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My First HINDU Traditional Funeral 🇮🇳 Foreigner in INDIA Reaction 

Benjamin Jenks - American in India
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@bjenks
@bjenks 2 года назад
Weekly Podcast posts tomorrow with details on upcoming travels and more: patreon.com/benjenks
@sohamojha3381
@sohamojha3381 2 года назад
make a video of indian local train ride
@nmoclips5097
@nmoclips5097 Год назад
Your ganga sound was wrong❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌
@TravelingEddie
@TravelingEddie 2 года назад
Benjamin I didn't know how funerals were conducted in the Tiruvannamalai area. Quite different from the way the body is cremated in Varanasi. Sorry for your friend's loss.
@direwolf7491
@direwolf7491 2 года назад
This method is the Vedic way of cremation. Actually it is more efficient than the way it happens in Varanasi with wood. But this method is very time consuming that's why they use wood now.
@TravelingEddie
@TravelingEddie 2 года назад
@@direwolf7491 I prefer this way over using wood 🪓 as it's better for Bhumi I believe. Maybe 🤔 I'm wrong but what do I know. Jai Bharat 🇮🇳🙏🏻🕉️!
@miloblackmetalhate
@miloblackmetalhate 2 года назад
@@direwolf7491 That is disputable
@direwolf7491
@direwolf7491 2 года назад
@@miloblackmetalhate No it's not I have witnessed both. Also scientifically the old method is more efficient.
@user-lw8wt5jz4s
@user-lw8wt5jz4s 2 года назад
People do not realise death is closer than they think. They notice it when its the turn of their own kin.
@ex-muslimraj8652
@ex-muslimraj8652 2 года назад
1:02 Decades? Thousands of Years!!! They have never stopped!!
@krithikav3937
@krithikav3937 2 года назад
Oh, it must have been too difficult for you to encounter this. Am also in awe and wondering about your adaptability and acceptance of the culture that you are living. I like the way that you are perceiving things. Over the weekend I crossed Thiruvannamalai on my way from Bangalore to meet my parent in laws at Villupuram. I was reminded of you and wondering if i could have met you and say a hi.. wishing you further a great stay in India and all the best!!
@KA20Traveller
@KA20Traveller 2 года назад
Proud to be HINDHU ❤️
@YASHKUMAR-rx4qf
@YASHKUMAR-rx4qf 5 дней назад
MY FOOT 👟👟👟👟👟👟👟
@salempasangasp
@salempasangasp 2 года назад
Mourning period usually it's 16 days in Tamilnadu. There's literally number of traditions art and culture linked to funerals from songs the music to dance to the rituals of feasting people, offering to the dead etc
@thehawkseye3412
@thehawkseye3412 2 года назад
In north, on tenth day mundan and shanti karma is done but brahmbhoj is offered on 13th.
@sohamaditya4957
@sohamaditya4957 2 года назад
13 in odisha.
@karthikeyanMS7
@karthikeyanMS7 2 года назад
Nope mourning period changes in my place ( Thiruvallur ) It depends on the death date
@All_is_well1211
@All_is_well1211 2 года назад
Tamilnadu 11days bro
@Sathish_12
@Sathish_12 2 года назад
in chennai it's mostly half a day 👀 busy people 🤷‍♂️
@whatevertrends3627
@whatevertrends3627 2 года назад
Well india is not just a country it is sub continent so you will find that even cremation pratices are different in each and every state. Sometimes even in same state you will find different rituals during cremation. I am from north India and it is different fro ours.
@ScenicSpotter
@ScenicSpotter 2 года назад
He'z talking so much new stuff about india as me as an Indian don't even heard before.... This Guy'z so passionate about Indian culture.
@manasstudywithme2689
@manasstudywithme2689 2 года назад
The body is temporary the soul is eternal
@Adeetya72
@Adeetya72 2 года назад
Hindu Funeral rituals are different in all over India except that the body is burned sometimes with wood, cow dung, dry hay or many more things and Yes it is very different from the West... But sad to hear your friends loss.. May his soul RIP. And you stay strong.
@TravelingEddie
@TravelingEddie 2 года назад
Namaskar 🙏🏻🕉️. Benjamin. I was in Varanasi too and saw how the funerals are carried out at Manikarnica ghat. Very spiritual and different.
