Hey! I have recently been through a breakup. It was my first relationship and it was really tough for me. At the initial stage I stopped doing all the things. I couldn't watch most RU-vid videos for they were romantic. But the only thing I consistently kept watching was Smile With Prachi. I always get a positive vibe from this series. Watching this series always makes me believe that the world is beautiful and mature and genuine people like you do exist on this planet. Watching you talking about such important and sensitive topics always energises me. And it really did help me during my breakup journey. Love your work :)
@@Muskaanvvv I am a lot better now. I feel moved on and I have found myself after all that happened to me. I learnt a lot from that chapter of my life. I am happy! Thanks for your concern😊❤️
It took me 6/7 years to become friends with my ex who I really thought was the one. I am amazed now at how I am totally ok with that and have no ill feelings towards him and not wishing that we were together. Time really heals all wounds
Apologies for the delay guys. We are travelling so I just lost track of time somehow. Nevertheless, hope this video helps those who needed this. Have a great weekend everybody!
Take a spontaneous Travel break, go Solo or with a close friend somewhere. Really helps with handling a Break-up. You can forget everything and vent it out and just be done with it.
Hey Guys! So my girlfriend broke up with me recently. She had an abusive relationship in the past and so i always tried to support her and calm her as best as i could. So we became a couple from best friends. But after all the pain and joy together. Due to family issues of marriage and also for personal issues she told we better not be in a serious relationship. Then after some days she told we are just friends nothing is in between us. She enjoys when other guys flirts with her and openly discusses about everything with me. I being a friend try to laugh it out so that she won't feel guilty . But from the inside i feel dead every time our relationship status changes and when i hear about all the guys she is talking to. I want to keep contact with her as I'm her only friend who knows about her past and supports her emotionally but lately it has been very hard for me to keep in contact with her and at the same time remind me of the fact that what we had won't come back. Lately i have been feeling very depressed due to the lockdown. I don't want want to leave her side. Any suggestions?
Hey dude ! The best thing u can do for urself right now is to finish the contact from her , bcoz she is enjoying her life but you are worrying about her she dont even give a daam ! i completely agree tht u love her , u care for her but if she is happy doing all this to you not even bothering about . How can you be so careless about urself , after all choice is yours u wanna choice happiness or sadness bcoz even being contact with her ur hurting so better is move on and as said in video think for the bright future of yours and fall in love again ❣️
Even I'm in same kinda situation!! I'm soon going to be in final year of graduation! It's a peak time! And here I'm spending time like devdas instead of focusing on my career! But I have now started focusing on myself! Buying new clothes going for night walks listening to some good music early in the Morning all of these's helping me a lot! Also don't try to cut off with her now! Make it a slow process! And the let the time to do it's magic!!🌸
I had my break up last March ,,she left me indicating some of my fault,but I later I found to know that she has been talking with someone of her relatives last 2 months.Believe me I loved her so much I almost begged her love like a child but she already moved on for someone whe she doesn't even tell me,it's been 3 months passed I tried to convince myself that she is gone ,I dnt know how much time it will take ,,I just wait it and take all the pain to heal out of it .
I just broke up with my boyfriend... He's sooo disrespectful..his fnds disrespect me and he's soo ok with this..when i say why u r not protest this he's like u have not achieve anything so everyone don't have to respect you...the whole thing broke me...
You have to be respected for the person u are But what he said was partially right coz u also need to hv an identity of ur own Become somebody....build your career Show him what he missed Make him regret losing u girl
Really good to separate from a guy like him... Seriously how can someone say like this?? If he loves uh he can't even hear anything bad about u even if they r frnds or someone else...he doesn't deserve uh... Stay strong ... N all the best for ur future... Build ur career n show him what u can do... He will come n beg uh but u just smile n leave👍
"Back then when you made those promises which you believed, you were not wrong and even know you're not wrong" Love these lines, took all of my guilt away. 😭😭😭
some of my friend don't want to feel the uncomfort of breakup and jump into another relationship .I think this kind of things takes us far away from ourselves. because you can not escape your feelings anyway .you have to go through it now or then .
