My Response To Nikki's Allegations 

He has a right to tell his story. And he has a right to give a rebuttal to any statements he thinks is being presented incorrectly. Same as Nikki. Idk why y’all mad at this man.

Abusive behavior is NEVER acceptable, whether from a man OR WOMAN!

Like I am all for backing up a black sister. But these receipts are giving. And people still don’t believe him.

This man looks physically exhausted

It’s ridiculous that people believe her without receipts but refuse to believe Jaime WITH receipts.

It's the fact that he addressed everything I was questioning from her stories, and with receipts. He didn't even take a long time with his rebuttal, whereas she took forever and then decides not to post "for the sake of the kids." Realistically, I think she doesn't have any receipts, and she tried to seem like the 'Better Parent' with her response. All in all, I wish you guys the best, and I hope one day it can all be settled with the kids being the main focus ❤

As a black woman, I will NEVER Support an abusive and manipulative woman JUST because we are the same color. Speak your truth Jamie❤

I HOPE YOUR VIDEO gets more men to be able to speak up. A male friend of mine saw your video and said he felt your pain because HE HAS LIVED through such horror and at the end of the day he was the bad guy even WHEN EVERYONE saw the EVIDENCE. Left him suicidal for months but he pulled through the dark time in his life and is much stronger now. He’s with you and commends your bravery, as do I…!!!!!!

He CAME WITH FACTS AND Receipts ! Period

offer your services online. people will pay for your skill. you get to work from home, earn better and still be there for your kids. Whatever the situation is for both of you, THIS TOO SHALL PASS!!

As a woman i have come to realise that 'WOMEN SUPPORTING WOMEN' movement has become so TOXIC. Its full of angry women getting over trauma and hate men for being men. Jamie, from a BLACK AFRICAN WOMAN,i sympathise with you.

I've never doubted Jamie. When he speaks, he brings receipts. Also there is sincerity in his voice

Do NOT take this down. Stand your ground and stick to YOUR truth, Jamie.

Please don't take this video off.its your truth be strong. Nikki is playing smart in a bad way

My heart goes out to anyone that has been mentally or physically abused. Stay strong Jamie this will get better.

Don’t take these videos down Jamie- STAND IN YOUR TRUTH. You won’t get everyone’s favor but the ones who support you, will support you.

My abusive ex told me I had no family and friends and that I could never do better. I believe you Jamie. All the signs are there, please heal and move on from this. We are all behind your content with or without the kids!

Divorce can get so nasty

It must be very frustrating when you have receipts and people still don’t believe the male side of the story. I still stand with Jaime ❤

You can hear how hard you’re holding back your tears. The hurt behind your eyes too. What a shame it’s come to this 😔

Jamie has every right to speak up, those who feel otherwise are not even obligated to listen to this.. Nikki is clearly gas lighting and thats a very horrible thing . She speaks of depression in a very flippant way and thats a really unkind thing to do.

Even in her statement she contradicted herself. People didn’t read to understand most read to respond because they already made up in their minds that Nikki can’t do no wrong. She didn’t show no evidence and yet people just believed her, Jamie had evidence and some people still didn’t believe him. In her statement she used keywords that she knew would trigger some people, she is manipulative and controlling.

I stand with you Jamie. This too shall pass.

Don’t leave us hanging here on YT Jamie. We understand we won’t see much or any of the kids in the future, but I am still interested in knowing how you are progressing. Stay motivated and continue to push through this season as it will soon pass❤

The thing that gives me pause when it comes to Nikki's statements is the dismissal of her reactions to Jamie *allegedly* triggering her, and it reminds me so much of the excuses my abusive ex-husband and his mother would make. Even *if* he purposely upset/pushed her to get a reaction (which wouldn't be right either) if her "reaction" is abusive...it's still abusive. If he knew he even *could* get that reaction from her for the sake of filming it for proof, it's because it's happened before. And she's still responsible for how she reacts to emotional stress, especially in front of her children. My ex never truly took accountability for attacking me and the trauma he caused our very young child, he blamed me for making him that angry.

If Nikki was so concerned about the girls and the culture of vlogging, she wouldn't have featured them in any vlogs after the divorce!

I wish for Jamie to find a genuine loving kind woman that he deserves

I feel SO sorry for Ava and Zoe. Those two beautiful young girls don’t deserve this and especially it being PUBLIC now. What an absolute mess

We stand with you, Jamie. Whatever you decide to do next, we will support you! 🤍

As a DV survivor I respect you showing that men are victims also. You’re fighting a battle that will just go in circles. Narcissists will never see they are the problem.

