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My Husband Pays Me To Be His Housewife | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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ALYSSA, 28, encourages women to pursue a 'housewife lifestyle' for their own happiness. She met her husband Tom, 51, at work in the military. When they began dating Alyssa was still working and studying but once they became engaged she suggested to Tom that she could stay home instead. "I thought that he was wanting a little bit more attention to the house, to the home and also to himself. So I had a sneaking suspicion that it might benefit our relationship if I stayed home," she explained. Her partner hadn't considered this dynamic as something he'd wanted in previous relationships: "I honestly thought I wanted a physicist triathlete, that was my mindset," he said. "Until I got into a relationship with Aly I didn’t even know how wonderful having a traditional relationship with gender separations is." The benefits of their arrangement have been that Tom is able to live a more stress-free, healthier life and Alyssa sees it as a better alternative to relying on a corporation that doesn't care. "I earn more now, married, than I did when I was in the military and it’s the best job I’ve ever had," she said. "I would probably be considered on his bankroll, he pays for my living, and there’s a health insurance plan." Alyssa has a presence on social media, where some of her more controversial views have been criticised. "There are feminists on Reddit who hate me, most of which are single, over the age of 30," she explained. "I wouldn’t say that I’m a feminist at all. I think feminism was all bad, men love women so much that I think they would have liberated us after they were fully liberated anyway." Adding: "I am just of the opinion that feminism was completely unnecessary and that it’s a female supremacy movement." She has been accused of being a golddigger, which Tom refutes: "She asks for a hundred dollars a week! What kind of gold digger wants that?" Despite the negativity, Alyssa believes that spreading her message is important: "There’s a lot of positive comments from women who feel like they’ve finally been seen because there is a lot of stay-at-home wives and moms who feel useless like they’ve wasted their potential because that’s the messaging that we have out there. It’s the positive comments I get from women in that context that really let me know that I’m doing the right thing."
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@helenahooley2076 Год назад

"He pays for my living" lmao ok and her youtube channel doesn't bring in an income does it? She still works, she just works from home.

@darcyroyce Год назад

@@Hannahdavistheslavemassait's a grift, it's dog whistling, it's posturing, and gaining clout and money off of it. It's ok, she "works for the money". Not unlike her feminist sisters. 🤑😅💪

@sara-os5yz Год назад

@@darcyroyce exactly. and she’s ex military and surely brings in a check from that

@darcyroyce Год назад

@@Alythehomiehopper wow!! 😱😅😅😅 The blind leading those who cannot see. A fine world we live in. 😉

@natevic1867 Год назад

Agreed which technically makes her more of an idiot. She works full time AND does all the housework. She’s doing too much to please her old man who would probably still stay with her even if she doesn’t cook everyday.

@megayummyrockstar 6 месяцев назад

I thought she was going somewhere with this but then whomp whomp someone call Shera ✨

@aleksandranka2570 Год назад

She is lying, she spends a lot of time on her youtube channel and works as a content creator.

@anonymissed3611 4 месяца назад

Even if income is minimal, this is true and she should mention it. Also, somehow she got onto this channel. So..prove's exposure.

@Leigh-bq2jo 8 месяцев назад

🚨The TRUTH is that her first husband, Aly & this current husband were ALL in the military; her CURRENT HUSBAND was her husband’s SUPERIOR in the army & she knew that this was going to be a SERIOUS FINANCIAL UPGRADE.She pursued her her current husband while still married to her first husband (of 5 years)… and she was discharged. THE END

@djjazzyjazz10 Год назад

I just find it ironic that this is on love don’t judge and she’s literally judging everyone who has a relationship different than hers 😂

@athenah450 Год назад

Right?? She's so condescending

@gabiduncan18 Год назад

Yeah I've seen some of her content and she's kind of too intense with her views.

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

I’m very upset the love don’t judge allowed her to be on their platform. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being a homemaker and getting paid for it, I think that that’s a wonderful agreement. But sitting around telling women who are feminist that they’re clowns and they can’t be homemakers? That’s messed up. I am against anti-feminism. Do you believe in equal rights for all? Then you’re a feminist. It is not more complicated than that and I’m tired of the media acting like it is more complicated than that.

@Harleyharrigan Год назад

@@user-tg7cj2th2r you are SPOT on!

@samuelrigaud6595 Год назад

@Gabby her views are traditional ✨️

@deezed6478 Год назад

My dear God. I cannot believe she said that “feminism was completely unnecessary.” Did she forget that marital rape was legal until a few decades ago? That women couldn’t have their own bank account til the 70s? That you would have to stay with an abusive and cheating husband until you found another man to save you? If she wants to be a homemaker that’s fine but she should think before glorifying it as the only option.

@deezed6478 Год назад

@Oooooo 100%

@Nuckingfutsnix 2 месяца назад

She wouldn't even be able to cash in those YT monies without a bank account which *newsflash* feminism made possible. People have such selective memory!

@Nuckingfutsnix 2 месяца назад

Don't heed the men trolling in the comments. They are doing an angry because they cannot get away pulling whatever shit they used to as easily anymore. Otherwise they would have left it to women if it was such a heavenly life. They are scared of women having the choice to leave.

@Veryvery987 Год назад

“My husband is not going to fire me tomorrow”🥴 * cues all of those divorce stats she and Pearl love to rattle off *

@edd7987 Год назад

Those divorce stats say 70% of divorces are started by women

@coreyc3093 Год назад

Welllll…men don’t leave. It’s women who overwhelmingly file for divorce. Sooooo….

@Veryvery987 Год назад

@@coreyc3093 correct. That’s the “what”. It tells absolutely nothing about the “why”.

@coreyc3093 Год назад

@@Veryvery987 Easy. The institution of no fault contest divorce, abortion/birth control and third wave feminism indoctrination. This has encouraged modern women in the West to hit the eject button for far lesser reasons than their grandmothers and great grandmothers who preceded them. It used to be that people didn’t engage in reckless premarital sex on a regular with whomever, having a child out of wedlock was utterly shameful, and divorce unheard of. Well, when the modern aforementioned conventions were introduced, this behavior became much more prevalent, and the incentive for a woman to leave the bonds of matrimony increased. And the results are in -- since these conventions were adopted (roughly 60 years ago) divorces have skyrocketed in western countries where this is the norm. And this isn’t a hate of women. This has been studied extensively. Think about it. If you could have all of the ‘free sex’ you wanted without shame, keep or kill a fetus at will, and marry and divorce (and be awarded spousal support and child support at a rate of over 90%) when convenient - how likely would it be that you’d stay in a relationship when things got ‘hard’’, because marriage is not easy and certainly not a fairytale. Again, not hating, but this is crystal clear. If a study could be done in a vacuum with the factors I mentioned above being absent, you would see little to no out of wedlock births, and marriages that stayed together. And really, this is just common sense. We know this because it can be seen in poor (Africa, Nicaragua) or overly patriarchal (China, Middle East, etc) countries and continents. They don’t have these opportunities and don’t experience the resulting aftermath.

@ke6264 Год назад

@@coreyc3093 Yes they do, but not for nothing

@twilightexposure8431 Год назад

This the same woman who divorced her husband and went after his major in the army while she was in the army? Isnt that called fraternization???? LMAOOOOO

@leftthatbehind6090 Год назад

Wow

@homevideosfromnini3975 4 месяца назад

Where u found that info

@anonymissed3611 4 месяца назад

Interesting. I left a mildly critical message re her inflated SMV on her channel and got blocked. I think there's a lot to learn about her story.