@bjenks
@bjenks 2 года назад
yes definitely
@detectivesdelhi
@detectivesdelhi 2 года назад
Life and death are equal. Both are divine, hence Both are celebrated.
@reyan8943
@reyan8943 2 года назад
@@detectivesdelhi you guys are weird lol...how can you be happy on someones death...isnt it a bit--...you get my point?
@detectivesdelhi
@detectivesdelhi 2 года назад
@@reyan8943 We are neither happy nor sad when someone goes or comes. We don't live in binary of happiness or sadness, good or bad, God or Satan, man or woman, positive or negative. We celebrate because we accept, death is as respectful as birth. And yes, your forefathers were gems not uncivilized or barbarians.
@feedgyantv1780
@feedgyantv1780 2 года назад
@@reyan8943 don't generalize all indians thoughts by the guy above , its upto a human perspective whether he feels sad after someone dies or not . As far as general humans are concerned we indians also feel sad and sorrow when someone die lol
@sijajlum1234
@sijajlum1234 2 года назад
Sorry for your loss, i lost a family member last year due to COVID, I can feel your pain😔
@ElisabethKisselstein
@ElisabethKisselstein 2 года назад
So sorry for your loss. Joining the prayers and thoughts surrounding you and all who knew your friend.
@sibasishdutta9009
@sibasishdutta9009 2 года назад
Ok Hindu funeral is very different in every region of India,except the fact that at the end they burn the body
@sibasishdutta9009
@sibasishdutta9009 2 года назад
I mean I found the south one very different.from my one
@user-dp4mp3sj9g
@user-dp4mp3sj9g 2 года назад
@@sibasishdutta9009 we will send them happy here so they don't regret of leaving and we need to cry(even atmopshere make you cry a lot) to show last respect to him and to say good bey...
@nileshjoshi4232
@nileshjoshi4232 2 года назад
Not really... In some Hindus ( very few) they bury.
@manasstudywithme2689
@manasstudywithme2689 2 года назад
@@nileshjoshi4232 tribes probably
@manunayak5536
@manunayak5536 2 года назад
All hindhus dont burn their body some community burry the dead u can see it in bangalore hindhu burial grounds
@Ubertechgirl66
@Ubertechgirl66 2 года назад
I’m sorry for your loss. 🙏
@arunmalali9894
@arunmalali9894 2 года назад
Whenever I think about funerals . it realises me that DEATH is compulsory for every living thing and it's NATURE . I am now 17 and my parents are already 50 which always makes me sad that in the future I have to live without my parents , I have to eat without my parents . In the whole world there are 7 BILLION people but only parents are the one who is going to take care of us upto their last breath . So , NEVER GET ANGRY OR QUARREL WITH PARENTS AND BE A GOOD CHILD FOR YOUR PARENTS.
@Amongusupdate
@Amongusupdate 2 года назад
I'm happy to see a foreigner who live with us and learning our culture and life !
@Death__0
@Death__0 2 года назад
There is a book named "Death" written by Sadhguru, he explains various rituals of funeral and other aspects related to life and death. I would highly recommend reading it as it can provide us with some new perspectives.
@user-dp4mp3sj9g
@user-dp4mp3sj9g 2 года назад
here in south india we will send them happy here so they don't regret of leaving and we need to cry(even atmopshere make you cry a lot) to show last respect to him and to say good bey....i think its similar in north too.....RIP to your friend ....
@bjenks
@bjenks 2 года назад
thank you
@hellokaun3948
@hellokaun3948 2 года назад
@_SAAGU_ Yes Bro everything is same But In North here we not Celebrate if the person who died in young age
@akshatverma957
@akshatverma957 2 года назад
Entire world is similar to what you guys do in South India. South India is the best place in the world. Stop showing ignorance about North India. If you don't know about North do research & if you don't wanna know about North then stop acting like a southie supremacist.
@user-dp4mp3sj9g
@user-dp4mp3sj9g 2 года назад
@@hellokaun3948 why BRAH??
@hellokaun3948
@hellokaun3948 2 года назад
@@user-dp4mp3sj9g Don't know bro but I think because of he didn't lived his whole life I never ask any one this question but if he/she is old enough then no problem.
