My Wife Is Done With Our Marriage But Won't Leave! 

That should have happened on the day of delivery. or earlier... Sorry female types... We generally know who the mother is. But history has shown we can't trust you.

That's a depressing thought, but you're right. Good chance it's been going on for a while.

Paternity test should be mandatory at the birth of every child. It sounds like this chick was just baby trapping him. Part of the reason I believe that dude should get a vasectomy as young as possible. And then get it reversed if you want to have children. Don't be holding the bag for some chick who was a good lay Maybe a few days out of your life.

@@skeletorrocks2452 not a bad idea I could have had a lot more fun in my youth if I was fixed

true. didnt think about that

Which is why he needs to hurry and divorce her. Each passing day adds up to another year that she eventually can claim in the divorce when nothing legal is on file to move to a dissolution of the marriage.

Spot on.

U are so right move her out now she will regret it later in life if they can’t work it out

She found someone else better with lots of money 💰 lol 😂 that’s why

@@happyman9113 let her live with the new fella then.

Right!

Mandatory DNA testing at birth.

Exactly

Ahhhhhh! 😂🤣😂

It’s too late, if his name is on the birth certificate that’s it.

She 's pretty confident.

Sadly it could be. I have seen many young men get taken by women like this, especially if the man came from a "broken home" and they feel guilty about making the woman leave.

Lol this woman is out of her mind

This happens

😂 😂 😂 😂

Exactly what a terrible girl

She’s monkey branching.

You hit the nail right on the head

Absolutely. The decision doesn’t come first and then suddenly you have a new relationship right away. She simply stopped hiding it from him once she told him she was done and he is such a kind hearted dude to his detriment he believes that it just started. The same thing just happened to a friend of mine and similarly his wife doesn’t work and wanted to remain in their home despite the ending of things. It just sucks to see

You typed a mouthful!

She will get custody and he will pay child support because that is how the court system works

No if he files first and aggressively he can win.Give her everything she wants!!!!

@@HoodedStalker that is NOT how it works. there are many men single parenting. and win custody. in fact there men getting spousal support if their wife earn more. times have changed my guy. he need to file first and get a good lawyer

@@shachede6828 Statistically men only receive child support 15% of the time. Female payments are 56% less on average than males. There are unlimited programs and resources for single mothers. Men get thrown in jail for failing to pay. Times have not changed.

She makes nothing so someone explain to me how he will win?

"It's better for a child to be *from* a broken home, than *in* a broken home."

@@Astro95Media Hence there is no difference.

It sounds like somebody is still supporting her

@@Astro95Media No difference.

Good job bro 😎

Best line of the call lol

Wish would get as a child and quit ruining families in mid life!

lol yip

Lolll😂😂😂

Lol

🤣🤣🤣

After she tries onlyfans

@@KAT-dg6el Show me where I said walk away from the kid….yea that’s what I thought. He can have an emotional connection with the kid even if it’s not his. My issue is with her, and everyone else thinks the exact same thing. He deserves to know if the child is even his given her stellar behavior or are you gonna say it’s all his fault?

@@KAT-dg6el Four words, No Child Support Payments. He could try to keep a relationship with the child, but the sad truth is that once the money dries up mom will make sure he never sees the kid again because it isn't beneficial to her.

@@KAT-dg6el The child deserves to know who his parents truly are. Period. It isn't about the adults. In this situation, I'll be frank, one of the adults is acting like a child..she, IS narcissistic. He seems to be enabling her, and for a long time. How narcissistic is it K to think he doesn't deserve to have his own life with meaning and a good marriage?ONLY good news here is he can learn from this

Amen

How unfair to the child

And they wonder why marriage is dead in the west.

Id tell her to leave. I once loved my first so much i was so blind while she was romping around while i was devistated and ruined military career. Biblically speaking.... shes done. As a fellow believer... id leave.

@@semperfi-1918 my wife and I have been together a long time, if she found another guy I'd be like okay, well let's just live together for the finances LOL

@Reese B ?