@Nithinithinith 26 дней назад

It is pretty common knowledge.

@sonicbooom2258 Год назад

Crazy how she sees her marriage as a career.. Being a wife is alot of work but they do it out of love for there man not for a allowance

@darcyroyce Год назад

There's no love there as you and I experience love. But that's fine, they foubd each other. 🙏

@dekev7503 11 месяцев назад

@@darcyroycethis is how marriages had always been, that’s why they stood the test of time. Bonds are cemented by sense of duty and the bigger picture. The Hollywood love garbage is highly unsustainable and has proven to be the death of the family unit. Romantic love comes and goes .

@NBWDOUGHBOY 5 месяцев назад

That's the Joke

@ec8687 21 день назад

And she sees her husband as a boss

@tdagbo Год назад

You know what’s so hilarious is that a bunch of men really like her because she is a red pill RU-vidr. It’s so funny to think of how her audience must have reacted to seeing how her husband looks like.

@kunaikat2232 Год назад

Whatever podcast made a mistake 😂😂😂

@helpyourselfimbusy5747 Год назад

Feminism is about equality and the right to choice. You’re choosing to be a stay at home wife and not work so you can take more care of your family.

@darcyroyce Год назад

That's a comprehensive stretch. She'll call you a dumb feminist next.

@gorgeous.akosua Год назад

She should at least have her own bank account and savings. Financial freedom is very important.

@Bia-lm8it Год назад

Exactly

@gorgeous.akosua Год назад

@Hannah Davis what?! I am shocked. This lady is promoting being a obedient and humble housewife.

@DrDoomsDaughter Год назад

“I’m just trying to save these women, these ungrateful women.” Yikes, it’s almost like not every woman is the same or has the same goals in life or something 👀

@katmomma5249 Год назад

I did/do that too. I’ve been with him for 15 years. Wait till he switches it up on you. And adds some rules you are not ok with. We have a 5 yr old. And I scheduled our first date nite in over 5 years. Arranged child care, etc. He then decided to have his mom and sister visit that day and evening. I’m embarrassed at how little he thinks of me and my feelings. After I’ve done everything I can do for him, cook,clean, stay fit and looking good at 43. And it still not enough to secure myself a date with my own husband. When I confronted him about why he did this he looked at me like I was crazy and said they could go out with us if they wanted too😂. Yes they can and I can choose to walk away and finally am.

@darcyroyce Год назад

There's a certain degree of boldness and foolishness that the inexperienced individual shows that makes them both endearing and annoying. I have less patience for selfishness today and they as a couple seem to be on the higher end of that spectrum. Otherwise, I'm glad you are in a good place, I wish you peace and confidence moving forward. ❤️🙏

@katmomma5249 Год назад

@@darcyroyce thank you 😊

@georgiawildatheart6037 Год назад

Go out and find a good man who is In tune with your feelings and is thoughtful, appreciative , giving and respectful. You sound like you are a catch

@Myview246 Год назад

Thats the thing about the traditional housewife role that no one wants to talk about. Because its so rare in the west now it becomes glorified especially by men in the west because they are the ones so desperate to attain this that they do it with a level of delusion and assume that because shes still married and because shes being provided for therefore she must automatically be 'happy'. Try asking the people who this life is the norm for. I'm Pakistani and in our culture women have always predominately been housewives even up until recently. My mother, aunts from both sides, older female cousins, grandmother etc were/are housewives. And yet so many of the modern day Pakistanis are rebelling against it and are choosing to work now, most of them doing so with the backing of their mothers. Why? If its supposedly meant to be the roles that makes women so happy? Because many of us know the depressing truth. Being a housewife serves at the benefit of the husband and children because it comes at the cost of her being a free, underappreciated, overused servant. The irony is if a man actually hired a nanny to raise his children and a chef to cook his meals and a cleaner to clean his house he would more than likely be more grateful and more respectful towards his employees and pay them more than $100 a week and not compare them to their mothers...

@ThisIsNuckingFuts Год назад

@@Myview246so true. Someone who has never felt like a trapped animal, can never understand the ecstasy of buying your own car, paying your own rent and settling your head on your own pillow at the end of the day. Where no one else can take that pillow away and belittle you.

@rainbowflower8388 Год назад

The biggest red flag is that she closed all of her accts and now it's all in his name and he can see all she spends. That's just a little weird to me. I tried to do the whole house wife thing, and it didn't work out at all. I was talked down to because I didn't work. Even after I did work, I was still expected to do everything. Nope. Now, I have an amazing partner who works from home and he will still help me with the house. I'm a stay at home mom, and he understands that being a stay at home mom is not easy, it's just as much of a job. I am so much happier.

@omanicc9854 Год назад

Agreed, she'll learn the hard way just how wrong that was....

@rocklesson86 Год назад

Agreed

@a4lma 6 месяцев назад

He Is doing financial abuse

@hideyable Год назад

She seems pretty smug about her relationship status. I hope they work out - for the sake of that child's financial future. It's a precarious position to be totally reliant on someone like Alyssa is

@leftthatbehind6090 Год назад

Truly happy people don’t need to prove how happy they are. I think she secretly unhappy.

@darkboard5556 Год назад

@@leftthatbehind6090she wants to reach out to other women. Of course she's going to say something slightly controversial.

@yournightmare7197 Год назад

I was ok for the most part until the last part where she just spitted out rough judgements about women who don’t live her lifestyle and then casually putting the words “love don’t judge” next to them. Ngl laughed out loud.

@natevic1867 Год назад

Common cope.

@yournightmare7197 Год назад

@@natevic1867 Waste of oxygen.

@toothtown1914 Год назад

Yeah, I don’t mind this lifestyle and I’m glad she’s doing it with problems, but the way she acts towards feminists leaves a bad taste in my mouth, like I don’t get the point of putting down other women and want them to live the same life

@yournightmare7197 Год назад

@@toothtown1914 How else she would feel validated if not by putting others down?

@lolso333 Год назад

That she was able to chose how she lives her life is litterly feminism!

@ComeliaO7 Год назад

Right!!!

@jimson3785 Год назад

The feminism that made her able to choose is not the same brand of feminism that is currently permeating society.

@faith8484 Год назад

@@jimson3785True

@sarcodonblue2876 Год назад

@@jimson3785 exactly. That kind of feminism undermines the women who are really helping girls and women.

@emmarosie7176 Год назад

@@jimson3785 yet she said ALL feminisim was useless she didn’t state that it was “3d wave feminism” so

@priyashaprajapat1815 Год назад

This woman seems to validate her relationship choices by pointing fingers at other women....she is the perfect example that proves why only women are the enemy of other women.

@TheChallenger1000 Год назад

Let's say you're right. She still is right, too. The choices westernized women are making are not working, it's destroyed relationships, child rearing and development, made marriage a non-option for most men, and has broken down society in general. Neighborhoods full of single moms in rented homes is not the way.

@TheChallenger1000 Год назад

@@sarcodonblue2876 Studies show that domestic V is nearly symmetrical between men and women. But that fact is never mentioned because then demonizing men would be much harder to do.

