My Husband Has A Girlfriend & I Have A Boyfriend | LOVE DON'T JUDGE 

Desiree Evans that's the vibe I was picking up

Clearly!

Well if they were only on each other then the others would feel left out because they are not romantically involved. Doesn’t matter whose “more into who” that’s the whole point of it all. It’s not a competition. Plus the married couple share a room

Desiree Evans I had to read this a few times I was confused as all hell 😂😂

I was picking this up too. That could be why they opened their union up. She also stated that she has a phobia so she thought it would good for her husband to get a girlfriend he would enjoy that compliments his personality and not just stuck in the house with her all the time. He cares for her and they are married divorce isn't cheap.

She has so many loving hoomans though. She's living the dream.

She is the most spoiled dog I know.

That's funny!

Poor dog

simplycbh LOL

I lost you lol

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lol. just so confusing these people in the video

I read about the lion family and the dog family So you have to choose Instinct is instinct

Live your life as you are... But yr father Adam and Eve..curse you What the hell is this dirty family

Ikr😂

😂😂😂😂

Let me drive that pink lambo

@Jason Bouphasavanh doesn't matter if your opinion of them is postive, that's still judging.

Ikr😅😅😅😅

Ikrr XD

Same !!! I came from snap chat

@@cosmicmatcha707 me too 😂😂😂

Beth Berryhill i was typing the same comment!😂😂

Lmao guys

simplycbh wait his girlfriend also has a husband?!?

Orange Lazar yeah she said he’s finishing grad school

@@gracelazar3069 yeah and they still wanna kid and they say it wont negatively affect the kid im like waaat? Lady what about your actual husband?

Simps

Sure hope they ask the girlfriend's husband how HE feels about her having kids with Tavish BEFORE they just do whatever the heck they want to do!

Omg it's like agoraphobia is something that can develop or causes overwhelming anxiety in some situations and not others.

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Hahahahahahaha makes sense doesn't it 😂😂

Agoraphobia isn’t necessarily being unable to leave the house at all some have it worse than others for one busy places can be impossible to go to for others it can be not being able to go a foot outside your house and it can fluctuate sometimes leaving my house is impossible other days I might be able to go to the store it seriously depends on a lot of things yes I have been diagnosed by a certified psychologist

President Nig Bips 😂 I thought the same

LeahAtz Her boyfriend is her Dad😂

LeahAtz 😂💀😭 omg

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Exactlyyy 😭

Lol

Dead😂😂😂

Dead😂😂

Some guy on The internet 😂😂😂

Huh

Who looked like a girlfriend that I had in bed

hahahahahhha

😂😂😂😂

@@martinverner5670 woah crAzY

They probably have such low testosterone levels that they no longer have any feelings of jealousy or dominance. They truly might be happy due to their low testosterone levels.

These are very messed up times

That’s my question also. What about grad student husband??

@@andrew85tw Only low testosterone leads to aggression. High testosterone leads to happiness and optimism.

@@baconfluffy I don't think so..like medically. Think of roid effects...although that is on extreme end lol

LOL

😂

lol

He adopted the dolphin that was adopted by my kangaroo and now my kangaroo wants to be part of the group.

Lol

Olivia Berger immediately as i heard him speak.. wow

Agree

Exactly!

Judging someones sexuality based upon their voice and look really? That’s where we’re going?

@@savvy.5682 yes

We haven't thought that far ahead yet as we don't know when that will be, but we have some ideas. -- Bettina

Or when she has kids with her boyfriend

That's the question I searched the comments for! They are talking about kids but what happens when he comes back. 😬😳🤷🏻‍♀️ so weird. I could never

I was also wondering.

@@BettinatheGreat ok cool what's your instagram

How so? I don't prefer one over the other. -- Bettina

@@BettinatheGreat ..just an observation based on body language..

lol.

@@donnar9864 Interesting...

@@AfricanGirl You're all over this video huh? Do you even know your dad?

Same here

I would rather be single, than be with 99.,99999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% of the worlds population... What's your point?

marumie me yep

😂😂😂💀

Omg right

He looks really miserable being there

@Krisha Patel They don't have a romantic relationship.

John Wick get a dog

Same. I think its great if people can be in a poly relationship but I could personally never be in one. I'd just feel weird and I would get jealous

I'm sure jealousy is part of this mess of relationship

@Shari byrd hm wut?