First, record, record, record.

You can tell all she was doing was baby trapping him. For the money. This is part of the reason I think you could solve a lot of these problems by just getting a vasectomy at 18. Maybe even younger. Then if you find the right person just get it reversed. It would effectively end all of these problems.

@@skeletorrocks2452 I tried to at 18 but the doctor denied me because he said that I was to young and he thought that I wasn’t sure enough rather or not I wanted kids.. that really ticked me off

But yet you can change genders before that..... it's a f**ked up world

@@paulobrien3764 You know you can save a lot of money on your auto insurance. If you just change your gender to female on your birth certificate. And you can get preferential treatment and hiring. You just tell them that you're a transgender lesbian.. Masculine Representing. Might even help if you tell him you're trans black. But only 1980s black woman. And that your pronouns are God or deity or just people groveling.. you know cuz trans Diddy as well. Side note. When you're dealing with progressives.. it really helps if you learn how to out crazy them. Tactics of war and survival.

@@skeletorrocks2452 thanks for the tips. The way the world is going it's getting harder to out crazy crazy by the day. Been normal is no longer normal 🤔

Their house

@@aleksandrac9335 Depends whose name the house is in. She hasn’t contributed anything financially and is unskilled, uneducated, and inexperienced.

@Aleksandra c HIS house, by law she gets half. So give her the house and shell still have to get a job and pay her way until she finds another meal ticket.

@@TheWatchman48Hell no I’m not giving her the house. I’ll fight for custody of the kids since I can actually provide a house to stay in and bills being paid.

@@TheWatchman48 Don't give her anything. She buys him out.

Bingo

​@@johnk5503 was his name-o

Don’t most of them. You know cause men got it so easy…….

It's not even benefit of marriage, she want a daddy to cover anything for her 😂

Had a friend at work, I think he wanted to start dating, BUT ...he was divorced and his wife AND HER MOTHER still lived with him. He said they had no place to go. Well, he wasn't going anyplace with me either.

I thought the same

why? What will that do?

@@aolvaar8792 How about making sure he does not raise the child of another guy his wife cheated with and then left him while attempting to live in the same house and use his resources.... Yeah better check its your kid.

@@blaaskat The LAW says that a child born into a marriage is the husband's child. Child support will be paid. So, you can feel bad about sending child support to someone else's child.

@@aolvaar8792 Not true. First rule: Get a proper attorney. Here are the FACTS based on the LAW: If you have enough reason to suspect that your wife is pregnant with a child who isn’t yours, an attorney can help you establish your grounds for adultery. When it comes to proving this, you have a few options: You have a paternity test with an accuracy of at least 98 percent Proof of cohabitation, adultery, and enough circumstantial evidence to support your claim IF you divorce your wife on the grounds of adultery, the same will be mentioned in the final divorce order. The court will usually NOT impose permanent alimony in the event of a finding of adultery. MOREOVER, if your wife is pregnant with someone else’s child, the court may not impose child support depending on the circumstances and whether you are able to establish that you are not the father.

Agreed.

You know she's hot too.

@@FortuneSeek3rz And that's probably why he married her and overlooked her character. I don’t have any sympathy for men like that. It's their own fault.

@@ranip7644 While I suspect you are correct, I would like to remind the audience that there are many, many people out there who have character issues and aren't the least bit attractive.

Similar mind set to my ex when i was in the military. Wife wanted to move back home with her friends bc she was so unhappy with me but conveniently wanted to stay married. Told her i wouldn't keep her and our kid there unhappy for 2 more years but we were getting divorced b4 she moved states to protect my parental rights.

Sick woman!

In New Zealand you have to be separated and living apart for 2 years before you can actually apply for divorce, and I think that's a very good idea

In my state you CANNOT live together and get a divorce because the court assumes that you're cohabiting (sleeping together), and cohabiting invalidates the divorce process. Stops it cold.

