My First Interview - Shed Tears, Shared Unhealed Scars & Shifted our Perspective! 

i literally broke down when she mentioned 'i don't know what i could offer to this world?'..i felt that way too

I love this notion, that crying is just an emotion that wants to leave the body, is so powerful.

It took me until I was 50 years old to figure this out and I’m still finding my strengths at 54! Thank you both for not editing this emotional moment out ❣️

"Everything I like is based on other people", Omg I felt this.

U r the one who taught us to never forget the Roots and adapt the enriching features of ones culture .

Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness. Power to you for not being embarrassed about it. This conversation was very helpful ❤️

This video came at the perfect time. I’m 25, not feeling fulfilled in my life, and trying to figure out my purpose. I’ve adopted everyone’s idea on who I should be and not live in me truth. I’ve disconnected my with me true self and I’m trying to find her once again. Thank you for being, real, raw, and vulnerable. This helps me feel like I’m not alone, and everything will come together in time. I have faith ✨💛💛💛

I literally cried because I have the same feeling, I don't know where I stand right now, I don't know what I like about myself, I cry too often and don't know what to do in my life. I feel like I am lost in this world. Will start a journal from tomorrow and hopefully it will help me in figuring out things. Can't wait to come back to this video and tell my experience! Thankyou so much Radhi for such insightful and pure video! :)

Oh my God radhi when you were talking it was like hearing myself especially the fact that I don't know what I can offer the world and what do I excel at... So I guess we are all going through the same issues.

I don't know whether you read my message or not. I wanna tell you something. I am a childhood Brain tumor survivor. Living the post surgery life is like shedding my tears everyday and I found you. Now I swear that you are such a beautiful Person who has bought some light in my life. I watch you everyday morning, so my Brain seizures heals on time. Thank-you so much you Gem 🙏💫

It's so crazy. I've thought that you're a beautiful human being from the minute I first saw your content on social media, just you being yourself, goofing around, having this bright, charismatic and captivating energy about you. Not being in the best place myself yet, I love your presence, but also envy it, knowing my energy would be very similar if I just let myself be more free and accept myself more. Seeing you cry because you used to feel like I've been feeling for so long doesn't only make me love you more, it is such an inspiration. You weren't always like this, you alchemized your struggles and remembered your true, authentic self - that's powerful. Being you is what you have to offer to the world. We see you and we are grateful.

I just did this last night. Cried my heart out and then went back to studying. Love this video!

The point about laziness and how it affected in knowing your right skill sets is something i find quite relatable! Thanks for sharing😅

This is me right now, I am constantly asking myself what am I good at, what value can I offer to myself and others. Thanks for sharing.

I cry whenever I see someone cry. So much emotion bottled up. You have a lot to offer the world and so does everyone. We each will offer what we can.

I felt you...and I got teary eyed as well...writing has been my tool to break things down...I'll use it more to express myself as you said...Thank you sooo much for sharing...✨❤

Felt this on a soul level, thank you!! This is literally how I've been feeling and you articulated that so well

„waking up groggy.. why am I feeling this way? this could be something from the week before“ that’s so powerful.. Analyzing why we feel what we feel is so important for healing.. thank u so much Radhi!

Opening up like this requires a lot of courage and I appreciate you doing this for the people who are having a tough time figuring out life :)

This is crazy. What Radhi was going thru in her mind with the mediocrity is the same thing i am going thru right now - feeling scared, fearful, doubting myself, my worth. Couldn't be more perfect to hear it right now! I feel like God is answering my todays prayer!

I felt like this video was sent to me at the most perfect time. I just recently decided to walk away from a relationship that I thought I wanted but I was hurting myself more trying to make it work then filling me with joy. I’m 31 years old feeling like I’m falling behind when it comes to having the husband and children but I feel like I have yet to know who I truly am. Your videos truly help me feel like I’m not alone and to give me amazing resources to help me learn and practice self love.

I cried together with you, so grateful you shared this part too. You are absolutely magnificent 🤗❤️

I can relate to this and I feel gratitude towards you for pinpointing what exactly it is that's lacking in me. Thanks Radhi, I'm in looove with you ❤

God bless the work of your hands. Have a lovely day everyone 😍 winter greetings from Scotland ❄️

This video was beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing! 💕

Oh my goodness. .. I thought I was the only one feeling like this... thank you so much for sharing hun❤️

I just can't wait for you to write your book. You have so much love, insight, and wisdom to give. I'm grateful that you found what it is you feel called to do because so many of us have been greatly impacted by it already. So grateful for you, Radhi. Thank you for your transparency.

