My Son Keeps Lying About Family Members

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@annbaker2950 14 дней назад

I get the feeling that she has more to tell.

@user-sl4cd2sz5l 13 дней назад

Yes 100%

@pmholli54 14 дней назад

Asking for context is a great strategy. Once, when we were kids, we played a game in the swimming pool. The game was called Shark and was a game of tag which required the “shark” to keep his eyes closed while chasing everyone else in the pool. My dad was shark and was getting close to my brother. My brother quickly swam around him and my dad accidentally kicked my brother’s neck. It hurt initially, but seemed to get better. Later that night, my brother woke up with serious neck pain. My dad took him to the emergency room. When the person at the desk asked what happened, my brother blurted out “My dad kicked me in the neck.” My dad wanted a hole to crawl into 😂. He was able at that point to provide the context.

@southerncreationskitchen3392 14 дней назад

I had eczema on my neck when I was a kid and my teacher reported it as a bruise. Someone took me to an office and asked if anyone hits me at home. I said my brother does, the context was sibling fighting

@Foggy_Til_Noon 13 дней назад

My sister had poison ivy on her face and neck and her teacher called children services from the school!@@southerncreationskitchen3392

@phantasma616 12 дней назад

my friends son had fingerprint bruises on his arm, and when asked at school he said "daddy grabbed me really hard". luckily they asked for further context, and it was because on a fishing trip he slipped and started to fall off a tall dock and daddy had grabbed his arm to yank him back up. it was in that quick, instinctive "dad reflex" way. her son assured the counselor that daddy was his hero. I also read a comment once where someone, in childhood, had asked their father if they could play "the naked man game". dad was rightly concerned and asked what it was and the kid said it was a game they played with the babysitter. a little more probing and it turned out it was the boardgame Operation!

@corinnespanelewski4732 14 дней назад

I would get a nanny cam.

@oncetwice5942 13 дней назад

I was thinking the same thing.

@caseyob2690 13 дней назад

She's at home.

@jangrosemartindale8740 13 дней назад

@@caseyob2690yes, but nanny cam is PROOF, she can play back the video & ask him to watch, then explain what he means, what he is saying.

@corinnespanelewski4732 12 дней назад

I would get to the bottom of it before he says something to someone like a teacher.

@J-B-P 9 дней назад

I work from home and I don’t even have kids, just a puppy, and I still am baffled by the stuff he gets into (or things he is able to accomplish) while I have him ‘under constant supervision.’ It’s very easy to miss things when your attention is divided. So yes, I agree- nanny Cam.

@jeanlaubenthal698 13 дней назад

My father repeatedly stressed that he could only help us if we told the truth. No matter what happened tell the truth.

@CrunchyGreenWater 14 дней назад

I'm so glad Dr. John handled this call the way that he did. It doesn't sound like the child is constantly lying about things. I think it was very good advice for the mom to get more information from the son and also from the grandmother to get a more accurate account of what happened.

@1tommyday 14 дней назад

Kids usually say words like " always" " never" to describe situations. They are notorious for inaccurate descriptions. It's a maturity issue as well.

@dana102083 14 дней назад

Adults have same maturity issue

@Trolly.Troll. 12 дней назад

@@dana102083 guess what kind of kids those adults were. 😂

@SnaptoClass 14 дней назад

As a survivor of abuse and neglect at the hands of my primary caretaker, always take your children's side. Adults will lie more than a child ever will.

@nj8215 14 дней назад

I agree. There no room for mistakes when it comes to this issue.

@amarjo351 14 дней назад

I'm sorry for your experience, but I'm gonna have to disagree. A lot of the adults learn to tell lies as children. Figuring out what happened, and burning down the school at your kids say-so are two separate things.

@brianclingenpeel5123 14 дней назад

I'm sorry for what happened to you. But that's not true. Some children unfortunately learn to like the response they get when they make up a lie and if you are a present parent like this woman seems to be, she knows immediately that it's not true. You can let the child know you are always there for them and they can come to you with anything AND call out their lies when you see them. 2 things can be true at once. It doesn't have to be an either or.

