MY DATE REFUSED TO PAY THE BILL - A Popular TikToker By The Name Winnie Took To The Internet To Record Her Date Disrespecting Her And Refusing To Pay The Bill. And A Lot Of Women Have A Lot To Say About It
Honestly. 😂 I paid while on my way back from the bathroom because I already knew he and I wouldn’t be seeing each other again. Makes things so much easier.
Mom always said, "When you start dating, make sure you have your own money and a way to get home. Back then, cellphones weren't a thing, so you had to be prepared."
Yup i just commented the same sentiment. It was a dufferent time but the facts still ring true. Hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. @@Ciyotnnakauebluzy2seanuh-pv6gb
youre better than me. Ive never been put in this situation but if I were id say, "I need to get my wallet from the car. on e second." drive off and block the number. thats disrespectful bc a woman s makeup (at least mine) costs part of $400 (cost of my makeup bag) my hair, my dress. like if I leave my house I deserve princess treatment or else do not entertain anything with me.
This is so disgusting omg. Just pay for yourself and leave. So sad people are doing this out here but not surprised. The dating pool is full of so much trash.
what? sorry, who are you, do we know each other lady How about splitting the bills Be rational my gentlewoman Let's focus on whether we are connected and forget who is responsible for a bill from someone you barely know in this modern society of equal pay for equal work. think about it, my gentlewoman
Omg *eyeroll* Winnie Parker! I FIRMLY believe she is doing it for CONTENT!!! we know how much she wants the influencer life! I think she is trying to brand herself as the black Carrie Bradshaw ...but WITHOUT the budget on ALL fronts !! Lol! I agree with the lady that said it's not a cute 'brand'
So I'm 29 and back before Uber/Lyft was a popular/common thing we utilize today (*and before my mom died*), I remember my mom telling me to ALWAYS make sure I have at least $40-$60 just in case of an emergency. Now, obviously with the economy being the shithole that it is, that price has obviously changed. I would say in today's economy, have at least $100-$200 on you in case of an emergency. Anyway, she told me that because in the event I were to be asked out by a guy who chooses NOT to pay or he wants to go Dutch or he thinks that sex is "owed" to him after ONE date, - she told me to make sure I have enough money to cover my own meal in case things go south. That way I can get out of that situation easier. Always have a backup plan is what she said to me. If a guy asked out a girl, HE needs to be the one to pay! Point, blank, period! If he can't pay, either report him to the staff and have him arrested, do dishes, etc., or unfortunately, pay for YOUR OWN meal (*NOT HIS!*), block him and never have anything else to do with him again.
🤣😂 guys are trolling girls now on these dates. There was a white girl talking about how her date (white guy) suckered her into paying for 100 Taco Bell tacos, and he took her back to eat them at his dads house. 🤣😂🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂 y’all be careful out there now ya hear.
Wow. IMHO, Never go on a date without having your own fund's... regardless of who's offering! You never know how the date will turn out... best to be prepared.
Arrangements should've been discussed before agreeing on a date. Time, date, location, budget and who is paying. Communication before accepting/decline to date a person.🤡🍽️🤡
She should have known the type of person he is before even going on a date with him. It's obvious he doesn't like her or the whole thing is staged for clout.
Hey, I think it's a good idea for people to meet their long-term partners through their social networks, like family and friends. Back in Louisiana, where I'm from, people used to ask about each other's families to see if they were raised well and trustworthy.
She's way too calm. I would've went off on his broke behind. Rude to say i sat here and pretended to listen to what you have to say. And the audacity he wants to hit after he didn't have bread for the date. Make sure your finances are in order before dating. Im old school, you invite me out then you're paying. We living during some strange times. Destiny, did you see the date where a man took a woman to Applebee's and asked her if she's going to sleep with h i m,she said no. The nerve. Lol.
Sorry its just a date. You must have your own money. If you have to pay for your own do it and just don’t go on a date anymore with him and also don’t entertain him. Why is that so hard. If you don’t have money don’t accept the date. Always have your own just in case case
I think its energy - Because I've also never been on a date where I was expected or asked to pay the bill. I've very silly minded offered when I thought I was introducing an ex boyfriend to finer dining "outside" of his budget .... another story for another day chilleee 🙄😂
This is sad. Whether a skit or real this type of content doesn't really add value. Hopefully, she will take time and self-reflect. Ladies you have your own (individual) self-knowing what works for you. There is no formula other than self-respect.
My grandmother and father instilled not leaving the house without your own money in me. People change, situations happen. Yes courtesy dictates tbe one who asks is the one who pays but not everyone lives by that edict
Where was the conversations pre-date? The feel them out before the follow through? Because, if this was completed there wouldn't have been this mess. Men tell on themselves all the time!! Our intuition tells us if a man is bs'n!! So I refuse to believe she didn't know he was trash!!! So, this must be a skit.
