key takeaways 1)failures are not bad 2)parents are your strength 3)what you give as input ,accordingly you get output,so work hard 4)Face your fears 5)life must go on,maybe you can get a better opportunity someday on your interest
Bhai mere se php me training ke bahane 2000 rupees advanced jma Karva liye. Phir ek hafte baad test leke mera selection nhi hua. Bole freelancing karoge. Maine mna kr diya thha
I'm 30 years old and never attended a interview after graduation. I have fear of failing interviews for so long. I have interview in 3 days. I learnt full stack in last 4 years. And this is my first interview. Don't be like me. Fear will kill you from inside. What's the worst that could happen in a interview? Rejection. Face it and overcome it. If your'e fresher attend as many interviews as possible. I wish I had the courage in last 4 years. Thanks Anshul for sharing your story. It makes a big difference for youngsters who are watching the video. Update: I got a job as a spring developer but the package is low but company and team looks good. My colleagues are far experienced than me and it will take multiple years to reach them. But for now I'm happy with how things have gone. Best of luck.
I am 2023 pass out and the same situation i'm facing now. I am also trying as much as i can, God knows what will be the future. But I believe in myself.
My first job was in Capgemini I had failed to secure cut off marks in training and got removed from the company TODAY I'm working in ISRO Every incident happened to you can be related.
Don't take anything for granted. Life is not same for all, sometimes you become a scapegoat. but only thing i learned in my life is be humble. Give your best short, keep trying. leave rest to god
I lost my job 8months back. I am still looking for it. Thanks Anshul, for sharing these words. It feels like a brother sharing n consoling me that things will eventually get better. I wish you achieve great success in life!
when you say that ki " End me sb thik ho hi jata hai " and "Jahan aapko jana hai life aapko vaha le hi jayegi " I strongly believe on this two things. But Thank you so much sir for giving me hope to not lose a hope .
Hi Anshul, Thanks for sharing your failure story! It's hard to present something in front of large audience. Even brave to show weaknesses/failures and own the situation. Your story will give every one strength to keep hope through their struggles. I wanted to list down lessons you mentioned for others, hope that's alright! 1. Failures could be stepping stone towards success. 2. What you give is what you get. 3. Parents are your strength. 4. Fear seems bigger until we face it. 5. Life doesn't happen to you, it happens for you.
I am currently going through same phase from last 7 months, due to layoff, trying to search and applied almost 190+ jobs, hardly get 3-4 interviews and they rejected. Very tough time from 7 months. Still being optimistic and trusting on god. will do definately good for me
I was emotional throughout your story. I could relate to every point you said, I was thrown out of my company during the training phase after almost a year. It was the most difficult time I had ever faced in my life. Since then I have been looking for jobs or alternative ways to learn new thing like Masters, Business etc. But this life lesson has forever taught me to always keep trying.
I completed my diploma in mechanical in 2015 and till 2019 I was searching for job bt not succeed bt later I decided to do any job so currently am working as supervisor just 8k per month and corresponding completing my BE in computer engineering now my age is 30 till my BE gets completed will be 32 looking my age and with zero experience I don't know any company will hired me or not or again I will be facing same struggle...but thanks brother for motivating i hope this pain and struggle will end one day
Always try, never let yourself down. I have seen people at the age of 38-40 working as a service desk engineer. So try to learn new technologies and give your best
No extra anything .... everything naturally expressed . Can't afford to go without subscribing. Thanks for sharing . God bless you , your mother and a rare HR you mentioned.
I recently lost my job due to massive layoff in my company , won't say struggling but going through a rough phase. today, while preparing for the Data Engineer interview I came across your video and I felt the pain you suffered which I am through currently. Hats off to you , May you grow exponentially Sir...I will comment here again, after getting a Job.
I lost my job today and i came across your video and felt each and every word that u have said... Thanks bhai for bringing up your story and inspiring us❤
Everywhere all r uploading success story but apki failure story is way above that, m even 2014 passout exp all but till today m trying hard to get a job into IT...
I lost my job due to my health issue 😣 right now struggling alot lost everything but hoping to move ahead ,what I understood from my life is that do what u like & be healthy always because others are secondary anyway nice to know about you
Hi Sir thanks for that story , I also lost my job due to internal politics I was faced forceful resignation and currently I am on my notice period. 5 dec 2023 LWD. Feeling less confident and alone. Your words really helped it act as catalyst for me at this point of time. Thanks again sir. ❤
The only two candidates from Shivaji University who were able to pass the programming aptitude test for the Capgemini at kit college in 2011 were me and my friend Brijesh. However, both of us had backlogs, and the company eventually changed the eligibility requirements. I experienced a similar situation, working day and night in the shop at first but with poor presentation, and after a year, the company let me go. However, that period is one that I will always cherish and remember, and I eventually became the best in machine design. Anshul is an incredible inspiration for bards.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I have been struggling since 2013, and like you said correctly, there are lot of inner struggles, and I don't have much friends to share with. I did not have luxury to take 3-6 months of time to gain myself because my parents have been depended on me completely. Even the little friends also were not that great in understanding what I go through. It's very difficult to go through this alone, and it's always constant comparison. I am trying not to give up even after 10 years and I hope something good happens soon.
