My Mother-In-Law Did A Background Check On Me | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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SHEFFY and Macky initially met online, speaking for years until they finally met in person. When they did, they had a whirlwind wedding, mainly so Canadian Sheffy could live in the US with Macky. Speaking to Truly, Sheffy explained: "We knew we wanted to get married anyway so we thought why not do it sooner rather than later?" But both of their families have expressed concerns about the relationship, particularly as they come from different cultural backgrounds - Macky is from a Christian family in the Southern US and Sheffy's parents are Muslims from Bangladesh. Macky explained: "My family, they're concerned about the cultural differences between the two different religions." It even led to Macky's mum carrying out a background check on Sheffy. In this episode of Love Don't Judge, the pair will meet with Macky's cousin, Austin, to hear his thoughts on the relationship. Reflecting on their journey, Sheffy said: "All the things that we face, I feel like other intercultural relationships face."
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@tessy28 Год назад

Honestly this is a good example of why I can't marry anyone with a stupid or crazy family. I have no patience for nonsense.

@rebeccaelaine2828 Год назад

Some of us have chosen to completely leave our unhealthy families. But then there is usually discomfort as to why we aren't speaking to our blood family members. It's so difficult to survive a super toxic, traumatized family system, and sometimes it feels like you can't win as far as how people view you, whether you stay or leave. Hang in there, for anyone reading this that's in that situation.

@scotthearts9634 Год назад

@@rebeccaelaine2828 thank you!

@vuksgitau Год назад

Omg me either we'd have big problems 😂

@tanehasmith4518 Год назад

I second this

@GoldieLT Год назад

Omg thank you. Except I have sisters-in-law from hell

@pianolover8910 Год назад

Bruh they could just say they’re racist instead of pretending that a Canadian would marry an American for a green card LMAO also the cousin making fun of her cooking was rude af

@namelessgrace6319 Год назад

When do you ever see a Canadian wanting a green card to the US!?!! Haha

@rpinbc2748 Год назад

@@namelessgrace6319 that would be never! I’m Canadian and I could never live in the US. My version of hell. We got it too good here 😅

@deszu Год назад

also Canadians don’t need green cards for the USA??? that’s how you know they’re uneducated, she could literally get a visa or nexus card if she wanted to be there so bad. also ^^^ yea lmaoo I doubt any Canadian wants to live in the states

@catapillargirl2021 Год назад

The way he rudely dismissed what she had cooked. He didn’t even have awareness for how rude he was thats the big issue. Just yikes. At least try it, maybe you’d love it, but how would you ever know. Kudos to this couple for escaping how they were raised and following their heart ignorance be damned.

@martinvanburen4578 Год назад

that's Southern behavior. I respect he didn't fake like it. He shut it down.

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

Why should someone be forced to eat that? That's ridiculous

@ravendluna369jasso8 Год назад

It's not that he refused to eat it it's the way he refused ! C'mon ppl!?!!!

@reinambao9750 Год назад

@@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 He literally said "it looks terrible" a simple no thank you would have been the best way to deny the offer it doesn't hurt to be polite

@ShizukaRose Год назад

His cousin was rude when she offered him food.

@EroiKuma Год назад

I would have kicked him out of my house if it was me✋️😩

@Crispr00 Год назад

Fr, Mf seemed jealous

@sawaalbino Год назад

"Ewwww...flavour" said a close minded man.

@Shannete572 Месяц назад

Right exactly, if he was to get rude with me, omg I would go off. Because I can get slick, because you don’t do that.

@dip_emb_mexuk Год назад

Cousin, next time when someone offers you some food and you don’t feel like it, try this: Option A: I’ve just eaten. Still full (rub your tummy) but THANK YOU for asking though. Option B: THANK YOU. It is too early/late for me to eat. I am not that hungry. It smells amazing! (If it does, of course) Have some manners and be polite. It doesn’t cost a thing.

@reirei7851 Год назад

I love that “have some manners and be polite. It doesn’t cost a thing” 🤍🤍 Having hate and anger is exhausting. Why put so much energy into that? I’ll never understand it.

@helloliggy Год назад

Is curried eggs really that insane to white people?

