My Spouse Wants A Divorce Because I'm No Fun 

God bless you, Dave, for taking this Culture War by the horns and hitting back. You give hope to men like me who are raising 3 boys and our country desperately needs what you're offering. Hit hard, sir. You push us on.

Thank you for grilling this idiot, but you guys could've said a lot more. A real man will follow up on his promise at the altar and make his marriage work even at the expense of his hurt or die trying. A real man nurtures his wife and sacrifices himself for her to meet her emotional needs. It should never be about his needs. A real man will eat unfairness and injustice for breakfast and pain for lunch for the sake of the sanctity of his marriage. The same goes for women, too. Love has never been about romantic, emotional high. It's about commitment and sacrifice, dying to self for the sake of spouse and children. It's something this generation of young people will not understand.

Dave sometimes it's not about making bad decisions, these guys are worse than players. These guys are so good at love bombing and duping smart intelligent women and then slowly destroying their self esteem and using them until they can't use them any more... and then they just walk away scott free after creating so much damage

Dave, is it possible for you to do follow up episodes on some of these fascinating calls... I always wonder what happens months or years later..... Thank You.. I'm late to the party, just subcribed 8/14/20...👍

This is what most women who file for divorce give as a reason. They aren't having fun. The only reason people get divorced is because at least one of them wants to get divorced. People want to do these things. Doesn't make sense to get married in general.

Facts

Nailed it.

That is the house, car, and the shirt off his back. Trying to get a divorce? Watch and learn!

well said. you took the words out of my mouth.

Agreed unless it’s not emotionally or physically healthy or safe for her and their 2 yo to be there right now. She’ll still keep the house. I’d advise contacting a good lawyer first and let them advise her on how/when or if to leave and connect her with the appropriate resources to help to set up a plan and execute it. She needs to do what’s right and best for her and her child.

Exactly, well said.

No. The lawyers and wives are the only winners as the strategy is to bleed you dry for years on end until you agree with the ex-wifes lawyers demand. In the end you either run out of money or settle. Oh and her lawyer can get you to pay for him as part of the settlement so she has nothing to loose

Yeah never give up possession of the household. I don't know anyone would ever leave just bc the other spouse says "go away now"

A younger one guaranteed 🙄

Not probably.... there is one already

or a boyfriend

@@ae4xo good one!

After she finds out he won’t have any money after the divorce he won’t.

Yup. I've heard that over and over again, and usually the 2nd marriage turns out much better than the 1st, bc it's a better match. It's actually better to move on with little kids, bc they will be more accepting of the situation and won't sabotage the new relationship like they might when they get older (thinking mom & dad will still get back together). I've know many people in 2nd marriages and they are very happy. In fact, I've found that, in the 2nd marriage, men are much more willing to make it work and not just walk away, bc they remember how horrific their divorces were with the 1st wife and they don't want to have to go thru that again! For this lady re: this video, this could be a blessing in disguise and she may not want the 1st husband back.

Woo God is good! It’s unfortunate these things have to happen but I’m certain you have come out a stronger wiser and more loving partner through your trials.

My girlfriend told me I'm not fun.

A far more likely outcome than this guy might think.

@@billgateskilledmyuncle23 that would be PERFECT

Should I rent or buy?

exactly!

Should the asset be shared equally? Why would the woman take the home?

@@angelhighlight5154 because it would give the child stability and she's the primary carer. She probably can't afford it and they may need to sell it.i think women who forgo paid work to care for kids need to be compensated

Jane Baker Absolutely disgusting view on family

@@andreaseriksson9225 Do you think he should get the home? Would the courts even allow that?

Boring people exist. A lot of women want to sit and read a book for hours or watch tv for hours. Most won't do anything unless their husbands plan everything until the end of time.

I know it doesn't sound good, but this could be the best thing that ever happened to this woman. She can get a better man that she has more in common with, and her and her child's life will be better, trust me. I've known lots of people in 2nd marriages, and its usually much better than the first. And that with anything, a job, a church, etc.

@@bettywith2girls she could leave she’s still burdened with children. Women need to smarten up and stop giving these men children at the end of the day when sht hits the fan i guarantee it will be your problem

Keep telling them, sir. Much respect... help them grow...

What is "this" they didnt sign up for? And Who are you to tell them anything?... Asking for a friend...