@vlogsrj7277
@vlogsrj7277 2 года назад
Welcome to my varanasi brother ❤from varanasi uttar pradesh India🇮🇳
@shankarkrupa
@shankarkrupa 2 года назад
Your emotional quotient is at a very different level. You are blessed (by God or by Nature and the human society, depending on your religious belief/disbelief). Not every Indian or American get to expose all the things you experience and especially perceive. Great soul!
@stupidcanvas
@stupidcanvas 2 года назад
Hope you move forward soon, Dear Friend.
@bjenks
@bjenks 2 года назад
Yes, thank you
@contemporarymatters8106
@contemporarymatters8106 2 года назад
Hi Benjamin. It was interesting to see your take on the Indian version of separation. I presume you took it in your stride. Peace be upon the departed. Om Shanti.
@RS-mn6vc
@RS-mn6vc 2 года назад
Terribly shocked for the loss of your friend. Hope you find the strength to move on. In North India , generally we use wood. Cowdung patty is also an option for sure. The wood/cowdung patty looked insufficient though. Generally bodies keep burning for like a day or two .... this does not seem the case here.
@philipthandal997
@philipthandal997 2 года назад
Yes, In TamilNadu, the cow dung and sometimes wood is combined and the cold mud when applied acts like an oven and burns the entire corpse to ashes the next day morning, it takes like 8-10 hours for the entire corpse to turn to ash by this method. Even when the fuel (cow dung) is exhausted, the oven like setup ensures that the heat is retained and the corpse is burned down to ashes. Nowadays there is more electric cremation, so this way of cremation is slowly fading away.
@snehiljha1815
@snehiljha1815 2 года назад
Day or two???? You sure...
@RS-mn6vc
@RS-mn6vc 2 года назад
@@snehiljha1815 Yes ... sometimes even more than 2 days. In North India people generally go on the 3rd day to collect the remains .. and the first thing we need to do is spray water as there is still some smoldering coal bits from burnt wood ..
@VamanNeurekar
@VamanNeurekar 2 года назад
I am sorry for your loss. My condolences.
@eddyviajero530
@eddyviajero530 2 года назад
My condolences Benjamin for your friend's loss. Namaskar everyone. Sab log kaise hai? Thank you for showing us this in Tiruvannamalai I believe it is about how the cremation is done differently from Varanasi. I was in Varanasi and saw it done differently. However, when I went to Jagannath Puri in Odisha it looked very similar to the one with the cow 🐮 dung patties and mud on the ground. The cremation grounds in Puri are y the ocean 🌊. I was inside of that one too but never took out my camera 🎥 as I had done the research beforehand and understood it would be disrespectful to the grieving family members unless they gave permission. Thank you Benjamin for this informative video. It shows how The Americas 🌎 and India 🇮🇳 are so different regarding funerals.
@striker44
@striker44 2 года назад
Deeply sorry for your loss. Time is the only healer. We let go off our fears once we accept and come to terms with it. May your friend rest in peace. Shanthi 🙏
@riteshsehwag2907
@riteshsehwag2907 2 года назад
in north india we use woods instead of using only cow dunks and mud.
@Just_forfun9140
@Just_forfun9140 2 года назад
You have to cut lots of trees for wood. Cow dung is environmentally better.
@riteshsehwag2907
@riteshsehwag2907 2 года назад
@@Just_forfun9140 might be
@vladimirputin.official.
@vladimirputin.official. 2 года назад
@@Just_forfun9140 I'm from North but still agree with u buddy.. Is cow dung always used or it depends on the person, like if a person can afford costly woods? Do they still burn him under cow dung? (I'm just curious to know)..
@manunayak5536
@manunayak5536 2 года назад
I didn't aprove cremation using wood my dad passed away last month have to spend 8000 just for cremation what will poor people do
@riteshsehwag2907
@riteshsehwag2907 2 года назад
@@manunayak5536 ok u don't approve it but this is our tradition and we will follow it.
@mrindian8198
@mrindian8198 2 года назад
Funeral process is different from what we do in Eastern part, Om shaanti🕉 for your friend. 🙏
@charanteja_
@charanteja_ 2 года назад
And there is a procession of music and drums, people dancing in sorrow. That is because we believe that life the person lived should be respected and celebrated at the end. Every persons journey is celebrated. Saying a happy Good Bye to the current life and wishing them for their next life. 🙏
@RiyaSingh-oh2ju
@RiyaSingh-oh2ju 2 года назад
Om shanti. May shiva provides you strength to deal with this.