@Shari byrd The fact that you just referred to it as "mates". Yeah, yuck Also, jealous and insecure? How about you respect your partner and not cheat on them?

the thought of my wife being with anyone else brings feelings of disgust and rage. I would never betray her.

C a k e the only reason it’s ok is because they are cheaters and to bring the other person home would be considered ok since their partner knows about it ,but they are MARRIED!! I wish my spouse would, I can’t see how they think this is ok

Awww Look At All The Insecure Folk In This Section 😂😂To Each Is Own....Our Ancestors Used To Do This...GET A GRIP

Chün Łi has nothing to do with insecure but everything to do with STDS and everything else that lifestyle comes with. I go by the Bible and there it’s says one MAN TO ONE WOMAN SO IF YOUR THINKING THIS IS RIGHT YOU HAVE TO ONE DAY ANSWER TO GOD

Lil China God isn’t real and technically, there are two women and two men. Sooooo, everything balances out in the end. 🥴

lol.

I know, my husband came to me asking about doing that and I straight shot him down... No way in hell! He wasn't thrilled with my reaction but we're working through it, of course I'm always paranoid that he is going ahead with it, but I have been keeping my eye out for things.

@@laurawallace1346 you need a real Man honey

@@servantofthemosthigh2525 lol, I don't know if they make those anymore..

@Blue and I do worry about that, but I won't divorce him until I have proof. It would hurt our children too much.

I noticed that too, but it is edited so maybe she just had the most interesting things to say.

She probably pays most of the bills😂

It’s not confidential !

Scowl Face Not sure if I should say the next line or we will just end up writing the whole song 😂😂😂

😂🤣🎶

Hope husband is coming out of grad school with a Doctorate in psych.. .. as the whole bunch of them is gonna be needing it.

They are all in their 30's 🙄

I though the same

@@marissabones me too lol

exactly

Bruh sameee

Jamie Yarbrough we are here for you. Just one step away

Same tho

Jamie Yarbrough small town, they bored so much time in the hand

Jamie yarbrough it's better to be single than in this kind of relationship. Life is short why to risk your life coz this sort of relationship has dangers of diseases . Better wait for the right guy who will b with you in your good and bad times. You sound good gal so take your time and choose right one who will be with u for rest of life.

mzunique22 😂

He'll yes

What I thought

Exactly what I was thinking!

Lol 😅 I am not alone ...but nose these people in open relationship are like that-living in denial

only stupid foolish people do this n think of that excuse to be married to go and have GFs and BFs

@@AfricanGirl I mean the wife and boyfriend seem to have a lot more chemistry than her and her husband.

@Shari byrd oh wooow you think this is normal? i have no words nothing about that is normal that is literally cheating and its sinful and thats disgusting not african girl knowing the truth

@Abby Marie What do you mean it isnt hurting anyone? Cheating doesnt hurt anyone? In what world?

@Abby Marie It is adultry, it is fornication

hudson k 😂😂

Oh my god 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

i’m done 💀

We haven't quite thought that far ahead yet as we have no idea how long grad school will take. -- Bettina

@@BettinatheGreat Wow. Thanks for the reply🧡😘

@@Becca_MS-fighter No problem. I'm actually trying to make it a point to answer people who seem genuine because the whole point of this was to share our story and educate about the lifestyle.

@@BettinatheGreat lol. educate about what ¿

@@Oreobunbun10 Oh, a legit question! I love this one. So, thus far that exact scenario has not happened, but similar ones have. The person who is uncomfortable or is having issues takes priority. I've had complications with previous casual girlfriends, like years ago when this was still new, so we'd sit down and hash it out and determine if it was something I could work on, what was causing the discomfort, etc. If it was going to hinder the existing relationships, the new relationship would not happen. If the uncomfortable person thinks they could get used to it or, like, address a jealousy, we'd take baby steps to fix that first before commencing a new relationship. Hope that answers your question! -- Bettina

Yasss

Exactly. Its their business and hopefully it wont be a problem for the kids.

Amen.... this is why Caronavirus exists

Yep! If it makes them happy, and they can work it out, power to em.

correct too

Yes you divorce.