@SnaptoClass 14 дней назад

@@brianclingenpeel5123 🪞

@dana102083 14 дней назад

My sister was a narcissist starting age 5. My mom took her side as she was older and I got punished.

@orphansparrow2 14 дней назад

I was in the car with my 6 year old niece and her dad. She wanted to go to the park and he told her no because we had an appointment to get to. She started throwing a screaming fit. When we got to the appointment, he was unbuckling her seat belt on her side of the car and as he was she noticed people passing by and she started screaming “Stop hitting me!” “You’re hurting me!!” Everyone in the parking lot was looking at her. She’s done this several times and once my brother was threatened by someone and they told him they would call CPS. I’ve seen her lie in so many situations where she was trying to get attention or a rise from dad because he’s very calm and soft and won’t break. It’s scary and confusing. Dr John is so good.

@Leahmoonbeamflower 13 дней назад

Whew…. What a horrible manipulative little child. She’s going to grow up and throw many R- word allegations towards many men. The poor dad… he’s going to be so stressed out with her. I hope he isn’t so soft that he’ll become a punching bag for this little girl because she’s going to punch him into oblivion.

@lauren4078 13 дней назад

Very disturbing.

@athomewiththemrs9410 12 дней назад

⁠@@Leahmoonbeamflower the poor father might be the first R allegations victim. That or she’s going to say that he physically beat her growing up.

@Leahmoonbeamflower 12 дней назад

@@athomewiththemrs9410 exactly. I didn’t even think of that and that’s a valid point.

@distorbia20 12 дней назад

This child needs help. Get her into therapy. Something is making her act up and seek attention. Doesn’t she get attention. Gosh

@karenholt8441 14 дней назад

The reason a perpetrator can get away with ‘things’ is because they’re usually in a position of trust!

@wf4983 14 дней назад

That's not lying. That's more him feeling left out or treated unfairly - and interpreting it this way. You treat him too much like a adult. He is a little child. It's not that bad - you can solve that with a lighthearted adjustment. There are some fears of yours behind it. You fear your son could be a liar. You should work on your own fears. Don't push him to being exactly that by fearing it.

@littleme3597 14 дней назад

All self absorbed kids, people, feel like that, whether true or NOT.

@EXDna 12 дней назад

Bingo @@littleme3597

@kempyj98 11 дней назад

All abusers/Bystanders feel like that true or not @@littleme3597

@jonrazo7912 14 дней назад

Kids are all natural gaslighters. I work in an elementary school and I've pulled kids out of class for bad behavior, marched them up front for a phone call home and the kids will lie with such skill, if I hadn't literally seen them do, I would have believed them that they were innocent.

@tamelatibbitts7731 13 дней назад

My mom could always tell when I was lying, but my teachers couldn't figure it out. So I didn't get calls home. But I know what your talking about.

@kellygreenii 13 дней назад

No. What you’re seeing are kids that have been trained to lie by parents that punish them for telling the truth.

@snailsharkk 14 дней назад

She’s giving so little specific information that it’s infuriating. Like ma’am please just elaborate when he’s asking you follow up questions. Because she’s coming across as if she doesn’t actually know what’s going on with her kid.

@angryox3102 14 дней назад

It almost came across like she’s evasive. She gave the example of the sister biting him as being a lie, and later she said that it actually was true. Makes me wonder if the grandmother actually did hit him and she just wants to cover it up.

@danielcarter94 13 дней назад

Yup. She’s there but grandma is ‘watching’ the kids. I really get the feeling she is feeling guilt.

@nancypicchi9224 14 дней назад

This MOM has too many reasons why no one there would be offensive or harmful. Mom is trying her best to be dismissive of his complaints of what he is interpreting those interactions. Help him to navigate through the moment with pragmatic questions that will guide him to a more detailed scenario. Mom definitely wants to cling onto her own conclusion. This is a dismissive action, and will only exacerbate any & all future issues with this child. She has clearly labeled her child.

@AnnAndNala 13 дней назад

Ugh. As a small child my grandfather (my “mother’s dad) AND my older sister SA’d me. My “mother” blamed me and said I was being fresh with my grandfather. And she blamed me for my big, older sister for doing it to me as well. I was a small child back in the 70’s, and I had no-one to turn to. Everything that ever happened to me I had to stay quiet because my “mother” made me out to be the problem and a liar. That scenario is devastating to a child. Horrible. As I grew older, I never spoke to her about my life, so she would continue to pry into every detail of my life and then always called me a liar because I didn’t tell her anything. The child is usually not the problem.

