Buddy was playing games, never entertain men like that. If he sets a date, is unsure you’re not going to show up, he should be grown enough to text to see if the date was still on at least. To not show up at all or explain the reason for not being there is disrespectful
that's what i was thinking lol. like it's not like i didn't show up. i said i was gone be there and i was. but i definitely couldve communicated better.
Communication is key! He may have assumed he was being stood up by you simply because you didn't keep your word on sending the text you said you would send prior to arriving at the location Nevertheless he could have showed his interest in the date if he had any interest by sending a text to confirm if the date was still on.. So there is definitely alot of miscommunication in the mix🤷🏾♀️
Your hair is THRIVING and it turned out gorgeous with only one product. Unfortunately Reesa Teesa learned the hard way and ignored the red flags due to her lonliness for a spouse. I admire her courage to share her story to keep us from making the exact same mistake and overlook red flags. In a case like this game player you came across RUN DONT WALK in the opposite direction like most of us when we come across confusing communicators. Continue to Raise the bar Queen!!!
I know I’m late, but girl you did you say you was going to text him in the morning and then turnt around and said I did not message him.. it was a lack of communication. Also, be careful taking advice from single women, because those are always the loudest giving out terrible advice.. to keep you single just like them!! (Women really be on that type of time..don’t want you doing better than them/competitive/envy..especially when it comes to having a man) Love how your hair turned out in this video 😊
One pump challenge sounds goods - sometimes less is more; no residue; are the products damaging to your hair/ scalp with excessive use? Are they effecting your insides? 🤔 humm?
I wouldn't make any snap judgments about the app guy based on what you've shared here. Men also have feelings and can worry about rejection, appearing too thirsty, flaky women, etc. So when you didn't text to confirm or send an omw text, he might have assumed you weren't interested. There are also a lot of loud, toxic people giving loud, toxic advice on the internet as well, as evident by your comments. 😂 Good luck out here.
Idk if I would consider this being stood up. It seems like the communication wasn't solid to begin with. Seems like you were waiting on him and he was waiting on you. I'm almost 40 so the men tend to be a lot more forward than the 20 somethings. I think he was waiting on you before it was confirmed that y'all were meeting. And you were under the assumption that it was already confirmed. Definitely just seems like miscommunication
lol i agree, im dramatically counting it as my first time being stood up lol + we confirmed we were meeting the night prior. i was just going to tell him when i was otw because i was driving from out of town. but nonetheless is was definitely just miscommunication lol
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It threw me off when you starter by saying when you talked to him at the end of the call you said you would text him when you're on your war. Girl you did that! If I was meeting someone for the first time in person and they made a point of saying we're meeting at 11 but I'll text you when I'm leaving depending on how far i live from the location I'm waiting for you to what you said.
Girl I'm tired of these men of today not taking initiatives and being careless in nature. Like what happened to straight upright gentlemen. All these men wanna be princess I don't get it. It's hard
That's just over-whelming. It just drives me crazy when I see you all just grabbing those "one little pieces" at a time and twirling it. The whole head has to be done! What's "wash n go" about that! WTH? Does anyone else ever think that? The term "Wash n Go" is very misleading.
lol i feel you, wash n go's in my opinion are never actually wash n GO , unless you have a TWA it would be easier. but this method you see me doing is the shingling method, you could try the raking method or praying hands method to speed up your styling process, its up to your preference
what has worked for my 4B/C hair is at nice using a little Camille rose and sleep with a sating bonnet. In the morning i spritz my hair with water and use my fingers to pick it up into a style.
When you first meet someone, you put your best foot forward...if that's his best foot...IMAGINE....his lack of initiative and nonchalant attitude is his character...🚩
How did she put her best foot forward if she committed to letting him know when she was on the way and then didn't do that. This man was waiting for her call.
If they want to, they will. Common curiosity to say drive safe good morning etc. You say that to strangers on the street. And honestly, if coffee shops aren't your thing don't start it off as a meet-up place. First impression are everything. Mean what you say and say what you mean. If you're looking for a serious long term relationship, be honest and upfront from the beginning. You don't want to fall for a facade, and neither should the other party.
im not saying i wasnt wrong for not texting him in the morning. i understand that aided into the miscommunication. i was not expecting him to no-show. we agreed to meet, if he had any doubt that i'd not show up then he could've asked instead of just not showing up.
Hey Lil Sis ~ Sounds like a misunderstanding. If you said you would let him know when you were on your way, you should have let him know you were on your way. I would not have left my home to meet someone if they said they would text first. I don't think he was wrong.
