People who can’t be friends or even just kind to those who they don’t find remotely attractive. I find it so weird and I’m not sure if this is just a young people thing but I see so many people particularly guys only surrounding themselves/associating with girls that they find attractive and then being real cold to those they find unattractive. And for girls/women: those who purposely look out for as Dee would call it “unfortunate looking” girls to make them look better. And they’ll be real fake about it like “isnt my friend so gorgeous” just so they can force a comparison and be told they’re the preference . Very weird behaviour
It’s not a young people thing! Older people do it too I’ve noticed, maybe to a lesser extent but it’s still there. I never understood it either. I don’t care about your appearance unless I’m dating you.
For me these are the type of ppl a can’t stand: - the ones that make fun of others especially special ed ppl and the quiet shy ppl. - the ones who are rude/negative af and say they’re just “honest/realistic”. - the ones that try to force their beliefs on others. - the ones that think they’re always right and when proven wrong they start getting bitchy. - the ones that think they’re superior then others.
My youngest daughter is like that Dee. She'll be like,"Let me finish!" I admit I'm bad about interrupting people. I was worse but my ex would point out the amount of times I would do it. Most of the time I'd do that to show that I've been through the same or similar situation but I've learned that it's better to stfu and just listen. Growth!
People who impose themselves when they have no right to do so: If my choices ain't hurting nobody, don't question them - Not my clothes, not my job, not who I date... nothing!
I called a friend last weekend to hang out. She claimed she was too busy. And she’s usually “too busy” when I call her. This weekend she calls me talking about “wyd so and so can’t go out and I’m already out and I figured since you’re always at this place you would be going this weekend” I’m thinking 🤔 okay so you didn’t even want to go out with me? I told her me and my husband planned a date night and hung up.
6:55: Yeah, we just had to kick somebody out of the squad last month because she had a victim complex. Could not be around this person anymore because they always found every reasons as to why the situation wasn't their doing, even though everyone on the block knows it was. Please explain how there's 100 different confrontations going on and this singular person is in the center of every one.
Dee you do seem like you'd be a very chill person to be around. This is just one part of your personality and we love it. You remind me of my oldest daughter. She's very honest and speaks her mind. If she doesn't want to hear something she'll cut that shit QUICK like you said. You remind me alot of her. She's my TRUE best friend. (Not that my bestie isn't but she's more like a sister)
People that don't care to talk over you and act like YOU'RE the rude one for trying to getting a word in edgewise. Same people will whine about nobody listening to them as they never listen to you...ever.
For me its the people that gets a bunch of likes on RU-vid in the comment section then come back to edit their post just to say "Omg thanks 4 the likes" it's so cringey to me lol. I've seen people edit their comments on sad videos like someone dying just to say thanks for the likes. Like wtf?
My oldest daughter used to be very harsh in her honesty. She had to learn not to do that. I always told her there's nothing wrong with being honest but you don't have to be mean. She learned.
Oh it’s def these men with these think pieces about everything like they Wendy Williams! And most of the time it’s about women or some controversial take that they don’t believe in tryna get a rise outta people. Why are you messy? Why are causing chaos. Just hush!
That one person that's always talking shit, but can't take it when someone calls them out for it, that one person that's always trying/wanna start a fight with you THE SECOND YOU DISAGREE OR CALL THEM OUT FOR THEIR BULLSHIT!, THE PERSON THATS ALWAYS TRYNA ACT TOUGH ALL THE TIME FOR NO REAL REASON! (ETC!)
I'm not clear on what that young lady meant about people saying they don't owe you anything. Does she think it's mean to say that? Its not. None of us owes anyone anything. You know unless you borrowed money or something. Otherwise no one owes you shit. As long as you know that then you won't expect anything from people.
People who, after you ask them to repeat what they said once, say it what they said again but in annoyed tone like you had to ask them 6 times. Especially at drive thru, do you want me to get your order wrong? Cuz I can put 80 mcchickens. No? That's what I thought, lower your tone, crazy. It's mainly old ppl that do this. I don't know why they either have the most attitude or are the nicest people.
