നമ്മൾ തോറ്റു കഴിഞ്ഞാൽ നമ്മുടെ തോൽവി അംഗീകരിക്കാൻ ഒരുപാട് ആളുകൾ ഉണ്ട് ജയിച്ചാൽ നമ്മൾ മാത്രേ കാണു never give up 👏... ചേച്ചി job എത്ര നോക്കിട്ടും കിട്ടാതിരിക്കുന്ന ആളുകൾക്ക് ഇതൊരു motive ആണ്... Happy Women's Day 💖
Happy to hear your speech Aishu !! ഇപ്പോളും കേരളത്തിൽ/ഇന്ത്യയിൽ financially independent ആകാത്ത പെൺകുട്ടികൾ ഉണ്ട് ... എനിക്കും ഒരു best friend ഉണ്ടായിരുന്നു, she was so active, studious and brillant..but immediately after college she was forced to marry due to ജാതകം issue ..ഇപ്പോൾ കോച്ചായി & home maker .. ഇടക്കൊക്കെ അവളെ കുറിച്ചു ഓർത്താൽ സങ്കടം തോന്നും competitive exams ഒക്കെ എഴുതി international level വരെ എത്താൻ കഴിവുള്ള പെൺകുട്ടി ആയിരുന്നു..😐 ഒരു കല്യാണ marketil ചെക്കന് job mandatory ആണ് , പെൺകുട്ടികൾക്ക് അത് ഇല്ലെങ്കിലും കുഴപ്പമില്ല ഇതൊക്കെ മാറണം .. എനിക്ക് ഒരു പെങ്ങൾ ഉണ്ട് , അവൾക് നല്ല ഒരു financially settled job കിട്ടിയിട്ട് മാത്രമേ ഞാൻ വിവാഹം കഴിപ്പിക്കുകയുള്ളു ...ഇങ്ങനെ ഒക്കെ each and every indian family മാറിയാൽ പെൺകുട്ടികൾ രാജ്യം ഭരിക്കുന്ന prime minister വരെയാകും 🔥 Happy women's day to every women here ❤️
I was trying for a job from 2019 to 2022 Between I got married and faced the same issues!!! Now I am working as a developer. I can relate with your emotions 🙂.Currently going through the initial work life problems 😀
Not only you are rising and shining yourself but you are inspiring others to rise as well.... that's what we all should be doing... Happy Women's day 🙂
Aishu, I cant explain how much inspiration u gave me.. i m also going through this hard days of rejection but i m sure one day i can feel proud and confident again.. being financially independent is the best feeling of freedom💯
To be very frank..I am not much interested to see your videos..but when i saw this title " independent", I was curious to know what it is..I just loved this ❤️..I really appreciated for your constant effort and hardwork..Keep going..I also felt the same that women is independent only if she is financially independent..So never give up for anything..Rise and shine.. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are truly a gem of a person. The way you are thinking,talking and inspiring people is so good. Happy women's day and Happy work anniversary Aishu. 👏👏👏
I cannot really explain my emotions after watching this video. I'm going through the hardest period of job hunting and rejections. Hope everything will fall a place soon. Thankyou so much for the motivation and kind words. ♥😊
Wonderful 😊😊😊😊...when my both kids were born, sooooo many people told leave job and focus on raising them..I only had 45 days maternity leave and was really hard to manage both..but did not leave job :) bcs I wanted to be financially independent and give better life for our kids :)
Aishu. Nammal naattukaranu. Tamasikkunnathu calicutilum. Molude e chanal kandappol ente pala teerumanaghalum change cheyyanamennu vijarikkunnu. Ente grand daughter. M c A kazhijhu. Udane tanne I B M il job kitty. Njaghal avalod vivaham kazhikkuvan parayunnudeghilum molu samadhikkunnillya. Eppol Aishu parajhathu keettappol marriage alla pradanam. Job aanu valuthu ennum manasilayi. Thanks oru verduvijarathinnu പ്രേരിപ്പിച്ചതിന്. 🙏🙏
Trule inspirational. Agree with you 100%. It is so important to be independent now. You get freedom and more confidence. Everyday we learn and never give up. I went through the same phase like you did. And once I reached where I wanted, there was no turning back. Good luck for all your future projects Aishu and say hi to the ducks! 😀 They like to be around you 😆
Happy woman’s day to the power full,the true motivator ,and of course the true inspirational lady 🔥one of the best videos I’ve seen on RU-vid in woman’s day🙏🏻😘😘😘😘😘thanks aishu
What you said all is going on each girls mind. You talk so matured. . Every women want to be independent mentally, but situations sometimes don't allow most of us. Happy women's day..