@inezy6329 Год назад

But honestly, THAt is definitely not an egg curry. As an Asian, I'm shocked that she told them that it is egg curry. I think she doesn't know how to cook. Maybe the cousin has tasted her cooking before 😆.

@aabe1189 Год назад

@@inezy6329 I'm not American nor Asian, but thank you for mentioning the dish's name (I couldn't hear it in the video), will try making it sometimes cause it looks amazing :) Are there any other simple Indian/Bangladeshi recipes like that?

@derrillnixson2801 Год назад

In some cultures its a sign of disrespect to not take or accept what they are offering or giving to you

@jadehaylee Год назад

The cousin saying her food looks terrible…so rude

@princess_ama Год назад

Yeah, that pissed me off

@m.j.j.7092 Год назад

The guy did not protect her. What a flop!

@DarkSky66xx 6 месяцев назад

It does look terrible

@eccehomo4152 Год назад

This is pure racism

@karinaruizleyva2631 Год назад

Love doesn’t have race.

@jayadaradhika1408 Год назад

What person in their right mind would ever think a Canadian would want to marry someone for a greencard?! And that cousin? It's because of rude, disrespectful people like him that Americans have such a bad name for themselves. People like him and his family give a bad name to the country and make life more difficult for the Americans who are lovely souls. She must really love the dude to put up with his family like that. Good like to them both...

@Ataiatek Год назад

Racism

@reirei7851 Год назад

@@Ataiatek I’ll never understand it. People with that much hate in their hearts are disgusting.

@martinvanburen4578 Год назад

You can't blame these guys, they come from blue collar, Texas/Southern culture where if you aren't White, you are Mexican or Black. They view the world a certain way. Only way to get around that is push them out of the way. Buy the factory, fire the people and set a new order. That's the only way you get respect. This guy has kids from another relationship, not a doctor ...so what does he do? Construction? Local mill? If it was prestigious they would have mentioned it.

@samstone936 Год назад

I came here to say the exact same thing Jayada. Canada and United States are basically sister countries. They are almost identical. Are those Americans really that stupid that they think people from Canada are dying to get into the United States For a green card? 😂

@gypsyqueen3806 Год назад

None of you guys are getting it, she’s from Bangladesh, not from Canada. They might have immigrated to Canada but they are NOT from there... Her family is Muslim. She even said herself that she won’t want her kids to have any of his religion or input from his family!! It’s disgusting, does she really think she’s better??? She obviously thinks she’s better than him and I don’t know why he’d want to marry somebody like that...

@Kondohgirl Год назад

The cousin, Austin, gave me an icky feeling. Sir, you’re a grown ass man Icking Someone else food. Be a big boy and say “thank but not thank you” to her the onion and eggs. Ugh…that part is so cringe

@angelaburgener1701 Год назад

This dude really be out there calling eggs and onions with some spices "cultural difference" bruhh hahaha

@unelunatic Год назад

How to say I’m racist without saying I’m racist

@rijusnar1994 Год назад

You Can Say that to both side actually,culture diffrences means a lot . If the two of them last longer then good for them. I Can understand from both family perspective

@iMatti00 Год назад

Seems like racial bias to me, not racism per se. I hate when people blame everything on race, But in this case I do agree that it’s racial bias. At least for most people. Most people wouldn’t think a white woman from Canada wants a green card. Though I will say that it does feel like to meet more people who have brown skin are more likely to want to come to the US than just somebody who comes from a majority white country. My feeling may be incorrect, and I’m open to be disproven. But that’s a side point anyway.

@iMatti00 Год назад

Oh yeah, and also I have additional points/question. You’re calling it racism, though I disagree with that term per se, are you saying that the white people are “racist“ or the Muslim people too? A lot of people will answer that question and say both families are being racist, but I would say most of them have their initial accusations being directed at the white people until they’re asked a question and they have to think about it and realize there’s really no difference between the two different families.

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

Both families are being biased

@Donald75 Год назад

I agree her family is very racist

@al_pal_ Год назад

It was a little weird how her husband insulted her traditional dress. She seemed taken aback.

@princess_ama Год назад

And the way the cousin was talking about the food. I’m more concerned for her than for him about this relationship. 😬

@SuqarCakies Год назад

I agree that was a red flag

@nyc9721 Год назад

Yeah and he literally said that because she’s not showing “enough skin”.. it’s seems like he likes her better when she dresses more sexual. That part was weird

@scruffyo4460 Год назад

I would not be with a guy if his family didn’t like or accept me. It’s not worth the headache.

