My C-Section Experience in india | I was scared of normal delivery 

Thank u so much for making this video. Its so damn relatable with my experience, I was unable to deliver normally and so opted for C-section but till I get to hear abt y u went for c-section. Uptil now I was lyk there must be some problem with me as all are able to deliver naturally except me. It just so good to hear that it is okay to feel scared of natural birth ❤️❤️

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am 35 weeks pregnant today and going for c section. Feeling anxious and overthinking a lot. This video made me calm and better 😊

I fell I love with your mindset. I really was going through a tough time about this and thank you for clearing my doubt.

I had a normal delivery five years back .Now i am planning and the next one i will go with c section.Because i went through a hard time and I struggled with the pain for two days and its a nightmare for me now.The fact is true normal delivery is natural but my mental health is very important during pregnancy rather than impressing others with my pain bearing talent.And people are talking about the pain after c section but no body is talking about the pain of normal delivery which is 1000 more than c section pain.I am not promoting c section just writing my experience .Because i already experienced vaginal delivery with epidural and don’t want to experience it again.The final thing is we want healthy baby thats it.And again with normal delivery vaginal stitch pain was horrible i couldn’t sit properly for 2 weeks.So im thinking of c section for the next one.Even my husband and mother is also supporting me since they were with me during my first delivery and the saw howmuch is struggled.And one fact nobody knows howmuch pain I experienced and nobody can compare their pain with anyone’s else.

I was scared ..but my c.section was not pain full🙏

This video helped me a lot. I was soooo stressed. Thank you so much. Pray for me. I wish I too can have a smooth delivery 🧿🙏❤️

I'm a c-section mom and I have a fear of both c-sections and natural delivery ahahah I just want the baby. I'm on my third baby and still scared preparing for my planned c-section. I have c-sections because the first baby was emergency c-section so the following births I did planned c-sections. BUT forever either option is scary :*( ahaha

Girl you’re right, our society can’t mind their own business. Everyone has some shitty comment, good on you for making a choice that you were happy with! It’s your body, I had an emergency c section as my water broke and they give only 24 hours to dilate. Epidurals are mostly safe and doctors in Canada are amazing! No scars for life or anything, I can’t even see my scar lol The next one I’m thinking of planned, not vbac. Let’s see! Who knows hun? Thanks for sharing! And you do you!

Omg. I am feeling like u r reading my mind. I too did the same and there was a mixed feelings of guilt and regret in my head all these days and finally i found ur video. And i am relaxed now.. thank u 💓 💗 💖 💛

Jaimy, i went for an elective c section 20 days before. I was also scared about normal delivry and yeah, its not the best, and after learing about the possible risk factors for both Normal and C section deliveries, i requested for c section to my doctor and had the same. Trust me, i consider it as the best decision, i was stress free, it took 15 mins, to see my baby, all went well, the after pains was bearable and it went in 3 days, in my case. Time had changed and a surgery is not a nightmare.. And i watched ur video before my delivery, and felt confident. Thats why i came back here to say this.. thank you 😊

Wow....very motivating n honest video...m too goin thru d same....i have elective c section day after tomorrow...it ws my decision coz i too am scared of the normal delivery pain...so planned for c sec...hope its gonna b ok....luved ur video ❤

Its perfectly normal to have such thoughts, love. Have an amazing parental life. I am glad that you take all the major decisions by thinking about them yourself and dont follow the norms. Please, make a video on how you gather the strength to make a decision and stand by it. Much love!

Who was your doctor? Which hospital and city?? He or she gave you a painless experience. That in itself is a Miracle.

I had a c- section, and has no pain at all. I'm afraid of normal delivery.

People don't talk about these things on air but You are educating women I really appreciate your effort😃

Did u feel any pressure while the c section was going on. Which anesthesia did you take??.. please reply I'm due in 2 weeks

You are so honest and ur reviews gave me more confidence THANKYOU❤

thank you for sharing.... m having my elecctive c-sec within 2 weeks..

Duniya ka sbse Ganda kaam hai normal delivery...meri saas ne meri jbrdsti normal delivery krwai thi

Same feeling I am having ..even I am feeling as you....I can't prepare mentally for normal delivery...So am deciding to go for c section delivery.

I had face the same problem, but opted c- section. Now I am happy.