The connection between you and me is that we both started searching job almost the same time.U at least got rejections i dnt even got a response😂.(I have started working 6 mnths ago btw)
You spoke everything that was in my heart Aishu . I had a good job but had to quit due to some personal reasons, nevertheless I am all ready now to start my job hunting again. :) Keeping moving ahead in life, Nothing can stop you . God bless. 😘
4 years aite njan oru financials independent ane, ente parents te Karim familyeum Enk nalla pole take care cheyan pattitunnde, swantham marriage ente swantham chilavil nadatham enne Njan pande therumanitulathairunnu , Next month April I am going to get married Ente agrhram pole marriage ente chilavil thanne nadathn pogunnu , proud of myself 😌, and pray for me 👏😍Ella penkuttygaalum financially independent ai jeevikan sremikuga
@@pumpkinpumpkins5117 engina ayirunnu poyath. Avide settle avan ano udhesikkunnath. Spouse nde work avide kittan budhimutt aville. ( These are my stupid anxious thoughts sorry 🥲)
Really wat u told was hundred percent truth. Financial independence it's something like drug. We don't want to leave it 😀 After being mom it's very difficult to chose. But I chose to be independent n I know she will appreciate it one day 👍
Ofcourse she will appreciate u.. My mom is a working women. Njan cherudharnapol grandma aarnu enne nokiye.. Evng amma vannitu ente koode time spend cheyum.. Ottum viajrikatha timeil aanu achane nashtapedune.. ente cherupathil amma enne nokan vendi job kalanjirunel ennenik nalla life kittillarnu.. So i proud of her..mattu palarum kuttapeduthiyatund but nammude makalk nalloru life nammalk sammanikan pattunadh thanne velya karyamanu
Happy women's day chechii❤️🌸 Really inspiring 🥺🫂... Sathyamaa chechii financial freedom undayal maatrame nammalk freedom anubhavikkan pattu ath illel nammal depending thanne aanu so you r ryt "women should be financially independent" these words will always remind💖
Hi Aishu...😍Happppy women's day to uuu, the succesful hardworker !!!! Ur story is really motivational...What you are trying to convey is exactly the truth...financial independence is something really "proud- to- be- experience" thing for a woman... that confidence is really something great to ourself... Today's video is very very nice, motivational and proud to watch...luv you Aishu😍...and loved ur determination too...tc
Thank you so much Aishu.... Really inspiring me. Actually I am going through a tough situation and this video give a lot of happiness and inspiration. I also got a job recently after 1 year's constant trying. Currently I am going through the same situation that you confronted at your initial stages. Actually I was thinking to give up at the moment when I started to see your video. Thank you so much. Now I'll also try to get out of my comfort zone.
Happy Women's Day Aishu ❤️ Your story is really motivational ... Thank you very much for your advice dear... I will surely implement in my life as well 😍
Wonderful video, Aishu. I could relate to each and every point that you said from the start for the fact I believe most immigrants like us. Also, the pride that I felt when I finally got a job was exactly what I saw in the second half of this video. More power to you!