You expecting him to text you when you told him you’d text him when you were on the way and didn’t is hypocritical. As women if we want me who do what they say we need to hold ourselves to the same standard. Yes, he could have texted you but he shouldn’t have to when you told him you’d text. He didn’t play games and blocking men because you didn’t do what you said you were going to do will leave you single. Your hair is beautiful!
You did say u was gonna text him in the morning and you didn’t. But at the same time, if he was really interested in you, he would’ve put in a little more effort to confirm if the date was still on. 🤷🏾♀️
Ahh, Slimm you probably should have been a woman of your word and called/texted; howeverrrr I also think guys don't show enough initiative that they are MEN and know how to pursue women. If he was interested, he should have reached out to confirm the meeting. Men be waiting for us to chase them when it's in our DNA to wish to be pursued❤
No you were not wrong he was just playing. I hate simpletons. He should of texted you mornin are we still on or im looking forward to the meet up. Next, for him to say was up... like he has 4 gotten y'all had a date gtfoh dude is a dusty..
Listening to this, I don’t think anyone is “wrong” per se, I think it sounds like y’all not that interested in each other, especially him. You’re in his city and he wants to see you (even if the want is mutual), if he was unsure HE should have texted you that morning asking if you guys were still on. Not doing so shows he has no serious interest. YES you also could have/should have text him that you’re on the way; however, if you tell him you’re going text him when you’re on the way I just assume that is to let him know when he should leave out as well. I see everyone saying you’re in the wrong but really think about it. Unless the place is 5 minutes away from him and he could get ready really fast, what does an “I’m on the way” text going to do if he’s not already ready? (That is my assumption since he was still at his house, I’m assuming he just woke up washed his face and brushed his teeth). Anywho, it’s definitely miscommunication with BOTH of you. When someone is genuinely interested, the genuine excitement is going to make them text you first. And it sounds like he didn’t care and would’ve just went about his day uninterested. And the same could be said in your case since you didn’t text you were on the way (but again, I don’t think an “I’m on the way” text does much in this situation); but also, ehh because you did text him if he was there. More effort could have been given on both ends if you both were genuinely really interested in each other. Now lemmie get back to the video lol
Babbbyyyyyyyyyyy this is it!!!!!! These were literally my thoughts. Everyone is blaming him but I see it like you. They both weren't that interested. You make time for what you want to. It only takes a second to text, so either of them could have. If I am into someone , and I am not in their city, and I am driving there I am verifying. I think they both should have communicated better.
Thx for sharing Consider your communication style carefully - that way youre fairly assessing all the dynamics I think different people approach meetings and arrangements differently depending on communication - because you spoke abt communicating before meeting, this guy put priority on that - even though for you, the priority was on the meeting and not on the confirmation. 🤷♀️
Your hair is growing so beautifully. I personally think that both of you are in the wrong. It was a misunderstanding on both sides. I would have texted or called him to confirm if we were still meeting up 💕
i hear that. i think i am also now desiring men who give initiative and pursuit. i normally am the one who shows initiative first so i think that's why i had this perspective in this instance. + thank you boo!!
Yes, you were wrong…and stop listening to SINGLE friends. You gave your word and didn’t follow through. He expected something from you just as you would have expected the same from him…to keep his word. I know I’m late, but just watching so wanted to give my opinion.
No you were not in the wrong! And you’re not asking for too much. Know your worth and that you deserve better. He should have been there no matter what! He should be excited to get any time with you. Raise your bar girl!
You handled the situation correctly. He was playing games. He didn't value your time. Since you had a coffee date planned, he could have checked in with you if he didn't hear from you. He had no intention of showing up.
my sister, if brother didn't text you in the morning or before coffee to see how your morning or photoshoot went, he is not worth your time. you are a diamond in the rough sister, keep true to you my sigma female, much love and aloha
Being in a long term relationship, I learned that communication is key and goes both ways. U said u would text him when u were on ur way, but u didn’t. So just like u felt stood up, so did he. And just like u felt he could’ve reached out if he was unsure, he probably felt the same.
Naw sis you in the wrong. If you said you were going to text him to confirm then you should have done so. People flake all the time. Follow through is very important.
He should have texted you to confirm as the person who asked for the date in the first place. The fact that he didn’t means he’s not following his plan AND thinks you’ll pick up and go or not go on a drop of a dime on his time. And if he invited you for coffee which is so low effort anyway… the fact that he couldn’t even make that is so lazy and unattractive… and it’s the least he could do to offer to pay for your coffee. It’s like 4 dollars. 🧐 *also if you don’t even like coffee please let them know that. They can think of something else you would like 😤. Doesn’t take much effort at all for them to be considerate.