@janettemartin4604 13 дней назад

Why are you still in contact with the NARCISSIST Mother? Go no contact! Go to a good child trauma therapist! Don’t talk to that MOM-ster!

@junbh2 12 дней назад

I think adults often accuse kids of 'making a big deal' of something or being 'dramatic' when really it IS a big deal to them. Interactions with caregivers, siblings, and other kids are such a huge and intense part of your life when you're little.

@ItzGirk 14 дней назад

How can she know she didn't hit him. Being in earshot doesn't mean much

@redss111 14 дней назад

He said he was punched.

@ItzGirk 14 дней назад

@@redss111 kids don’t distinguish punches from smacks. Either aren’t ok. I’m just saying don’t just believe your parent to believe them. That’s how child trauma goes unknown

@amydoran9987 14 дней назад

It definitely requires more conversations with her own parents. It should not be ignored for her job.

@dame3323 14 дней назад

If a kid is being hit and your in ear shot, you would be able to hear that. You really expect a kid to not cry when getting hit?

@ItzGirk 14 дней назад

@@dame3323 and if they’re out of earshot

@amydoran9987 14 дней назад

How does she know that he’s lying. It’s hard to believe he would lye completely. I think the drs advice was great on this call. He might feel left out and be embellishing story’s. She should have a serious conversation with his grandparents.

@carolynthornber748 13 дней назад

Best thing to do is look after your children your self because that's what I child needs , they mum looking after them and not other people , they just need there parents 🥰

@user-st6nt4ou6f 13 дней назад

I love your answer

@gemmadubbydubz7786 14 дней назад

He is interpreting it wrong...yet she didn't see anything. Just "hears" everything apparently. Way to go in making the child grow up thinking he's just "dramatic" when someone abuses him.

@JustinCase780 14 дней назад

Yes, it was just me or does she sound super disconnected while thinking that she is always connected just because she's working from home.

@DevHazy 14 дней назад

This

@pixiedust8961 14 дней назад

If she does not see what is going on, she does not know what is happening. The child may be telling the truth. The grandma may be abusing the child. She should set up some nanny cams.

@Ripplesinthewaters 13 дней назад

My daughter, then 3 years old, told a caregiver that we would beat her. It caused us a trip to CPS. The social worker told us to work on fantasy versus reality with her. She was 7 before she completely understood. It’s really hard to just “believe the child”. I like how John gave ideas to help teach her son. My daughter is grown now, and she is still embarrassed with her storytelling when she was little.

@carnivoreRon 14 дней назад

One son lied about a lot of things for a year. I or his mother would observe and he would come to one of us and lie about what happened. He did not want to get into trouble. Which happened when we would confront him. He would tell on one of his siblings to manipulate us. A certain amount of scepticism is necessary at times.

@Girlgonewise 14 дней назад

Sounds like he’s wanting mom’s attention.

@auemmjee 14 дней назад

Sounds like his father isn't parenting him

@geranykoerni 14 дней назад

@@auemmjeeclearly you aren't a parent yourself if that's your answer. 😂

@katella 14 дней назад

My daughter used to tell people things that weren't true. When the pediatrician asked her what she had for breakfast, she said sweetly"cake". He asked what she had for dinner she said "ice cream". 🙄 She also used to go to the neighbor's and ask if she could come in because nobody was home in her house, when we were at home. They would usually ( yes, she did this more than a couple of times over the years) give her some cookies or other snack and call our house. Her father or I would then go to bring her home. Once when she was not allowed to go to a pool party at a friend's house because we had other plans, she snuck out of the house very early and rode her bike over a very dangerous route. She told the people we had dropped her off and were in a hurry to explain why they didn't see us. I went into her room that morning to wake her and found her bed empty and a note saying " "Goodbye forever. I can't stand living this way'. Those were stressful times.

@loliwemoyo5680 11 дней назад

Too much gentle parenting with no real consequences.