It's aggravating to see this type of behaviour. A friend of mine was pressured by her husband to have kids. She wanted to work at least 3 more years to be more stable in her career ( here we get maternity leave for a while and most women work after that ends). He convinced her to have the kid then. He told her to not worry because his money would cover everything if she lost her job or if her career got stuck. He wanted soooio much to be a dad! Yada yada yada. This vent on for months until she accepted to get pregnant. The kid is almost 2 years now and apparently he wanted to be a dad. He just doesn't want to parent a child. He also continues to want the best smartphones, mercedes, go out on fancy dinners, etc etc etc. He also wants to sleep and that his child is quiet... Yeah... Not happening with a 2 yo. And she isn't fun either. Why? Because she has to tell this man-child that he can't blow up all his paycheck or his kid won't have anything to eat. He doesn't care. Because he "worked hard for his money and he has a good income". The problem is having children with this kind of egoistical type of person.

@@carpediem4091 That child has a rough start into life. Let's just hope their momma's love will make a decent human being outta them...

Tell that to women, who initiate 70 to 80 percent of divorce.

💯 Well said. It’s also not healthy or right for her child to be poisoned against her dad. Sometimes we can make great parents but lousy spouses (at the time). Feeding gender stereotypes is petty and only exacerbates a painful situation.

FACT.

j mc how do you know that she is poisoning their daughter to hate her father ? Gender stereotypes?? What on earth are you talking about ? She is going through a divorce and you are talking about “gender stereotypes”

F THAT!!!! Women are always all supportive and nice until the contract is signed!!! Then it's all... "I've got him now" and she does whatever SHE wants.... it's NEVER her fault, just look at all the relationship books.... they are ALL about he MAN CHANGING and understanding the woman... F marriage, F relationships!!!

@@cjdemeo8974 So..learning to understand your wife is bad?? im really struggling to see your point here.

You can work and still have fun sometimes.

@@martell8560 it's true but based on this situation, a 2 year old shouldn't be and someone that is "not fun" anymore shouldn't be grounds for a divorce. She's probably going through depression or taking the brunt of responsibility. It could've been worked through...

No need to figh for 16 more years and then divorce when the kid leaves the nest. Not good for the kid, husband or the wife. What kind of arcaic mindset is this? Are there really this much hillbillies in th US?

Why men have children they can’t raise or afford is beyond me

That's an excellent PSA for not having kids

B McDonald I have a two year old and it’s one the best parts of my life! She makes every day a blast. Like my wife she comes before me and I think that ends up being the key. Making others happy does the same to you.

@@murraybeachtel8585 This is a wonderfully uplifting comment, and I wish the best for your wife, your daughter and you! You and your wife are so lucky to have found each other and to be so happy together. I'd love to be in a relationship like that, but seeing the other embittered, hateful, anti-woman comments in the comment section, and having had only bad experiences when dating straight guys, I'm scared of getting married to a deceitful manipulator who will do the same like the husband of the woman from the video, or like Onision, or like so many others (so-called "red-pillers"). This kind of thing is unfortunately very common, and in virtually every case, the woman is left holding the short end of the stick. That's why I plan on saving some money over the next few years and then adopting kids and raising them on my own. Maybe I can be the first aroace with kids lol Anyways, I can only hope to have as happy a family as yours one day! Cheers!

Murray Beachtel oh yay! I agree with you. In ways, having our children has brought us closer but we still know this may not be a “fun” time as only a couple because we have three kids now. We know this time will pass and is passing before our very eyes. Our 1,2 and 9 year old keep us very busy but we wouldn’t change it for anything. It will be long home before we know it and it will be just us two without children again. I wish more people understood it was no longer about their selfish needs once they have a spouse and children.

Great! Until baby rabies kicks in. I see it all around all the time. Jordan Peterson is 100% right on that.

FACTS 💯, people are to quick to marry, kids , house etc. man I’m BIG chilling lol. Stack paper up. I’m good

So brave ...and strong. Good job keeping up with the boys. You are masculine now.

Your biological clock alarm is coming due in 3, 2, 1...

@@joshuathompson4162 lol💪💄

I have never heard people say it is the man's fault when a woman isn't satisfied or is unhappy. It is her fault. She is an adult and is responsible for her own happiness etc. I suspect you are projecting

exactly what also through my mind, its a lost battle no matter what happens.

Grown ups don't view divorce one sided. Anyone you had dealings with who felt this way about it, are selfish and wrong.

Thats really not true. I can't just leave my marriage and my kid. There are responsibilities

@@maryjones6115 I think you're the one who is projecting because you are denying what is truly going on. You're denying it either because you actually value the sanctity of marriage or you just want people to believe that what I said does not happen in real life.