I can't tell you in words. Your videos have a great impact on me. They changed me as a person the way I think.thank you so much prachi for keeping us motivated with your videos
Ur notification is my favorite thing in RU-vid... Such an adviser u r... In the future I will be so strong it's just because of ur words... Keep motivating us di❤️
Actually time heals everything and everyone.... I also had a relationship of 1.5 yrs ... Was deeply in love with that person but he was just using me... After breakup I was in depression and wanted to suicide and I thought that living is just worthless but eventually in 2yrs I got healed and realised that how wrong I was.... That life has sooo many things to offer but now I don't waana date anybody I am happy with myself so anyone who is going through this phase believe me pain heals, then we learn that how we can love ourselves ❤
People who wanna listen songs here’s some artist you should probably check them i still listen to them 1)ali gatie 2)sasha sloan 3)Kodaline These are some of my favourite artists. Hope y’ll find this helpful:)
I broke up with my ex this week and and we are in the same class. Although exams and vacations are gonna come , I don't know how I will face him a whole year
Even though it is not my break up,I almost feel it like break up.I'm in a situation where he don't want to break up with me and also don't care anymore about me.This is more harder than break up.
Yes it is indeed I'm going through the same..he says that he loves me,he says that I'm still his first priority,but it seems like those are just words and they don't really mean anything.
i feel like I am also in the same situation..we are together since last 6 years.. this year january he got his job , and since then he is so much busy in his life..whole day office work and at night when I call he is like am too tired and just sleep.. so many times I have told him please make some time for me , i really need to share something , i am missing you.. but he is always like..I have just started my job , have to manage so many things..hope you understand.. i am stuck in a situation where sometimes I feel terrible about myself thinking I am asking for too much and I should give him some time and space.. at the same time i feel frustrated and scared that my 6 yr relationship might end..
@@nimisharaj8501 you should try to keep yourself busy the way he is,..set a goal ,be ambitious, start working out,try on new make-up looks, take care of your skin and body,.. when you'll study well,work well for your furture when you'll be confident about yourself and be busy with your own stuff these problems will not bother you as much as they bother you now,even tho it'll be hard at beginning,but compel yourself to do so for 21 days it'll become your lifestyle,& then you'll see when you're at your best people seek you ,crave for you, when you'll not run after him he'll for sure make time for you,.. You'll live your best life! : ) Good luck
@@nimisharaj8501 yes, you have to keep patience. Getting a new job and coping up their is actually very important. Don't make it harder for him. Just wait for a few months and support him in every way possible. I promise you things will improve. But if he actually starts ignoring you, then step away. Let him go for a while and focus on yourself as of now. If he really is yours, he'll come back to you...
I feel so bad people separate and jus don’t care for someone who wants them so badly so helpless and so many people face breakup or heartbreak what happens then ?? Karma or punishment life you are so unpredictable
memories/gifts are precious, if it was a mutual breakup then please keep those precious things with you..... if you were the one whose being cheated on then you can destroy those gifts... ( personal experience ) :)
Hey prachi .. you can recomend these songs to Ur viewers and it will help them a lot.. 1)I forgot that you existed - TAYLOR SWIFT 2)crying in the club -CAMILA CABELLO... These songs will really really.. help you to move on.. concentrate on these lyrics.. you can get over them.. *trust* *me*
1 sal 2 mahine ke bad bhi muze bohot yad aati hai uski this was my second relationship second love my second break up 💔. I really want cry very bad. But i can't.........I don't know what to do. I just feel to scream very loudly 😔😔😔😔😔😔
Though your tips are very important and practical. But easier said than done. The person who goes through it needs a lot of courage even to think of doing all this because they can't even accept that break up has happened, and it's a new reality. But yeah, there is no other option than these. When there is no other option you do what is left to do. You accept the new reality forcefully.