@charcoalanderson8010 Год назад

You had the right idea until that complete nonsense at the end. Men are women's largest predator. The patriarchal structure of society/ history. They commit the majority of violent crimes (that's against both other men and women), check the statistics. To see just how much hate men have for women you need only look at everything happening in Texas in the U.S., reversal of Roe v Wade even at the expense of the woman's life in emergency situations, and many other situations. You pointed out her internalized misogyny then turned right around and were misogynistic yourself.

@sushilsharma4202 Год назад

Women aren't a monolith. This world is competitive and the "Survival of the fittest" applies to women as well. Read some and then argue

@brumbrum987654321 11 месяцев назад

Only women? You haven't lived much have you.

@avril14thlove Год назад

$100/week allowance? 😂😂😂😂

@Miss.TJ516 Год назад

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 right!

@belle3055 Год назад

My parents like that too… they still together, my older brother is 30 years old

@BasedTruth Год назад

But her whole existence is paid for. That 100 bucks is for her to spend on little things she may want. She doesn't need the latest makeup and trashy outfits from fashionnova.

@natevic1867 Год назад

@@BasedTruth oh doesn’t she? She gets to be cheap thanks to her husband 😂 this is why most women choose to work now. We don’t need a man dictating to us what we NEED

@darkboard5556 Год назад

@@natevic1867 what do you need a lot of money for? Useless things that make you "happy"? Lol

@Myview246 Год назад

Easy to brag when you're in the early stages of being a housewife. Do an update in 20 years and we'll see if shes still wants to glorify her life choices.

@Myview246 Год назад

@No No or I know what I'm talking about.

@Myview246 Год назад

@@whatdididotodeservethis1419 exactly. lets see if shes still gloating then

@Myview246 Год назад

@No No same reason you care too much.

@Myview246 Год назад

@No No you're bitter. I'm not.

@Myview246 Год назад

@No No if you have the hots for that wrinkly old man just say

@WaywardBunnyy Год назад

Nothing wrong with wanting to live that way, it just shouldn’t be pushed onto others

@samuelrigaud6595 Год назад

Tell that to feminist

@Madison-rv6df Год назад

@@samuelrigaud6595 is the feminist in the room with us because she’s far from one?

@yournightmare7197 Год назад

@@samuelrigaud6595 You do realised that the misandrists in America are not feminists by definition?

@4damind Год назад

Do you hold the same stance with feminists and LGBTQ+?

@yournightmare7197 Год назад

@Sasha Why pushing people is wrong? And I think careers are great, far preferable than caring for a family if you ask me.

@skyebrock7406 7 месяцев назад

He will be almost 70 by the time that child graduates high school

@liveyourbestlife143 Год назад

I'm all for doing what works for you. The only thing that makes me uncomfortable is that he pays her. I am a housewife and my husband and I share all accounts. He does not write me a check. It's weird. We have a budget

@polyconcave Год назад

And if youre gonna pay someone give her more than 100$ a week at least??? 😅

@liveyourbestlife143 Год назад

@@polyconcave right. Staying home is by far much more work then any job I have ever had outside of the house.

@RPhTom Год назад

@happy What he pays her is her "budget", same with your husband.

@darcyroyce Год назад

It's pocket money, it works for them, except! He controls ehat she spends it on. That's effed up, and also very typical for the transactional foundation of their arrangement.

@TheCastedone Год назад

You've got a point. Just figured it was like spending money. But if it's earned that's a bit off.

@bobbillings 6 месяцев назад

My wife is a homemaker by choice and I am the earner. I would never pay her a cent for doing so. She made it very clear anyway from day one, everything that is hers is hers, and everything that is mine is hers.

@haydeecolon7868 18 дней назад

😅😂

@GB-fk7eq Год назад

She seems so pleased with herself.... like she's figured something out and being a homemaker for a man 2 decades older and giving him a child is something clearly everyone should be aiming for... amazing how people think what works for them clearly is some blanket blueprint for everyone else.

@JanieBee Год назад

You sound like the feminists she’s talking about 😂 oh no!!! A happily married couple 😢 how terrible. We should all just be hooking up and dropping our bastard kids off at school then daycare

@warrenhunter7185 Год назад

@Hannah Davis haha nope. Wrong

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

@@JanieBee 😂😂I don't agree with her life it's not for me but you are right the femz need to chill because this woman is obviously happy so good for her!!

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

@Hannah Davis he's 51 not 81 bro..

@MelB868 Год назад

2 decades that’s 20 years yuck

@rainbowdust919 Год назад

"I had no idea how nice it would be to have a maid who has sex with me. 😱" I'm a feminist. I support her pursuit of happiness. But of course he's going to like having someone who does everything for him. Almost everyone would like a maid sometimes. Edit after finishing the video: I find her unlikable. I'm fine with her doing whatever makes her happy in life, such as being a stay at home spouse and parent. That's great if it's what she wants. I do have a problem with the fact that she doesn't afford the same flexibility in allowing other women to pursue their version of happiness. Not all women would be happy doing what she's doing. Not all women want to be married, have children, or have a male partner. Calling other women delusional, ungrateful, or clowns for not wanting the same dynamic is almost certainly why she gets hate online and not because she chooses to take care of her home instead of working at an office. Everyone should be allowed to pursue their happiest lives as long as they don't hurt others in the process. She is rather hateful toward anyone who chooses a different path. It's pretty revolting. Good for her for finding what makes her happy, but she should not invalidate what makes others happy or put them down to raise herself up. Plus, she threw in the fat-phobia and anti-childfree remark at the end. That's gross.

@niellalien Год назад

She's friends with JustPearlyThings 🤢

@spookychest9210 Год назад

jealous woman, go work for a boss

@_Kyprioth_ Год назад

Not only that, but she is with a man who says that their lifestyle choices make them happy because it is ‘just biology’ 🤢

@_Kyprioth_ Год назад

@@kc6810 Exactly! It’s sick that they believe that all women are biologically hardwired to be happiest living this lifestyle. As if all women want to be without a career outside of the home and with children while being subservient to her husband. They act as though their lifestyle is the only possible option. She speaks about ‘saving these ungrateful women’ as if financially independent women are in need of her help lol 😅

@_Kyprioth_ Год назад

@@kc6810 I think it is so arrogant that they believe women who do not want to live like they do need her help. She thinks that any woman not living ‘traditionally’ is going to be overweight, depressed and childless (as if being childless is something appalling!)

@omanicc9854 Год назад

Most of us feminists don't judge women for their choices. I know I don't anyway. You wanna be a housewife then be a housewife, whatever works for you works for you. But being arrogant enough to think your way of living is right and everyone else is wrong is one massive COPE.

@jorge-7121 Год назад

The reality is divorce is rampant after feminism in 1960s. So literally Allys way is the best way for a happy and lasting marriage.

@oliviascarlet123 Год назад

@@jorge-7121it’s “rampant” now because women don’t have to be silenced when their husband is abusive or just unfit. women would get proposed to after like 3 months of dating, and then be stuck in a lifelong relationship with a man they weren’t truly happy with. we don’t feel trapped anymore. do you know how many housewives drowned themselves in bathtubs before the 1960s? simply because divorce was so taboo that they’d rather die than propose it.