Bingo. The game is rigged, so if you decide to roll the dice, it's on you. Good luck.

These guys are simps and probably had a strong motherly influence growing up. That’s why they speak so highly of women and cherish the ground they walk on. I’m sure their wives cheat on them or have in the past and they found out and forgave them, they would probably tell you to do the same.

SuperTraveler one benefit is that two year old child, which he helped bring into the world. Also you don’t know if she was making more than him, so maybe she worked as well to have a house. I realize we don’t have both sides to a story here, but I don’t think he went into the marriage thinking he would get divorced

Still! She has a kid and has to bring it up while he will be living his life and 18 years later he'll be like " oh wait a minute I guess I have a kid and I can play daddy with him" . No sir! If he can't stand his family he has to pay for the betrayal of their trust, happiness and "Fun".

That he’s worked for? Interesting assumption considering she also has a job. She deserves more than the car.

@Tahkeem Hilton_2.0 *than

Tahkeem Hilton_2.0 Please don’t text and drive. Pull over and text if you have to

I'm ready to bet her judge was a man. Her lawyer was a man. His lawyer was a man and people who wrote family law were men. If a group of men can look at your son's case and condemn him even when he's one of their own, then maybe your son had some sort of responsibility on what happened? And yes, when you make a child you have to take care of them. Surprise!

@@f.-j.j.5738 theres people who has to pay child support on a another man kid

F.-J. J. I’d be surprised if you had a spouse lol

Women holding women accountable would be a first. It's one of the many downsides of feminism.

Totally agree, but Dave tends to bite on any bait near him. Remember his COVID rants that were really really poor? Or how he misremembers how the Y2K stock markets reacted? He is just very novice at anything beyond simple savings/debt free tips.

I'm 76 yrs old & trust me there are men that think they can walk away with everything except responsibility...true we are not hearing both sides but fact is there are some very immature men & women out there

Always another side. But, a man needs to fight for his family. Unless, the other side is she cheated.

While my husband didn’t tell me I wasn’t fun, he did file for divorce and wrote me a letter stating he would “pay” me for 6 months until I get a job. Our daughter was 2. He took her and went to his parents and left the letter on the table when I came home from knitting. He didn’t have a mistress. He said he just felt it was stagnant and he wasn’t happy anymore. Hand of God story. Our daughter suddenly had febrile seizures and stopped breathing. He panicked and called me. We went to the hospital together and after she got discharged he begged me to take him back. Said God opened his eyes. She never had febrile seizure again. I never cheated. I didn’t do anything out of the ordinary. I had also just invested part of my inheritance into his company. I don’t believe there was another side to every story. Some spouse/partner just “feel” they can walk away and take everything they want. He snapped out of it though. I figured maybe some men also have hormonal issues after having a child. Like a man’s version of postpartum depression? We are still married. Everyone makes mistakes. We learn as we go.

@@tonitoni2045 I believe you because they chose poorly

This is why you never get married

@@robertatkins272 Exactly why you should.

twin cherry no thanks, been there done that for 15 long years.

@@robertatkins272 I guess it applies to the other party and not you.

All being legally married does is give someone the right to half of your assets. You heard Dave, “teach this boy about the law”. No matter the reason for the divorce, in the end, it’s all about money, property and who is going to get stuck with the debt.

Well sure, and the husband can't dictate the terms of the divorce. But neither can Dave. It's up to the courts and the law's of caller's state.

I think they pick these types of stories in large part because it is more rare for a guy to initiate divorce.

No

Yes

No they would not. They would be mad, but no where near that extreme.

Nope

This.

Exactly

a Jones. +1

He's a boomer just let them extinct.

So would you give the same advice if a guy called Dave ? You won't answer because we all know you a tool to feminism

Her husband was already spiteful when saying he will take almost everything. Her getting a lawyer to help her with their child that he wants to leave a little bit for, isn't spiteful.

They are always two sides to the story. The Bible says: Prov 19 : 13, Prov 21 : 9, Prov 21 : 19, Prov 27 : 15. I want to hear both sides 🤷‍♂️👀. I will add this for Dave Ramsey Prov 18 : 13

Right? And he calls himself a Christian. And why is people calling in to ask him about marriage advices? He specializes in finances. It’s like asking a medical doctor about HVAC issues.

Don't forget about sexless marriage.