​@@thecurrentmomentthat is weird, and no, I don't think it is good. It may not be as bad as I think but I don't need mommy gov't to make choices for me.

@@jamisojo well you're entitled to your opinion, but I personally think making the initiation of a divorce possible but not quick and easy is a good idea. Maybe the time could be a bit less, but it makes sure that nobody is blindsided by a divorce that they didn't see coming, and makes sure the divorcer is committed to the decision. Not that divorce is quick and easy, but being able to notify someone that they are being divorced by handing them some papers doesn't seem right to me

“I’ve never been married and I don’t have kids”

@@dannyk1980 that’s what I said yeah

Once a woman disrespects you she is done with the relationship.

@@BlowitAllUp it really depends on the context. If it's early in a relationship like this guy, he is in trouble and I feel bad for him because now there was a kid in the picture he will always have to fight for or pay for one way or the other. But as for me and my wife, we've been together almost 30 years so it's different.

@@kbanghart The time frame doesn't really matter. Women need to respect their man in order to love him. If your wife of 30 years treats you like trash and still stays with you, it's because she knows she's has no better option due to her age.

Truth, even better strategy is to not play a rigged game ( i.e do not get married)

dont marry anyone,what is the point ?

I agree! I’m 27, I’ve been engaged twice and I have a new girlfriend and I will never get married or engaged ever again. it hurts too much h when you break up

People need to do one better and be more careful in who they have intercourse with. Having a child with a bad partner can be just as destructive.

Bro, this is why so many men don’t want to get married or at least have a hesitation. It’s women like this and the marriage laws!

Yup spend more money. And if it's like some places in the U.S. he pays for her lawyer.

Paternity test is not a bad idea. If she is screwing around on him, who knows if that kid is really his or not.

Probability has it that the worst person the child will be exposed to is the Mother.

​@@blackworldtraveler3711 lol... god you are deluded. You would never pay for your wife's lawyer in the United States. Both of you would use your combined married assets to pay for lawyers. Half of that is hers so it can't be just your money.

@@jamisojo It happens or I would not have said this. I’ve been called for jury duty dealing with post divorce issues several times including paternity by estoppel with single mothers. You’ll be surprised what a judge and a nasty lawyer can do in a courtroom.

Your username got a chuckle out of me.

First, he needs to find out if that child is his or not.

This was the advice I expected Dave to give. You know, actual financial advice! It always has to come down to the indoctrination that working on a marriage is first priority, even if it’s obviously toxic. The poor guy didn’t get any info to actually help him protect himself.

Exactly! where are you from Tennile? I will like us to be friends?

Don't take disrespect. From anyone.

Glad you said it. I read the comments before posting. I hope this young man will recover and continue to reach for the marriage he deserves!

This is why I say that every man as young as safely possible should get a vasectomy. You can always reverse it later when they want to have children. But that would effectively alleviate the woman from having to take a bunch of birth control chemicals. Plus dude wouldn't be getting baby trapped. Side note. At the birth of every child there should be a paternity test. Maybe two or three paternity test. Get rid of the welfare and social security as well.. and watch how quickly people start solving their own problems. There has to be more incentives to keep something working together versus tearing it apart. America's currently a tear it apart disposable relationship country. Anyhow you have a great day.

Hi. I’ve been forced to find additional sources of income as I got retrenched. I barely have time to continue trading and watch my investments since I had my second child. Do you think I should take a break for a while from the market and focus on other things or return whenever I have free time or is it a continuous process? Thanks

@@Lourd-Bab However, if you do not have access to a professional like JUDITH ANN PEACE, quitting your job to focus on trading may not be the best approach. It is important to consider all options and seek guidance from reliable sources before making any major decisions. Consulting with an AI or using automated trading systems can also be helpful in managing investments while balancing other commitment

@@Dunker762 Oh please I’d love that. Thanks!

@@Lourd-Bab Judith Ann peace is her name

Lookup with her name on the webpage.