What is painless c section I had c section but it was painful after c section for 1 week

Thank you so much ur experience because I suffered lot ofmy delivery, I have noraml delivery but I can't control the pain so I go to c section , evry one told y c section by that time suffered and thinking

Pls dont get motivated by such videos normal delivery is painfull but it is way safer dan the cesarean. My doctor made a forceful c section made me and my husband scared after 3 hours of me going into labour pain told us babys heart beat has gone low so v had to give him permission for c section. He just did it for money because my husband was suppose to get claim from his company. While cutting my belly and utrus they cut my urinary bladder and they dint know where i was bleeding from. It took 2 nd half hour to call the senior most doctor to find that cut all this time i was bleeding they dint even tell us after dis wat was the matter they kept me on bed sleeping position only with saline and no food for 6 days my veins of both hand had become hard, they put catheter and a half foot drain pipe into my stomach while taking out the drain pipe it was so horrible dat i cannot explain u'll doctor just pulled the drain pipe from the hole which they made in my tummy and i was screaming. Dan i had no feeling of passing urine at the time of discharge and dis continued for almost 2 years. Dan i was constipated because i dint eat for 6 days, gas dis dat it was hopeless situation for me. Constipation gave me piles problem which im suffering till today. So ladies think twice before going for cesarean if u dont have a choice dan only go for cesarean.

I am pregnant n this is how i feel all the tym n i am planning for a c section.

Thank you for this video M also very scared, will definitely go for a c section

I wanted to have a natural birth but instead I ended up having a c section two months ago , everything went well but because I delivered a daughter , it shook my inlaws and I had to go through a lot of mental and physical stress but I believe this hard phase will soon end in my life and yes I too believe if mother is happy , satisfied with c section birth then she will heal quicker unlike me who had to go through a lot of mental stress 😭

very well explained ❤

Most relaxing video.. Thank you for making it.. ❤️ My time is coming on next month and this video is soooo good 👍.. Because i feel in the same way..

Am an expecting mother, I too want a c section, am really scared of normal delivery

Thank you so much for making this video. I am 5 weeks and ALREADY terrified of natural birth. My mom and husband didn't understand. I did think I was alone!

Yes true. Normal delivery is much better than c section. Bt no pain in c section. You said it all true things. I also had c section 3 mnths ago.and its quite normal.everything is good with me .except my belle is still fluffy thats the only part i dont like it. I also had suppose to birth by normal,bt pain was unbearable 😫.and my baby goes up. God bless you girl.All mothers are brave 🙏 More power to girls 💕

I used to cry because I got c sec,but after seeing this video....Iam feeling happy,thanku mam

Ur experience and my experience both are same

This vedio in soo mind relaxing ..bcz I'm due in Dec but cannot mentally prepare for normal delivery

Hey that was really nice and informative video. But please do make one more video regarding the scar and stretch mark topic after c section. Do share your experience.

Given a cut & stitched up in normal delivery too?? H-How?

Thankyou for this video:)Even i have such great phobia of having a normal delivery..I have very less threshold to pain. This video really helped.

I have also this phobia

I had previously normal delivery and all was don with artificial pains whicg was unbearable. Now i want to have C section but my family will not support me i think😢

Meri behena, aapko full support and respect, thanks for sharing the information with us.

Will the doctors allow to choose elective c section ? Is that possible in every city of India ? Some doctors start arguing with patients on this and they don’t agree

Hi.. I m scared the same way like u were n have planned a surgery but at 37th week.. Let me know when did u have your c sec n is it safe to have it at 37th week? Babys weight is 2.8 kg as on 36th week in usg.. Some people are saying weight is not accurate in usg and actual weight comes out to be less than usg weight. Pls guide

motivating...thanx

I am not married yet, and for the fact I know , I will marry after 6,7 year ( because of graduation and post graduation 4+2). And I am so scared of having a baby after marrage. I have seen some videos on the internet how baby born normally , and its so scary. And in normal process also, there are a cut done near the vagina. So I am totally mentally prepared for a C section.

Hi, can you please tell how many days after the delivery did you start wearing pants/pajamas. I had my c section 4 weeks back and still wearing gowns.

Itna b positive ni hota sach bolo surgery k bad stiches pain. Ho na ho h

In our side there is a very common misconception that if a girl had c section,it means she is not strong enough for normal delivery. People never support you. I'm in my 38 week and don't know what will happen at delivery but I'm ready for both.

How Ayurvedic recommend to take care after a c-section?

Due date is 11 nov still very scared of c sec and catheter very tense

I too have this fear of normal delivery

Watching n listening u girl

All this happened with me..I scared from normal delivery.so I decided for C-section...now my baby 6 month old..but after c section I have back pain problem 🙂🙂🙂🙂

Thankyou so much i thougt im the only one !

very well explained ..am also scared for normal delivery n go for c section

Mam my gynaec is not giving me the date... she is just saying lets see .. what should i do m tensed

Jaimi... i accidently hit your channel... good one dear.. keep going..