Radhi I connected with you on so many levels here. Recently I cried in front of my cousin sisters when they were talking to me about my career plans. I felt so embarassed after crying. I felt weak. I regretted it. But now after watching you it made me feel okay. Its okay to cry there are no restrictions on crying. It is natural. It comes and goes. Thank you so much for making us all feel comfortable. Your presence has such power to lift anyones mood. Thank you so much!!! You help me in so many ways, I love you Radhi ❤❤❤

This is just what we all needed in the moment of time Radhi, thank you for opening your courageous heart so organically, real and for just being human 😘

You are amazing! Thank you 💛 I’m on a self-discovery journey to see what is my purpose and what I can offer others 🙏🏼✨🙌🏼

Thankyou for sharing... I hope you realise now what a beautiful soul you truly are!! You are special ... you are worthy .... you are real!! Be blessed beautiful soul 💓🙏xx

Loved this one Watching anything u put is worth time... PS: Waiting for the meditation video 💙💙💙💙💙

So proud of you Radhi!!!! You’re so beautiful inside and out❤️❤️

I had discovered you and seen this interview... Cried buckets along with you for no reason.. Then on I have seen most of your content.. Let me reiterate, you are very positive.. Loads of love to you ♥️

Oh wow! You might not know but this can be EXACTLY someone needs to hear!! So grateful to you! ❤

Your beautiful light IS helping me so much. I’m evolving rapidly thanks to you!! Keep doing what you are doing!

I'm so grateful to know that I am not alone feeling the same emotions and sharing the same feelings with other people that all we try to do is to figure out what we have to give to this world. and I know, for SURE, we all carry treasures that we need to reveal to ourselves and to the world. much love and gratitude!

You are incredible. The way you thought of yourself is exactly what I’m striving to get out of. You make me feel like it’s possible. Thank you Radhi. I’m really grateful to God for you and Jay.

I feel the same way as she described!! Thank you so much for the video!! Just keep going!!

SO GOOD! Thank you for being so real and raw. Adore you!

this is currently my situation. im 25 and no where near where my teenage self and my family thought i would be. if anything it feels like im going backwards. i feel so extremely lost, i have no idea what my purpose is, what my passion is or what i can offer the world. i feel like my whole life has just been full of mistakes and disappointing everyone around me. i will start to journal and meditate and hopefully i can slowly gain some clarity. Radhi, you are an amazing person and i thank god for giving you the life you have where you were able to create this platform and inspire the rest of us ❤️

The seeking for validation and changing external to get validation.. That`s how I sometimes feel and this interview now gave me a kick in the butt - thank you

Wow!!! what an amazing video, i really ffelt so identified and it is so good to know that there is always something better.

Thank you so so much for sharing this!! This is so powerful and i love how you just being you. You are a beautiful gift 💝💗

It takes courage to show what is perceived as “weakness”. Thank you for sharing your story behind the interview and the unexpected moments in the interview. 👍🏽🌸

One of the most relatable interviews for me. I go through the exact same phase of self doubt every single day and it's so difficult to deal with

I loooooved that video! thanks for sharing!

The reason for me being a better person now is surely you and Jay's videos. You both have helped me grow in so many ways. I feel so blessed that I found y'all.❤️

When you cried, it brought tears to my eyes because it was so relatable ❤️ you're love

When you cried I cried too.. I know exactly what you mean about thinking 'I'm not good at anything', or maybe you are good at something but the world doesn't think it's valuable.. I wish I had known earlier that I had to put the effort to know myself instead of expecting others to tell me what my own value is

Thank you so much for sharing this video! I found it extremely helpful! Sending lots of love your way ❤

Thank you for sharing, this was truly touching. I’ve felt this way many times, but acknowledging that it’s okay to not feel okay has helped me move forward. ✨

The version of Radhi that I see in this video is the version of me currently..Dittoo.....so when I see the best version of Radhi now..I certainly have firm faith that I am going to bloom very soon into my best version too.... Thanks for this Radhi.......

Girl I would cry too ! I remember this interview to this day and we can all relate.

Your tear made me cry😢We can see how far you’ve come to get where you are right now. I am so grateful for you sharing this🙏 I love your energy and all your videos!! Keep shining❤️✨

This was very useful! This is EXACTLY what I was going through last year and earlier this year. Finding who I am was my biggest challenge ever - and scary as hell. I love this!!!! Thank you❤️

Such a beautiful soul! So much strength in her honesty.

This is resounding with me. I am currently in a phase where I am stuck in life not knowing what I am good at. I just don't think I am good enough at anything. It's affecting my job , my personal life and my self confidence. It's easy to blame a toxic job or overwhelmed by responsibilities. But frankly that's not what I wanna do so end up blaming myself.