@Soniadovetonian
@Soniadovetonian 2 года назад
Sorry for your loss.. may he rest in peace.
@NewDay8429
@NewDay8429 2 года назад
Thank u benj for original unique content.
@deepakpradhan9904
@deepakpradhan9904 2 года назад
🙏💐 om shanti
@PradeepRaajkumar1981
@PradeepRaajkumar1981 2 года назад
RIP to your friend.. Updating this scenario. Cheers, Pradeep.
@rnandkumar
@rnandkumar 2 года назад
"Earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust," Though these words are from some old Christian book of prayers, they sound more evocative of the Hindu method of last rites - cremation which is also followed by Buddhists, Jains and Sikhs, You are right, each Hindu community has its own rituals culminating in cremation. Contrary to what that guide in your Varanasi video clip said, only a fraction of Hindus are cremated alongside the Ganga. Each village, town and city has a designated cremation site usually with an electric crematorium nearby. Ashes are immersed in the nearest river or water body. Ceremonies are now getting abridged to save time, money and agony. Everything of personal use from clothes, personal implements, bedding etc is disposed leaving only ornaments, books and valuable objects as heirlooms or memorabilia. But the departed souls are venerated periodically by the family, usually the eldest son, in commemoration ceremonies. Cremation is perhaps the most sustainable practice. It is after all a final departure, unlike graves that maybe held only for limited periods and must be vacated after their lease expires.
@hindurashtra63
@hindurashtra63 2 года назад
There are actually 4 Kinds of Burials described in Hindu Scripture - Mahabharata : Fire Burial, Earth Burial. Water Burial & Sky Burial. Fire Burial is for People with Families, The most Common type of Burial. Earth Burial is for Sages and One who have taken a Vow of Sainthood. It is also called "Samadhi". Water Burial was for Royalty and Kings. It is called "Jala Samadhi". Hindu King Rama opted for this. Sky Burial is a Mythical Tale of a Hindu Sage "Trishanku" who requested Gods to suspend his Body in the Sky.
@thehawkseye3412
@thehawkseye3412 2 года назад
Eh.. Trishanku didn't ask to be suspended in the sky. He wanted to go to heaven with mortal body but he ended up suspended in the sky.
@msanatani1995
@msanatani1995 2 года назад
death isn't the end; its a new journey !
@shalini8r
@shalini8r 2 года назад
Come north india
@abinash5084
@abinash5084 2 года назад
3:27 The impure part of 10 or 11 days is not to meet /touch anybody as previously people are dying of small pox or contamination related diseases. So they are not allowed to do anything. But few people in India follow these things.
@hellokaun3948
@hellokaun3948 2 года назад
Om Shanti 🙏
@Just_forfun9140
@Just_forfun9140 2 года назад
Sorry for your loss of your friend RIP. We see death and still live like we live forever, consciously in our daily life we do not think this life is temporary. What is the meaning of life? We are not body or mind, we are Atma, our true identity. Watch some near death experience videos on RU-vid (search for 'NDE'), very interesting.
@kafir8546
@kafir8546 2 года назад
Sorry for the loss, RIP
@akshaykamble6480
@akshaykamble6480 2 года назад
This the "truth" of life 🙏🏻🔱
@Panzer_division17
@Panzer_division17 2 года назад
जयतु सनातन।❤️
@warrior7298
@warrior7298 2 года назад
OM SHAANTI. 🕉️🕉️🕉️🕉️🙏🙏🙏🙏
@varghese_Baby
@varghese_Baby 2 года назад
Your video's are grt...
@gamertag8721
@gamertag8721 2 года назад
no such thing as Indian Funerals.... there are 1000s of different traditions across India regarding funeral rites.
@reyan8943
@reyan8943 2 года назад
he said hinduu
@gamertag8721
@gamertag8721 2 года назад
@@reyan8943 actually no such thing either, but he said Indian Funeral vs American Funeral in the video, maybe my comment was flippant, but there really are way too many differences in traditions even among Hindus. There are some similarities, and some common threads like burning the body, etc., but there are so many differences that each sect follows that it makes it really hard to pin down as traditional.