You can tell that his divorce has affected him a lot , he’s looking out of it .. hope he heals and is able to still move forward in life

It is the fact that even with all the craziness going on between the two of you and this messy divorce process, you still genuinely care about her because you decided to re-edit the video of her sister Sarah. I have been a longtime supporter and I find it crazy how she is acting. She is trying to play the victim card it is not working because you have all the receipts. I am praying for you, your mental health, your girls, and the rest of your family because this is a complete mess, and no one should have to go through this.

Jamie DO NOT REMOVE THESE VIDEOS! It’s time for our men to speak up and have their voices be heard! People act like men are automatically “ immune” from toxic behaviors from a female. People fail to acknowledge that MEN TOO can also go through physical abuse, emotional abuse, domestic violence and toxicity that can well be caused by the female. Keep this video 🆙. It hurts me to say this about another sister, but Nikki seems very narcissistic , manipulating, and vindictive in the message receipts and video footage, and that’s honestly all the proof we need. For her to seriously say you don’t have nothing to lose, you’re depressed, you have no kids, no life, no friends.. that is a very narcissistic thing to say to someone. It’s a very evil thing to even say. As someone who has been in a relationship like that, it’s very triggering for me to even hear her say that to you.. Jamie throughout this whole ordeal you have been showing nothing but love and respect to Nikki; also professionalism and the motivation of being a great father and thinking about your girls first. I send you so many hugs, love and respect and I wish you healing and comfort. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this because I know you are a good man Jamie. We all know you are a good guy. I hope everything works out in your favor.

Go on with your life Jamie, believe me their is definitely somebody on this earth that will appreciate a good man and father like you. You are priceless ❤❤

Wow. I tried to be on her side. She provided NO actually logical proof and now I'm seeing how diabolical and what a liar she is.

No worries Jamie, mature grown adults believe you. Also we are Praying for you. Blessings from Canada.

So sorry you are facing backlash Jamie!! Continue defending yourself and stand your ground. You shared plenty of evidence and that within itself told me enough. Please leave your videos up, you did nothing wrong.

Man this is terrible on both sides. I wish you both to be able to move past this and heal and be able to co-parent successfully.

I STAND WITH JAMIE!! It does not matter if it’s female or male. Abuse is abuse! Here is the proof and people still act like they are blind! Enough is enough! This man is a survivor and yet, he is still being ridiculed. I’m sorry Jamie, God has you in the palms of His hands. I’m sending love and prayers and my support from Charleston, SC!

I knew there was absolutely no way he was lying from the day he dropped that first video! WOW I stand with you Jamie .. sheesh I feel so bad for

Jamie has receipts, Nikki has a letter….I’m just saying.

Yeah I knew her explanation didn’t add up as soon as she said she never abused you I thought about that text message she sent you apologising about hitting you. after that lie I never believed anything else she was saying. Let’s just be honest here Nikki wanted out but didn’t wanna be the bad guy here. All her talks about wanting a man of God blows my mind because it’s obvious we see how she is living..like she’s always wanted out of that marriage I would understand that but to legit bring the father of your children down to get what you want is not something an innocent person would do.

I respect you so much for having the courage to tell your side of the story even though so many people hate you for it. Stand your ground always. Much love

We stand with you Jamie and we believe you.

I just feel soo so bad for you, Jamie. Please keep your head high! God sees and he knows what you’ve been through. You deserve so much better and that you’ll get!

Well done Jamie for responding. I'm really sorry that you went through all this. I am ashamed for defending her all these years. Hope you find real love and that you take care of your kids well. Get out of this mess and make more content. We will support you

Seems to me that Nikki is looking for a way to salvage her reputation after Jamie exposed information about the marriage.

Dude, whether you have fan support here or not to tell you this, the one role you can't lose is being a dad to your daughters. Praying that you have the consistent upliftment and mental health to weather this storm in this season of your life, and to keep being a blessing to your children. It's easy to discern conviction from vindictiveness because one involves truth, while the other involves gaslighting to make it seem like a narrative is true. Even if you don't want to be on here for some time, do it, because your family will always need you when we can or don't see you.

Crazy how you guys were like one of the first families that I watched. That’s how I fell in love with watching vlogs. I mean Ava wasn’t even born yet etc. This is unfortunate nor is it expectable but we will continue to support you

I have been watching the vlogs since the beginning. I have seen the shift in Nikki’s reactions to you (rolling her eyes, making demeaning comments and presenting them as jokes, and never having any patience or grace for you to just be yourself). I picked up on these over the years and have now seen that she is in fact a narcissist (my father and brother are so I am well aware of their behaviors). As narcissistic abuse survivors, they will always make us out to be the ones in the wrong (regardless of how much proof we have of their behavior). Stay strong and know you have supporters who stand with you.