@Trolly.Troll. 14 дней назад

Some kids lie… 🤷🏽‍♂️ Daughter always said how her siblings hit her or threw something at her. Turned out she was the one who did those things first but as soon as they did it back, she tattled to get them in trouble. She now has a very strained relationship with her siblings.

@jangrosemartindale8740 13 дней назад

My youngest sister! Ended up, with her spouse, living off my parents for 13 years going so far, her daughter starts college in fall. Dad passed, mother-her enabler, is now 90, money gone…

@athomewiththemrs9410 12 дней назад

Sounds like my son🤦🏻‍♀️

@melissasymonds1523 13 дней назад

Glad he finally said what many of us were thinking- she really doesn’t know fully that her kid was lying and that grandma didn’t hit him .. and what if it was a test because something else was happening but the 5 year old can’t verbalise that but saying Grandma punched him will get his mum to listen ?? So sick of parents downplaying when their kids try and tell them things - grandma may be totally innocent but to assume she knows what goes on just cos she works from home is so naive and I hope her kids ARE safe

@roxyj3182 14 дней назад

I think she’s tip toeing about what he’s really saying and doing

@Trolly.Troll. 14 дней назад

Probably trying not to make her son sound too bad.

@Circle46 14 дней назад

My goddaughter had a lying phase. Just straight up lying. No basis. Maybe she started watching movies/cartoons and her imagination became over-active. You do have to deal with it strictly.

@athomewiththemrs9410 12 дней назад

My son is going through a lying phase. It’s so frustrating! You want them to know they can trust you but you can’t let them get away with lying. Ugh.

@rebeccashields9626 12 дней назад

⁠@@athomewiththemrs9410my son went through a lying phase a couple years back and he did just grow out of it. We sort of didn’t make it a big deal. We did say that we aren’t able to trust and believe what he said because of that, and then for him that would be really frustrating later when he wasn’t believed when he was telling the truth. We also told the “Boy who cried wolf” story a lot of times. But we didn’t make a fit out of it, and we didn’t get emotional about it, or get mad. We said things like “maybe that could be true bit I think I will have to verify that” or “these really sound to me like stories and not things that actually happened” or “I’ll have to check that out but I don’t think that’s something I would believe right away.” We also tried to figure out WHY he was lying about the thing. The biggest reason was that he was having trouble learning to negotiate how to play with his younger brother and he had hurt his younger brother. So the answer to the lying was to teach him how to solve problems with his little brother and how to step back when he’s mad and have a plan of what to do when he gets really angry so he didn’t hurt anyone. Usually lying is a way to get something else that they want or need or are upset about or hiding. Or if the lies are really fantastical, they probably just want attention. In which case, don’t believe the lie but give them what they need.

@Prismalpink 14 дней назад

Usually, people who consistently talk about something are usually telling the truth. If kids or your friends say they feel uncomfortable around someone and the story adds up/they send or show evidence, you listen to em. Only people who are shady with evidence or stir the pot for drama/lie or are inconsistent are not to be trusted.

@junbh2 12 дней назад

Even if they aren't being physically hurt or touched, it's probably true that there's a weird vibe. What exactly is causing the weird vibe or what kind of weirdness exactly they can't always figure out.

@sa_ly 14 дней назад

Dear listen to your child, do never ignore what he is telling you. Be a wise mother.

@user-st6nt4ou6f 13 дней назад

This is my gut reaction. I'm not a parent so maybe I don't get it. It I'm wary of disbelieving a child. He actually MAY be being marginalized and mistreated in some ways. Grandparents are not angels, always 6:09 6:11

@junbh2 12 дней назад

@@user-st6nt4ou6fYes, and it's not all or nothing. It could be that grandma is mostly a great caregiver but one time pushed him a little out of the way and was rougher than she realised. Or slapped his hand when he was reaching for something. It doesn't mean that either grandma is super abusive OR the child is a terrible lier... Maybe something happened that was not ideal but not a dealbreaker and could be resolved by mom having a small conversation with the child and a small conversation with the grandmother.

@Jeremy-The-Bullfrog 14 дней назад

What about "the boy who cried wolf"

@TheSecretPassword 14 дней назад

What about all the abused kids who got diddled because “how dare you accuse uncle paedo of touching you! Never say that again!”

