My Husband Cheated on Me with My Best Friend, So I Divorced Him and Cut Ties with Her. Now She Is... 

My heart broke for OP losing her dad, husband and best friend all at once is such a blow.

I just know Jake was kicking his feet and smiling while reading the updates about him.

The people who said "All men cheat" and that OP should still remain in her marriage are the same people who post on SupportforWayward (yes there is a support group for cheaters 🤮) boo hoo stories on how they're the victims.

Jeez, I'm a straight guy and I want me a Jake.

Well, Jess is unhinged... She says she showed up at OP's house to apologize only to rage and almost kidnap her kid later on... This person definitely loves attention

I’ve heard this story. OP sounds so sweet and loving. Such a shame her ex couldn’t appreciate her and the love she gave.

I think that... Tyler is upset that OP isn't losing her ish emotionally and isn't jumping up and down trying to beg for a scrap of his attention Ditzy (the newest Flavor of Tyler's Life) was trying to go for a power play and was seriously denied Jess was trying to drag OP down emotionally and when that failed, tried to act as if nothing happened. When that was shut down, tried to destroy OP's life. The three of them are toxic pieces of filth that I hope never have another moment in the lives of OP and the people she cares for Edited to add: eagerly waiting for the Wedding Update

"He's only staying with you for the children", however she keeps coming up pregnant. Side chick girl you need to wake up.

OP has the best support system. Also OP x Jake ship! I am for it.

My mother was married for 10 years, my father passed away and for the last 18 years she hasn't dated anyone, her answer "I have met my soul mate" that is the love I aspire

single motherhood is ROUGH sometimes. my sons father decided that cheating on me and becoming an alcoholic was more important than our son. i’ve never spoken poorly about him to my son. i give age appropriate answers to his questions…he hasn’t asked to see my son since he was 18 months old

People who could do this to someone in such a vulnerable position are truly awful people. Something is missing inside of them, they are shallow incomplete people with no heart or soul. It’s too evil to do to a loved one. If I was that man’s father, I would tell his new girlfriend exactly what he did and why she’s not safe with him. Why would literally ANYONE want a man that bad??? It defies belief. It’s the stupidest choice on the planet-being with a known multiple time cheater who abandons his children. She must not be very smart at all.

Tyler honestly expected to be allowed in the delivery room of his EX wife?!?

Ladies, get yourself a Jake

May Tyler’s life fall to ruin and man Jake is amazing and a real man, Tyler is a walking talking joke and divorce number two will happen for sure, hope his parents disown and disinherit him and leaves everything to the kids he abandoned with OP.

One thing about me is I don't tolerate cheating AT all. When getting with my boyfriend, I told him that was relationship ending. I don't understand the logic behind cheating and putting someone through such an emotional rollercoaster. This may be cliche to say but once a cheat, always a cheat methinks

i heard this story when the last update was jake and op spending time at her dates house and the ex husband was arrested because of the baseball bat attack, glad she is fine

Jake is totally a Simp for you and the kids. And that's totally adorable and awesome. I wish you both the best

At some point, you just wonder if your so deep in denial that you only accept your version as reality.

i absolutely ADORE that as soon as people wanted to send her mail to keep her in good spirits, she immediately directed them to donate to homeless shelters! and to show that her charity wasn't surface-levels, asserted that she regularly donates and volunteers at local homeless shelters. i also genuinely believe that she knew giving out mail addresses would pose a giant security risk to her and her kids. she did mention that if tyler or jess saw this story on reddit or tiktok, they would immediately recognize it as OP. tyler's violent behavior prior, and jess' desperation to feel superior to OP would've lent themselves to risks toward the childrens' safety.

Even if every man cheats its not a good idea to stay with unstable people. There are too many stories where the guy just gets emboldened to do far worse than cheating

Tyler was trash but girl ended up getting herself a king.

All men do not cheat, and any comment suggesting that they do is LITERAL bullshit.