@inrpicmax6541
@inrpicmax6541 Год назад
@@gamertag8721 he wont learn so many types of funeral just for u
@gamertag8721
@gamertag8721 Год назад
@@inrpicmax6541 and no one asked him to, no asked him to even learn of one... but he has a more open mind than that and wants to learn, and enlightening people is not a sin, but thoughtless comments do not add anything to a conversation or promote knowledge.
@bapparawal2457
@bapparawal2457 2 года назад
1) Dying in Varanasi is supposed to provide Moksha( freedom from cycle of life) . In the last few moments a person undergoes BhairavYatna . You are punished for all your wrongdoings. In Hindutva ,a person can only attain moksha if they are not attached to good /Bad Karma. 2) After death , there is 13 day Sutak period during which family needs to have light meal , completely vegetarian ,no onion ,no garlic. Not supposed to engage in any happy event. 3) each Year Shradh (ritual) is done during Period of Pitrapaksh for Shanti of all dead ancestors. After only does pattar stapna at Gaya do you become free from your ancestors debt. 4) If Our Birth Kundali (horoscope) shows Pitra Dosh that means you didn't pay you ancestors debts in previous lives . This will result in loans , Problems in family from parents end in present life.
@user-lm8zd9kd1w
@user-lm8zd9kd1w 2 года назад
Hello Benjamin, I just want to say that In our central India we use mango, Sal and sandal woods for cremation instead of cow dung, but rest of the process is same and also we flow ash in narmada river( another holy river)
@S4sent
@S4sent 2 года назад
sad to hear about the demise of your friend, and definitely its very heavy on heart when you see it first time. but i guess nothing can put more strongly what Hindu philosophy is about when it says this body is temporary and its not you. i was in shock when i first saw a cremation happening I started questioning why i am trying so hard to achieve all this materialistic things when at the end this is the ultimate truth.
@I_Believe_on_myself
@I_Believe_on_myself 2 года назад
Brother you come to Ladakh, Himachal, Uttarakhand you will get snowfall.
@developpa1519
@developpa1519 2 года назад
You may want to read the book named: Death, An Inside Story by Sadhguru to know the nitty-gritty of the death, its process and how its handled in India in general.
@ex-muslimraj8652
@ex-muslimraj8652 2 года назад
We very much celebrate death, because death is holy. DEATH IS THE ULTIMATE TRUTH! We worship death! Shiva!!
@a.m.dineshvannanfinalyear6459
@a.m.dineshvannanfinalyear6459 2 года назад
Doing good man 🔥
@yashpandey3.3.3
@yashpandey3.3.3 2 года назад
We Indians never mourn anything.... We celebrate even the death.... 13 day long functions.. With a "bhoj" at the end. ( bhoj are a major form of yajna यज्ञ )... I am ..although 18 yr old... And i rarely attend any marriage function (which although used to be celebrated for 5 days..yet is compromised)...or any other function.... But when it comes to funeral....i am eager to go... Idk why..but i feel the urge... I feel that they have achieved the end ..the ultimate goal , of this term and are now free... There remains signify their liberty. Or at least try to go there once in at least 13 days.. And yes...13 is not a omnious no. In India..it rather marks a new beginning. 😊
@nandinisingh460
@nandinisingh460 2 года назад
There a place in varanasi called. 'Manikarnika Ghat' where most of the body is cremated coming from far and wide places that is why it is called the burning point of Varanasi. The fire of cremating of bodies never stop, not for a day ,any season and even not during covid as bodies come from hospital for cremation.
@satyanarayanak6047
@satyanarayanak6047 2 года назад
That funeral was different, we generally use wood. Maybe funeral rituals vary from state to state.
@nsevv
@nsevv Год назад
Tibetan Sky funerals, look it up, it is practiced by some in India too.
@Apputv597
@Apputv597 2 года назад
❤❤ come to chhattisgarh i will show you my cite its beautiful✨❤❤
@michaelwalker4355
@michaelwalker4355 2 года назад
Was this Surya's cremation? He was a friend of mine. Good to hear your sharings, I concur...