How to approach and convince a guy in an arrange marriage if the girl is suffering from a lifestyle disease but the disease is not affecting her routine in any way is doing well professionally, however she takes regular medicine. How to convince the family on the other side in case of an arranged marriage?
I had break up almost a year back but even after trying hard I am not able to move on I have spoken to me frds family no one has actually helped me... I am not sad or unhappy abt anything I am alone good.. Nd happy however there an emptiness all ways. I am in that age now where my frds and classmates are getting married nd I am alone with no one to talk.. I don't know to how to help myself... I have even tried to talk to new guys went on dates but that also didn't worked for me... If anyone reading this please help me...
We were in A relationship from 3 yrs but suddenly now he told my frnd that he is emotionally attached with someone else.... He thinks that i dont know all this.... I m dying it's killing me... I loved him sooo much . . I dont have any frnds here I sat all alone in my room... I just want end my life can't breathe properly 😭😭😭😭😭
Hey Radha, the value of your life is not so small that you want to end it for one person whom you know for just 3 years... And yes 3 years is a really long time to get tons of memories. .But always remember that you cant be with someone who doesn't share the same feeling like you.
Prachi you are really wonderful person I'm so lucky that I'm your subscriber you make others problems so easy to deal with hope can whole world like you 😘😘😘
Tq prachi di your words actually healed my heart. I was literally very depressed after my breakup but you made understand that there's alot more things except your ex
Please seek help from a professional therapist. They will help you manage your thoughts better. Everybody has their own timespan for coming out of breakups, but thoughts of death are not normal at all.
Didi I loved how you also included the teenagers...currently I am going through the same thing..i realized recently that honestly he never really loved me...so I am trying to get over it..i shared it all with my mom one day but I feel like it's not easy for me to tell her about it everyday..so I just endure it all on my own believing that I am strong enough...your channel really does helps di ...sometimes I get tensed thinking what will happen if I never forget him but deep inside I know that's not the case..but still that thing disturbs me...i am came across your channel just today and I realized i am doing all the things which you are suggesting..right now the most important thing for me is my boards☺☺
Prachi.. I always wait a whole week for ur videos to come.. I literally look forward to ur videos on Saturdays.. Nd iam constantly refreshing the page to see it. No hate intended prachi.. Iam a fan nd I love all ur channels but I wish u informed us that there won't be a video
Leave him right away.. Block him from everywhere.. Take your time.. I know initially it will be very difficult.. But you'll surely come out of it.. Telling you from my personal experience..✨
He ditched me...a 3 year long relationship and he just ditched me for no reason...how do I keep my mind off it? It's lockdown...I am stuck at home...qnd he just ended it for nothing...he said I feel obligated towards you...I don't wanna keep you updated with my life...he just ditched me
Don't worry dear go and meet him after lockdown get confirmation about ur relationship ask him the perfect reason keep urself busy during dis lockdown to overcome depression everything will be alright
So recently I had a breakup. I was with this guy for past 1.2years. We were really close and suddenly due to some issues he started saying that i don't feel the same for you. We don't have the same connection any more i don't feel attached to you and i don't want to be with you and he breaks up. He has blocked me from everywhere instagram whatsapp call everything. I'm calling him continuously crying trying to talk to him convince him that we should get back for the sake of our old love. And he's like just i don't care do whateve you wanna I'm not getting back. I can't just get over this fact that how can he leave me alone when i did so much for him. What should i do in this situation now Prachi di.. ?