I can relate to your emotion because I have went through this same phase in ma life as well. But the difference is that my story happend in India itself. My field is also into management so it was so hard to get a job in Mumbai for me without knowing Hindi. I spend only around 8 months but it felt like 8 years to me. Because after my MBA I did a 4 months internship and later I got married and came to Mumbai, so due to covid I had a career gap of 5 months before marriage and after marriage 8 months(total 1.3yrs). Being a rank holder in MBA and seeing all your friends grabbing good opportunities, I felt happy and disappointed. I thought I was a failure and will end up as a housewife which was a nightmare for me. And my husband stood with me throughout and he is really very a good human🥰. Finally after 8 months of continuous effort I got placed in a good startup and currently am the HR of their 2 branches. And after which I realized that financial independence or a job is really an essential part of my happiness. Literally I spend the initial days of marriage by crying and thinking about my unfortunate fate😁 thanks to my husband for not leaving me😰. Believe in yourself guys.
Great video! I would like to add one more point. It is not a wrong decision to move from your background. Many of us have been forced by our parents to chose some career. In my case, my father just wanted me to pursue a career in medicine and become a doctor. I did that. It was not my interest. I am interested in buisness and real estate and that's what I am doing now.Do what you love or it will be suffocating.
Thank s for sharing Truly inspirational After my delivery l quit my job and 10 years later l again started working abroad. Believe in your self and God and those who support you in your hard times and surely you will achieve your goal
എൻറെ നാട്ടിലെ ആളുകളുടെ കാഴ്ചപ്പാട് സർക്കാർ ജോലി കിട്ടിയിട്ടേ കാര്യമുള്ളൂ എന്നാ..ഞാൻ tution എടുക്കാൻ പോവുന്നത് കാണുമ്പോൾ പലരും പറയും അത് നിർത്തിയിട്ട് psc coaching നു പോവാൻ..ഞാൻ കുറെ കാലം coaching nu പോയതാ...പിന്നെ മടുത്തിട്ട് നിർത്തി..coaching നു പോയത് കൊണ്ട് മാത്രം കാര്യമില്ലല്ലോ നമ്മുടെ effort പോലെ അല്ലെ listil വരുന്നതൊക്കെ..psc മാത്രം നോക്കി മനസ്സ് മടുത്തിട്ടാണ് tution എടുക്കാമെന്ന് കരുതിയത്..ഇപ്പൊ ചെറിയ രീതിയിലാണെങ്കിലും സ്വന്തമായി earn ചെയ്യുമ്പോൾ ഒരു സമാധാനമുണ്ട്.☺️..
As a student this video made me think more about financial independence … ❤️everyone has a struggle story … nd I always believe that hard work pays off .. it may take days,months or years but as you said it is not impossible to get a job 💯if you are ready to work hard for it … the thing is we should give our best ✨
Hi Aishu, Firstly, happy women's day! Secondly, congratulations on your one year work anniversary! Your story is truly motivational! I can totally relate to you as I had a very similar experience when I migrated to the States after my marriage. I used to submit over 50 applications on a daily basis only to get rejected by each of them. I felt so desperate and helpless but was not willing to give up. After almost two years, I got an opportunity that was completely out of my comfort zone. I didn't think twice but accepted the offer. Needless to say, it was so challenging that I had traverse through paths completely new to me. Contrary to my nature, I didn't give up but pushed harder and hustled. Fast forward, after having lived in this country for over a decade and being a hustler to this day, I am so proud of where I stand today at a professional and personal front. I wish you all the success and happiness to you and all the women who are paving their paths to success on a daily basis.
U have vishnu to support u at dat stage but I was not having anyone at dat point I was dealing with my own emotion and facing all the problems alone finally I got it
@@tanimalayali6919 thankyou u really motivate me when I check each of urs videos each video has a uniquessnesss never try to change for anyone I love your vlogs 🥰
Am first time into your channel.I feel so happy and motivated from this content,I was feeling really low,but this video cheered me up.Thankyou somuch,keep rocking
Really inspired Only RU-vid channel watching now. I started to watch this channel 3 days back and now continuously watching each episode even after my duty though its tiring . getting something from your talks and lifestyle which are really good❤
well said Aishu!! ur communication skills n presentation is excellent. esp the progress of every step in life makes the listener emotional! good talk, best wishes dear!!