@user-st6nt4ou6f 13 дней назад

Van Helsing said" the strength of Dracula is that no one believes he exists

@azimuthbusinesscenter 14 дней назад

don't try to stop him. If you encourage this behavior, your son will be able to run for president some day, well done...

@mariatorres9789 14 дней назад

My grandpa would always say, mija, it's good to be good, but if you're too good, you're no good. It wasn't until I was much older & realized that sometimes if you're always too honest, it's easy for people to take advantage of you.

@juliawigger9796 14 дней назад

Imhad a nephew like that. Both his parents who were separated, mentally abused him. He made up very wild stories just because he couldn't cope with the situation anymore.

@hillarybillary21 14 дней назад

I’m so sorry, did she say her son is FIVE years old? Why on earth is this woman talking about her son as though he’s a 50 year old stockbroker with a history of lying? The majority of people with antisocial disorders are functioning in society and have kids. This woman is one of them. She doesn’t connect the dots that her thoughts about her son and the reality of the situation are miles apart. Furthermore, she is completely devoid of empathy with no motivation to understand her five year old boy. She sees & treats him as a grown up- which is what a lot of psychopaths do to their kids. She’s genuinely convinced that she’s got it all figured out. 🙄 Yuck. “How do I help him with his lying”. Like mam what? 😂 HE’S FIVE

@willywonkausername 14 дней назад

She’s clearly in denial and doesn’t wanna believe that anyone in her family would do him harm. Shes a wacko. This is how kids end up getting abused behind closed doors.

@brownin329 13 дней назад

She can hear the conversations.

@rebeccashields9626 12 дней назад

THANK YOU. The kid just doesn’t want to be with Grandpa he wants to be home with her, so he’s lying so he can play with mommy. This sounds like perfectly developmentally normal behavior. I feel like this woman has unrealistic expectations of what a five year old is.

@hillarybillary21 9 дней назад

@@willywonkausername She’s more than a whacko. She has no empathy for her child, which is antisocial. “I hear what’s going on so I know he’s lying” is one of the most disturbing things I’ve ever heard like what?

@hillarybillary21 9 дней назад

@@brownin329 Every conversation? When she’s in meetings? Bullshat. That’s just an excuse anyway

@queenSummerKeli 11 дней назад

This is hard but truth is children do lie and helping to understand why it is important to tell the truth is super important.😊

@SoulfulSpreads 13 дней назад

He is not lying. She doesn’t want to believe him. The biggest mistake she is making is assuming that her warm and fuzzies for these people should be the same for him. It’ll be super sad if this escalates as he gets older… She needs to talk to him in depth.

@angelatandfam9308 14 дней назад

Love Bernstein bears!

@random-nz7dy 13 дней назад

Worked in pediatrics for many years. This would come up a lot in my general pediatrics practice. Around age 3 kids learn to use imagination and closer to age 5 they begin to understand that they can tell stories of convenience for secondary gain. Lying. And this is usually for attention or maybe to try to win because they don't want to lose at something And as with any part of childhood development the most important thing is addressing the topic early and often when you start to see it. Start reading those books. Investigate what is told to you, And if a child is caught lying, appropriately discipline and teach the importance of telling the truth. In the case of claims of an older adult causing harm, If you aren't sure what happened you could set up a nanny cam. And if the situation is serious enough see pediatric psychiatry to determine "is this real". And I think that you can certainly make your child feel generally believed while also making it clear that being caught lying is an unacceptable situation

@amberadams2935 14 дней назад

Wow I instantly believe ur son more than u lady

@hillarybillary21 14 дней назад

Me too

@daascia 14 дней назад

I would believe the kid initially. As my grandma (one of the most kind and nicest people you would ever hope to meet) had a personality switch in her old age and nearing her final days she was cussing and insulting people she normally never had a bad thing to say about. As people get older they can change... And her parents may have been sweet and kind her her youth, but maybe they're not now. I'm not saying that's what's happening here. As I obviously don't know anything about the situation. But when you hear a normally kind grandparent has done something like hit their grandkid. You should assume they did until you talk to the grandparents and figure out what happened. Also kids exaggerate and things feel so much bigger than they are sometimes. I recounted a story where my Mom hit me for cursing and I cried like a baby about it for awhile ( I was about 5ish when it happened ) and then we realized. Hey, we got that on tape. And when we watched the tape back I had said a curse word and Mom had simply covered my mouth saying, "You don't say that." And I interpreted that as hitting. I doubt my 5 year old brain even thought I was lying. As covering my mouth may have felt like a hit to me. But adult me looking back on it, knows she never did. So... always try to figure out the story.