Sir Ji this is exactly what I'm going through right now. I'm from pune. I'm in the same phase where I have lost my job in Feb. Before joining the job I was pursuing the Full stack development course and just when J2EE was about to start after Core Java, I got the offer from a reputed company for support role and out of frustration I took it. I left the course which I still regret about and now I don't have a job. "Na gharka na ghat ka wali situation hogai hai" 🙂 I can't afford to get a new course again now so I'm just trying to learn from RU-vid. I believe in myself and my friends also believed in me because I used to clear all their concepts, I used to take SQL mock exam of hundreds of students in the institute where I was learning as I was good at it and teachers also believed in me. I was the first person in my group who got the job but look at me now, they all got placed recently and I'm still clueless 😅
@@Gauravkumar-jm4ve you are right friend.. that is the reason i left previous job.. It was a rotational shift job and my work life balance was zero, It's like I'm fully dedicated to the job only so i left. But now I'm struggling.
Failure is the fuel, that ignites our souls, where success brings you prosperity in the long run, You gotta keep grinding your way up and don't you quit on your dreams. When that failure ignites your soul!
I have been working for 9 years and earning decent, but still I am always anxious about losing my job. There is always a feeling that what if I am not able to perform well than peers and juniors. There is a constant state of stress in job. My struggle was similar to yours when i was looking for my first job, and the struggle still continues in job. In IT the job life is max 15 years for majority of people after that only the best and ambitious go up. I felt really good hearing your story and your progress since then. All the best.
Come out of this mindset, I'm in IT for 17 years and my seniors have been in the IT industry for 30+ years....Keep adopting change, keep learning, keep delivering..
I’m 19 years in IT ,there is no short cut for success ,going forward to be in IT is like constant learning and up skilling ,Don’t be a Nokia ,be a Samsung …Upgrade or perish ..
agar job nahi jaati toh aaj ye inte bada channel shayad humko nahi milta seekhne k liye, jo hota hai acceh ke liye hota hai. but failure se gir k waapis uthna ye karne k liye himmat lagti hai jo tumne kiya dost, all the best for future endeavours
Thank you so much sir for sharing your story as currently I am suffering from same scenario. I completed my gradation with BCA and failed in getting a job and it totally destroyed my character. I stopped stepping out from my room, stop taking calls, stop uttering a word for weeks and lose my hope to face anybody of my acquaintance. it totally destroyed my ability to face any interview again. I totally forget myself but listening to you i get encouragement to try again. your story helps me to understand these bad phases are temporary and it teaches you valuable life lesson for your future. I will try again sir. Thank you very much sir.
I too have the same exact situation, maybe this is just a phase, it shall too pass, work harder and harder and let's make it to the place where we are actually supposed to be, More power to you brother coming from a BCA graduate like you ! 😄❤️
Bhai I can feel & relate to your struggling phase...mai bhi 5-6 se saal struggle kiya hu... You need guru/guide to come out from this bad patch and be bold and stronger.. I believe the quote Comebacks are always stronger than setbacks...
I can connect this with me. I struggled in a similar manner. Finally I got a job after a lot of struggle. I'm doing well now. Guys never lose hope. Keep learning something new which pays off eventually 🎉
Thank you for sharing Anshul. Most of us bury this somewhere inside ourselves. I lost my job as well and it is a crushing feeling. Friends, family and a sense of hope are essential during this period. I'm questioning my whole line of work.
Yr it's true.. that after failure I also learnt life isn't for JOY it's for ENJOY moments. I became so calm and down to earth person.. the whole scenario around me has changed my whole perspective. Now I value everything that I have. Because what extreme will happen I'll fail at the end.. But where actually I came from... the failure.. so I'll copup again. I'll learn new things every moment.
Thank you sir, Today I got the call that I'm releasing from the project, and since morning I felt very harried, and after watching this video in which you shared your initial journey of an IT career, it felt good. From every failure, there are many things to learn, and that is one step toward success. I really appreciate your journey, which makes me stronger to conquer the hurdles in my career.
I aciidently came acroos your video. What you have faced earlier, I am facing now. I lost my job recently and I was depressed but after watching your video, I got new strenth again fight back again.......Thank you so much for sharing your pain........
Thank you so much sir for making so motivational video since currently I am going through same phase currently after losing my job 3 years back in pandemic 🙏🙏
bhai dil se video banay tumne , aisa experience kewal middile class wale boys ko hi anubhav hota hai. awesome bro related to me in my past struglling time.