Orange Lazar hello, that’s being called logical. It’s 2020, logical doesn’t make sense

@@corgiville8191 no problem 2020 or 2030

Orange Lazar she does love him. That’s the point you idiot.

Nope. Everyone will be just mom and dad as a step-parent is something different. -- Bettina

@@BettinatheGreat Really seriously consider not having kids.

They’re clowns for the kids parties

Glad I'm not the only one who thought that looked like him lol

lol. stranger things

Lol

Squirrel ASMR Yeah well, you’re just a squirrel, so go eat nuts or something.

Squirrel ASMR 🤣

Everyone is judging, whomever says they aren't is a liar

@@karhissa5565 that's racist

@@antfactory1 that's the truth

EXACTLY i said where??

lol. u mean mess!

@@SquirrelASMR tell them!

Blue this is a crazy relationship that would mess a child up.

Blue why would you support this? I want to know why you would support these pathetic losers.

Can you imagine having four parents who love you so much? That's so much love! I know i'd be happy

@Serena Rios everyone in California don't have time for this lol 😂🤣

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Renee Rivera 😂

I wish people stop thinking about this coronavirus honestly I mean I wish people talk about something else people are obsessed with this it's ridiculous now why don't people talk about the books that read them while they're you know it their house or things their learning stuff. Instead of this stupid Coronavirus

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The part of the video that confuses me is if she has agoraphobia how did she meet her boyfriend at a bar? I know people have different levels of agoraphobia . . . but if this lady w/ agoraphobia was at the bar Id think her husband would be w/ her

If she wanted him to go out and have fun without pressuring her/missing out, he could've gone with friends. But whatever.

And she's comfortably saying it😏🙄

Imagine what the kids friends would say if they found out? I’m sure the parents would have something to say too.

Yep. Really selfish

LOL i missed that one! thanks

@@Alichousan Cats should never be missed like that! :(

candi0826 They’re not screwing around they are in very committed relationships with each other. Just because you don’t personally agree with their relationships doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be in them. Plus having multiple parents raising kids actually significantly improves life because because of the different viewpoints, tasks can be divided among parents, and so forth.

Have you ever heard of polygamy

XOXO Williams yep I have and my opinion still stands. Don’t bother settling down if you want your cake and eat it too. Nobody needs more then one partner 🤷🏻‍♀️it’s just selfishness and shows that person isn’t good enough for you.

Yah I don’t understand why they got married

@@candi0826 Well that may be true. Sometimes 1 person doesn't have all the traits that you would like them to have. I see nothing wrong with this. she gets what she needs from each person. And they don't have a problem with it either so why should you be upset with something that doesn't affect you at all?

Lol

What exactly makes you uncomfortable?

MyMillennialOdyssey um literally this entire video? Wdym?

@@readyforthemoshpitshakabrah Like, the fact that there are four of us under the same roof? I'm in the video and I'm curious why it makes you uncomfortable.

MyMillennialOdyssey oof well I didn’t mean it like that lol. I’m sorry. Didn’t mean to hurt your feelings, it was a joke. But I mean hey if it makes you happy keep doing it!

Bambi 100 //27 .. I know what you mean.I went through that 13yrs ago 🥺

That's not an open relationship, that's cheating.

Bambi 100 //27 oh goddddd

Didn't know about it until you found out in person or until you watched the video?

@@rocknrollrat2344 Found out about it in person, got his mobile phone paired up to the laptop, and through his viber account I read all the messegas he had on it.

Looking for a third wife 🤣🤣🤣

@@nikkikawase1891 🤣 he had "always had trouble having all my affections for just one women." I had the same problem since puberty. In highschool I'd wake up with an affection, see the hot gym teacher get another affection, Go to class see a hot girl with her pen cap in her mouth and get another painful affection. This guy is like the kid who on Halloween who sees "please take one" and takes two. Then, Sees he got away with it so he tries to walk away with all the candy and the bowl. He literally treats women like pokemon hes "got to catch them all" I just hope he doesnt catch anything else in the process.

@@themrdeadlift OMG you made my night lol. Yeah your right though, nothing assures that. 😄

He doesn't go alone. He and Ellie go together.

@@BettinatheGreat i think they said she doesnt go so he can do what he "likes" and she can do what she likes.

Lindsay Carvalho But you enjoy watching them, right? 😂 I do!