You trying more to talk to him will make him more distant from you. There is no point. Also if at all you plead and veg to him to come trust me he would throw you away after sometime as well. You can't force anyone into loving you... Even if a couple have had sex. It only gets worse and u will suffer more. It is not the right person unless that person chooses you
Hi Prachi, plzzz don't take my name, and l need to talk about my situation because I have relationship with my bf for almost 2 years and I want to break up with him and l can easily break up with him but I am having 10th exam this year and I don't want to make bad score in it, because I am bad in studies, I am having nerve problem and I always forget everything after studing, so I have to study too much and concentrate to much on studies but if I break up with him then I can't concentrate in my studies and always think about him and I don't want to be with him also because I am irritated with him so plzzzzzzz help me Prachi
And I really feel you're almost on making a good decision for yourself. But I would suggest you to focus on your studies right now and do breakup after you're done with your exams!
I had issues with complexion and my height I still do but after my 2nd brkup I thought I m ugly and etc etc because the reason for our brkup that his mom would never agree for me because I m dark and short but after brkup during the process of healing I mature up wrote diaries when feeling down sometime danced to relax and now I fell in love with myself like never before it made me who I am today and I am grateful for it
Di... U r just best 👍💯 Love u di... Really a lot... I hope u r with me always to guide me as my own sista... Luv u so much di... From ur younger sister sanju
Tqq.. Prachi. When u say its okay at end it makes me feel good. I didn't have a relationship. But i have a crush its time to come out from that i really feel bad....
How could you completely stop communication especially there is a separation between husband and wife and where there is a involvement of their children? What do you suggest? Why do you feel after break up the could not reunited? Don't you think this kind of possibility in a very positive manner?
Didi pls tell me how to deal with toxic parent's who is very strict , where they will not let me express my emotions, always degrade and see me as a burned for borning as a girl child ,wont let me go out with friends etc etc pls tell something about this ,I will always be in depression and sad
@@madhulikanbalan9739 I am 20 year's and pursuing 2nd year engineering and they are soo toxic that i shouldn't go anywhere with friend's nor talk to any male friend's. ... i have to just go to college and come back as soon as soon college let off 😢
@@praphullak194 they are worried about your safety nowadays boys are not good they might physically abuse you who knows but your parents would never go wrong
@@harijha7560 it is so suffocating, i can't even express ma feelings , always degrade me 😢😢, more than kids for them society and pride is more important can will do what ever for thier pride but me and my sister's are suffering with their mentality even ma elder sister died recently for thier pride issues than her happiness 😢😢
praphulla yadav OMG we are of the same age I can understand you sister Your parents intentions are good .. that they are concerned about ur safety ..now a days every parent is worried about there girl child ..coz it’s a sad world we live in ..but they shouldn’t be telling you not to talk to boys and other stuffs .. What they are doing is wrong .. Just tell your parents politely about your feelings like talking to boys won’t harm you bcoz you know ur limits and you have the right to enjoy your life by spending time with your friends and tell them that you feel very pressured and it’s making you sad .. if they disagree just say confidently to there face that they must also had a lot of fun when they were young but why can’t you do the same And a thing you must do is to just talk to a therapist ..I think then u can clear you mind And if nothing good happens like your parents are still making u feel bad then just wait till u get independent coz you are 20 years old now .. few more years to go and then u can live your life happily I’m not saying ur feelings ain’t respected .. ur feelings are important .. but these are few options that I can think of. Just be confident sister
I am in a relationship with someone who is always busy that he can't even talk to me or text me for weeks. He never does anything special for my birthdays, etc . To make me feel special. He doesn't even want to meet me even on Valentine's day even though we live in a same city. I am so alone here in this relationship that I don't know what to do. When I sit with him talk about breaking up bcz of this he gets emotional and I just get stuck there alone and unhappy. I really don't know what to do.
@@tuhimerameraa1 I have spoken to him about it and told him that I want to break up with you because I am not happy. To which he gets extremely emotional and somehow convinces me to be in the same relationship and again I am unhappy and alone. And he is the same no time for me no time for the relationship at all. He says he is extremely busy with his job. And I have a 9-5 job too. Don't know what to do...
@@aqsashaikh4107 maybe you can ask for advice from a close friend?? Because if he's not putting effort on you, 🤨, it's not a good thing. . Maybe his mental health is not good because of stress or something??