@TiniestHippo 11 месяцев назад

Ikr 🥴 if he cut them off that's one thing, but if he doesn't even have the guts to stand up for you and call them out on it.... run 🏃

@Shannete572 Месяц назад

Yes exactly. It’s not worth the headache, nah she can do better. If I was a guy. I would treat her right.

@Shannete572 Месяц назад

Exactly

@LoveHal0 Год назад

Being concerned that she's with you for a green card when shes Canadian is comical. The amount of jobs she's had was a red flag? If she didnt have a job history, they would call her lazy. I am glad she let the cousin (and fam cause I am sure they watched this) that she could easily stay in Canada and have a good life if she wanted to.

@ChronicallyAmused Год назад

YES! Canada is a good country as well. The US has its issues - i dont think people realize how Americans are viewed by some across the world. Super expensive healthcare, soaring crime, and skyrocketing xenophobia. Wow, paradise!

@tessy28 Год назад

A lot of Americans have never even travelled outside of their states. Have no passports and never travelled before. They have no clue how good other people have it in other ocuntries

@emeraldgreeneyess5619 Год назад

I wouldn't want to live in Canada especially with who is in control over there,Canada used to be a good place to live until that guy took over

@reirei7851 Год назад

Trust me. Allot of Americans know exactly how other countries look at us. It’s so embarrassing. At one point many of us used to have so much pride to be an American but lately…🤦🏻‍♀️ The healthcare is a fucking joke and the crime has so many terrified. Parents have anxiety to send their kids to school! The racism and gun violence in the schools are ridiculous. It’s like our pets have more rights than the people of color.

@someonethereQ Год назад

⁠@@hashbrown4me you have a muslim name 🤔

@youngk001 Год назад

@@emeraldgreeneyess5619 the one who took over America isn’t any better than our prime minister here😂 Jesus

@ebonyphoenixrising6094 Год назад

Is it because she's Canadian or she's a brown skinned Muslim....hmmmm

@sososasa-gf9te 6 месяцев назад

Excuse me, She's totally not Muslim, I swear she's lying.

@Luis_Domingos Год назад

Why does he still have a relationship with his family when they treat his wife like that? The cousin's reaction to her food was appalling and racist... Pathetic

@tessy28 Год назад

Honestly not sure why the husband didn't throw him out. My fiance wouldn't even stand for his brother talking to me anyhow and his brother loves me.

@tshiamomosella8325 Год назад

I feel like he is enabling his family's toxicity and racism towards his wife by still trying to have a relationship with them.If he cared as much as he claims to care about her he would go no contact.

@iMatti00 Год назад

So the white family is racist but the brown family is not? Is that because of the crazy believe that only whites can be racist?

@iMatti00 Год назад

Oh, and by the way, how would not liking someone’s food and being rude about it be about racism? There is traditional American food I don’t like, if I’m rude about it is that mean I’m racist against other whites? _Edit 6/23/23: corrected small voice dictation typo, like where I put “Howell“ instead of “how”._

@Luis_Domingos Год назад

@@iMatti00 He was immediately dismissive of the food without even trying because he clearly has issues with her and her culture. It's okay for you not to like clam chowder because you have a shellfish allergy, or because you've tried it and don't like the taste, not because it's "a stinky dish made by New Englanders".

@intothevoid1996 Год назад

If she was a white canadian, the worst they'd say to her is call her a golddigger. This is all pure rascism. How the husband talks about her also rubs me wrong "its one of her cultural foods." and "It barely has any skin showing." when talking about the lehenga, it's just weird...

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

I don't care what race the Canadian is they should stay there...in Canada even if they are white brown purple green, come on now Canada? You can't get worse than that

@tashaax1993xanimalloverx Год назад

He said not enough skin showing clearly a joke ....

@fatimamahmudusa Год назад

I am Bangladeshi. The outfit she showed is a lehenga. Sari is a different outfit. Just fyi.

@intothevoid1996 11 месяцев назад

@@fatimamahmudusa oh thanks for correcting me! I edited the comment.

@farahjoseph 10 месяцев назад

@@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777oh shut up!!