@@jamesbonofffradestin761 i was just about to say that she is no fun as in no fun in the sac

I don't know, I have seen cases of very immature men that expect to have the same life they had before being father, or even before they were married. Many time the "you are not fun" really means "I don't want responsibilities"

@@MariaRodriguez-dx6sm men should start thinking about marriage when they reach 40s.

@@jamesbonofffradestin761 again, depends. There are 25 year olds that never liked parting and prefer domesticity and 55 year olds that still behave like irresponsible frat boys

I disagree. There’s always a way to keep things going.

BuildingwithTrees gtf with that bs..... my wife just had a baby and we have a blast 5-7 days a week every week....

I agree Joshua! Not every woman or person is the same life is really what we make it and you can still create fun and joy in every stage of life

It is only crazy if you think about it from a solipsistic point of the woman. She has the availability to seek shelter at a crisis center. Go find a crisis center that takes men in. Its crazy that you think he should go homeless while she has the house and a backup plan.

Did you miss the point where he started the divorce?

Exactly but look at all the hurt men in the comment section btching and crying. Wise up ladies STOP GIVING THESE MEN CHILDREN AND SECURE A CAREER

Casey Burns Investing I doubt it's that simple. Will never know the whole story. In Oklahoma your forced to pay child support and back child support even if they're not yours after two years. And that's just one of many examples.

OUCH! The truth hurts...

And here you are again

Big facts

my Moms ex husband walked out on her with not just 2 kids but one is with special needs. he finally came back at 60+ yrs. he just babysat his son for the first time. and he came back because his girlfriend of 25 yrs die so he is back at 60+ . hah

My dad did this to my family, not my mom. So my dad should be punished, but if a woman does this to her family, then the same. These two men didn't say women dont also... they are dealing with a bad man who is abandoning his family. He is also sinning against God.

We don’t even know if the kid is his......

100% FACTS!

@Dyduxucux Hxxjfufuf BIG FACTS!

Thank you for not letting me be the only one that says that about divorces.

Great advice .... but without knowing "his" side of the situation we can't say for sure.

Just solidified my belief why there are no benefits into getting married the way Ramsey and this guy told her to go after everything this guy has worked for. This “letter” is not the whole story....

All you people out there saying they are hearing only one side...you aren’t listening, she said that he left her because she’s no longer fun and he’s going through a midlife crisis. What other side of the story is there? They are MARRIED with a family, it’s a team and teamwork and constant teamwork and effort and building the relationship. It’s such a common story amongst me who are in midlife crisis and in denial.

Pc, ok and that's still HER version of the story. I'm not saying she's lying, but i'm not gullible to just blindly believe her either. I wasn't there during her marriage so i have no idea if she is telling the truth or not without actual evidence to backup her story.

That's the mans fault tho.. 😂😂

Chelsey Thomas Yup. I've seen so many scenarios of this through the years. And I dare Dave to dig deeper into these calls for the facts.

Anna annanymous I didn’t blame her. I just said we didn’t hear the other side. And you can’t say she clearly isn’t at fault when you don’t know the whole story.

Anna annanymous This is a 5 minute phone call not the Hallmark channel.

@Anna annanymous Yeah, that race to say "there must be more to the stooory" only happens when a woman calls in to complain about a man; never the reverse.

@Anna annanymous Marriage separation and divorce is the literal definition of anti-male sexism. It's just fact Anna

The 2 year old kind of gives it away. A lot of times when couples have a baby they lose their spark or the romantic flame between them. One thing is for certain, when you don’t put your marriage first, it will end in divorce regardless of who fault it is.

What can he be doing to help her not be boring? Plan family activities or dates? Take on more family or household responsibilities so she can recharge? Assist her with getting help for possible mental health issues like postpartum depression? Why do you jump to his defence and blame her? Why not ask what he was doing or not doing?

yeap

Dave Ramsey isn’t on a jury. His job is to take the caller, or in this case “emailer”, at face value so other people in similar situations besides the caller can get help. His advice to get a good lawyer was good. The courts then decide who’s more responsible. I’m tied of the men bringing up that statistic that somewhere between 70-80% of women initiate divorce indicating that the one who initiates divorce is always the bad guy and then when the man initiates divorce, these same men say there’s 2-3 sides to every story. The hypocrisy is staggering

Stop playing devils adovcate for some one you dont even know. The assests will be divided equally not what just the man wants. A lawyer will ensure that.