@jorge-7121 Год назад

@@oliviascarlet123 stop the BS, statistics show women are the most abusive in relationships, stop reading feminist propaganda and start educating yourself in reality (true history and statistics)

@oliviascarlet123 Год назад

@@jorge-7121 that’s your problem, you’re so caught up on the blame game. it doesn’t matter which sex is statistically more abusive. men or women deserve to get a divorce if they aren’t happy, and should’ve always been given that option. if divorce hadn’t been so taboo in the past, it would’ve been used a lot more often. HUMANS being given the option of divorce thanks to the feminist movement is a wonderful thing.

@jorge-7121 Год назад

@@oliviascarlet123 Oh, now that you have been caugth in your lies, suddenly blame doesnt matter, after 60 years of feminism liying and blaming men for everything, such an hypocrite

@Mojojojo335 Год назад

She married a senior citizen ain’t nothing alpha about him.

@longseafirerybell2030 Год назад

This young lady obviously has a set opinion of what life as a woman should look like. I will give her another 10 years and see if her view is still the same. 🤔

@aliyanicole2228 Год назад

There’s nothing wrong with being a housewife I just wouldn’t do it for $100 a week

@isaiahthomas4444 Год назад

They had a joint account but she didn’t like blindly spending money so she just ask for an allowance to budget around

@BasedTruth Год назад

But literally everything else is paid for what more do you need? 😂yall just want to spend money buying shit you don't need.

@Audreylalaland Год назад

Lol

@Riyaanreality Год назад

@@isaiahthomas4444 so where does the money she makes from her RU-vid channel go? She’s acting like she is not a working woman but technically she is.

@natevic1867 Год назад

@@BasedTruth who are you to tell us what we do and don’t need?? Men waste money too and y’all say nothing about that. Lmao this is why most women are refusing to be housewives. I’d rather have my own money than live on a cheapskate weekly income.

@Audrinalina Год назад

100 dollars, girl you cheap.....

@Audrinalina Год назад

Right 😂😂 thats like a week groceries in my country...

@HeauxlisticLux 7 дней назад

Daily Starbucks and gas for the week going to put her in the red 😂😂😂...

@sarcodonblue2876 Год назад

They have been together for 2.5 years and she is giving women relationship advice. Yeah okay maybe if you have had a happy marrige for 40 years.

@mikasjewels5772 Год назад

Feminism is the reason she is allowed to have this lifestyle freely and unbothered.

@norayr3975 Год назад

Housewives existed long before feminism. In fact, feminism, at its very core, is an anti-housewife ideology.

@michaeladelong7315 Год назад

If she wants this, then go for it. What I have an issue is her saying feminism is a woman supremacy movement. Puh-lease.

@michaeladelong7315 Год назад

Oh also, men do not love women. If men did, there wouldn't be domestic violence or so many relationship counsellors, etc.

@whateverlolawants Год назад

@@michaeladelong7315 Right?! "They would have liberated us." From who?

@lovenkind8180 Год назад

@@michaeladelong7315what? Men do not love women? Bro. I very much dislike Alyssa’s opinions she is exactly what I fear of becoming. But duddddee don’t generalize men and women like that. That’s how we all got here in the first place. That’s why this problem exists.

@athenah450 Год назад

@@whateverlolawants right exactly, from who? 🤔 Lmao

@athenah450 Год назад

@@lovenkind8180 when women have equal pay & a myriad of equalities we deserve, then you can say that. The patriarchy runs deep. Even wuth the good guys out there.

@colorpan91 Год назад

While I'm all for women who want to have a traditional lifestyle or adhering to gender roles being able to do so freely, what I just saw made me sick to my stomach. Literally everything about this is a red flag and you could easily fall into an abusive situation if you tried to actually follow her advice.

@darcyroyce Год назад

That would be my point as well. But what do you do when someone is an adult and makes his/her decision knowingly and willingly, and disarms any sensible argument with exercising her human rights!? Nothing... You'll be there if everything comes crashing down. That's all we can do.

@Naturefan354 Год назад

It's not for everyone but I've been a SAHM for 10 years now and I have loved it am not abused and am very fulfilled.

@colorpan91 Год назад

@@Naturefan354 That's really cool! I don't have any issues with that. The thing that concerned me about the video is not the fact that she's a stay-at-home mom. I have many loved ones who chose that lifestyle and are happy with it. My main concerns were how her husband got rid of her credit cards and monitors her account as if she's a child, as well as her bizarre obsession with bashing women's rights, or any woman who doesn't want to live the same way that she does. The way she described her views on marriage in such a transactional way also raised an eyebrow for me. I just can't help but wonder what her husband would do to her if later on in her pregnancy she can't clean the house as thoroughly, or if she ever spends more money than he expects of her. 😓

@colorpan91 Год назад

@@darcyroyce I completely agree with you :(

@Naturefan354 Год назад

@Colorpan Probably the same thing my husband does when I don't clean, cook or overspend......... .Nothing 😆 Well excuse me, he might complain sometimes but then after venting he does nothing. But my marriage isn't treated only like a transaction without love. Any relationship could be argued is like a transaction on some level though... Quid pro quo if you will

@TheAnimeadoreable Год назад

Ok, I don't think there's anything wrong with a traditional marriage if that's what couples want to do and it makes them happy. I think the real problem is that she wants to push this on others and it's ignorant to say "men love women so much, they would've freed us eventually" we were beaten, disrespected, killed, raped and not allowed to vote or work. That wasn't love, that was power and cruelty towards women. You mean to tell me that is loving a women and we would've been freed after all of that? We freed ourselves because we knew we weren't gonna be freed otherwise. Men back then didn't do crap.

@facelessman9258 Год назад

Delusional

@kjy05 Год назад

Not all men were like that you're stating a bold generalization

@user-io3ru9tc1d Год назад

Well said

@user-io3ru9tc1d Год назад

@@kjy05 no this the truth acctually

@toothtown1914 Год назад

@@kjy05 yeah, she talking in general because it’s true most men acted like that

@zweij Год назад

She seems to be so happy to be younger than him. My fiancee is also older than me, but we do not base our identity on the age gap... She seems to boast about being praised by men. She is very full of herself.

@Bot-tm7hs Год назад

i don't know anyone in real life who is going around saying that women shouldn't be housewives if that's what they want. literally just do whatever you want and let other people do what they want. there is no correct way to live as long as you aren't hurting anyone

@M4y_000 Год назад

I always feel sad for these types of women. Like babe you do you! I love that you're happy with your lifestyle but the fact that you get to choose it it's thanks to feminism. Just because you feel confortable with how things were back in the day it doesn't mean that everyone else was, and to ignore other women's suffering doesn't make you any better than them. If you don't want people to hate on you don't hate on others.❤

@darcyroyce Год назад

And isn't this the kindest way to go about in life, in general!? It is... Resistance comes from making people feel that they don't belong, that their contributions have no inherent value, that they don't matter... It makes no difference who treats you this way, just know that they're in the wrong, and you matter. You're seen, and appreciated. ❤

@Iamanicajean Год назад

Women were doing those before feminism, so what do you mean? Feminism came to destroy and end what she wants to do .

@aaaaaa2206 Год назад

No she wasn't able to chose how she lives her life because of feminism. She could chose how to live her life because of the patriarchy, because men enforce her rights, women can't. Without enforcement, women's rights or any right or law for that matter doesn't exist in practice, just in theory.