@@tammiep9628 I did the first few, but now they're just over doing it. This is probably like the sixth poly relationship on Love Don't Judge

lol. I'm with you. just over done weird topics now

African Girl idk I kinda like it. But at this point they should just make a series dedicated to polyamorous relationships.

@@Mysteriuminiquitatis1998 agreed because I will not be watching. so over rated

Whyy

BIG MATT STRONG 👍🏼

Lol me too

That's funny!

😂😂😂😂

Nooooo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I'm dead

he did give a reason, even if it was weak as hell

If you just do what you want you never have to figure anything out

I just realized that for myself as well. I do like several people at the same time, and always have. I just felt ashamed for it... We are all just different, just because you can't see yourself loving more than 1 person, does invalidate that other people are able to like more than 1 person at a time...

Audrey New I’m cracking up 😂😂😂

It's a mess 🤦🏾‍♀️

It really is something

Amen

@Michael Price Your incoherent ramblings have no power here heathen.

@Michael Price wow speak for yourself, satan has everything to do with this he is the creator of mental illness, why do you think theres so many crazy people in the world? satan is the creator of all things evil, God is the one who helps people and heals their minds and takes wickedness from their bodies, God is real how do you think you came to this earth? you think a star exploded and thats how you got here? God created your very being, he made everything about you from your arms to your legs to your reproductive system to your whole personality, you say God is make believe but who do you think made water and animals and fruit for us to survive? Who do you think is keeping all of those things alive so we dont go hungry? And do you think races made themselves? where did all these different races come from, if a star exploded and made humans why did we all come out looking different? your telling me a star is that creative, come on

​@Michael Price ok michael, you seem like a very happy person and you seem very content and happy with life, awesome you have everything figured out! SCIENCE made this whole world, SCIENCE made you ok, you have some nerve calling us dumb your the one whos living a fantasy, you reject God but one day he's gonna reject you, when you die you have to stand before the Lord and be judged and your gonna regret not worshipping him, at the end of your life you get judged by God and you get sent to hell, you only have one chance on this world to make things right with God before its too late, If you need proof God exist, look around you, look at nature, look at the sky and the rainbow, all of this is what God made, scientist cant prove anything about what made the earth cause they are human just like you and me, your gonna trust atheist who know nothing about the first days on earth? They are human just like you and me, do you know what happened the first days of earth? neither do they, Dont let a lie seperate you from God, he is real, and the bible warns us about stuff right now with the coronavirus, the bible talks about ends times and it warns us that a major devastation is gonna happen with the world and the world will become chaos and you will have to take the mark of the beast(666) on your arm to be able to buy things, without it you will starve and you cant buy stuff, and when you take the mark of the beast your soul is doomed to hell that is the devils number, and you may not realize it but this world is run by satan worshippers, they are trying to make a new world order, thats why this whole coronavirus is going on they made it and its a distraction because while everyone is locked inside not paying attention to whats happening, they are putting up 5g towers thats gonna make people sick and die, and they are trying to make money worthless so you will have to take the chip, the mark of the beast and that will be the new money system, and the bible warns us about this, it is in the bible, it tells us that the antichrist is coming and people will bow down to him and worship him cause they believe he is God because they took the mark of the beast, and he will have one eye, the one eye on the back of your dollar bill the illuminati eye, and the people that didnt take the mark, Jesus is coming back and he will take all the people that believe and they will be gone in a blink of an eye and go to heaven but the people that took the mark stay here and the world becomes destroyed and the world becomes a living hell, all of that is in the bible written by God and he tries to warn us but people like you dont wanna believe it, the bible warns us about ends times and you need to be prepared, Dont fall for satans lies, hes trying to send you to hell with him, you have one chance on this world to become saved and live a life with God, being a christian isnt some strict thing you have to follow, its a relationship and God makes you happy, you can deny God all you want but he wont deny you, he knew you before you were concieved in the womb.

Michael Price did you read what i said?

not really anyeone can do this with 2 - 3 sewing classes

Even if everyone can do it...it is still an amazing dress and she is talented. And, not everyone can do it regardless of classes taken.

@@yokiyukio Agree to disagree, this requires a lot of technique, not only with the patterns and knowing all of them, but you need to make sure it's gonna fit your client's body perfectly, so you need to do several calculations, even more so if you are doing such an artsy project like this, and you need a loooot of creativity so I don't think anyone can do this, that's why real sewing classes take several years.