Is this a joke? From what I see he was never into her. He knew that he could not afford to pay for both meals. He can't afford to pay? He gets paid on Friday! What?! That's crazy. She needs to go and pay the bill and leave his ass alone. He is letting her know that he doesn't want her. 6-10-2024(Mon)
This was a matchmaker match??? Either way I think I would just pay for myself and tip, and as someone else said use the bathroom, leave the restaurant, and block his number. Did she at least ask him why didn't he wait until after payday to have the date? There is something scammy about him, about he tolerated her for an hour, so she should pay - even tho he did the asking out. Then had the nerve to come on to her afterwards?
7:11 this women straight pissed me off, if she wanna date white men why does that upset you so much? Little jabs like "oh you only date [non black man here]" often times are said like they're supposed to be insult, why does the race of whos FREAKING me upset you so much? And it's even more frustrating cause I bet this women doesn't have that same energy for black men who date out. Say what you want, but I'm so over black people, especially other black women "low-key" basically shaming other black women if dating out or only dating certain races.
@19:59 BOY GONE ON..Texas Road House $250? I know he better be trolling us. $250? That can't be possible 😂😂😂 Is he eating the whole menu? My GOODNESS..I done got distracted from the real topic.
Later on I would clown this man like it was going out of style, but I wouldn't be pressed in that moment. He was wrong as 2 left shoes for the entire interaction. Inviting her out, saying he should be compensating for b pretending to listen for an hour. Everything. If you can sneak out and avoid paying, do it. But otherwise pay and block him on everything. Don't give him the satisfaction of a reaction. I'm not volunteering to pay for any dates. I expect a man to take care of that. But, it's not worth a discussion if he pulls a stunt. He just gets blocked on everything. Some of them think this is the internet and feed off outrage
I would have stopped arguing and asked the waitress or waiter to bring us our receipts, separately please. I would have paid mines and he can work his out with the restaurant. This is why my mom said always have money on you and have a ride to and from wherever you are at. And always tell people where you are going just in case you need help.
I wouldn't wish this for anyone, but I do not understand the need to post everything on the internet. Women need to have money to cover the bill and get back home safely, NEVER leave your house without money.
Chile this is between Winnie and the group of people she prefers. Them your people Winnie... yall work that out. I'ma mind my beautiful Black business. Let the Caucasian community that you prefer support you in this matter. Ase.😌
15:20 i literally think that most people wouldn't be having all of this dating/plastic surgery drama if they would just get off the Internet for a bit and take up pottery or painting to occupy their time (or maybe use the Internet *for* your hobby). 😭
@@nycopersephone5772Or don't go. Men ask for a date they should pay for the date, period. It would be different if they both wanted to go out on friendly terms but I guarantee that that wasn't the case. At that point it's a friendly gathering, not a date.
Respectfully, no. Let's not make going Dutch on a first date a thing. I'm not gonna call anyone a "clown" or a "pick-me" because it's not necessary in this case. I will say this, being "grown" is taking accountability! If HE asked HER out, HE needs to be the one to pay! Point, blank, period! There's nothing to discuss beforehand outside of time, location and attire! Otherwise, whoever did the asking, needs to be the one to pay! There shouldn't be any expectations on the person who was asked out to pay! Now, should the person who was asked out carry extra finances on them just in case of an emergency in the event they HAVE TO pay? Yes! Should they be EXPECTED to pay? No! If you're asking someone else to take time out of their day, life, schedule, etc., and spend it with you when they could've been doing other better things and they agree to a date they didn't even want to go on initially, the BARE MINIMUM that you can do is pay for them and yourself! If not, don't ask someone out if you don't plan to pay for them! Simple.
@@nycopersephone5772 I would never clown or disrespect your choice. You have to do what you feel comfortable doing. I went to school with Methuselah, and I don't do Dutch or coffee dates. There are two men that I will pay to dine in the most expensive restaurants in their countries. They are both gay, donate their frequent flyer miles and given me keys to their apartments in Rome and Warsaw. Even gay men have a standard. Straight men are lowering the bar, step by step. I can take myself to dinner. Even if you went on a job luncheon interview, your lunch would be paid for. A lunch/dinner date is not an interview. Just saying. Peace
If we couldxall just agree on whomever asks forcrhe date pays. And do not give wife benefits on a fwb situation. Do not cook for him more than twice a month. Never fold or iron his clothes. Never Ever Ever babysit his children. Especially if you have your own. And make a general rule to not loan him a dime until he officially introduces you in his life as his partner. And sexy time is easily avoidable if you stop letting him sleep over. Not unless committed openly. I believe these infractions are what puts women in the mindset i do for him, he will do for me. Never assume wgen going on a date he will pay. Always bring enough for your half and uber fare. I cant blame men wholly for this behavior. We as wonen are always shocked when he decides to show his ass. Why? Youve been doing for him with the expectation of reciprocity. Men are not built that way. I serioysly blame this girl in this video for her own stupidity. Bet shell never need to be taught that lesson aga8n.
I wouldve paid for my portion of the meal (what i ate) & left him there! 😁 ...i also feel like whomever asked who on the date should pay for the date 🤗....but any date ive been on even when i said im a pay...ive been stopped from paying! 🤷🏽♀️🪄 so idk lol
