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"My Mom called, I didn’t pick up; hours later she passed away" - Ifedayo of DANG. 

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Diary of a Naija Girl (DANG)!
Ifedayo Agoro has always inspired me - the way she has built her viral community for the authentic stories of women across the country, and how she has followed her spirit in doing that - building it into a constantly-sold-out product business.
But of course all of that authenticity comes from a depth of her own personal experiences.
One day her mother called her, but she was watching a movie and didn’t pick up. A few hours after, her mother was dead. This tragedy immediately triggered the anxiety she continues to confront to this day.
An emotionally draining relationship that she didn’t find the courage to leave compounded this - leading to insomnia.
And then there was the intense mental, emotional and spiritual crisis she contended with as she struggled with an oil and gas job she didn’t love… until she found the courage to quit and become the lioness of the tribe of Dang.
How has she done it all?
Heartfelt, honest, deep. This conversation may just change your life.
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#WithChude is a special series of targeted multimedia (video, audio, text, event) conversations and investigations that leverage the voice, network and passion of its host, Chude Jideonwo and his interviews, to underline issues, raise consciousness and spark movements; especially in Africa and for Africans.
#WithChude has been revolutionary at the forefront of issues around sexual abuse, depression, HIV/AIDs, diversity, shame amongst others, and continues to break new ground - holding space, sharing grace, and calling in.
Focused on narratives that enable and strengthen the mind (mental health), heart (emotional health) and spirit (spiritual health), its themes center on empathy, compassion, mindfulness, wellness, happiness, love, joy and food for the soul.
Beyond inspiration, beyond motivation, this is about connection.
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@josephcrack4332
@josephcrack4332 19 дней назад
"I love this person. I'm into it with this person. I'm emotionally invested. You are all the things that a partner wants. Your partner is not the things that you want." Powerful words...very true! My previous relationships drained me emotionally and mentally also, until I found the true love of my life in the person of my charming queen Fatimat. My relationship with her has been amazing, sweet, lovely and peaceful. She has shown me true love and care indeed, she has brought me joy and peace of mind. In her, I find fulfilment in life! I admire her, respect her, value her, treasure her, cherish & adore her till eternity...I love her forever and a day! ❤😊
@Asspace428
@Asspace428 16 дней назад
Aww
@iamvictorious247
@iamvictorious247 7 дней назад
@@Asspace428Very pleased to hear. This from a male gender.
@skin_court
@skin_court 2 дня назад
Happy For youuuuu
@josephcrack4332
@josephcrack4332 День назад
@@skin_court Thank you!
@josephcrack4332
@josephcrack4332 День назад
@@iamvictorious247 Thank you!
@heisgilson
@heisgilson 19 дней назад
“Truly, when you’re naked in the bathroom, alone and afraid, we’re all just looking for one thing, it’s just to be happy.”….👌🏼
@tega3200
@tega3200 18 дней назад
Authenticity is a beautiful thing and Ife radiates it. 💖
@adeniketaiwo1205
@adeniketaiwo1205 19 дней назад
Now I see it, I have a lot in common with Ife. Talking about being in a relationship with a person who is not emotionally available & strategizing best way to communicate, but it still goes south. In short, almost everything Ife said resonate with me.
@ogd247ibuilders
@ogd247ibuilders 19 дней назад
For the first time, I am watching Chude and I appreciate knowing that there is a time to quit 7.7.2024, even as a MAN o, cause when u are trying and ur partner isn't...
@Unekwu998
@Unekwu998 19 дней назад
I find myself always panic over little things. No body understands 😢
@maryoghumu2229
@maryoghumu2229 17 дней назад
Just seeing myself in you. This is sooooo inspiring, Ife. Thank you!!😍
@dakonwe
@dakonwe 20 дней назад
As someone who deals with anxiety, it’s so nice to see that there are other people who understands how my brain works. Like this thing it’s obvious that it’s my mind playing tricks in me. 😂 but at this point! There’s absolutely nothing I can do about it. 😢
@marysimon7144
@marysimon7144 19 дней назад
Me too
@ibiminaabiye257
@ibiminaabiye257 19 дней назад
There is. You can rest in the shadow of the Almighty. Give your worries to Him literally
@barbarakafuidente4965
@barbarakafuidente4965 20 дней назад
Gosh I went through same thing, missed my mum’s calls whilst she was near death, as I was busy at work, next call I received was news of her passing. Yes I have anxiety n yes therapy seems to be helping. ❤& 💡 to everyone going through this. You’ve got this❤
@itorobassey4471
@itorobassey4471 18 дней назад
I'm so sorry about this. I hope you forgive yourself❤
@chidera2551
@chidera2551 17 дней назад
I’m so sorry
@Meriven2416
@Meriven2416 20 дней назад
Dang mama ❤❤❤
@Foxy7154Xx
@Foxy7154Xx 19 дней назад
Unrelated but please Chude, coming from a place of love and respect, don’t do that dye thing on your scalp again. I kept getting distracted.