@jorge-7121 Год назад

Wrong what you are saying is not factual history. Educate yourself

@user-df5ky9bg9k Год назад

Obviously this women's worst fear is "being single

@coreyc3093 Год назад

@Oooooo And gets the pension, and the inheritance of shared property due to having his child, and then, still young enough to remarry if she chooses? Oh man. What a horrible deal. 🙄

@kunaikat2232 Год назад

@@coreyc3093 so you acknowledge that that was the whole point of marrying the grandpa in the first place. got it. there is no love or god in this woman's relationship. i think shes in for a world of pain and suffering. how do you know she'll remarry when shes in her 40s? her value will be significantly depleted and she will be uglier and fatter than she already is. she is wasting her time in my opinion but oh well she is stuck now. shes completely screwed because she gave up her financial independence. oh wait that is actually a lie because she grifts on youtube selling marriage advice

@user-io3ru9tc1d Год назад

أهلا 😊

@gatestimonymiracle1302 Год назад

Lol

@stobbi38 Год назад

I think a marriage is BOTH a spiritual AND an economic relationship

@claudiaj2138 Год назад

I don’t remember “traditional” women ever chirping online about politics lol. I’m pretty much a homemaker right now as I finish college and it brings a lot of value to the relationship, BUT women should be encouraged to be educated and active in their communities. The implications of domesticity are dangerous; that women are less capable/intelligent than men. Patriarchy is not men, patriarchy is an ideology that hurts EVERYONE

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

👏👏👏

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

You hit the nail on the head sister, thank you for commenting.

@joergpranger Год назад

💯

@whatrtheodds Год назад

Also a homemaker while I finish collage. I'm so happy my boyfriend is supportive of my education. As my first relationship was a violent person and it taught me how important it is woman have choice.

@darcyroyce Год назад

Can I give an extra cheers for this comment!? ❤😂 My sentiments, exactly! She and the social media stepford wives are not representative of all housewives! What they're doing is theatre, it's a show, the not so knock off version of real housewives, d'you know what I mean!? It's sending out some pretty twisted messages for young women and in this sense it's detrimental.

@jordanmurphy4308 Год назад

It's hard to reconcile this being on a channel called "Love Don't Judge" when half of this video is them judging other people for not being like them. There's a big difference between choosing to live your life in whatever way makes you happy while trying to put happiness back into the world, and using shame and misogyny to try to convince people that your way of life is the only one that works.

@Jerome616 Год назад

That’s not the point of the video. That’s the point of the channel.

@ElMona Год назад

Love don't judge, but THEY sure do.

@jumaanecrossfield2902 Год назад

Aren't you now judging them?

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

“Aren’t you now judging them” OK, that was just the stupidest thing that you could’ve commented. She’s pointing out the hypocrisy. I guess you could “technically “say that we’re judging them. But come on, you know what’s really happening here. We’re just trying to point out that love don’t judge is trying to spread a message and that the person they just allowed on their platform is completely contradicting that message. Should we just not point that out? Just keep letting her spread lies and misinformation about feminism? And tell women who don’t wanna be homemakers that they’re not real women? Because I’m definitely not gonna keep my mouth shut about that.

@jordanmurphy4308 Год назад

@@user-tg7cj2th2r THIS!!! Thank you

@lynn7392 Год назад

$100 a week, isn’t that a bit low? It’s like she’s on an allowance from her father. My husband is just that, my husband, my partner, father to my kids, etc. Not my employer. Being a housewife isn’t what I find weird, it’s the $100 weekly allowances.

@paintitblack9712 Год назад

Whatever works for every individual and makes them happy. Works for them, good for them. My only issue is when these women then turn around and judge women who don't want the same thing

@samuelrigaud6595 Год назад

Our grandma's wanted only that

@warrenhunter7185 Год назад

Only feminists do that

@darcyroyce Год назад

@@samuelrigaud6595they didn't have a choice, it was either, get married or be socially outcast. Not to mention that by the time they hit old age, many of them were unhappy and regretful, for having been stripped of their agency and opportunities this way.

@leftthatbehind6090 Год назад

@@samuelrigaud6595 not mine?

@ebo6393 Год назад

@@samuelrigaud6595 Yeah, feminism happened because women didn’t want anything to change 😂😂😂

@ComeliaO7 Год назад

Their are plenty of stay at home wives. And I don’t knock them for that. Stay at home wife is not for me. I gotta get out the house. if I was to stay at home I’d be working from home. I have a graphic design. If I can work, I’m going to work. That’s just me. The fact she’s putting down other women says a lot about her.

@TheMariabarger Год назад

“I wouldn’t say that I’m a feminist at all. I think feminism was all bad, men love women so much that I think they would have liberated us after they were fully liberated anyway“ wtf. Everything else was good and glad it’s working out for them, but for her to say that, makes me think if she really knows our history. There is nothing wrong with woman waiting the same respect and things as men. I mean, when woman started fighting for our rights that we have now, most men fought against it. Asking “ do you really need that”. Also wtf was that comment: “ I’m trying to help these woman, these ungrateful woman” . But I’m glad she found someone that had the same values as her.

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

Yeah, she sending a completely wrong message about feminism and homemaking. She has miss information about feminism and is using her own experiences with men to create an idea of what it’s like for every woman in this world. It’s a common thing that women who don’t go through a lot of abuse do. They think “well I’ve never been abused by a man so obviously other women are just ungrateful” I also think it’s hilarious how love don’t judge is allowing her to use their platform when her entire argument is basically judging women who don’t want to live the kind of life that she lives. She spreading hate speech and misinformation about feminism. Saying that the wage gap is a myth? That’s a lie. I just took a woman studies class in college last year and learned about the actual wage gap history, and what it is now. I think that it’s great that she has the relationship that she has, it’s great that they’re happy, but it’s completely wrong for her to say the things that she saying about feminism. You can be a homemaker and a feminist.

@JanieBee Год назад

Feminism is truly evil and has helped women destroy ourselves, and now it’s working on the men. No little girl grows up thinking she wants to be a single cat lady who just scrolls through tinder to find a bunch of new sex partners every week so she can just work for herself and be…by herself. That is the reality feminism is forcing women into unknowingly. And what’s sad is that the older women who LIVED this and realize what they did still won’t tell us young girls the game. Older women just wait for you to fall too….so glad that Women like Aly can stand up and dispel the idea that feminism is the only way.

@warrenhunter7185 Год назад

@@user-tg7cj2th2r bla bla bla single feminazi bla bla cant find a good man bla bla cat lady bla bla

@darcyroyce Год назад

Absolutely.

@munchkineatsalotvent9899 Год назад

I feel like he brain washed her LoL n she has no clue what she talking about

@lauraarnold1504 Год назад

A lot of feminists over the years have argued that women should be paid for their domestic labour. She should not be bashing all feminists here while doing what they advocated women to do!

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

Right!!! The miss information is so bad.

@darcyroyce Год назад

@@user-tg7cj2th2rI don't even think it's misinformation. I think it's genuine conditioning and lack of understanding, logical, historical, and social.

@Lauren280582 Год назад

The theme here seems to be that the lady has chosen this man to be her boss rather than having traditional employment. She also said that in employment she can be fired but her husband cannot fire, however that is incorrect he can fire her and that is called divorce. She may also become redundant for example if he dies or if she has an accident rendering her incapable of performing her current KPIs. I would advise her to look closely at contract and see what provisions are made for these circumstances.

@BasedTruth Год назад

Yea but he's clearly not divorcing her hes very much in love and if he does she will get alimony im sure. Shes a housewife who doesn't work. The ball is in her court he knows that and so does she.