എന്റെ collegeil captain/president എന്നിങ്ങനെയുള്ള positionsil ഇരിക്കാൻ boys'നെ മാത്രമേ allow ചെയ്യുകയുള്ളൂ .. പലപ്പോഴും ഞങ്ങളെ girlsനെ ഇത് വല്ലാതെ വേദനിപ്പിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ട് ... ഭാരമേറിയ പണികൾ അവർക്കേ ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റുകയുള്ളു എന്നുള്ള mindset ആണ് ..even this is too happening in our Indian ruling system, always men become chief minister or prime minister.. പെൺകുട്ടിയാണ് നിനക്ക് ഇതൊന്നും പറ്റില്ല എന്ന് ജീവിതത്തിൽ പലപ്പോഴും നമ്മുക്ക് face ചെയ്യേണ്ടി വന്ന് കാണും .. സ്ത്രീകൾ തന്നെ മുന്നിട്ട് ഇറങ്ങിയാൽ നമ്മുക്ക് എന്തെങ്കിലും ഒക്കെ നേടാൻ കഴിയുകയുള്ളു.. ഒരു societyum നമ്മളെ ഉയർത്തി കൊണ്ട് വരൻ ഉണ്ടാകില്ല , നമ്മൾ തന്നെ പൊരുതി ജയിച്ച് കാണിച്ചു കൊടുക്കണം .. behind every successful women is herself 👍🏼🔥
U said it ..u covered all the points...my dear girls pls listen to her carefully....she is telling the truth....be financially independent...be strong ...never giveup...love you 🥰
Amazing to hear the story 😀 Inspiring 😃 Me and my wife will be in Amsterdam for a few days from April 6th. Hoping to catch up with a lot that the Netherlands has to offer 😃
Hi chechi.. U r just awsome y because u helped me in all stages of my career I can relate everything with you and ningal paranjathu ellam niku use full ayitullatha nte job confirm avanayii waitingaa ..
OMG!!!...that was such a great motivational video💓I have been trying for a job since last 2 years..This video gave me that much motivation that I decided I will never give up ....tanku chechi..😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Thanks Aishu for sharing very important message to everyone. You are 100% correct that independence in life is very important. That too financial independence. How society expects a man to be financial strong, same way even we women has to be. Requesting parents not to stop educating your daughters and getting them married in early ages. Let them study what they want and get a job and get well settled in life.
Watever u said is very true....i went back to my work experience as a teacher....padikunathum padipikunathum is very different enn enik annu manasilayi....kure karyangal enik relate cheyan pati...as of now...i am a homemaker...i have two small kids to take care.....but iniyum work cheyanam n aagraham und...lets c....very inspiring video dear❤
Inspirational one I had to hear this as I just got into IT field with no prior experience or knowledge and that too after two years and having a baby n between all those struggles am going through I have always thought how am even gonna survive this was so inspiring.. even am facing through all those stages which you mentioned..
Njn aishunte... Muzhuvan videos kanarunde... But first time oru comment idunathu.... Nale... Njn oru new job il joil cheyyan povanu.... You really motivated me in this video..... Happy women's day 💓 even girls can also take care of their parents
Greetings from Bahrain! Huge Respect to you and thanks for sharing this video. Had similiar experiences...May it get across to more that need the motivation.
Good job Tani! Something that is close to my heart these days -"Unless you ask, the answer is always going to be No." So kudos to you for asking that person for a trainee position and being so transparent! That was a bold move which got you this position! 💯
Going through this phase. Going to be 2 years. And things are getting darker only. But still I believe 2024 is going to be my year. "The darkest hour of the night comes just before dawn"
Thanks Aishu for sharing your experience with us. I can totally relate to the part of acquiring extremely desired job yet unable to do it properly even the basic things and not possible to quit since that's your hard earned job.I have gone through that and let me tell that's the worst thing one can face..As time passes we would be able to overcome all those hurdles and can settle in.. I thought I am the only one who had traumatic initial days of work..A job is not just to earn money, but something that can push yourself to the limits and beyond. There might be days which you feel down but the joy of mastering the most difficult task's can really boost to ur confidence to another level.