@lemonbar7 Год назад

His family is ridiculous!

@driv3mysoul Год назад

Right? “I think it’s been long enough that we can kind of, be open” says one cousin -after they’ve been married for years 😂

@Crispr00 Год назад

I think Austin was a bit jealous…I’m pretty sure he wanted Mackey all for himself 😭😭😭

@brookejinki6223 Год назад

EVERYONE knows that leaving Canada to come to America AIN’T a win…she loves that man😂😂🙌🏾Especially if his cousin gonna criticize her food like southerners ain’t got a whole “unique” menu of their own😑

@DizzyME13 Год назад

I’m kinda starting to think Canada is looking pretty good compared to putting up with all our idiot politicians in the U.S. at least they were smart enough to stand up to the pharmaceutical companies and provide actual healthcare for their citizens. 😀

@tshiamomosella8325 Год назад

"Unique" is one way of putting it.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤢🤢🤢😷😷😷

@LoveHal0 Год назад

Bingo! Cause Im like he should just go to Canada instead

@deszu Год назад

deadass they should just move to Canada. they wouldn’t be judged nearly as much as they are in the southern USA. also southern people have a whole lot to say, acting like they’re any better

@theuglycanadian Год назад

Mayonnaise 😅

@MyNamesNotCraig2 Год назад

I think it’s pretty obvious that she’s a very liberal Muslim, she’s literally Canadian, why his parents are concerned at all is fucking absurd. She’s an absolute queen and HE has just as many hang ups if not MORE so his family needs to tighten up.

@Happy_nessa Год назад

Right!!? It’s not like she’s coming from a third-world country!

@gypsyqueen3806 Год назад

@@Happy_nessa ummmm yes she is actually!!! They might have immigrated to Canada but they are NOT Canadian!!! They come from Bangladesh!!!!

@deszu Год назад

⁠⁠@@gypsyqueen3806 are you dense? her PARENTS are immigrants, not her. she was born and brought up in Canada. yea her ethnicity is Bangladeshi, but her nationality is Canadian and she’s probably a citizen, therefore no she isn’t coming from a third world country

@MyNamesNotCraig2 11 месяцев назад

@@deszu yes, they are dense.

@kateishere569 Год назад

Its eggs and onions dude, its not snakes and spiders chilllll

@murk959 Год назад

The guy is also so rude Saying that he wouldn't marry her because she didn't have too much skin showing in her cultural dress....who tf says that to his own wife?

@m.j.j.7092 Год назад

Grap

@nyc9721 Год назад

I noticed that right away!! It’s like he only likes her when she’s done up/less clothing

@stephanie.420 Год назад

His family, especially his cousin, are terrible 😧 holy crap

@johnT906 Год назад

Hey Baby im not a dentist but I could give you a filling!

@m.j.j.7092 Год назад

He is grap too. Respectless and abusive

@jadehaylee Год назад

A Canadian looking for a green card is comical

@rpinbc2748 Год назад

Buddy doesn’t seem to understand she had free healthcare and left it! We Canadians have it real good…..clean air, water, vast true wilderness and wildlife, nice people, high quality of living. Nobody’s leaving that easily believe me!

@megandrynan6080 Год назад

Lol. Im Canadian and I would certainly not choose to date an American just for the citizenship. 😂 Im not saying the US is bad, but Im from a country with a high standard of living, so.. her family's views are absurd. Its obviously more about racism and the fact that she has a Muslim background, which is very sad.

@paquitaelmaestro1576 5 месяцев назад

I’m Canadian and I was so confused lolll you are so right

@joyhudson5674 Год назад

The cousin is rude to her. The eggs and onions looked good. He didn’t have to be rude about it and then he brought it back up when they sat down to talk. And to say she’s using Macky. Sheffy and Macky need to stay away and just be happy.

@tmlee123 Год назад

If I had just 1% of her patience. Maybe that's why he married her. Because honestly I couldn't.. I just couldn't do it.

@bellajfk Год назад

this is ridiculous. i dont get what the deal is . also why do americans think that going to their country is like winning a jackpot . Usa is not what it was back in the gold days.. Im sorry but people dont want to live there . there are better places to live and 100 times safer. JUst let this couple live , they are a normal couple jeeezz. both families will regret acting like this one day . Also the cousin is kind of off- what was that comment that her cooking looks disgusting ? and there are cultural diffrences like eggs and onion ? so stupid. its freaking eggs and onion people. why would he "ruin his life" as he mentioned.. I swear people these days are crazy.