@BasedTruth Год назад

@Oooooo she ain't divorcing him. She found her an old ugly simp. She hit the jackpot. She not going anywhere.

@VioletLaStrange1 Год назад

I’m not sure she understands where feminism stemmed from and it’s beliefs, or is she’s getting her ideas based of extremists-but I think the main idea here is to do what makes you happy. Personally I would go insane being at home all the time, but I’m sure others thrive in that environment and that’s great! Can we as human beings just stop bashing other’s lives if they’re not hurting us or other people? Everyone is different and the same thing isn’t going to fit in every relationship, the world is so crappy let’s just all root for each others happiness, we have enough negativity as it it 😅

@mrod8578 Год назад

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-V8QgjbPeESg.html A very informative video about the formation of Feminism. Feminism has always been a supremacy movement. It's simply been more out of hand as such vvomen demand more privileges. Even over 100 years ago with the suffragettes the history we learned about them was from a rose colored lens. Suffragettes were domestic terrorists as the men were coming home from World War I. They bombed buildings and burned and destroyed businesses. Of course this couldn't have been done without men as they used their men allied to them as strong arms to intimidate business owners where they would be held against their will and beaten as the vvomen destroyed their business or home. Even in 1848 with the formation of feminists at Seneca falls it's always been about female privilege in regards to things they never earned.

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

👏👏👏❤

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

Such a good comment 💯👍🏻

@mrod8578 Год назад

@@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 not really 👎

@justjane805 Год назад

YES!

@trininy07 2 часа назад

I was married 2 times previously and worked. Divorced and was the one that got the children but made more than my exes. No child support. Bought a 3 bedroom house and got stuck with all bills. Drained me and made me feel like a man. Now, married to my 3rd husband and he told to quit my government job and be at peace as a homemaker. He pays all bills and gives me a stipend. I look younger and am soooo much happier. She is happy and so am I.

@viennam7243 Год назад

I am a staunch feminist. It would go against what I would believe if I told this woman how to live her life because that is the main idea of feminism: allowing a woman to have the freedom to live the life she wants to. However, the only time I would start having issues is if she would say "all women should live like this." But to each their own! Happy for her if this is what makes her happy!

@ivanweekes6067 Год назад

At least u honest about it I dont agree with ur movement but hey to each their own

@ElMona Год назад

Love don't judge, but SHE sure does.

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

I no one should tell a woman how to live their life, definitely not her. I think it’s great that she’s a homemaker and that her husband pays her to do it and they have an agreement. That’s wonderful. But she’s spreading lies and hate speech about feminism. And that’s the wrong way to go about it. Do you believe in equal rights for all? Then your feminist. It is not more complicated than that, don’t make it more complicated. She saying that the wage gap is a myth and that’s a lie. I am all for people having a right to be whatever they want to be, but I am completely against anti-feminism. It’s misinformation and hate speech.

@joergpranger Год назад

@@user-tg7cj2th2r completely agree with you there. Perfectly written.

@Slaughterproof Год назад

She obviously means "women would be happier living like her". I don't think she's wrong.

@mindyl5990 Год назад

Why are these on the show? There are literally thousands of housewives out there…thousands. I can name a lot of them, including myself. It’s a normal thing. Better to be at home taking care of the kids rather than someone else. Not to mention the high cost of daycare. Need 2 jobs just to pay for daycare

@Solakris Год назад

She looks at her husband as an employer. Being a housewife and wifely duties is her job. Too bad she closed her accounts. I think financial independence is important even when you’re married. God forbid the relationship goes south, bc then she is completely screwed.

@snowieskiesabove Год назад

She’s making less than minimum wage 😭

@bevs9995 Год назад

with all expenses paid, and she get half after 10 years, plus child support. that 100 a week is just for gas and uber eats

@MN-de9ek Год назад

That's to controlling lmao..so let me get this straight..you get 100 dollars and you still have to tell him where you wasted it on 😅😅😅😅...Girllllllllll...noooooo 😅

@sheppah Год назад

Right! I personally felt offended when I heard $100/week and he keeps track of her expenses. WTF! What can you even get with $100 nowadays? What a cheap-ass control freak!

@MN-de9ek Год назад

@@sheppah That's what I was saying too 🤣🤣🤣

@IamBarati Год назад

I really don't understand how she won. She married a man old enough to be her father. She's now having grandpas baby and we all have to aspire to do that?

@ademolaadedara557 Год назад

Men age like wine Women age like milk It's very easy

@IamBarati Год назад

@@ademolaadedara557 ye receding hairlines are so attractive.

@helenshi6049 Год назад

@@ademolaadedara557 So what type of guys are you into?

@ademolaadedara557 Год назад

@@helenshi6049 I ain't a fa**ot🤣

@helenshi6049 Год назад

@@ademolaadedara557 Hey it's 2023, it's okay to be gay, if men appeal to you more than women, maybe try dating them! I won't judge!

@elizas3249 Год назад

If this makes her happy, cool. But this is some creepy nonsense.

@jo122834 Год назад

This woman is deeply insecure. And it’s not necessarily because of her views, it’s how she expresses them and how vehemently she clings to them. This goes for women who hold the exact opposite viewpoint as well.

@user-io3ru9tc1d Год назад

Yupe right

@sapphicsav 6 месяцев назад

100%

@enochia Год назад

I mean this makes sense. In nature, men will choose young women because obviously older women can't have kids and women choose the best provider they can find. But we aren't animals so not everyone HAS to live this way and people don't and that's totally fine. She's kinda judgemental for no reason.

@darcyroyce Год назад

There are underlying, deeply embedded reasons, alright, but her husband is not paying me to unpack them, so live and let live! Also, those biological reasons are the weakest, statistically unsignificant argument that they bring up - folks, society has moved on! We moved on from those primitive conceptualizations, so not true that all men and women want, think, act or aspire to the conditions you mentioned. Some do, and they're welcome to live as they wish, but stop trying to push a propaganda, brainwash our youth, and dictate reality for others - and that goes for everyone, the political left as well.

@enochia Год назад

@@darcyroyce honestly your comment was silly as hell

@enochia Год назад

@@darcyroyce I literally just said "we aren't animals, and not everyone has to live this way, and people don't that totally fine" you weirdo. I NEVER pushed any propaganda, you're weird as hell for not reading my entire comment yet replying like you know anything about it. Weirdoooo

@kind2423 Год назад

Older women can have children though. So that’s not true. Maybe more difficult but it’s not impossible.

@bevs9995 Год назад

In nature, virtually no man was married past 30 even in the year 1960 - over 90% of men were married by 25. The remaining 10% were losers 3% never married. Look up the stats -- young women have nevr chosen old men. and the divorce rate for a gap lke this one is over 250% o

@babahubbi7147 Год назад

Well, everyone else will be divorced and alone by 50, she will also be alone cause her hubby will be dead. Hopefully there will be someone to pay for her expenses then. She complains about judgement while she is super judgemental, calling people clowns etc. Recently she wanted to buy herself raspberry tea and she had to ask her husband to fix it, must be really annoying to not be able to purchase anything on your own

@jenniferorona7776 Год назад

What works for you is the best of your happy then it’s good but judging other relationships just means your not happy in yours 🤷🏻‍♀️

@nori9663 Год назад

One thing we don't pay enough attention to when discussing age gap relationships is men's biological clock. Older paternal age is associated with increased health risk to the morher and baby. She hasn't found a cheat code by marrying and procreating with an older man.