Prachi from where n how u studied psychology??...can u elaborate abt it coz i too want to read psychology n pursue it as a hobbie or alternate option for me...like..something other than my usual career...
Was committed to a guy since 5 yrs had physical relationship too now his getting married to other girl I m depressed totally ... any advice for me plz do help me ...
Honey take care of yourself. Change your surroundings, go out with your friends, share your feelings.. Give time to yourself, accept that it is happening and trust in God that he must be having a better and a brighter future for you ahead.. focus on your health and career. Make new friends. And lastly pray to God to give you power to overcome all of these emotions. All powers to you.💜 Take care.
Remember dear nowadays everyone in relationship is physically connected... First thing DNT even think about physically issue... N yeah from ur side u r so genuine n he left u...n u r on the top...n u deserve the osm man in ur life... Stay positive.. n dnt lift any call from him Incase he wanna come back..coz he said ok to marriage it means he already left uh...n stay strong... All the best for ur future...much love ❤️
Hmesa lgta ta k bhagwan kbi galat ni krnge mere sath bt bhagwan ne h ditch kia hme....kisi se kya shikayat kre jb bhagwan h ne aisi zindagi di h....jise pyar kia sbse jada use h chhin lia...sirf ek shart h toh hare te hm....usme b unhone us insan ko chhin lia hmse...bht dukh hota h...rona b aata h...bt khud ko control krte h hm k roye na bt hu toh mai insan h na..filhal toh yu h k kch kr ni skte.... Zindagi jhand h pr marr ni skte
In an arrange marriage, if u meet someone who had a past, n the guy is in touch with his ex but is saying he has broken up, how to ensure that he will be honest and loyal towards the arrange marriage relation. Is it worth going ahead in such cases?
Aisi chizo se kbhi compromise mt kiziyega... Ye apki life ko barbad kr skta h....i think l Apko phle sahi se situation ko samjhna chahiye fir uske according action lena chahiye
I'm in love with a friend of mine and my family is against it. So we stopped talking to each other because my family wants to cause trouble for him by giving police complaint. I don't know what to do. Can anyone plz suggest me how to face this situation. And not only that I want to build my career. My family is against that too. They are saying they are financially can't afford my studies anymore. Plz anyone suggest me a solution. Thank you in advance.
You should start working and he too!when you both are financially independent you can go for a court marriage...that would be my suggestion on the basis of the details you shared
@@dasarisaidineshrollnumber3334 if you don't raise your opinion or if you don't fight for life of your choice, then you have to accept others decision and think that it is your fate. Both of you are 22 that means you can get a job easily you would have completed your degree,,,, you may not have handsome salary but if both of you work you can lead your life happily and even have savings. If you want to have your further education, distance education is also available. You can work and at the same time, you can complete your education. All the best.
Hi Prachi, I need your help with something, I have written down all points but i urgently need help in choosing my life further, can i email you my research and then you can suggest me the action I need to take, I need help urgently. Plz
Prachi Di I need help... My frnd is near to suicide level after their break up. I always motivate him to be happy but his level keeps decreasing.. he really needs help n I would like to share the whole scenario to Ur email... But idk how😅 please contact me 🙏🏻
Hi Prachi This might be off context..but I really need help... I am planning to get married, but my better half wants me to be housewife and not working after marriage.. somewhere im ok with his decision but I have always been financially independent since I started earning.. now im not sure how to discuss with him about this, I mean I wish to have some monthly income for my own personal needs (from him because I won't be working) also I don't wanna beg for money every time when I m in need.. can you please help me with how to be financially stable even after marriage when not working..!!!! I would really appreciate your opinion on this im confused like hell.. Thanks in advance:)
Hey I just want to ask a question my crush rejected me ......and said we can be friends.... but seems like we are not friends and just msg me because he is bored and I also can't stop thinking about him ... should I block him or not.. plz reply di ....if anyone reading this comment can also suggest some advice....