@stephenpetersen354 14 дней назад

"don't hit him" 😂 the qualifiers we have to make now-a-days.

@user-ec3rm9wr1n 14 дней назад

He's not lying...

@andreanease4215 13 дней назад

She needs to quit her job and give this child attention, asap. That’s the problem. He’s having to LIE to get his needs met. He will never feel like he can come to you until you makes yourself available. A mom is supposed to be there. Go ahead and bring on the hate for me suggesting women shouldn’t work. I said what I said.

@distorbia20 12 дней назад

Always ask the child to act what happened. Believe the kid and find out exactly how he came to that conclusion. Don’t dismiss him.

@tamelatibbitts7731 13 дней назад

I read the burnstien bears book and it's great.

@hollysmith1347 13 дней назад

My daughter told someone that my partner and I were mean to her and wouldn't give her food when she was Hungry. Lucky I was there to clarify. My daughter wanted chocolate at bed time. I had try offered my daughter other food but she wanted chocolate only. Of course I didn't give her chocolate to eat. But she refused other food offered. But it's an idea to investigate if something is happening but keep an open mind to other possibilities.

@TT-cu7ze 14 дней назад

I wanted to listen to this one, I can relate. My daughter started doing this young, but she never grew out of it! She is 30 now and lies about EVERYONE! I was actually hoping it was about an adult. She started with crazy lies.

@JustinCase780 14 дней назад

Is he killing small animals yet?

@CuteNP 14 дней назад

Exactly what I was thinking

@BlackStump172 14 дней назад

@@CuteNP🔨⛏️🗡️🪓🔪😁

@BlackStump172 14 дней назад

This lady is annoying . She is so vague . Why not ask grandma what he is talking about ? Simple .

@Gotoworkkk 14 дней назад

Her vocal fry voice is killing me!!

@hillarybillary21 14 дней назад

Like mommy sister and grandma?

@athomewiththemrs9410 12 дней назад

Why doesn’t she go to grandma for clarification??? She doesn’t have to accuse grandma right off the bat, just tell her what her son told her and find out what happened. It’s not rocket science.

@rochelle-xz8gl 9 дней назад

I would go to grandma and confront her and get her side of the story. If grandma punched him she would be facing child abuse charges, and she would never see the grandkids again period.

@sousous31 13 дней назад

Sometimes kids will lie because the other parent tells them to. So tread carefully and try to get as much information as possible from all sides.

@kekejefferson9219 13 дней назад

My brother was at 5 yrs old when he would lie to my dad and say I(I was 15) hit him. He knew my dad was abusive so he would think it was funny.

@nancyzehr3679 13 дней назад

as a kid, my siblings would lie to my ma so i would get in trouble. they stayed in her good graces and i was the bad guy. they still do it. i went no contact. much happier and sane.

@shelbybuys4674 12 дней назад

My youngest does this. I always say ok let's sit down with the other person and talk about this and see what happened. Or I ask him tons of questions, where I say ok explain it to me. He ends up saying well I didn't like when Grandma told me not to play with the fan and I got mad at her so I lied that she hit me. So I just ask a lot of questions and use that as a teaching moment for him saying oh so you were upset and hurt cause someone said no to you? And he would say yes. So I teach him skills and what emotions are. This has helped him see the difference between feelings being hurt, or someone hurting him physically.

@S42069 12 дней назад

I wonder where he gets the lying from.....

@amberadams2935 14 дней назад

I will never be a mom like her...fr i will never assume every adult i trust is someone my son can trust...i will never assume my son is trying to cause problems instead of needing help with his problems fr uhhhgg this lady needs to keep watching with her ears frm the other room... whatever i hear denial

@brownin329 13 дней назад

Don't be dramatic. You will know your own children. Some children lie, some exaggerate.