You said earlier in your story you would let him know when you're leaving, and you didn't. You had time to call a friend on the way. You should've texted him to say your on your way.
Possibly your commitment to text him that morning was what he considered your confirmation to the date. However, I think both of you all could have done damage control considering you all misunderstood each other once you all finally connected via text.
Hair is fire as always. Definitely a miss communication on both sides. Neither one of y'all confirmed the day of the date. You didn't let him know you were on the way, and he didn't check to confirm if you were on the way. It doesn't seem like either one of you was really interested.
first of all, men on apps are 99% creeps and complete time-wasters. And if he doesn't say anything on the day of the date, or at least 4 hours before the date, there is no date. I also suggest dating other races (if u aren't already), because increasing your dating pool increases your chances of getting in a relationship/married
Don’t accept coffee dates. It’s a clear sign he’s not that interested. He wants to test you before spending real money and he still stood you up which is tacky. It’s not you, don’t accept those cheap dates anymore! Other types of men will appreciate you and spend that coin. Especially to show off your beautiful curls!!
You told him you would let him know when you were on the way. You didn’t keep your word. We expect men to say what they mean and mean what they say. We should do the same. If you want the man to be a man then let him make the plans and do the confirming. In my observation you took that away from him. Best to fall back and stay in the feminine energy of receptivity allowing the man to lead, then there is much less confusion. You either like how he is leading, taking action and being clear of his interest or you don’t… then you can decide. Otherwise, you don’t have enough information to judge him or conclude to dismiss him. Wishing you the best on your relationship journey. Love the content. Love and Light. 💓
Careful using those app baby girl your face is public. I am able to find folks whole life by using just a picture of their face. I use to do this to make sure men were not married and had no kids etc. but some men use this to get your address. Yes once you find a face you can find the address all they need is your name and city. I know this video is old but Please be careful!!!
Common sense isn’t common anymore. God’s saving you for someone uniquely made just for you… Who won’t stand you up and adore you like the Queen you are!♥️
To be honest you both could have communicated better. Usually I would over communicate whether professional or personal . Definitely checking in in the morning would have been a good idea. Guys get stood up too.
Friend, never tell a man you will text time first to confirm anything. When a man wants you he will take full initiative, you will never have to put yourself out there. It does sounds like miscommunication you should of stuck with your word but he should of still called or texted you that morning prior to the coffee date.
He thought he was getting stood up. He said “oh she didn’t text me so I’m not gonna look desperate and text her.” But to me, that’s that sassy man stuff.
Celebrate your gifts and treat yourself the way you want to be treated…no one is going to treat you better than you. Not selfish but self care…reward yourself for being beautiful!
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I have this product I love the results I can’t wait to try this ❤ you make it so simply and beautiful follow your 💟 and intuition is everything and thanks sis.
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I would not show up anywhere without talking to the person the day of, right before we were supposed to meet. If he did not text me I would text him 1 time to touch base.
I'm coming to you as an auntie, I pray to God that you have not given him another opportunity to be in your presence. Red flags are shown to us for a reason. When he FaceTimed you in the dark, my antenna went up. Then to leave you at the coffeeshop and he didn't show. Block him. You're too beautiful to be playing reindeer games. You are the prize!!!
Love the natural curl , I’ve been on my journey for a few years now, I’m focusing on growth now. Now far as the guy, be mindful of what energy you come cross. He given you the first sign when he paused to be on FaceTime and sitting in the dark. Clear sign he chose to be hidden and not found by pic /places.
Sad 😔. But you did right. When they don’t show any interest, don’t push it. Because they aren’t worth it. Just watch yourself out here around some of these guys. And always remember to let your people or friends know where you are going even if it’s in the daytime. Just saying, please be safe.💖💘💝✝️💟☮️
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You were in the wrong you told the brother that she was gonna call him when you’re on the way. His time is valuable too. Why should he leave out and he hasn’t heard from you he doesn’t know you so. Why should he assume that you’re gonna be there when you didn’t call him like you said you would.
I don’t think you were in the wrong I’m like that too baby we said we was meeting what you mean and I didn’t tell you I can’t make it he coulda texted though “hey I didn’t get your text we still on for the date?” How hard was that lol 😂 I see a lot of people saying other wise but I said what I said and I know you mentioned you would text in the morning but you were busy I don’t fault you on that I don’t think he really wanted to link with you honestly