@justacutie5201 Год назад

😂😂😂 As a Canadian that lady definitely did not do it for the geen card. ARE YOU KIDDING?? Toronto to the South!??? 😂😂😂

@Mrs.TJ516 Год назад

Right haha

@LeifCoffield Год назад

poor girl having to endure that. sad to see that racism it’s still so rife in todays day and age.

@nickyy_6021 Год назад

I came from watching this episode on a Snapchat short just came to RU-vid to comment on the cousin he is sooo racist and that guys family is sooo racist. You can’t tell me if she were white they would be questioning her and running background checks on her this much 🤦🏽‍♀️

@johnT906 Год назад

Hey Baby are you a flight attendant? Cause I intend to make you feel like flying without even leaving the ground!

@cakecleveland9438 Год назад

Sheffy is a whole sweet vibe ! Macky has lucked out ! We know she loves him we can see it !

@oliviabrown261 Год назад

No to eggs with onions because you grew up with no flavor in your eggs...at least try them. In addition, Canada is part of North America and moving to the U.S. was a step down in regards to health care, gun reform, environmental laws. Veiled racism. Wish them the very best with or without familial approval.

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

My in laws are Indian and even they said that dish is gross, stop using the word racist for everything it's losing the real meaning when you call everyone a racist it loses the true value of the word it's played out already if I didn't like pizza I'm racist against Italians?? I guess in clown 🤡 world this is true right?

@deszu Год назад

@@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 ur lying because eggs with onion in curry IS an Indian dish. we eat it all the time. and yeah to say it’s terrible is r@cist, couldve easily just refused nicely.

@Skaterwilliams9754 Год назад

Both of their families don't want them to be together but they are very happy and married as a amazing loving couple 👩‍❤️‍👨💍💕

@diamondgem2365 Год назад

Bro really passed on deem bhuna. His loss, I would have said yes so fast 😋

@julianabrotz Год назад

This woman should run. Eek.

@tashaax1993xanimalloverx Год назад

She can do better than him I feel so sorry for her she seems lovely he don't support her

@TheRogueDiva Год назад

Background check: she had to many jobs...thats a bad thing?!?!?

@driv3mysoul Год назад

Lol for a citizenship?? From Canada?? I assure you that’s not why she married him 😂. I will agree though, good southern guys are the best. I’m from Detroit and I’m dating someone from south Kentucky. I’m going to marry him 😊

@tshiamomosella8325 Год назад

They are a beautiful couple and i am glad their love for each other has won.

@Audrinalina Год назад

I had seen them in "help im in a secret relationship" He was upset that she never introduced her family to him...

@cindydsouza4802 Год назад

Wow I’m so stunned that such racially insensitive (some may consider just racist) statements were made by the cousin with complete lack of self awareness

@LifewithJocie Год назад

in my culture if someone offers you food you eat and if you don’t it’s quite rude and not like there forcing you to eat, it’s just kind to do.. I don’t like how rude that was and then when she tried on her cultures outfit, he had the audacity to say no I wouldn’t marry you what difference does that make?

@luxeydaze Год назад

I would have loved to try her egg curry!

@purplequeen1727 Год назад

I bet it was delicious!

@elzc06 Год назад

On a totally different note, I'm in love with their backyard fence

@franceslovato9842 Год назад

A beautiful couple with all their wonderful diversities! 💝

@I_am_kd 9 месяцев назад

This couple was on MTV's Secret relationship show. For her hiding him from her family ..she mentioned in this show.

@tigkokodevlosangeles5207 6 месяцев назад

She needs to run a background check on each of them back.

@laliberte...8965 Год назад

Lots of love ❤️❤️❤️ to you two 🙏 My family is indian and french mixed and we live well, dont bother from what other think

@caleah2538 Год назад

i promise nobody from canada is marrying for a us greencard 💀

@DukeSaragono Год назад

Wow she's so so beautiful. You are one lucky guy

@smokinaces9873 8 месяцев назад

The boyfriend in the background from the start was shaking his head noooo to his cousin! :D

@hurishanaidoo6731 Год назад

Dont let anyone tell you how to love. You are beautiful couple.