I feel so bad for two people I genuinely care about, those sweet babies need you both..I hope you both to get through this horrible situation. Praying for you and your families

Abuse is so triggering to me especially from being in an abusive relationship myself. But I sat through the whole thing and can say I relate to most of what Jamie has been through. This whole thing is so sad.

Jamie has lost weight....Take care of yourself, Jamie, for the sake of the kids.

I completely and totally believe you Jamie. Anybody with just an ounce of discernment can tell this man is being truthful and has been through a lot!! He has even lost weight since the last video. Stand strong Jamie. Praying for you.

So glad you spoke up about this! I watched you guys since the beginning of your RU-vid channel. Just like you hid what you were going through , I did too and it has now been 1 year since I left my abusive ex husband. The more we speak up the less power they have.

we stand with you Jamie

I said it years ago. It never looked as though she liked him let alone loved him. She just never looked happy. Through both kids she never looked happy. I don’t understand why she got married.

I stand with you Jamie. And I don’t believe the BS coming from the other side. Stay strong and I wish you nothing but happiness and peace.

I'm also a black woman and I believe you Jamie. I pray for peace for your entire family and that you both can come to a place of forgiveness and peace for the sake of your children and future. God Bless you with Power, God's hope, and favor

She made some really comments. Saying that Jamie had no friends, no family is really hitting below the belt.

Jamie, I'm so sorry you're going through this. We have followed both yourself and Nikki. We are so sorry that both yourself and your families are going through this. Please take care of yourself and your children. UK FAN.

Please do not take this down Jamie. Your truth vs hers. I stand with you!

I 100% believe you. I always did see the bully in that girl from the very before you guys had kids. Nikki was always demanding and the way she spoke to you sometimes, you could really see who the bully was back then. Her voice might sound soft but if you really listen well, you could hear when she was handling him. I’m sorry you have to be going through this and most of all the kids. I pray that she will change her ways and not be stupid with using the kids to manipulate and punish you. I do hope also that one day you will find a real, true, genuine and loving person. Take this time to heal and get closer to God and your kids. Block her and the negativity out and just pray Jamie. God heals and helps. Her time soon come. Her punishment will not go unnoticed. Just learn from that marriage with her that going forwArd you don’t do so much with the next person and do not let them know too much information about your finances and NEVERRRRRR mix business with pleasure. RU-vid is your business, you should have never involved her in it. She is greedy and all that she has taken will be lost. I always did wonder what you saw in her though because you could see that her and her family were terrible ppl. Sad to say but by watching the videos her sisters and nieces and nephews all were a turn off. I’m sorry. Hope you will find better because you seem like a decent and really good family man. I’ll keep you guys in my prayers. All the best Jamie. Get closer to God.

I believe you 💯 Jamie, some immature ppl talking about black, it has nothing to do with color. Abusing someone is unacceptable, do not take your videos down, weeping shall come at night but joy comes in the morning I have your back bro❤🙏🏾

Coparenting with someone who does not want to put emotions aside and put the kids first is very difficult. Praying for you Jamie.

It is hypocritical of her to not want him to film the kids during his visitation, but she can on her's.

I am so sorry, Jamie. I 100% believe you.

Glad you finally standing up for yourself.

Good on you Jamie! The world should see her for who she really is.

Supporting you always Jamie. Good on you for having the courage to speak up. As a DV survivor & a co-parent myself, I understand what you've been going through. Just remember - God is with you! And just watch how He will turn this situation around. He will restore what has been broken, lost or stolen from you. I pray God brings healing & joy in your life, and in the life of your daughters, and move forward with peace. There is such a bright future ahead, and that is God's promise 100%! He did it for me, and I know He'll do it for you!

I can definitely see Nikki having a temper and being physically abusive behind closed doors

You backed your arguments with evidence, in contrast to her. A smart person would know who to believe. Impressive.

Proud of you Jamie. Stay strong brother. We see you. The truth is always brought out into the light. Your girls are blessed to have a dad like you.

Honestly even without you saying anything for the last couple of years it was obvious she wanted out because the family life wasn't glamorous enough. She wanted what Duckie had.

Wow she straight up apologized for hitting you by text, on the call when you said she hit you she didn't deny it either. Then about the email she goes back and forth between apologizing for changing the password and saying she can't change the password. I'm mind blown.

I believe when there’s proof and Jamie has shown receipts

I was going through some videos and looking at the girls have so much fun. It's crazy how it was ok to film the girls when Nikki was there but all of a sudden you are being accused of "exploiting" the girls. 🙄. So the girls should only be filmed if she is in the video? I think the issue is that the girls are having too much fun with you and she is jealous.