@rufinandongo5518
@rufinandongo5518 19 дней назад
He's trying to grow his hair back. Probably dealing with hair loss or something like that. Hope it works for him. Can't wait to see the results 😊😊😊😊.
@Beyondbraids
@Beyondbraids 19 дней назад
You can’t tell an adult what to do or what not to do to their body! It’s call respect. He’s not asking for opinion about his appearance.
@coks4486
@coks4486 17 дней назад
😂😂😂 .. I knew my thought was here..
@Foxy7154Xx
@Foxy7154Xx 15 дней назад
@@Beyondbraids pele ma.
@funmiade575
@funmiade575 14 дней назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@BulolaOlujobi
@BulolaOlujobi 20 дней назад
Thank you ife ❤❤
@pelumipelumi904
@pelumipelumi904 19 дней назад
Both of you speak eloquently. Nice one
@Soyou-rq1xm
@Soyou-rq1xm 18 дней назад
Great Interview!
@nelsonasuen
@nelsonasuen 20 дней назад
The "God bless our provider" part took me out😂🤣
@noelieassengone
@noelieassengone 19 дней назад
😂😂😂😂
@pampam7886
@pampam7886 20 дней назад
Interesting interview
@TheStephanie112
@TheStephanie112 17 дней назад
So relatable!
@gistwithtoryteller59
@gistwithtoryteller59 19 дней назад
Ife is such a sound and grounded person. Her honesty is so contagious ❤❤
@dammieokandeji
@dammieokandeji 20 дней назад
Then when you just stop talking, they’d start noticing 😅😅😅
@adeyeyeoluwadamilola4735
@adeyeyeoluwadamilola4735 19 дней назад
This
@ritadankai7823
@ritadankai7823 19 дней назад
Right…!!!
@obaasakina2083
@obaasakina2083 9 дней назад
I feel like I'm talking 😭. God bless u all and love the interview and the way she speaks
@walatabig
@walatabig 20 дней назад
Not one person has understood my struggle with anxiety. Not one
@SandyCoco1
@SandyCoco1 20 дней назад
🫂
@CanadaVisaClinic
@CanadaVisaClinic 20 дней назад
Courage, you got this.
@vawor4471
@vawor4471 20 дней назад
Nobody does. Suffered the same until I asked myself if I was born with anxiety. No baby is born with anxiety. It becomes ingrained in our psyches one way or another. So, this led me lead on a path to find the cause. I found that mine was a result of complex traumatic stress disorder. I can say I have healed considerably. Even people around me notice the difference.
@Nanahauwa9
@Nanahauwa9 19 дней назад
@@vawor4471Thank you for sharing this. I would appreciate if you can share how you outgrown the disorder 😢. I know I have anxiety disorder. And I can say it’s as a result of childhood stress and traumas
@vawor4471
@vawor4471 18 дней назад
@@Nanahauwa9 it takes time and a lot of introspection plus being compassionate with yourself. I used to tell people that I grew up a generally anxious child. Used to bite my nails also, rather severely. In 2021, I got a job promotion but soon, I realised that I was having challenges handling tasks that I could do under normal circumstances and yet here I was, about to experience a nervous breakdown. So, I paused and asked myself, "Where is this anxiety coming from?" I was a victim of physical, verbal, emotional and sexual abuse. I did a whole year of reading on sexual abuse and its effects and how I was affected. Then, I got into healing. How to undo all these. I am not your typical Christian but I know that the Bible says something about God's people perishing through the lack of knowledge. This includes knowledge about the illnesses they face, like psychological and how to overcome. Most people think praying alone heals, it doesn't. There's a thing known as spiritual bypassing. The books on CSA - Childhood Sexual Abuse were an eye opener. They didn't take away what had been done, they showed me how I could recover. That was for the whole of 2023. Enter 2024, I continued therapy but with a qualified therapist. I did that for two months, together with material on complex posttraumatic stress disorder by Tim Fletcher. I am still listening to his material and he has a playlist on CPTSD and anxiety. I have lots to listen to until the year ends. But each episode breaks shackles. Lastly, I am working on my relationship with my Maker. Abuse made me feel that God had abandoned me. And since my childhood trauma from physical and verbal abuse was by my mum, it was hard knowing that my primary caregiver was responsible. This usually affects a child, when their primary caregiver gives anything but. Anyway, I had to forgive God for what I felt was betrayal and abandonment. Yes, forgive God. Which sounds strange but in therapy I was told that I needed to do it. Listening to sermons about how God takes care of us but the world is the way it is has been rather helpful. The sermons are by a local sheikh in my country. For whatever reason, God used him to teach me about His caring nature. I did a series on the names of Allah and got to learn about how caring God is. My faith was strengthened. Like Job, I also realised that nothing could harm me unless God allowed it and if He did, He knew I could handle it. Weird, I know but that's how I see things now. Everything that concerns me is in God's hands. I have nothing to fear. I wish we could have an actual conversation. I truly understand what it means to go through anxiety. I am also aware that our paths to recovery are unique and we all must walk those paths. I am here to help.