OP x Jake fanfics popping up everywhere

Never ever quit your job...ever!

The Ex texting her new boyfriend to remind him she was "Used Goods", lol... Kind of pathetic, but an apt analogy nonetheless. As it turns out, some people throw things away too hastily, before realizing their value. As such, men of discerning taste, with an eye for quality can find some real treasures on the second-hand market. Sounds like her ex was unintentionally correct for once, he just wasn't able to follow that train of thought to its inevitable conclusion.

Thank goodness OP and her dad left before the husband could kill either of them, cause it sounds like, from his reaction, that was a distinct possibility. What a scumbag.

Jess is some piece of work. It's no doubt she loves them married men. I agree with some comments saying she's unhinged and obsessive both towards wanting Tyler back and her anger towards OP. Not to mention Jess surly loves getting attention in the wrong places. As for Jake, he has a heart of gold. I don't even need to repeat what OP said about him, he's such a gem. I wish nothing but the best for OP, her kiddos, Jake and her family.

Never give up your job...ever!

49 MINUTES??? PLEASE FEED US MORE WHILE I WASH THIS DISHES PLEASE🙏🙏🙏🙏

So OP lost a father, best friend (practically a sister) and husband almost at once and people have the audacity to call her names and suggested to stay with cheater? After all her sweet comments hearing people's comments... Bruh💀 And after everything he's done Tyler better not crawling back to OP and their kids because "he's want's to play a family" with his gf's kids

Wow , her support system is amazing. 🙌❤ Love that 👍💕

11:20 did she just say people told her to stay bc all men cheat?!?! wtf

Jake has been waiting a while and when they are ready he really sounds like a real man.

So is anyone taking bets as to the Wedding date for OP and Jake.🥰

She started out saying “Tyler” was really sweet, but I’m guessing that is just in case her kids see it later and also because she was already grieving for so long she didn’t my notice he wasn’t a good husband or father. The fact that the kids didn’t notice his absence is very telling. It also sounds as if bestfriend was only bestfriend because their moms were bestfriends and not because they actually would have anything in common otherwise

All these stories always sound fake but i am always here for them. Like fanfic soap operas.

MIL: Ruth FIL: Joe Ex BFF Parents: Angie and Bob Ex BFF: Jess STB Ex: Tyler Ex BFF’s Brother: Jake

I want to believe the best, but I'm a bit worried about how fast Jake got in with the kids..... You never really know people no matter how long you've been friends.

Ive heard this story before but didn't know that there was more to it

Tbh this gives me major "jake made up this story and wrote it to fantazise about getting with a married girl he has a crush on"

there's an update now (two, actually): in the first part she says Jess OD'd and left a letter for OP in which she says she saw OP unhappy and decided while high that she needed to get Tyler away from her but she fell in love instead because of the lies he told her. OP doesn’t believe this and says she thinks Jess started using after the affair was discovered. the second part says Jake asked her to marry him and they’re having a long engagement

Imagine if jake was the master mind who made his sister fell for tyler to get to OP

Kinda terrified of the fact people can go from loving and attentive to trashing their own home and punching holes in walls and attempting B&E on their hospice-bound in-laws when its revealed that they've just been caught cheating 😢😮

So glad she had a good support system

"once, not if, they get married" I squealed a little

Before anyone says that religious people are the ones saying all men cheat…. Then you didn’t interact with a religious person you interacted with someone who uses religion as a means to get what they want or make themselves look better. ​​⁠ as a Christian the Bible actually says that a couple should divorce if there is infidelity and while yes the sin it’s self is forgiven by God meaning that the cheater would still have a chance at heaven if they truly regretted the sin (not at getting caught). I know a lot of lukewarm Christian’s (people who claim to be Christian but bend the rules for themselves) will try to say this but in reality they are lying to themselves. And while I can’t speak for all religions is know Islam doesn’t even allow dating and only allows multiple wives if the first wife is okay with it.

