Opinion? There was something pretty wrong with Kim /before/ the meth burned her out from the inside. Having trouble at work? Do you: -Talk to your fiancé? X -Talk to your parents and sister? X -Talk to your boss or HR? X -Talk to a therapist? X -Get a new job? X -Do meth! ✅️ I've heard this story before, and I'm sad to hear this update, but you can't save someone who doesn't want saving. I /hope/ OP is telling the truth and has already grieved his loss, but there's a lot more to work through here, guaranteed.
Wow poor girl, only 3 years of drug use and shes dead. 3 years is such a tiny blip on a lifetime. She could have done so much living. Op talk to a therapist.
My Japanese grandmother said I would be disowned and d3ad to her. The controversy, taboo and stigmas surrounding it amongst Asians is very real. Japanese is the yakuza who now tries to avoid them entirely and working blue collar men. Some onsens will not allow tattooed people in. In Korea you will see idols with the covered up. Feel bad for OP and Kim.😢😢😢😢😢
Yeah... But places in both Japan and Korea won't let you in for being white. I know you are trying to say there is a massive social stigma against tattoos in these countries but, there is a large social stigma surrounding many things. These countries are socially stifling if you do not follow the mold do to their ridged culture. Obviously this is not the cause for every single place in these countries, but for a large portion of both this remains true. Its the reason suicides are so high. There is a massive pressure to conform and those who don't must face an impossible current or drown.
@@ragon39 I lived almost half a year in Japan and I never had any problems because of my skincolor (white/Mediterranean). The only thing I got asked in social places, like onsen, gym or spa or these kinds of things is if I had a tattoo but thats it. What kind of places are you talking about?
@@LeDelan13 I have lived in the United State my entire life. I have never once seen someone berated because of the color of their skin. Its like I said. Not everywhere but it exists and in Japan its pretty notorious. That being said its not common. Just search "Japanese only restaurants" or "Korean only clubs." I believe restaurants excluding Chinese are more prevalent in japan.
i think it's not about the face tattoo, it's about the decisions that lead towards the face tattoo..... you can ink yourself however you like...but being rational about it is a Must....
It's not bad by definition to get a face tattoo, but it's also not something you can do and expect no consequences. OP didn't sign up for being with someone with a face tattoo so he has all the right in the world to not like it and even leave her for it, and it would not make him a bad person if he did. She's not bad for getting a face tattoo, he's not bad for not wanting to be with someone with a face tattoo; they're simply not compatible and that's ok. You go your separate ways.
@@mannydcbianco its funny this story appear to me. i had this talk with my friends about it. if my gf did a face tattoo, we would be done. we just aint the right people for each other.