Hats off to you anshul. Your hardwork and passion for IT echoes in your videos. I could totally relate what you said about hardwork. I too had to face similar struggle where due to my lower marks in graduation i couldn't get any placement from campus during MBA. I was broken at that time, but when i got my first job I worked really hard and learnt whatever I could on the job. that knowledge and experience today i gained in my first job has helped me to grow and stand successfully where i am today
Don't know how RU-vid suggested this video suddenly today but I really needed it. Got rejected today in another interview and it was going so bad that I had to disconnect the call due to so much of guilt.
i make it a point to write down all the questions i cannot answer. Atleast , i will be prepared for next interview.Sometimes, u cannot recollect what was asked. And once a day goes, we even forget that we dint do well in interview...
Thank you soo much for sharing your journey, it makes my present self comfort that i am not alone in this journey, I was almost depressed that i havent got any jobs yet, the guys who didnt even pass properly are earning well right now and me even after having cummulative 8.18 still dont have a job, I feel very bad every day sitiing at home and eating for free and i feel very much tensed and anxious ! Thanks for this video ! May you be blessed with the strongest energy in this universe !
Last year I left my job in august to find opportunity in foreign country but failed miserably, I came back to India started giving interviews it took me 6 months of struggle but finally this year in March 2023, I got another job, two things which I feel was learning for me, don't depend too much on your relatives if they call you to foreign country for job rather if u want to move abroad research on your own and then move. Secondly moving abroad might give u money, but it will take away your peace of mind, living with your family is most important thing even if u r earning little, when I was away from my family I realized this.
Agree. I wanted to work outside India but never got an opportunity through my earlier employers. I decided to give it a try myself and started applying for jobs in the UK and Canada. After a few months try and rejections, I landed a job in the UK with sponsorship. I didn't want to take risks as I am a family person with dependants. So I accepted the offer as it was a reputed company with a decent salary. I landed in the UK in Aug 2022 and in just a few months they laid me off along with a few more people due to market conditions. My life turned upside down in the blink of an eye. There was no warning or signs of lay off, all of a sudden they asked me to stop working and said they are terminating my employment. I had a few months to find another job with sponsorship to be in the UK, if not I have to go back to India. Those were the hardest days but as I was staying with my wife and kids, I had moral support and kept me busy and distracted. I had full support from my parents as well. Going back meant I had to find another job in India, financially it would impact me a lot as I already spent to move to the UK and few other personal sacrifices. Finally I got a job offer now and I am yet to join. Just hoping that I dont have to face this situation again in the future. My hard time clearly showed who was giving me support. It is always only family and may be very very few good friends but they would have their own life and problems to be worried about.
I would like to appreciate the HR also his small consideration and concern helped Anshul Sir . Only courageous people can address their failures like you have done. Kudos for that
I am feeling very relaxing and feeling attached with you. Your all 4-5 min endings line are touching and right of this life . Your thoughts are so clear and very realistic. Thanks 🙏 sir
I don't know why and how youtube suggest me this video. I am going through my tuff time. Facing failure from every side. while watching this video I was feeling like myself explaining my bad time, my failure. This make me cry but at the same time this video also give me motivation. Thank you
Hats off & respect to you Anshul sir..As you are a mentor for people who are in IT we all can relate with you as I think everyone once in their lifetime has pass through this phase..We can learn from your learnings, thanks for sharing this personal subject with us 🙏🙏
Thank you i recently loose my job ..... I am doing study i really thankful that u share ur experience i will work hard.. Once i get the job i will comment you down ....😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
God bless. It takes a lot of gutts to talk about failures. Failure is a way to deeply introspect and work towards greater good. It is delay not defeat, a temporary detour not a dead end.
I'm experiencing the similar phase in life and not getting the clarity of the corporate world. Like you said will focus on improving myself and keep working hard. I hope i will able to get good job. Thanks much for the video :)
I cried watching this video for real. You won't believe, I'm in the same situation right now. I got my first fresher job in Pune. Went there all excited. And I lost my job in January this year. Uske bad mai laptop or ID card submit karne gayi thi and uss din bohot bhari sa lag raha tha uss place par Jake. And my fault is, I didn't apply for jobs from January to June. I don't know why. But I started avoiding interactions after losing my job. But in July I felt that if I don't start now, I will get nothing. So I started late but from July I'm upskilling myself daily and applying. Till now I don't have any offer. It is just increasing my gap. In between I criwd many times. But I am not giving up. Roz khud ko samjha rahi hu or fight kar rahi hu. Iss video ko dekh ke pray karti hu ki mai bhi iss phase se bahar nikal jau. I am depressed and feel alone. I don't pick relatives calls. I feel like a failure. I know nobody will read it probably. But wanted to express here.