@alphaomega1351 Год назад

Negative 👎! You talking 👄 nonsense and you know it. A man can have a healthy baby 👶 at 100 as long as his wife or girl is young and fertile. 😶

@jackieruso6493 6 месяцев назад

@@alphaomega1351 Actually, this person speaks the truth. It's most likely that men over 40 will produce a child with autism. The quality of the sperm declines after age 40 and does increase the chances of a miscarriage.

@polloduh Год назад

She was married before. This is her second marriage

@ThisIsNuckingFuts Год назад

@@124xhappeleshowswell he was better looking and closer to her age so I’m gonna have to agree with u there

@beraudmusic 8 месяцев назад

I just came here from another video where she talks about how she got divorced (from her former husband) cuz she realized she likes masculine men and used athletes as an example of masculine men....so I was not expecting this at all.

@movtipsislee Год назад

She Is A House Wife That's Nothing New But Imo All Housewives Are Deserving Of Alittle Monatery Compensation 😄😄😄 Good Arrangement Cuz It Works For Them 🤗👍🏼💞🙏🏼

@zweij Год назад

Notice how she does not say "We have a baby on the go" but "I". This is not "us", but "me and him". Very telling.

@POTUSBrown Год назад

She's using him. I wonder if he knows. He getting benifits but I don't see love.

@darcyroyce Год назад

@@Hannahdavistheslavemassaey, those basic necessities count! Otherwise she'd need to get a job, and it's not easy after the army, it's actually quite hard to readjust to civilian life, so yeah, she can do this RU-vid thing, creating in effect, because he takes care of all the stuff, other adult women would take care of. I bet you appreciated that you could still live at home as a student, and didn't have to wander out in real life and rely on your own capacities to keep them balls all in the air. Yeah. Some of us have done just that for all her adult life. I sustained myself dince I was 18, not always brilliantly, but imagine some idiot coming to me with secondary school explanations of economics and what's good for me. Imagine the effing audacity. 😂

@kathyryder828 Год назад

@@POTUSBrown He's also using her. Their relationship is totally transactional. I doubt that they love each other.

@darcyroyce Год назад

@@Alythehomiehopper and that's what she's selling. Confidence sells. Posturing confidence sells, and that's what her target audience needs. Look around, all these coaches, gurus, influencers are dealing with VULNERABLE people who would benefit from proper guidance, yet, what they get is tepid sink water sold as way overpriced miracle healing water. And people don't know that the coaching they're getting is a joke, compared to the real deal. This woman charges 250, while a therapist, counsellor or even a psychologist would be a fraction of that amount. I've been a fool myself in the past, so I understand why people would idolise social media "helpers" but it's a rip off. It also speaks of high levels of narcissism and what truly matters to the person pretending that they want to help - money, clout, admiration. It is what it is, so buyer, beware.

@darcyroyce Год назад

@@kathyryder828 they're using each other.

@bryanclarke1922 Год назад

If there no economics about marriage than the government wouldn't be involved.

@mushieroom Год назад

I couldn’t care less how this lady chooses to live her own life but by God is she extremely judgemental and condescending. She sounds downright unpleasant to be around. I feel bad for her future kid. Sickening.

@a4lma Год назад

She even said single mother emotions are irrevelant

@kunaikat2232 Год назад

This is sugar daddy ism like why is she trying to make it look different she wont even say she loves him

@al_pal_ Год назад

You can be a feminist and a housewife at the same time. The two are not mutually exclusive. She honestly sounds so ignorant.

@shanfarco1574 11 месяцев назад

When I was pregnant I sat with my feet up. Didn't cook for anyone for over a year, my family or husband did it and for a short while we even hired help to look after the house. I guess my life was better than hers.

@kellyTaylor-uv3co 6 месяцев назад

There ya go ! That is blessed!

@iwannaleave7504 Год назад

God I would never judge house wives, I think it's great when two people fit each other's needs and agree and communicate but like one type of relationship doesn't work for everyone. They seem happy and healthy excellent for them but like, it's so weird to judge people who don't want the same. You can't act like people are attacking you if you're criticizing others for not participating in your lifestyle.

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being housewife, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with getting paid to be a homemaker, and I think anybody who tells a person (man or women) that they can’t be a homemaker should shut up. However, this woman is sending a completely wrong message about feminism and homemaking. I am very upset to learn that she thinks that feminists are clowns and that homemakers can’t be feminist. As a homemaker and a feminist, I am extremely offended by this view and hurt. feminism will always get a bad rap because feminism will always take a backseat to every social issue there is. There are people who still believe sexism isn’t real and I’m sorry, but the wage gap is a real thing. It’s a lie for her to say that there is no wage gap. I’m very disappointed that a fellow homemaker would have such a twisted and manipulated view like this about feminism. Feminism is equal rights. There’s nothing more complicated about it than that. Do you believe in equal rights for all people? Then you’re a feminist. Don’t make it more than that. There are extremist in every corner of the world, not just feminism and you calling someone who has experienced serious sexism and identifies as a feminist, a clown is so hurtful. I am not a clown and I’m at not an extremists. She’s spreading lies about facts like the wage gap. That’s not right. I support your right to be a homemaker and a feminist. You can be both. Everyone can be a feminist because all feminism means is equal rights. Don’t listen to her views about feminism, they are misguided, misinformed, and hurtful.

@darcyroyce Год назад

Absolutely right! ❤🙏

@tdagbo Год назад

They both belong together. She’s honestly a 4, and her husband is a 2. She’s good.

@user-io3ru9tc1d Год назад

😂😂

@thulienaomi Год назад

Lmao😂😂

@paintitblack9712 Год назад

😂💀

@toothtown1914 Год назад

The husband doesn’t even look old and he’s not bad looking either, she’s pretty too so I’d give both of them a 8/10

@mgtowmonk7044 Год назад

@Jiminy Crunkett Lol no my $ex doll is a solid 7.5 and have more personality than her .

@haleynsskill9935 Год назад

Me and my husband are 16 years apart and have been together for 10 years and happily married 5 and we rarely rarely fight and we are totally 50/50,we complement each other perfectly! They only thing I would say you should ask for $200 a week lol 😂

@darcyroyce Год назад

I could help her negotiate that, as a careers coach. I think her employer is massively underpaying her for the job that she does.

@thaisfraga7366 Год назад

There's nothing wrong with wanting to be a housewife Just as there is no problem wanting to work, Each couple handles their relationship the way they see fit.

@enochia Год назад

She secretly wishes to have an affair with a young, handsome, and lively man, no doubt. But other than that, I see no wrong

@Applecitylightkiwi Год назад

Uptight vibes tho, hope they get more relaxed when the focus is there on the kid, also they are both very logical, needs work on other facets aswell, but idk thats how the media bias preyed upon me. Hope it naturally comes when the years come

@alessandrajackson3768 Год назад

I genuinely am all for more traditional relationships! But her hatred of women is sickening and her husband is an old creep.

@Aa-jq3yu Год назад

Why is he a creep

@alessandrajackson3768 Год назад

@@Aa-jq3yu he is way older and backs her self hatred.