I'm so happy for you. And one important thing - The guilt feeling shouldn't exist. It's YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE. You are carrying a new life, you are gonna breastfeed, you are ensuring the continuation of an entire species. No one else's bogus lectures should matter. Whether c-section or vaginal birth, the choice should be entirely the mother's. And coming to the point of 'natural-unnatural', it's again a baseless argument. Our entire civilization is itself an institution of diverting from the natural way. We aren't born with clothes yet wear them, we no longer live in jungles/caves but inside protective houses, we don't chew leaves to cure a disease but take proper meds. Everything's is technically unnatural. So, a woman shouldn't definitely bother what society says.

i m on the same boat.... i m choosing c sec deliberately

But normal delivery better than c section.. Doctor also suggested normal delivery ..or aap logo ko normal delivery k bare me or dara rahe ho

Literally i am facing same situation…. Its my 8 month about to end… now i will go for c section

Iam watching your video for the first time I couldn't ignore your smile...similar to Preity Zinta ❤️😍 thanks for sharing your journey.

Wow this video ll help the moms to be having this kinda war in their mind. have you done something on the stretch marks after c section

Mam i m also scared of normal delivery but my doctr n family is not ready for that..

You are discouraging other women in doubts about delivery. You should give a neutral outlook not give them wrong ideas about normal childbirth. Just because you were afraid, you are convincing others in doubt to go for C section only. 👎

Thank you. Am going through the same mental struggle.

Your baby is boy or girl? You are so clear in your thoughts, I really appreciate your attitude of thinking and focusing on yoyr self

Thank you❤👍!!! New subscriber!!!!🙌

🤦🏽‍♂️listening to her speak English brings the movie "SHORT CIRCUIT" to mind. 🤭 she so beautiful. Wish God blessed me with an Indian/Bangladeshi wife like her.

Thank you for the vedio, yes as you said there are many people out there wanting to know if it is ok to make a choice, particularly in India where women often do not have a birth plan unlike in Foreign countries, and where Doctors refuse to do it stating it to be risky. Making an informed Choice is essential irrespective of the mode of delivery.

Hello diiii plz suggest how can I relief from back pain after c section.

Thank you for sharing. Very comforting.

Are you there in the film queen?

Hi, thanks for sharing your experiences..can you pls share the name of your hospital/ doctor. I’m interested

Do doctors allow you for c section.?

Nice message but please stop moving so much, I got a headache from your focus/out of focus footage 😂

Please give me your doctor's number ...and the name

I am so sorry you are having to explain yourself so much for being scared of vaginal birth. But I must tell you one thing, similar dilemmas cross our mind when we WANT to have a vaginal delivery and people say tumse nahi ho paayega, ya Aaj kal kisi ka normal nahi hota etc etc. Society ka judgement kisi ke liye nahi rukta. Let's be open and confident about what we want. High time!!

Thanks for clearing my doubt thank you so much 👍

Natural delivery is good for long term . its choice ! there is no good or bad

Thanku for the vedio pls share doctor details of Mumbai if you have i m also scared about pain

Mam doctor ne labor room Jane ko bola prescription laka tha admit the pt in obs a kya Hoti hai

This is helping new moms make decision. I m expecting n i m so scared

You did n't feel pain at stiches pls tell me I m very very afraid of delivery process both normal and c section

This video is demotivating for those who thinks of normal delivery

I got really scared after I saw your thumbnail 😂

I guess Cesarean or normal it can vary from one female to another?

Yes.. All this things happens to me.. And 😂 me too decide to go through c-section... Delivery

Can you suggest the doctor please

Very informative darling.. awesome..:)

So sweet of you

Thank you yes even i could not manage normal delivery. I had this fobia after c section that my entire body will face issues. Lets see its been 2 days . I hope everything goes well. Thank you for making this vedio. Waheguru jee sab theek kar de.

I opt for c section,bcus I am scared of normal delivery...

Maine b 21 Dec ko meri choice se c section kraya h believe me mujhe b normal delivery se bhot darr lgta tha. And after c section mujhe b koi pain nhi hua same meri medicine b 5 days around chli thi lovely experience ❤️❤️

Do u have back pain sis

Mera bhi c section hua tha

I'm also getting this phobea... Comin April 15th I have taken decission to go for C section ❤️ I'm very much tensed 🙄

Am also in battle with my mind

Does catheral insertion hurt ....pls reply

Thank u so much for sharing ur experience with us ku k ma b abi isi situation sy guzar rhe hu k kya krna ha kase birth ho gi this video will help me soooo much