Sounds like she might want to go out with other guys and still have him available to watch their son. I know, pretty creepy.

Get a lawyer and get her out of that house immediately within the next 30 days.

Yup, I think she tried someone else. Her new boyfriend is probably not that nice, won’t be treating her well , has a bad boy vibe, can easily dominate her. And she is hooked because she is neurotic, she gets bored where there is no intense drama.

@@front331 I agree she 100% got smashed by the other dude

@@tjmcavoy-jensen871 along with several other dudes.

No! she will divorce and get half because she does not work.

@@Austenfan177 Jupppppppp😂

She DID actually think this through, she knows the guy is a sucker and will do anything for her anyways.

@@Austenfan177 Yep. With another baby to anchor the guy in more and ensure some more child support money.

You mean a pet. It's a pet. You didn't make it ha

Have a real human one and you might learn to respect why the distinction matters.

Time to man up!

SHE can't afford to split up. He can. Hence why she is refusing to go.

He will let his ex wife partner move in

💯

He can because he’s supporting her cause she don’t even work

@@mirabella2154hopefully she’s kicked out

Well when she has a steady baby payment coming in through child support. She can actually go back to the dude that knocked her up. Seriously there should be mandatory double or triple paternity test at the birth of every child. And you could solve a lot of these problems if dudes just got vasectomies as early as possible. Then just get it reversed if you really want to have kids. Poverty could be ended outright if we just stop letting women have control over the issue.

@@skeletorrocks2452 what’s wrong with you? Lol. Keep spamming the same thing over and over in all the comments.

@@LightskinKing33 interesting question. But you shouldn't think so Myopically. Why should I limit myself to just one person's line of thought?? With a multitude of people. There's a multitude of positions to observe. You call it spamming because it offends you.. nobody's forcing you to interact. In fact. Your name is background guy.. and yet you seem to be interested in taking the stage. 🤔 Hmmm isn't that interesting. 😏

Agree, for her to be cool and confident enough to be talking to someone new in the house that was yours together merely days after y'all called it quits...It was already going on, its just in the open now.

"sounds like a very well balanced, decent young man" - and thats what his mistake was. Some women like drama and the bad boy, and he was just too decent and boring for her. Islam is right

@@AbdalMalik-ye1dfshe’ll realize she lost someone good after all is said and done, “kill them with kindness”, knowing you lost a good person that would’ve loved you no matter what and never crossed you is a slow burn to live with. Regret will settle in. He’s still the winner here.

@@AbdalMalik-ye1dfthe true loser in all of this is the child

@@Dontrolling YOU ARE NAIVE. she will not realize anything, she will consider herself to be the victim. and the cycle will repeat. I have been with this kind of woman before, but played it right and got out. I know it first hand. they will never admit they have a problem

How is that going for her and him now? Asking for a friend

@@andreahoward2683 They had twin girls that the mom basically ignored but they still love their mom. She gets them for visitation. She isn't bad just lazy. My nephew takes them to all events for school pays for everything and is teaching them to cook, clean and now they are driving age. He is raising amazing twin girls. I will never understand any mom acting this way.

BTW they all ran around in groups after work. He was drinking and she trapped him. He was dumb but has lovely twin girls.

Right? Mine checked out so long before I actually filed. Just meant I had to pay his lazy unemployed a$& more of my hard earned money. File and move on dude, pronto.

You got married twice? Once wasn't enough?

@@blacksilverchair3315 bro 😎 i have no explanation. I have no idea what I was thinking round 2. That was 15 years ago. Never again!!

@@DJ_Patent Well, sounds like you're wiser now. Marriage is something you should at MOST do only once as a man. Never twice.

@@blacksilverchair3315 why even once? Neither did we any good and sent me back financially 5 years each at least. I really don’t know why Dave and co. preach marriage so hard, given the divorce rate. Seen it time and time again, people’s greatest $ setback is from marriage and/or divorce.

@@DJ_Patent very true. If you can avoid it, avoid it. Dave teaches it because it is a Christian religious practice.