@bjenks
@bjenks 2 года назад
😊✌🙏
@mixfy926
@mixfy926 2 года назад
This reminded of the horrific pic of Covid -19 Delhi crematorium.... popular all over the world...horrendous nightmare for India.. for days... it looked like a battleground men cremated burning straight from ancient days of war... like greeks and romans etc.. May all Rest in Peace... and may ur friend rest in peace too. Om Shanti
@ullassharma6417
@ullassharma6417 2 года назад
in north the process is different, we use nice wood in open air.
@naturelover5449
@naturelover5449 Год назад
In south also in kerala we use wood but nowadays funerals are done automatic funeral houses after the rituals
@sparklestudios2083
@sparklestudios2083 2 года назад
Sorry for your loss. RIP.
@bjenks
@bjenks 2 года назад
thank you
@mayankverma5234
@mayankverma5234 2 года назад
@@bjenks hope you are fine benjamin and i pray for your friend RIP 😔😔
@UK_TravelCuts
@UK_TravelCuts Год назад
You have to read the 'the death' to understand the death
@swatichauhan7912
@swatichauhan7912 2 года назад
I have never seen anybody die .. except for my grandmother ... And I was like kid everybody was telling grandma passed away .. and I knew that their is something called death after which we can't see the person who has died .. but when everybody was telling me to see grandma I hesitated a lot because I don't believe that she died .. even when people forced me to see grandma ...I looked at her and to me .. she was just like sleeping beauty .. she looked like she was sleeping so tension free .. I didn't cry at all ... But after three days when I realised that I actually don't see my grandma in our house anymore that's when I started to cry ... That's when my aunt told me that grandma has only left her old body but her divine soul is still living and she will take birth in next life and she will be born somewhere else as a baby .. so in a way grandma is eternal .. so I stopped crying but I still miss her sometimes. I used to sleep in her lap and used tk take her hand and put her hand in my head and tell her to move her hand from my eyes towards my forehead and towards my hair .. the warmth of her hands made me sleep instantly .. and what a tension free sleep sleeping under the village tree shade under the open sky the silent smoothing environment of village the slow life , the ringing bells on our family cows ringing and watching the tree leaves shaking slowly slowly along with the slowly passing wind , sleeping with my grandma on her cottage style bed called matcha , she is also sleepy but she with her half closed eyes embraced my forehead with her hand , untill I slowly drift off to sleep .. and that kind of sleep .. I still remember ...
@jp00680
@jp00680 2 года назад
His spirit must be hanging around .. they say it stays for 13days or 10days and leaves for journey ahead after that...
@saravanangovindasamy7301
@saravanangovindasamy7301 2 года назад
Brave man to do this kind of video
@thewanderingsoul71
@thewanderingsoul71 2 года назад
Not brave, but irresponsible and disrespectful. Because he is White, he thinks he can just film any thing he wants to - including a funeral of a PoC. The grieving family probably were too nervous to tell him not to film their dead loved one. Then he puts it on RU-vid and monetizes it for his gain.
@zoltanmende
@zoltanmende 2 года назад
@@thewanderingsoul71 I partly agree with you, I love Ben's channel and personality, but I'd also recommend him to switch off ads on this video. (I believe it can be unintentional not to think about it, the income of this one episode will not effect his channel) On the other hand, as he mentioned, people took photos of the actual uncovered body and posted on Facebook, what sounds shocking for me too, but the family might take it as a way of respect and remembrance. Many famous people's funeral is broadcasted by TV channels as a sign of respect. Also, in Ben's video the body wasn't visible. I don't know, I don't judge, but pretty sure that Ben did not mean to be disrespectful at any way, and surely discussed it with the family. The other thing I want to react is the "white man" part of your comments. I am a white, Hungarian man who lives in London for 10 years now, and I am planning to move to India in the second part of this year, and I can't wait for it. I will not go there because my employer wants to send me there as an expat, or nothing like that. I will go there because during my years in London I had extraordinary positive experiences with Indian people and I became fascinated by their kindness, honesty and friendliness. Also the culture, the food, everything. It made me start watching hundreds of videos about India on RU-vid and those videos strengthened my feelings that I want to visit this amazing country with an open mind to settling down if that is possible. Trust me, I do not feel any sort of superiority at all as a white man, and I am sure that Ben is not that kind of person either. I know, there are some idiots, but those of us white people who want to spend an extended period of time in your beautiful country because of our own wish and love we have towards India (not because our boss or career requires it), none of us feel ourself "superiors" to Indians. I really, really hope and ask that if we ever meet, you and all Indians please do not treat me as "the big white"/"big western" man but with the exact same attitude as you do with your fellow Indians. I am not less and not more, I want to go there because I find your country and nation amazing and I can't wait to spend time there with you, Indians. And if I will ever misunderstand something or due to my different cultural background I will behave inappropriate (it can happen unintentionally), then please, please, remind me and tell me honestly what did I do wrong, so I can learn more about your culture and do not take the same mistake again. :)
@sevenseasgamerz5698
@sevenseasgamerz5698 2 года назад
Death of a closed one is always difficult. This is when god comes in 🙏🙏
@RaviIndia839
@RaviIndia839 2 года назад
You gave last visit to your friend, his soul would be happy to see you. Death is for sure for everyone.
