 18..complete ur education..and then marry..

Silver mist please make the right choice. More power to you.

Silvermist pls dont marry that guy. I had seen the same situation happening with my friend. She got married at the age of 17 to 33 yr old guy opposing parents n later they got two children. Nw she s 35, got divorced because of his doubting behaviour n domestic violence. Nw she has a new relationship n struggling to takecre f her kids. So wat i wanted to tell u is dat u r too young to take up a desicion especially a long term committment. Nw u might b emotionally too attached to him. But u hv to call off this wedding n u can come out of this in months or in an year. Dats how v are. So enjoy your life n fulfill your dreams. All the best.. SAY BIG NOOOOOOOO TO DAT GUY.

Silver u r just in a dream world. U will have to regret later. Pls don't get married with him. They r eager because they think they will loose a young girl, a giid chance to get him married. Im in the age of 23. I know how stupid thoughts i was having wen i was 18. So i can make sure that this is temporary . And prachidi u have given her a best advice which she could ever get As usual

Hey. Where can I ask you something personally? I have a lot of doubts and I need some help.

Tinkerbell. I believe little things matter in a relationship. If your bf is not doing anything wrong then he should be open with you about this girl(unless you are overly possessive gf). Please don't ignore such things. And as I said little things matter!

Dear Silver mist , I can guarantee that this is your first relationship n with time may be you'll actually realise that it just would've had been an infatuation . May be i'm wrong and may sound harsh too for my above statement . Second thing dear that i'd like to mention is that you are not even independent n well settled . Another fact to be considered is that he might not be responsible enough as he is not serious towards his job , he might quit the job after u getmarried . If u kick it all off trust me down the lane you will actually realise that taking up a stand for yourself was not wrong . Wish you all the very best 👍

Hello silvermist ! I would really suggest you to call off this wedding because 1. You are too young to marry 2. No one can tell you to give up a job or your education. It's your decision that you want to study or do anything with your career. People can give suggestions but no one has the right to forcefully tell you to give up your career. Complete your education first and then marry the right person. 3. Your parents aren't happy either with this marriage.

They are allowing u to become independent n prachi is right ur life will get destroyed if u take the wrong step