😂

I can’t stand religious people 😂😂😂😂 the holier than thou routine and the sickening hypocrisy 😂😂😂

Get lost

What does religion have to do with this? That’s how the law works

@@kind2423 religion has everything to do with it because this show claims their advice is solely based on biblical principles

Caused by single mothers raising males. No father in the household you get boys, not men. Thank you feminism.

Shut'up!

There is NO crisis. I promise you.

1000000% look at all these weak men in the comment section their egos are so fragile I really don’t want to despise them but they make it really hard. Ladies PLEASE do yourself a favor secure your career and financial life and if you decide to have children with a man ask yourself if you are willing to be single mom for him because when sht hits the fan it will be your problem to figure it out

Not a chance. Gynocentrism is way too embedded.

Nope, in fact, most think that if a mom leaves or causes any reason for a divorce, that the guy should still pay.

Lol no i dont think so.. I love Dave finance advice but hes a simp and i dont care about his god advice either

If she left cause he wasn't "fun" anymore, my response would be the EXACT same

Maybe she has stopped having intimacy with him, that kind of thing can destroy a man's mental state, its essential to a healthy relationship imo, if she is doing that then to me its her wishing to end the relationship and he is only making it official. There's always two sides to every story.

Jay 👍

You can throw away your wife but any man who abandons there kids is 🤮🤮

Kerena Only he’s not abandoning his kid. Women always try to falsely conflate the two

he's going to learn the hard way now.... will have to pay child support, her expenses and other stuff

Thank you. He gave her the benefit of the doubt and he dipped. I’m pretty sure he loves his kid no doubt and will be there for her

Yes indeedy. Dave can only react to the info he's given, which is certainly cause for anger and disgust. However, as you say, two sides to the coin and the littlest bit of all the edge/truth. Would love to hear a follow up on this one.

6 sides. Hers, his, the daughter's, her lawyer's, his lawyer's and the truth.

Yea, I'm know men always get bashed for being wrong and I get that, but let's be real. Ladies, how often do you fall for these jerks? ALL THE FREAKING TIME, because they make you "feel" good. And then expect some white knight should come out and rescue you from your nonsense. I stopped caring about dating a relationships/marriage a long time ago.

Exactly what I was going to say! I left an emotionally, verbally abusive narcissist. I never spoke about it besides to my closest friends. I begged him for counseling and he said no every time. He thought he had me so beat down that I wouldn’t go anywhere. When he realized I was serious about leaving and every manipulative tactic to keep me to stay wasn’t going to work, he started a smear campaign against me. So this woman could be telling the truth but I’m always curious now about the “whole story”.

Give David a cee-gar!

Martell Malone I'm single and don't get it. My girlfriend and I have been together longer than most marriages. Coexist with bits of fun,adventure,world travel,cooking,gardening,reading,sailing,hiking,backpacking,biking,etc.. Even rented nieces and nephews on occasion. No issues.

BlackWorldTraveler rented nieces & nephews? Also you’re single or you have a girlfriend lol. Confused

@@aiyannalynn1114 same 🤔

The “details” become irrelevant when there’s a 2-year-old child involved. Dude needs to grow up.

Tahkeem Hilton_2.0 yeah and Dave wonders why more men are choosing to “shack up” then get married

Cory Walker I love the dude ain’t even have a chance to defend himself lol.

Or have children by other men and claim the child is the husband's.

If was reverse Ramsey what's his problem

@C.D. Nguyen The difference is the expectation of responsibility from society. If a guy skips out on their family no one likes that guy. He's a deadbeat loser and everyone agrees on that. But if a woman cheats, its the husband's fault. He will be facing the most destruction in his entire life and the most sympathy he will get from anyone is, "get over it". He will be told he needs to drastically change to meet her needs. She will be treated like a victim and she will not be expected to take any responsibility for her actions. wife cheats = husbands pays

Mother of 2 year old initiates the divorce because her husband is "no fun" - that is not a real life scenario. Sometimes women leave their little ones with the men and are out, but then it has usually to do with addiction. Might play a role here too, but the "you are no fun" does not indicated. Boy-man could overwhelmed by the responsibility of being a father, and no it is not always fun if they are little. There are male teenagers in the bodies of men that rise to the occasion - and others that walk away because it is "no fun" anymore.

That’s why I love Dave. He always protects ladies.

@@thecatnextdoor12 Yes A Man!

@Marc Archibald They pushed for no fault divorce. It goes both ways.

@Marc Archibald see how these two ladies in the comments act when you're worth 200 million dollars. "Aw i love Dave, yeah he's a real man." Lol

@christ1313 more like simp of the year

Thank you, people lie and misrepresent themselves constantly until the truth comes out. Be careful out there.