Unless he acquired the home before they got married.

​@@DoctorSmartyPantsthey are 24 and naive. They don't have anything to lose.

The husband getting child support is a tall order. The family courts are stacked against guys. Most cases where I've known the dad, unless the wife is on drugs and going to jail, the mother gets custody... that's even when she doesn't have a job or a place to live. But it is ruled this way in "the best situation for the child. "

One of his biggest downfalls is when the woman is at fault. If the roles were reversed he would be telling the woman to take him to the cleaners. Notice he isn’t telling him to do the same. Yet the next caller who is young and budgeting with his girlfriend is going to get reamed by Ramsey for doing that and not being married. This is why you choose wisely who you marry (if you get married). Dave never has answers for these calls ever but seems to have answers for everything else…

@@daelkolwitz3509 I know but it’s a battle she doesn’t want.

I actually think he was just surprised by how absurd the question and situation was.

@@Kyubi888Naruto Now days things get absurd. My sone was kicked out of the house by a woman who threatened to kill him. It wasn't until he met with the lawyer that he found out that she had no right to do that. From the beginning it was one threat after another. Having the lawyer to fight for him made all of the differernce.

@@Kyubi888Naruto yeah it wasn't a financial question at all, but should have been.

@@kathleennile7611 I'm happy your son was able to successfully navigate that situation.

@@Kyubi888Naruto Thank you.

Me too, I just turned 29 and DON’T plan on getting married or having kids. I don’t want any more stress in my life.

I'm 52 but didn't discover the red pill until 48. All the time up to that point I was OK with my single life, but always kept in the back of my mind that I would like to be married one day. God I wish I discovered it earlier. Stay single my younger brothers! If you need encouragement just keep listening to stories like this guy and taking your red pills.

happy married couples don't call in, so

That’s why being single and having the occasional escort come over is cheaper than marriage😂😂😂😂😂

@@yourgooglemeister6745That’s just sad my man.

The only people who spout the it takes two to tango nonsense are the ones who refuse to dance. Self improvement is great. It can help you dance better by yourself or with a willing partner. But, it won't help anyone with partners that don't want to take responsibility or work things out.

Yep. Ten buck says if they didn't divorce she would have kept using the kid as an excuse not to work.

@@littlesongbird1 yup! She wants to be a stay at home mom.

Being a stay at home mom can be hard work, but a lot of women use it as an excuse to stay home. Often these women make terrible stay at home moms because they aren’t actually taking the best care of the child in that time. Sometimes a baby makes one person grow up but the other doesn’t.

If she's getting the tingles of a new relationship she is probably not thinking clearly enough to even consider anything from her husband at this point. She will later when reality starts affecting her. Now is the best time for the caller to get his own legal advice, and to get counselling to deal with the looming grief/crisis.

@@Lon1001 This is exactly the line of advice I expected Dave to give him. He needs to start getting things in line without telling her. Take advantage of the fact that she thinks he’s just weak. Get a lawyer and have everything laid out for an agreement. Don’t point out to her what she has to lose if she goes through with this and give her the opportunity to start lying or fighting!

This type of mother doesn’t have what it takes to be a stay at home mom anyway. She’s not mature and giving enough. That child will be catering to her needs as soon as it’s big enough. The caller needs to do right by his child, get tough and do everything he can to protect them.

She is definitely doing that with this BETA!!

He said he's already seen a marriage counselor at 1:47. Probably he wanted to hear John Delaney's opinion.

Not true. He needs financial advice on how to proceed, he just made the mistake of calling someone who can’t give advice like that to men, no matter how toxic the wives are.

That only works with normal people though - not narcissists.

That's sexist. Women can't be leaders?

@@front331 absolutely they can be leaders. We’re on the context of the marital dynamic based on the biblical world view.

And baby will then have a new daddy.

And if they are both on the deed, they BOTH must agree to sell. Sounds like she won't agree to....hence, get a lawyer.