@I_Believe_on_myself
@I_Believe_on_myself 2 года назад
Brother India come to the northern Himalayan states and show the world there are snowy states in India because foreigners think that the temperature of the whole of India remains hot only, Also come to Ladakh, North Himachal, North Uttarakhand Sikkim.
@balakumaran1
@balakumaran1 2 года назад
I'm sorry for your loss Benjamin...just if you're curious, the mud is placed top of the body so that it adds weight from above and suppresses the body during burning. Otherwise literally the body would sit up due to variations in heat and move because of that heat. This is called pugilistic pose. You can google. Modern electric crematoriums which you can find in cities are much more efficient and generates more heat. So there is no need to place mud or wood above the dead body.
@rajendravishwakarma7924
@rajendravishwakarma7924 2 года назад
Condolences to you. Foreigners may intimidated by Indian funeral. Family members abstain from intermingling within the community for over 13 days (it's like family quarantine to avoid spread of diseases as the dead body decomposes). Gangaajal is given to the departed by near and dear ones also as a part of ritual. Tonsuring is part of ritual. Usually an elder Or youngest son lits the pyre without wearing unstitched clothes (dhoti Or vesti). When an old person dies of long fruitful life, there is a may a different ritual from them. After 11-13, after cleansing, a big ceremony is held where bhoj Or food is offering to everyone with invitation.
@prabhasdhfs
@prabhasdhfs 2 года назад
In Andhra we use sandal Wood / teak Wood logs
@venkatabrj3723
@venkatabrj3723 2 года назад
Advise you to study comparing pros and cons of burning the body. keeping the dead body in the box and putting it in the grave.Also study the religious beliefs behind burning the dead body.
@sylviasmith3418
@sylviasmith3418 2 года назад
Greetings friend, may I request that you keep your sound track more at one volume? Your speech is soft, but then the music is much louder. It makes it hard for me to watch until the end. I'm so sorry to impose. I agree with another commenter that the way you perceive your world is very kind and comforting, thank you for that! 🙏 Namaste
@puneetgr8
@puneetgr8 2 года назад
Sorry for your loss. May your friend's soul RIP. In bigger cities in India, we have an electric crematorium where the body is burnt in a furnace in less than 15min. Not all Hindu cultures in India have processions
@talesofhinduism1
@talesofhinduism1 2 года назад
Varanasi is crazy
@jays5186
@jays5186 Год назад
When my Grandmother passed away last year during the deadly second Covid wave, I was the only person to cremate her due to restrictions. From collecting her body to dressing it for cremation and giving her body fire, to picking her remains the next day. I can honestly say that being so close to her, that too alone, made me feel like my time with her meant something, that there was a final and sincere communication, that when I gave fire to her body there was a closure. My family couldnt see her during this process and I find that its difficult for them to come to terms with her death
@KSS768
@KSS768 2 года назад
Condolences bro 🙏.. Crematoriums are available in cities. Yes, these rituals help us move forward. All funeral processions are not accompanied with drums...it changes with different people, society..etc
@philipthandal997
@philipthandal997 2 года назад
In Tamil Nadu, it’s believed that the music with thappu and dancing is a form of spilling out the sorrow. When a death happens to an old person who has lived well it’s considered good death, then the drums and dance will be to celebrate the life the person had well lived and it’s like giving them a happy send off.