Reddit could be both the most healthy and most toxic app at the same

I hope I'm wrong but I find something about Jake is unsettling like when op asked for gf title he said she already was.You know the kind to come like your knight in shining armor that actually are a stalker vibes.He's sus

Trust me there's nothing unique about this story for him to realize it's about him. There are so many about the husband screwing the bff or sister or even the mom, one time it was the brother. There's nothing unique about a cheating story. It's all the same.

I find Jake weird, saying that so shortly after op found out of the cheating. At least op kept it slow.

I am pretty sure Jake is going to be a friend for the rest of his life

You should refrain from another relationship for at least a few months! Don't jump from man to man.

You know these are fake because they talk about their husband in the present tense like a good guy. Nobody who actually went through this would do that.

Holy 🐄, this looks like it'll be unhinged. Oh yeah.... FIRST

Idk I know the people were all excited with Jake but for me he gives me creepy vibes, the confession when she was in her lowest, the love bombing, the weird "retirement", how he took every chance to get closer, like when the weird friend came to her house and then he saw that as a opportunity to live with her, askung daily for her kids photos, even that her son is saying that he wsnt for Jake to be his dad is weird, its too soon, sound like he is even manipulating the kids into "loving" him, plus he is the brother of the weird obsess friend. Idk... too weird. I hope I am wrong and they live happily ever after.

Well, all in all I think this worked out well.

Shocking that OP finds out ex was abusive later on, it's crazy that anyone could be that much of a jackyl and hyde. I hope the kids can call Jake Dad eventually, and they have all the love and security they always deserved.

When Jake's name was first mentioned , i knew . 😅 Then , after the 2nd time , " i knew , knew ." 😂🎉.

Thanks for the fresh updates Secret voices 👍

I had tears in my eyes when Jake showed up for Christmas

I’m so glad I got a full update😢😢OP I LOVE YOU TOO! GO JAKE

Wow! Sounds like a film script.

I read this up to I think the 2nd update a couple years ago and then lost track of the story I'm glad that everything turned out all right

Tyler is the one who should have left this Earth, not OP's Dad. What an absolute scrumbag. Trying to punish his kids by being a deadbeat dad as a result of his own trashy behavior. Jake is what Tyler should have been.

34:38 would it be courting/courtship

I think op is s real tough woman, pregnant, losing father, losing bff, losing husband, and still stand tall and think through everything

This has to be the hardest storm I've ever weathered, but dammit I know I'll sail through ❤

Crazy

The fact Tyler called OP, the mother of his kids, "used goods" shows how Tyler is crap

I remembwr when this story was read on Smosh. They only got the fkrst major part not the updates since. But the filmed it as thongs were "breaking" so its nice to hear how things have progressed.

34:08 I literally skipped to this part cus I didnt wanna watch this shi for 50 mins and I just hear "I have friends who practice witchcraft and I love they're so passionate about it" I GOT THIS IN MY RECOMMENDED FOR THE FIRST TIME BRUH

You know this is not real right?? Like irl this all never happened. Op was found out and actually admitted it. So embarrassing

It always makes me laugh in a bitter way when people act like it's impossible for people to disown a kid because it literally happens for the most inane shit every day. My husband has been on his own since 14 and is struggling with the results of a childhoods worth of medical neglect but suuuuuuure people become saints of forgiveness when they shoot a kid out of their nethers 😂😂😂😂

Cheating is not the worst thing that can happen to you and ruining people’s lives over it is cruel. From experience I feel like the emotional, physical, and financial abuse much worse than cheating. Bringing everyone into it is actually childish. OP should’ve handled it like an adult. Not saying what her husband and bff did was right, but it was between the three of them…

we need to get ourselves a jake

34:59 Jake sounds more like a father and husband than Tyler ever was. Also, very suspicious how Tyler OP quit her job stating daycare expenses. The truth was that he wanted OP dependent on him so even if cheated he had her money and baby trapped. Did not work

Soooo...the whole gay/LGBT thing was unnecessary and a bit odd....