@estherobiakor7244
@estherobiakor7244 13 дней назад
Still searching for the truth, one day i will find it.
@joyee33
@joyee33 18 дней назад
I've suffered anxiety for years so I totally understand. Not a good place to be honest but It gets better especially when you talk about it😊
@MsjennyForbes
@MsjennyForbes 19 дней назад
I know I need therapy for my anxiety 😢😢😢it’s bad guys and it’s constant😢
@okwaoshen7607
@okwaoshen7607 20 дней назад
Jesus will heal you if you come to him!
@tutsypie
@tutsypie 19 дней назад
An Excellent Mind👌
@ValentinoFayemi
@ValentinoFayemi 19 дней назад
God bless you sis I thought, I was alone
@bamideleoluwafemi4083
@bamideleoluwafemi4083 20 дней назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thanks so much for Everything Ife, thanks for dishing dix out 😢😢😢😢😢. Only few people can connect to dix.
@user-dm4cm1hh6f
@user-dm4cm1hh6f 19 дней назад
Ife❤❤❤❤!!!!
@adebamipeadetoun2443
@adebamipeadetoun2443 18 дней назад
Dang mama ❤
@YOU_CanBeProductive
@YOU_CanBeProductive 19 дней назад
Sis. IfeDee, 🎉🎉🎉
@user-dm4cm1hh6f
@user-dm4cm1hh6f 19 дней назад
'God bless our provider' 😂😂😂😂😂😂 took me out
@adeniketaiwo1205
@adeniketaiwo1205 19 дней назад
❤❤❤Ife
@iheomasoroibe489
@iheomasoroibe489 16 дней назад
I just love Ife❤❤❤ My last moments with my mum was a quarrel that made me cry uncontrollably to work the Wednesday before she passed on all the because of a dumb ass son😭😭😭
@lifeofronirae
@lifeofronirae 17 дней назад
This video is too short 🤦‍♀️. I wish it was long
@folasadejubaadeoye797
@folasadejubaadeoye797 20 дней назад
The mum matter can be painful, man must move on. But for how long will moving from relationship end no one is perfect?
@Adebayobamidelealfredmoses
@Adebayobamidelealfredmoses 13 дней назад
Mhmm ! Life is unpredictable you know !
@TheTblac
@TheTblac 17 дней назад
Nice session with Ife DANG👍..But what is up with Chude's black head 🤣
@treasureprecious7343
@treasureprecious7343 14 дней назад
I am just going to keep showing up. Don't think it, Keep showing up. Thanks ife!
@priscillaafraasiedu4688
@priscillaafraasiedu4688 17 дней назад
U will never understand, until u experience anxiety.itbis no jokr
@DominicaOpara
@DominicaOpara 19 дней назад
What is up with chude's hair though
@xtooseasoned
@xtooseasoned 17 дней назад
😢🤍
@efeabraham2191
@efeabraham2191 18 дней назад
Na this babe dey trend say she call of relationship few months to wedding
@patriciaorenisi
@patriciaorenisi 18 дней назад
Please I need to connect with Ms Ife...I can totally relate to her. How can I reach her?.
@judithodinaka4028
@judithodinaka4028 17 дней назад
uncle Chude, what did you rub on your head?
@Tefera-hf8fw
@Tefera-hf8fw 17 дней назад
Your painted head is funny and distracting from the guest
@chinelosynclaire7483
@chinelosynclaire7483 8 дней назад
Painted head😂😂😂😂
@emeka6084
@emeka6084 19 дней назад
U guys should stop bringing all this people with thier failed relationship. We have had enough of that
@Beyondbraids
@Beyondbraids 19 дней назад
You can come and share your own successful story. The world is for everyone, good or bad. Failed or successful.
@clickmama4857
@clickmama4857 15 дней назад
his partner?
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