@@yokiyukio that is not true. have you tried sewing?

Oh believe me Adam and Tavish are not hooking up. -- Bettina

@@BettinatheGreat Yes they are. You don't know about it. Y'all a much of freaks.

@@nickih2130 Freaks? You're gonna have to do better because about a hundred people just called me that.

Nicki H 😂😂😂

lol

chelsea is a kool gurl! Very likable

LOL same

eh :/

agree

You could say many mono relationships never work. How many people get married, divorced, remarried, maybe even divorced again? A lot. And how many mono people who stay married to old age are happy?

@@BettinatheGreat compare that to the amount of poly people who are happy. Seems like less. I'd rather be mono. If there were more poly people sticking together well into old age, I wouldnt have anything to say, but that's not the case. I've known quite a few poly thruples. All of which have constant issues with them selves , sexual deviants, or they either got tired of dealing with a third party. I know only one thruple left who are good friends of mine but they are always disagreeing or bickering on something major in their relationship.

Some do work but I do think that most of them don't. I just think as long as they're happy and everything, I think that's all that matters.

@@BettinatheGreat Great point. I love how you all compliment each other in various ways. I appreciate that you mentioned having family time, couple time, friendship time and alone time as each of those are equally important. Little do my past partners know that if any of them had been honest and trustworthy I would have been open to having a polyamorous relationship. I still would be if I found the right people.

Lol

thats a good question

Lol...good one.

Very true!

Thank you so much. It's really discouraging to see that we disgust so many people just by existing. But I'm glad there are people out there that get it. The world should not be cookie cutter. -- Bettina

@@BettinatheGreat I'm sorry people are so close minded

@@BettinatheGreat I'm so sorry that so many people won't accept something that's a little different and stay so close minded. personally, i don't understand poly relationships all that much and i could never be in one but i think it's great for people who are in a poly relationship. as long as you guys are all happy that's all that matters

@@eleven-hopper It's perfectly okay to not understand something. I don't understand plenty but I try to be open and non-judgmental about it. I think that's the important thing. And it's great that people can find new ways of being happy.

bye girl

bye girl

African Girl why are you in every single comment with your two cents? worry about your own relationship it's none of your concern

@@ambycakes If it was none of our business then why put your business out there. It doesn't make any sense to do that then complain about the side eyes or questions. People that are truly happy just go about their happy lives and they don't have to sing nor preach it to the world they let it show for itself....just my thoughts.

Lee P. That's a great point. I think people want it normalized though because they probably do go out in public like most people and show some sort of affection.

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Totally agree. I personally don't understand poly relationships all that much but as long as they're happy with each other that's all that's important

@Serena Rios Jealousy is natural and human nature... even if 'you'(universal, anybody can get it) think you aren't the jealous type trust me it will appear out of nowhere one day

Hey! my comment was held, it's not displaying... never mind, might have been a glitch

@@eleven-hopper The only happiness displayed in this video is short, so who knows how real that happiness even was...its probably all acted out for the sake of the camera. Just like everybody has to put on good behavior for video... Especially if its going to be watched by many...my thoughts

Suzy Q what a beautiful comment 🖤

I agree as long as they are happy, then thats all that matters. However, this would not be an ideal situation to raise a family in.

looooooool

@@BM__8 Thank you, B M!

Haha! Adam ain't marrying nobody!! 🤣🤣

Tavish couldnt marry Ellie she already marroed n Adam dont seem the marrying type. Did u notice how quiet he went wen kids were mentioned 😂 sure he just there for free room 😂

seek Jesus he forgives

Look online! I think 60 is the new 40! Sure you're older but if you're still thinking about it then you can't be TOO old 😉

Omg you watched my videos! Such a small world. I changed things up a bit. You can still find me at The Queen's Grove. Thank you for your comment and your views! -- Bettina

MyMillennialOdyssey Just subscribed! Thank you!!

The Lord will bless you

I’d rather be single then have my girl being dropped off by her boyfriend

Me too 😭😭😭😭😭😭

I can't get a girlfriend or a boyfriend.

I can't bring myself to have a single boyfriend, let alone two or three of them...too much work. Damn.