@amberadams2935 13 дней назад

@@brownin329 noooo dude u build trust over years u break it in one moment...never ever give ur child a reason to not trust u!!! This time may not be the thing tht messes them up but it cld be the time tht thy r reminded of when thy decide NOT to tell u about what happened at the party or the sleepover or wth the adult thy knw u love so much....get over urself real parents dnt take this bs lightly fr

@mschenandlerbong8539 12 дней назад

I'm curious about that stat that most abuse happens from people in the family or that you know closely. Does it also correlate that the person who denied that it could have happened actually knew the accused to be abusive and just didn't want to deal with it? Or is it really happening fully out of the blue.

@jeanlaubenthal698 13 дней назад

Adults sometimes think kids are being manipulative when really going through social testing . Come from nothing is wrong.

@joywebster2678 13 дней назад

As a child 7 grandkids complained individually to our 2 moms about our grandmoms increasing odd behaviours when babysitting us. She would put us in a headlock to make us littles watch her inject her insulin. Both of her daughters pooh poohed each of us, saying we lied. Only when the 2 mentioned the lies of her kids to the other, they realized none of us were lying but we were scared. Gran did die shortly from heart disease related to her severe diabetes. Sadly the youngest few of usgrandkids remember that headlockstuff more than the goodtimes. AND the disbelief of our mothers. As an adult who became a RN, i understood the old message Gran was trying to " teach us" stay away from too much sugar consumption, or you will end up doing this shot like me. But her failing clarity didnt get we kids didnt understand.

@alwaysyouramanda 13 дней назад

So you, agree!? -EIN!

@user-rx3pn3ik8t 13 дней назад

My 4yo autistic son repeated a joke to his grandmother which had a swear word at the end...she slapped him hard across the face. I heard the contact noise but didn't see it happen. When I asked her if she'd hit my son, she said no...then I saw the hand print start to appear on his cheek. My son said she had hit him. I believed my son...and granny had a very stern telling off.

@brownin329 13 дней назад

Well in that case there is proof. It's hard when there is none.

@user-rx3pn3ik8t 13 дней назад

My husband refused to believe that his mum hit him even with proof...he got a stern telling off too! (Both reprimands included swear words...but neither of them hit me for it!...Bullies only pick on the vulnerable)

@danielcarter94 13 дней назад

I want to let him know he will be believed. But you don’t believe him. Makes no sense. Much easier to not believe him than face that Grandma might hit him.

@junehope5152 13 дней назад

My son is 24 he’s really bad liar it end we In him at 17 saying he’s been attacked he even allowed me to call the police turns out he been at a girls house jumped the fence because her dad came home. He even flagged a car down and told the driver he had been attacked my son I am ashamed to say lies daily has son since he was able to talk

@kekejefferson9219 13 дней назад

News Flash: Kids do lie.

@anthonybrown06 12 дней назад

Kids be trippin sometime. U gotta take something’s with a grain of salt

@cjrsalinas7334 14 дней назад

Children pretend alot. Ask him what the "real" story is not his imagination

@donnabartley2246 14 дней назад

How much time is he spending on electronics ? So much violence is taking screen time even for LITTLES. We must protect our children from this imaginary hotbed... Our kiddos minds are developing and influenced by imagination. Toys games Storytime... Then a real life situation happens and their interpretation , ability to convey reality is so greatly influenced by What's is not real .

@shannon_b 14 дней назад

…littles? 🤢

@Void0420 14 дней назад

Omg boomer

@shannon_b 14 дней назад

@@Void0420ugh. She said kiddos too. I missed that the first time. She’s probably one of my own, unfortunately. A millennial. That’s obnoxious millennial language.

@mariatorres9789 14 дней назад

@@shannon_bWtf is a Littles? Lmao. Is she talking about midgets, dwarves, what? Haha.

@Momof3needsakidney 14 дней назад

Kid that really needs attention from the mom that hes making up stories cause grandma is the same way as mom.... But then again how much of a terror is the kid to the grandma and or the other two? So MUCH more going on than she explained.