So happy with the updates !!

Nothing says, "I want to be forgiven" like making false accusations to the police, hacking all their social media and smearing them in the workplace 😇😇😇

This story appeared on Smosh ❤❤❤❤

I know this is almoste certainly fake but it's entertaining and helps me time the dinner and if it's true well with friends like that who needs enemies.

When OP was discribing her dad, I started thinking of my grandpa for no reason 😂 I do miss him though. (He is NOT dead)

OP probably just has cats... This became more fake by the minute 😆

30:15 Ah yes, that cheating prick is probably badmouthing her to his new Victim, him denying that these kids are his is a lying sceem to accuse the breakup reasons on her, saying it's his ex fault, saying she cheated and got Prego by another guy and that's why "he left" and that his ex wife is obsessed over him or something, sounds about right in character for him, and this chick straight up eats any shit he serves her as this jealous desperate Chick feels like everyone is coming for "her great man". I do drag her as for how she just believes anything he tells her, being antagonistic towards OP without even knowing her or having seen anything about that situation. Gurls and guys, if a new date badmouths his ex without proof and try to portray their ex as "the crazy one", doubt it, and demand proof, go and try to hear the other side first before believing the first one who run towards you scouting bunch of accusations with no proof... Lot's of time the victims don't say anything meanwhile the Toxic Narcissists will try anything to ruin someone's life for fun, even spreading lies for months about you, meanwhile smiling in your face, then do anything to trigger in you an mental breakdown (reactive Abuse), meanwhile they themselves immediately act calm, saint and reasonable, because they now got what they wanted and record it to spread that video, portraying you as the Abuser and themselves as the Victim who try to reason with you to "save the relationship", just so they can isolate their Victim even more and gaslighting their victim with "see, you are the problem, not me, I stayed with you even though you constantly abused me, because I try to help you!" And when the relationship still ends, you are the bad guy, them having "video proof" of how you just had an mental breakdown from all the abused you have faced, which they of course will never show or admit...

Dude I remember when this first came out I didn't know even more happened

The op updated recently, and Jess is dead. She overdosed and was found in her apartment.

Jake you dropped this 👑 👑👑 #teamjakealltheway #ineedajakeinmylifetoo

Tyler is such a garbage human being to treat OP and the kids this way. Also, why is Tyler like this and Jess? I really do not understand

The other party in our custody dispute would go NC for 11 months and 15 days. She did it twice.

Many people who cheat dont see their so as human they expect their spouse to be perfect they use one flaw as a reason to cheat and repeat... they think they re above their spouse on some way or another so when the spouse that was cheated on does not beg crumble and lose their mind their ego cant take it. They also think they own their spouse so even though they cheat they still believe their superiority owes them the time body energy and all that innocent spouse was doing for them thua the nagry meltdown or them accusing the innocent spouse of breaking the family when they re the one cheating .They think themselves better and take it as a defiance when the innocent spouse stand up to them and refuse to stay or refuse their crocodile tears. Cheaters see themselves superior thus they think they can cheat and you owe them forgiveness and should be grateful they chose to be with you....😂

Girl wanted what her mom and dad had. Jake is it, unfortunately he doesnt work at statefarm. Yet....

Tyler sounds like a terrible human being. Jess is too

Growing up i went to a school that focussed strongly on the teachings of jesus personally, and i got a nothing but respect for people who lean on the teachings of love and kindness.

I love this story so much 🥹 I love Jake

Ok look she wasn't concerned for him.

Awesome ❤

Sweetheart your dad was there for the birth of your new child, that I promise 😊

Hmm...I don't know why, but while listening to this story, I kind of had this tingling feeling that somewhere or somewhat, Jake and Jess had planned for this (or probably the whole family had "planned" this, including Angie)...

#TeamJake ❤ what a sweetheart.