This is so heartbreaking. Don't leave RU-vid. Make this channel about your new journey. A lot of people are in your position and are feeling lost. Bring people into your journey. It's your story to tell, and we want to hear it. I believe Jamie, I can get a read on people's characters, and I have been watching them since they were married. The vibe I got from Nikki was that she seemed ungrateful and bored. And Jamie was trying his best to please her. I am not saying he's perfect because he is not, but that is the vibe I got when I watched their videos back in the day. So yeah, I believe Jamie. And I hope he does not leave RU-vid reinvent yourself. You have no idea how many people you can help because you are sincere and authentic.

As a south Sudanese woman , I can only support and understand where you came from, You are living your truth and unfortunately people can't stand that but honestly I'm rooting for you , on other hand Nikki needs to be true to herself and stop letting the dark clouds shadow her it's obvious she's using lies to cover her guilt .Prayers does work 🙏 she need to free her mind and let her conscious be free

Nikki is just too TOXIC,I feel terrible for Jamie and his kids.

Jamie your video gives me chills. I never doubted you! Continue to be a great dad, I pray that if you ever find someone to love, that they respect you and love your daughters like their own.

Come on mate, youve got nearly 2Million subs here waiting for new content. What ever has happened you still have great support and can still put out decent content. Dont give up on this we have ya. Hope all is going good for you and hope to see you back soon.

We stand with you Jamie, please be encouraged , God will fight your battle. The truth will always come out.

So sorry you went through this. Physical abuse should not be tolerated at any level. Continue being a good father and role model to your children. They will eventually grow up and know the truth. God bless.

What did I say??? I said should Nikki lie, Jamie will come with more receipts.

Jamie, I am so sorry you’re receiving so much backlash for your previous video. I am truly sorry for what you are going through in your life. I have always been a fan of yours and will continue to be one of your fans.

As Nikki was taking Zoe from your mother, you can hear her say “you called me a slut”. So you did call her a slut, infront of her child, your mother and her family. Stop lying!!!

It's so sad, she got you stressed out and it seems to have no end, I pray for you and everyone in this situation, this woman seems to only get off on wanting to see you suffer no matter if she's at fault for her actions towards you, especially disrespecting your parents by being violent with you, I would have never thought Nikki was like this in a million years she needs some help, I pray for you and your family 🙏🏽 I see the struggle on you and this is would be to much for anyone, hang in there Jamie give it to God as cliche as it sounds give him this battle because it's to much to handle.

I’m really sorry Jamie 😢you deserve better

Her response literally didn’t make any sense Jamie. I’ve always been on your side. I’m so sorry

Talk your truth. Don’t let them silence you. It’s embedded in women to defend another woman regardless of she’s in the wrong.

I don't care what anyone says, If a man comes out and says that he's being, or has been abused... I absolutely believe it! This is very different for men because they know 90% of the time no one will believe them so when they do come out with it, it's no debate hands down. I believe this man and men do get abused. It's not that far fetched as society will try to make it. I'm praying for you and your daughters Jamie. God bless you

Honestly, I tried to give Nikki a chance but her response was lacking and came off manipulative. Almost like she watched those videos and hit all the hot button points

I do believe everything he is saying with regards to Nikki is true, however I do believe he needs to find a career outside of vlogging with the kids. For whatever reason, malicious or not; Nikki has changed her mind about kids appearing so much on his channel (that is her right). The kids may enjoy it now, but they are kids; so of course don’t know the full implications of such high exposure. Jamie also just needs to get out of the mindset it’s okay to rely on your kids for the bulk of your income. He needs to find his own lane, his own life as Jamie.. not just as a father.

I'm so sorry that things have come to this, for both you and Nikki. I hope you both can find a way to move past these horrible times and be the best co-parents to Ava and Zoe - as they truly are victims in all of this. Every swipe taken from either side, is a swipe taken against your beautiful daughters that you share. It's heartbreaking to see a family so broken. Praying for your families. God bless.

Summer Aku’s videos on this matter demonstrates how Nikki has contradicted herself.

I believe every word he is saying . DV shouldn't be condoned whether its from a man or woman . We stand with Jamie 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

Jamie, sending lots of love and healing your way. You come off as genuine and reasonable. Sorry for everything you are going through now, and through the years. Nobody deserves the way she has treated you. Hugs.

Heartbreak ,separation and divorce are the worst thing that can happen to anyone...

Don’t let her silence you! This is sad anybody with a heart can tell how hurt you are by this