@ksrv
@ksrv 2 года назад
I've seen this drums and fireworks during funeral procession in Hyderabad too. I think it is a common practice in the South.
@k.sanjai...
@k.sanjai... 2 года назад
There crematoriums too, like piramid shaped made by black marbles ,that's place looks like a park.
@jeeva7644
@jeeva7644 2 года назад
The reason why family is considered spiritually impure is because, their sadness forms a negative aura in their body. And when they go to th temple, their aura kind of reduces the positive energy inside the temple. So other people wouldn't be able to attain their highest level of spirituality. I read this in an article. I just can't find the right words and form a sentence.
@shankarkrupa
@shankarkrupa 2 года назад
The reason is the ancestors and the close relatives in a different form take more priority than paying homage to God. The ceremonies of the deceased take more priority and everything else is a distraction...not because of negative energy. There is also a need to be aligned with the rest of the family so celebrations, religious festivals are all shelved off temporarily.
@amittiwary7432
@amittiwary7432 2 года назад
Ashes to ashes..Dust to Dust..from earth we gather ..to earth we return..via burial or via cremation.
@ritesh2raj
@ritesh2raj 2 года назад
I think it's better that you are not far removed from death. It is a reminder of our mortality, so we can live sensibly, and not think that we are here forever
@sakshipatel9713
@sakshipatel9713 2 года назад
🙏🙏🙏
@lunachakraborty6211
@lunachakraborty6211 2 года назад
Death rituals are different from religion to religion. But the grieving family and loved ones are the same.
@D.o.l.l.a.r.s
@D.o.l.l.a.r.s 2 года назад
Hindu funerals may differ from each state, if You visit kerela, you can see the finest way of rituals.
@kshitiznavediya2559
@kshitiznavediya2559 2 года назад
Its somewhat different here in my area jharkhand
@user-tz8cg4cf9q
@user-tz8cg4cf9q 2 года назад
Dieing is not the end my friend.. It's the begging..
@sn.m
@sn.m 2 года назад
My condolences. For an outsider, these rituals can be disturbing. Many use electric crematoriums And people can't see the body burning there. Makes it less disturbing.
@nichen6966
@nichen6966 2 года назад
Sorry about your friend. The Cowdung paddy was pretty unusual, could be a specific region also some tend to be very “grand” , whereas generally it tends to be basic and simple.
@AmanSingh-ed9sq
@AmanSingh-ed9sq 2 года назад
So sorry to hear your friends death..RIP. I usually appose the India way of 'cremation' as the process causes pollution to the air. Btw, addicted to ur vlogs.
@user-lw8wt5jz4s
@user-lw8wt5jz4s 2 года назад
Also we use cow dung and wood from mango tree. And in my family we spread some of the ashes in the fields and the rest is poured in the ganges.
@manivelan9672
@manivelan9672 2 года назад
Difficult to process the passing away of a friend or loved one whether it is east or west. In India they do all sorts of ritual for the soul to get liberated from the cycle of birth & death and to merge with the divine!!
@Rutik_pallewad
@Rutik_pallewad 2 года назад
not ganges river , its ganga river
@anjalipandith9818
@anjalipandith9818 2 года назад
Little that I know about the hindu scriptures; what i understand of Hinduism (as i a observer from last 3 decades)to celebrate every change that happens outside and inside. Outside means every Hindu festival is significance of season change markar sankranthi, diwali, siva rathri, dushera all significance change of weather. Inside means family and you, family means we celebrate birth of child, when i same kid turns, moves, walks, every change is celebrated you means a person has several changes like birth, childhood, adulthood, marriage, oldage, dealth... Hinduism celebrates everything from birth to death, from bird to tree, from water to air to fire.... namaste.. every thing is sacret.
@kushagraverma6456
@kushagraverma6456 2 года назад
South Indian funeral*. also, Im sorry for your loss. May their soul rest in peace.
@Arjen_Ranji
@Arjen_Ranji 2 года назад
Pls visit Kerala sir.. If you visit, pls send link 🙏
@senthilraja1818
@senthilraja1818 2 года назад
Hindu is on of the oldest religion . 4000 year years back.... minimum 4000 years.. pls make some video about hindu religion. Hope u make true about hindu religon... If make video may your video going to million views.
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