I feel like that right now!! I’m so glad you have the growth past that!!! 🙏🏾 sending so much love ❤️

Everything you said I related to, it’s the uniqueness on the inside that makes the external even more beautiful!

Whenever it comes to how to be as a woman, you're my role model. In every way, the way you have groomed yourself is an inspiration. Every one talks about spiritual" knowing thyself" very few hv talked about personality wise in material world, how to know yourself. It's so very important. You hv broken down your process of knowing yourself very wisely, if at all, there's more to share structurally about your process, I'm sure it would be a treat for us. Love you Radhi! More power to you😘

Aww 🥺🥺 this really hit home. I feel like we should talk to ourselves and our loved ones as we do animals and children we would never tell them they aren’t good enough. I think of myself as the little girl me, I’d never tell her she isn’t beautiful enough or smart enough! 💕💕

Omg!! I just found your channel and loved it already. I cant stop watching you. Thanks for this amazing content💕

Thank you for sharing! 💕 you are such an inspiration

Its soo true that Processing what we feel at a moment is 99% of dealing with it ... Love you Radhi

I literally cried when you did😔 You are wondering person and I wish that you never feel the same bcoz you have so much to offer to this world ❤️❤️❤️ Even if u give smile to some guy just imagine it could be the best moment for hi😂😇😇😇😇

coming across your channel was a random accident but I am so happy i did. thank you for being authentically yourself.

Thank you so much for posting this. I feel like I'm only mediocre at everything and I know it's because I'm lazy. I don't know what I could offer the world. This is so encouraging. I'm so glad I found your channel.

Loved this!!!!💕🙏🏻

oh my god!! that is so true! I as same do the writing thing... seriously you inspire me a lot :)

I absolutely love you Radhi! You’re such an amazing person and your energy is so contagious ! You really give me major inspiration

So much love to you!!! Thanks for sharing!

*STORY TIME!!* i remember watching this interview on women of impact and i really resonated with what you said. i also can be lazy when it comes to goals/aspirations and i would sit and wallow and wonder " why am i not good enough". I had to take a moment to acknowledge that i wasn't even trying so ofc im not seeing results!! I actually started my spiritual journey at the beginning of quarantine (thanks to Radhi) as I had just graduated from uni and BOOM covid happened :( i lost my job and had to move back home with my parents and i felt like the plans i had (getting engaged, moving out, getting married etc) were paused. i was really frustrated but i also appreciated the positive impacts of this pandemic. OFC the pandemic sucks but if i truly want to be grateful, you have to try and see the silver lining if possible. I recognized that this pandemic allowed people to truly slow down and realize what is important in life. in the past, ive had a tumultuous relationship with my parents (alcoholism, being raised in a south asian household, toxic aspects of south asian culture etc.) When i was 18, i couldn't wait to move out of that toxic place and go to uni. once uni finished and the pandemic hit, i was really anxious about going back to the toxic household that i left. i'm glad to say that things are MUCH better, not only because my parents have learned from their mistakes (and mind you, alcoholism and other issues are still not resolved) but as i got older and talked to therapists, i realized that i was holding onto negative energy towards the way my parents acted and i was ALWAYS filled with anger. i would spew out anger to people who definitely didn't deserve it. Don't get me wrong, i don't like certain things my parents say or do, but i learned that i can control the way i react to situations and i can't change or control other people. I let go of my past anger and really focused on how i can act and react to situations. doing this has improved my relationship with my family and i NEVER thought i would ever get to a place where i could accept their flaws and be happy at the same time! The reason i was so unhappy is because I did that to myself, i cant blame my parents forever and it's not productive to blame them either. Blaming them did nothing for me other than resent them. Once I stopped blaming them and just accepted that these are the cards I was dealt with and I am still blessed in other aspects, I was able to start my healing process. It took 23 years LOL but atleast I'm there now. I also learned from Radhi the concept of meditation and spending time with yourself. They way she explained it was like a light bulb going off in my head LOL She said that we spend so much time getting to know others and getting into relationships or friendships but we dont take the time to do it ourselves. it is not selfish if your intentions are pure. Because of Radhi, i have established a morning meditation routine and i try my best to incorporate mindful practices throughout my day to reel myself back in and ground myself. I understand that I want to be a better person not for myself but for other people. I want to be the best version of myself so that i may be a better person for people who interact with me. When i was younger, i was really religious but for the wrong reasons ( i just followed what i was told) and i wanted to be a good person so i wouldn't get into "trouble" with God LOL But now, i want to be a good person just because. That's it. Just because. Not to get anything in return or to feel good about myself. Just because. One last thing because this is a long comment LOL In Radhi's evening prayer, there is a line she says which also set off another " aha!" moment in my head. She says *" Let me not judge others for their weaknesses and downfalls, as Mine are no less than theirs."* I really resonate with that and I try my best to live by this everyday (its really hard LOL but im trying).