@itzkez97 Год назад

Everyone is talking about his famoly being disrespectful and racist but what about her family lmao. She said they don't want his culture in their kid, which is pretty bad.

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

You can't call them racist remember in society today only white is racist no one else, the liberals say that...

@Erdbeerkuchen105 11 месяцев назад

Exactly

@neonpandas 11 месяцев назад

As an American no one from America is suspicious of a Canadian regarding green card issues. Any other country, sure, but not Canada. We practically consider Canadians American ourselves. And some Americans are trying to get Canadian citizenship so we don't bat an eye abut Canadians. I've never heard of a Canadian seeking out an American for citizenship. In my personal opinion Canadians have universal healthcare so that to me is a pro to remain in Canada.

@tyreesetjjoyner1995 Год назад

So sweet

@Titelle2801 Год назад

I don’t think she married him for a green card, she is from Canada 🇨🇦

@inezy6329 Год назад

I think she married him to get as far away from her family. Bangladeshi girls always have a problem with their parents especially girls like her who do not like to practice the religion n do not like to be controlled by strict Bangladeshi parents n extended family members.

@lilylee5924 Год назад

Beautiful Couple! Let them be.

@melanindawn2050 Год назад

This marriage won’t last long.

@dianaelberry4983 Год назад

Sheffy~ this is why better to marry your own so lower families such as this man or any other man who is foreign is not even given the chance to have the audacity to make it look like their son is too good for you. You are 💯 correct and better than him and his entire family. Someone needs to put them in their place, and that’s your husband’s job. If he is a pushover and keeps quiet, this will continue. My question is about Austin and the age concern, what is the age difference between you too?

@chelonia7575 Месяц назад

They won't last.. He wants her to "show more skin" when she simply is showing her tradition clothing instead of appreciating her and her qualities. Also won't stick up for her. Too many red flags and differences.

@mikaylahfreedom5448 10 месяцев назад

People completely dismissing the fact her parents also disapprove of him

@reginamushi6582 Год назад

A local girl could ve completely ruin his life too!!! Would they have done a background check with a local girl!!!

@mymelodymusic 5 месяцев назад

This guy and his family are red flags! He didn’t like her traditional clothing and his cousin the “mediator” is being rude about her food. Girl, run! I feel bad for her because she said she couldn’t find someone better than him. Umm.. yes you can!

@antbanks415 Месяц назад

Be quiet

@mymelodymusic Месяц назад

@@antbanks415 this proves you must be a red flag too haha

@allthingstw2566 13 дней назад

The superiority complex from those people is surreal. They have no appealing rich food cuisines yet look down on people with rich cuisines. Interesting!!

@vuksgitau Год назад

Y'all are such a beautiful couple

@gillowens24 Год назад

Beautiful couple

@vuksgitau Год назад

Ever notice when someone says very religious a whole lot of prejudice follows.

@nothing2lose428 Год назад

As long as they have each others back the worse is when family aren’t excepting I wish them the best. The mom needs to back off it’s her sons life

@matthewjohansseen3175 Год назад

They don’t look like they have chemistry tbh

@inezy6329 Год назад

I think the hubby is in love with her. Look at how he looked at her all the time she was talking..but I don't think she is in love with him. She sounded very authoritative n almost like always challenging n competing with him.

@matthewjohansseen3175 Год назад

@@inezy6329 Yeah she comes across weird to me tbh

@amandaveige4432 Год назад

They were on a episode of help I'm in a secret relationship on mtv

@SBchicadebaile Год назад

What date and episode

@amandaveige4432 Год назад

@SBchicadebaile the very first episode of season 2 I believe it aired sometime in February

@rakesiamuller4757 Год назад

I was in an interracial relationship when I was 17 until I was 19 and his mom sat me down to tell me I can't marry him for citizenship or his money(they weren't rich and we were both born in South Africa) to the point where I had to private my social media . It was purely race based because he cheated on me with an ex bff (she is the same race as him) and she is being treated like a second daughter now. Mind you I am university educated with at least 2 generations of masters /phd candidates in my family and I was the "gold digger" while my ex and his new gf just have high school diplomas. Racist in-laws will find crazy stuff to hide their true colours behind. Also not bashing people who have just a diploma or is a blue collar worker.I have massive respect for people who work in these professions especially minimum wage and physical labour. Just saying how absurd their claims was towards me and how they tried to justify it as gold digging because of South Africa and their segregation history where people of colour couldn't get high paying jobs .