Why are you so pressed

Yep, this is wisdom

Tom Leykis would be clowning on him. 🤣

Tom Leykis - the father we didn’t know we needed.

So True 🤣

When a 2 year old toddler is abandoned (and so is the mother because "she is not fun anymore") who celebrates that (a women would be more judged than a man). - Yes women also cheat (that man has chick at the side, no doubt about it) - but they usually do not walk out of a marriage with a small child / children. And they almost never initiate the divorce witht the GOAL to LEAVE the children with the man - to make things worse. The man that wants the divorce takes for granted that the mother will take care of the child and will want to remain the main caregiver (as is normal at that age, if the mother is not a complete failure as caregiver). This is not about a mid life crisis or interpretations of her behavior. SHE does not want to end the marriage when she and the child are vulnerable, he does. And when women are encouraged to leave or "praised" for leaving it is NOT when she walks away from a 2 year old. Unless the partner is so damaging (domestic violence, addiction, ...) that she has to be out even if the child or the children are little. Needless to say then the kids leave with her.

Thank you!

Lane I’m sorry to hear that bud.

Is that why you got divorced? Who filed? That's not a good reason for a divorce 😳

+Lane And they left with the intention that YOU would take care of a 2 year old toddler ?? Did you get a warning shot (like the women asked you to get counseling ?).

Women are actually worse at saying men are no fun.

Exactly. Classic double standard.

Well those are some very sweeping statements there...are you sure they apply as universally as you have suggested? Are you going to give similar advice to women? Because there are similarly bad or morally lazy women, so all women must fit into the same category if we are following your reasoning, I suppose...

This was the comment I was looking for. The hypocrisy is amazing lol

Brian Pitsilides Always more to the story. Many of these women calling because they know Dave has a cape nearby.

The dude probably just wants some head.

@@blackworldtraveler3711 Nah. A suit of armour, broadsword and white stallion. Tally ho fair maiden. 😈

She probably cheated on him. Probably the fakest reason I've ever heard.

I thoughy the same. She just reversed the whole deal

I'm guessing, by you grouping all women based on a song from the 80s, that you're perpetually single. Lol

@@amyl3729 Na I'm just red pilled.

I group women by their 80% divorce rate with 6 years of marriage taking everything the court system can give them don’t even respond facts don’t care about your feelings!!! 🎤 drop!!!

@@ryanlowe509 you think that's a mic drop, and you think it hurts my feelings? Lol ok then. You win

100%

So stupid.

But it allowed Dave to go off on a mini rant about the culture wars and libtards and everything else that doesn't fit in his worldview...based on very slim info from the caller.

Happened to me after I became pregnant with baby #2 , & my x- husband said, " I really dont like "Little kids" , I like them when they ( the kids) are Older!" That was 45 years ago, & he left. Now I am preparing myself for retirement, & going to enjoy my paid off home & my paid off vacation home in Ak. Sometimes, we just need to move On ,& Up!!!

Pamela Wurtzburger Amen! It’s happened to so many of my girlfriends.

It's the sign of a narcissist. :(

I’m sorry

@@pamelawurtzburger4676 Yep! A lot of women waste time crying and trying to get a worthless man back, instead of focusing on the future.

I read the title and thought it was a wife leaving her husband.

No, there are men and women who do this. Either way, it's horrible.

Count your lucky stars that @ least she left before bringing kids into the mix.

@@rbcrbcrbc9 what? no people in the real world want to be nice to their partners and sometimes they say things in a 'light way' and mean something else. not having fun can mean.. I don't feel like you prioritize me anymore, I don't feel like you try to be pleasing to me etc, or you stress me out so being around you isn't fun. You've never said something like 'I don't like hanging out with that person because things have to be their way.. it's no fun' yes that's because they are controlling. Like stop assuming i'm making it a man/woman thing. this happens in reverse too.

Same, I’m curious why he thinks he deserves the house and assets.

@@sheila3936 more than likely he paid most of it while the wife paid nothing as it happens in most marriages due to the wife having lower income or not working at all

@@Finestizpro She earns 58k a year. Pretty sure she paid for a good portion of their assets.

Or he could be a degenerate loser like most fathers... especially inner city ones.

yep, there just aren't many men built like this....:-( a culture of little boys and little girls...

Truth 👆

"Happens far more often"? How? Says who? What study backs this up?