I am blessed to find you in my life So so grateful to you❤️❤️💕🙏🏻

This video was so helpful and just in time! Thank you so much for sharing it

I love watching your motivational and self-growth talks. Listening to you and even watching your interviews on such topics have me realizing that I am facing very similar issues. I would love if you start a podcast series on such topics because listening to you and processing such things I find really help me

It's so powerful to see someone being honest about their self. When you see others experiencing the joy you always wanted,how to overcome jealousy and self doubt?

This is me still.. I feel like I need to do something but still don't know what it is I need or want most times... I have been lazy to actually know myself deeper.... Thanks so much... I am a new subbie and feel so blessed to have found this channel and video ... .... Be blessed Radhi

That was so raw, honest, and empowering. I loved it. Thank you for sharing this with us.

Thanks for sharing your emotions. You are so brave and smart at such a young age. I am 62 and have never even thought what do I have to offer the world. My whole life has beebn dedicated to raising mu beautiful daughter and working super hard to stay afloat and now I am retired and I am where you are at. You are way ahead of the game. You are a beautiful soul and I just found your channel yesterday. You were making a beautiful salad and I love salads so I wanted to see what you were preparing. You have way more to offer than making salads. You have a gift of giving and it shows in your videos. I am back for more of your videos. You have my attention. Well done !

Crying is my favorite release. I tend to cry in the shower. I feel so much better after. I have imposter syndrome. I’m constantly asking myself “who am I? Why was I put on this planet? What is my mission while I’m here?” I still don’t know any of the answers to these questions.

Watching you has changed my life. I can never express in words how much I appreciate and want to be like you Radhi didi! Thank you so so much 💛💛💛 You have a lot to offer to the world and have already done so much for me! The best thing I did in 2020 was to start following you 🥰🥰🥰

Thank you for being transparent and open. It truly helps many.

You are such a pure soul...you don't know how you helped me...thank you so much!!❤️

“We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes - understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.” Sharing some love from small RU-vidr. I am believe in you even if I don’t know you.

Thank you for this ❤️ I love how real and authentic you are, I love your honesty. You’re helping me and other people more than you know so you’re offering a lot to the world -thank you!! 🌸

You are so amazing. This touched my heart and I was crying along with you. I relate to this so much. You are sunshine, girl! Your warmth radiates and just watching how much you say you’ve grown to get to this stage , is amazing.

Thanks so much for sharing! I feel exactly the same way and it helps a lot to know that I’m not alone. And trusting that the time will come 💓

U are my inspiration.. whenever I'm down... I'll sure see this video again and again... U set me in a right path.. thank u radhi... Lots of love for u❤️✨

This video made me cry.. Because I can relate it to myself.. Thank you so much for this video radhi it helped me a lot.. Sending you lots of love❤️❤️

Absolutely loved watching this. You’re such a bright light, happy to be following your channel, Radhi 💛 thank you for being so candid here

I have been in that phase for about 15 years, starting my mornin routine / meditation / journaling / gratitude and hope it’ll help me to become the best version of myself and serve others. Thank you for sharing. It is a Bad day and this will def help me get through it and change its vibes. Thank you 🙏💓

It has definitely been hard for me as a man to cry at things I want to cry about. It is nice to know that it is also ok for guys to be emotionally vulnerable and not be condemned by it cos crying has always been a human emotion.

You are so amazing 😭❤️❤️

First up, you are so adorable in more ways that you'd probably think of and we absolutely love and admire your authenticity! Thank you for leading by example and for sharing your personal insights with the world...

Thanku so much radhi, lots of love and wishes for you✨❤️keep shining and smiling 💕✨

I remember when I felt jealous of my boyfriend because he was making a lot of money...and I wasn't .I wasn't sure what I was doing and I felt quite bad about that how can I feel jealous of my own boyfriend .its not that I wasn't happy for him but that jealousy came from my own insecurity and that feeling just could not let me love him.so finally I decide to confront him and let it out of my gut .and find out where am I laking or what is that thing I am good at or how can I earn money for the things that are important to me..And that thing was a liberation .i feel I could love him even more❤️

You’re so beautiful, even more so on the inside. I adore you so much. 🤍

I super love your videos!! I'm so glad to meet you (virtually) 😅💛

Thank you so much for sharing this!!! You are such a beautiful being and this (your vulnerabilities and honesty about them) makes you so relatable! I will definitely check the full interview soon! Sending you love from Portugal ❤