@Turnpost2552 11 месяцев назад

This relationship has alot of red flags. Sadly.

@jaredefeliciano8874 Год назад

They look so fkng perfect together. How can peolple be so rude and hatefull at that point??? I just don't see why! We all can see when something is wrong and that is not what we see in that couples life, they (family) are just RACIST AF. BRAZIL HERE

@portiarose6914 8 дней назад

LOL at the idea of someone who is canadian marrying an american for a green card…i know she had to laugh when she heard that accusation 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 also who raised the cousin?…like who straight up tells someone their food is nasty🤔

@amie6587 Год назад

She’s very strong 😂 I would have his cousin he was being rude

@jessicadeveau3502 Год назад

That cousin is a real piece of work; maybe learn some manners and have respect

@user-vt5mr3hc2s 6 месяцев назад

Sheffy seems like a super coool chick!

@LithaZwelibanzi Год назад

weren't they on "help, im in a secret relationship" ?? that mtv show?

@tmc1373 Год назад

link???

@mildredpearlkagoda551 Год назад

Am from Uganda, Africa and I know moving to America has never been a win. I might lose a guy I have been seeing for the last few weeks because he thought I would follow him to the US.

@dumamay283 6 месяцев назад

i'm American, and it's obvious these people never been to CAnada. CAnada is basically like America. Same Shiet basically, except CAnada has way better HEalthcare and better tax system if you work out of the country IF you are american, you have to pay uncle sam tax no matter where you live

@LoveAngelBaby 20 дней назад

they were on "im in a secret relationship" with Tami. Its nice to see that they stayed together and made it work. good for them. they love each other. hmmm I wonder if they found out that shes an adult entertainer. her being with a man outside of her culture is a much smaller issue lol

@MeeblesSporella Год назад

I personally think running a background check on anyone you date a must. You never know what you may find

@inezy6329 Год назад

Exactly..I'm Malay n it is our tradition for families to have a background check on the potential partner. Our parents would send some elderly people to do the job. It is called merisik or espionage in English. But nowadays this tradition is not widely practiced anymore because young people tend to choose their own partners n sure enough, a lot of problems arise due to lack of espionage n the divorce rate is very high.

@Celesteheavenlyangel Год назад

These two were on help I'm in a secret relationship show on MTV, this interview here failed to mention that she is an escort,when they brought that to his attention he knew about it and it was something that they do for money,,,,

@gabbygabs9220 Год назад

Who cares

@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777 Год назад

Someone paid for that🤢?

@Mrs.TJ516 Год назад

@@EsmeraldaWolfsbane7777What do you look like?

@me-wi7mr Год назад

Women should be running background checks on their partners these days. His family is insaaaaane!

@monicalucius2029 10 месяцев назад

She came bc she wanted to her family is NOT POOR ..she said that and most donot come with NOTHING..LIVE YOUR BEST LIVES

@prettylyricsmarie Год назад

Sad, his family is like that The whole fact they are opposites in every way, is tough He might have to give up his family, for his wife Sad

@amuhobwejudithedinance1961 Год назад

Which online app did u use

@DizzyME13 Год назад

We Southern girls all know good Southern guys are the best- I’ve been married to one for 12 years and counting…😀 (I said “good” for a reason lol)

@werrarefamily3448 Год назад

True facts! Ain’t nothing like a southern man!

@Zahoreoz Год назад

They’re great but they’re hard to find

@rpinbc2748 Год назад

And if you’re from Canada……it would not be easy to leave it for the US!

@TuAmigoElMorrocoy Год назад

@RP inBC trade free health care for school shootings and "freedom" as a buzzword yet borderline theocratic state getting all kinds of restrictions on your personal life, and Bible thumpers unable to mind their own business. I'm an inmigrant in Canada as well, and the South of the US sounds a lot like the 3rd world country I scaped from. Religious fanatics, crime, judgemental people with poor education... really bad, Canada is a lot more civilized