@kunaikat2232 Год назад

She hates men too only in it for the money. Fake trad wife

@toothtown1914 Год назад

@@Aa-jq3yuhe’s not a creep 🤦🏻‍♀️ it’s just the age gap people are talking about

@mgtowmonk7044 Год назад

He is not old but yes he is a creep 😔

@romelgonzales2754 Год назад

This ain't about love this is about money if he wasn't giving her money she'd leave this is definitely her judging though

@robinperkins6305 Год назад

I feel like maybe she lost her dignity and respect… that is not a relationship, it’s just a business contract… it look like she’s stuck in the 1950’s like I Love Lucy or Leave to Beaver where the women cooks and clean and pleases her man and he’s just controlling and she has limited independence or she’s In the Handmaiden’s Tale. But that is her choice, I feel like it’s a dumbest, ludicrous choice, but it’s her choice and she’s young, but by the time she hit in 40’s or 50’s a light 💡 bulb will come on and it’s gonna hit her like bolt of lighting. Then it will be to late.

@samirahenilaulainen1555 Год назад

ok but "I wouldn’t say that I’m a feminist at all. I think feminism was all bad, men love women so much that I think they would have liberated us after they were fully liberated anyway." is incredibly disrespectful

@ginapickle9883 Год назад

Yea I think everyone in the comments is being too nice to her. Nothing wrong with being a housewife, but saying statements like that is so disrespectful towards the brave women who fought for our rights

@athenah450 Год назад

@@ginapickle9883 exactly. She's nothing short of condescencion.

@athenah450 Год назад

@Hannah Davis oop 🫢

@darcyroyce Год назад

That's messed up, and naive, and delusional, and the internal narrative of the Stockholm syndrome victim. But what do I know.

@bevs9995 Год назад

@@darcyroyce shes an obvious CON-Tent creator and con. Dont infantilize her. This is not a case of stockholm.

@babie.desk- Год назад

I don’t know why our society hates housewives. I was a housewife by choice before but my husband didn’t pay me. I was able to handle stuff at home and take care of our child well. It benefited our child and also made sure our home didn’t turn into a rat’s nest. When I had to work again on top of my responsibilities at home, it drove me insane and literally got sick. We were more financially stable BUT less happy. There are pros and cons of being paid to be a housewife, but we shouldn’t be hating on families who choose this setup.

@darcyroyce Год назад

Here's the thing. No one hates on housewives. People are not stupid, they know that these social media housewives are grifters, fakes, pretenders, people can feel it, also, those of us from another time, with years of housewife experience don't claim the artificial glamour, because we weren't in it for that!!! This is propaganda and people know it on a cellular level. I loved being married, accepting my ex husbands name, supporting him in all his endeavours, and feeling his equal at the same time. If he wouldn't have reciprocated that, by being as cheerful and giving and admiring of my goals and dreams, and how that benefited our marriage, us growing strong as a team, I wouldn't have married him. This is not to say that I think less of these guys, it's to say that marriages are not the same, there's no right way to go, it's what's working for them two. No pretentious and unsolicited advise needed.

@omanicc9854 Год назад

Did you not notice that SHES the one doing the hating.

@yeah6281 Год назад

If you're referring to comments, I think it's not about comments hating housewives but hating on her. Because of her hypocrisy.

@breajahcurley79 Год назад

Love don't judge but she does 😬

@noeliamartin1498 Год назад

Red flag is "I can see what she spends the money for" Girl do you that's fine but this is control

@margaretmack372 Год назад

LUV IT...GOD BLESS DO WHT WORKS FOR YOUR FAMILY THX FOR SHARING!!

@Cdadvance2 Год назад

Love it! Especially the cute pupper at the end!

@SaaraRichardson Год назад

I love traditional rolls and so happy i submit to my husband, stay home take care of the kids and homeschool. Go girl!

@darcyroyce Год назад

.......

@andrethejuiceman91 Год назад

This feels like a parody.

@afuabacchus8854 Год назад

I think this woman need deliverance

@paulaneary6468 Год назад

She had me onside with all the love dont judge and does exactly that. If you are able to find a system that works financially and emotionally for you knock yourself out. Just dont judge others who do what works for them

@alphaomega1351 Год назад

Opinions are not judgments. People are entitled to their opinions. 😶

@sweetkisses1818 Год назад

Isn't content creating a job?

@staciann5395 Год назад

Wait he closed her account and put everything in his name? He’s controlling her money

@Wilky_27 Год назад

What money, she don’t work.

@kunaikat2232 Год назад

@@Wilky_27 she literally sells marriage advice 50$ a pop as a divorced 28 year old with a rich old grandad hubby. who was her and her ex's military superior by the way. she is redpill grift. her being on this channel alone is sus. if she were such a trad wife she wouldnt be chronically online like all the rest of the women she judges.

@mgtowmonk7044 Год назад

Well he is the pimp so as per the rules he gets the money 💰

@moonytheloony6516 Год назад

Aly is contradicting herself. She does not wish to be judged but she judges feminists clearly. She sounded a tad condescending while doing it so yeah...she judges those who judge her. She claims not to work a traditional job yet she runs a RU-vid channel which does bring in income from working. So that's not quite accurate for her to claim either. The other problem is her very pragmatic view of marriage (the husband appears to be the same) It's a business arrangement first before anything else...if there is an anything else. Aly mostly spoke in a very measured monotone voice. She almost sounded like a recording asking you to "Please hold, the next available associate will be with you shortly..." She has all of the passion and warmth of a copy machine...that's married to a Texas Instruments calculator. If these two are satisfied business associates (or customers) in this relationship then I suppose that's what matters, and by all means they're both entitled to live as they please...however...as I've already demonstrated above... Aly is kinda full of crap. That's not judgement...it's an opinion supported by evidence.

@user-tg7cj2th2r Год назад

👏

@jeseverage-allen570 Год назад

Yes.. i agree. She comes across very condescending. The thing that gets me with her is, if it wasnt for feminism that military career she had would have been a no.

@Madison-rv6df Год назад

and she’s acting like we should aspire to be her like she lost me when this man was 23 years older than her, yikes and they’re bringing a kid into this terrible dynamic. I’m definitely judging because instead of selling me on why her relationship works, she just shit on feminism the whole video so I’m clearly not convinced.

@bevs9995 Год назад

@@Madison-rv6df she's tatted and divorced . if she destined to be a single mom ... might as well find a better catch. she absolutely is conning that fox news watching 50+ geek.

@AndrewTheFrank Год назад

Took me a while to realize this wasn't Aly's channel. Thought it was some new high production video format.

@Mr.Boring_Man Год назад

This is such fake controversy. It gets views though. It works for them. Point. Blank. End of it. Only a bored and bitter outsider feels the urge to criticize. Lol😅

@candaceyoung7498 Год назад

But she doesn't depend on this man 😂 she's making mad money from her youtube channel

@sapphicsav 6 месяцев назад

she’s the judgiest one here wdym😭 why does she think it’s impossible to be happy if you’re not a homemaker or like you’re ruining your life if you don’t wanna get married like what

@mrsbabycakes5551 Год назад

I think at the end of the day it’s up to them, if being a housewife forfills her and makes her happy, then I don’t see any issue. There were times when I was an at home mum and housewife and I enjoyed it very much. Doesn’t make me any less of a woman or personality, just because I enjoyed looking after my husband and children. I enjoy working as well. Time has evolved me. But I always think that people should be free to do what makes them happy. Nothing should be frowned upon, whether its because you decide to have a traditional relationship or have a career.