@@imaniluvsu1 Mine is 2 I don't have patience. MOST of the time I'm asked to repeat something I say it once or twice but not a third time and MOST of the time they repeat exactly what I said in the first place. They're wasting My time and I don't like People wasting My time
@@imaniluvsu1 True, but that shouldn't excuse them from how they treat people. Most of the time, I do let it go but every once in a while you get this crazy old person that wants to argue even when they know they're wrong. Or they always have to have the last word. It's very annoying. I usually only ask once unless I'm helping another customer or an employee. I feel really bad when I have to ask twice or more cuz it feels like I'm annoying them and it annoys me to have to keep asking them.
I tend to interrupt when people discuss things that are similar to things I went through. I'm not being rude; i'm reactive(I have ADHD)My friends know this about me and allow me a sentence or two. I don't want to take over the conversation; it's just a really inept way of showing you that I understand because I know I will forget it in two seconds or it will dominate my mind when I'm supposed to be listening. It's a bit like a valve on a tire; it needs venting and they know that about me. I try my best to keep it short but if I don't; just interrupt me and say:Wait; 'I'm gonna continue with my story'. Me:'sorry, sorry! Go on!' What I do now is ask for permission(if I remember to do so); can I interject? And they're usually like: 'go on' but if I go on a tangent they stop me. Or sometimes they'll say; No! I'm gonna lose my train of thought. But when they finish they usually ask:" what was it that you wanted to say?" I'm a good listener when my mind is at ease but I can talk and type at length. As evidenced by this lengthy post.(diarrhoea of the brain) ADHD can be a superpower and a curse at the same time.
I do it too so I completely understand where you're coming from but it's still rude. Its good that you have friends who understand you and have set boundaries. My ex would set boundaries for me as well but once I've been allowed to go on for sometime its like the energizer bunny. Its hard to stop. I like how my daughters IMMEDIATELY cut me off. My ex would let me interrupt for too long and he'd get mad and just give up. Then he'd bring it up at another point in time while he was mad about something else. I've gotten better.
@@imaniluvsu1 It can be perceived as rude, true. It all depends on the situation, too. I don't see it as setting boundaries when it comes to what my friends do; it's a matter of making sure needs are met on both ends with respect. We accept eachother flaws and all and find a middle ground that works. What I had with my friends, grew organically. I see it as just being mindful of myself and the situation(which is hard with ADHD😄)The more self aware I am; the easier it is for me to 'interject' without going on a tangent or let it go altogether. People interject me in the same manner and sometimes, I too have to say:"I'm not finished!😄I accept other peoples' quirks up to a point: it's part of who they are. I also had to learn to not just give anybody the power to make 'allowances' for me. I try to not give everybody the power to 'allow' me to be who I am out of guilt or self-loathing and go silent(I do that a lot). I just have to be mindful in order to be the best version of myself : a self aware motormouth.😉 and now I'm late for my dentist appointment🤣
@@HoopsWithGT it isn't. Nowadays there is so much more knowledge and most people with ADHD are diagnosed in childhood. But ADHD wasn't always taken that 'seriously'. Many adults go through life not knowing they have it and develop strategies to cope until those 'safety nets' eventually fall away and their shortcomings are exposed. in order to properly diagnose adults, 'patients' are interviewed and closely monitored by a psych team. Moreover; family members and people close to them are also interviewed about symptoms that persistently occur throughout the subjects life. It isn't a quick diagnosis and not one that is easily accepted by the 'patient' I.e:"what do you mean, I have ADHD?! I'm just an ordinary loser who amounts to nothing! I tried being normal but I just don't 'want' to be'...translation: I don't know why I can't seem to follow through and all my life I have just been an asshole. there are many people who doubt the 'validity' of late ADHD-diagnosis; it is advised to keep your late diagnosis to yourself in public. Edit: your comment disappeared?
I can’t stand people who have nasty attitudes for no reason. Like They’ll wake up in the morning and just have a bad attitude. They get easily irritated over stupid things and wanna curse you out for no reason. Like, wtf is all that even for? Then they hate when other people are feeling joyous in their own space and wanna find a reason to argue with them.
I understand what she's talking about as far energy vampires but the rest of the bullshit she was saying means she spends way too much time on Facebook arguing with people she doesn't know.
i won’t lie i’m pretty bad at interrupting people, i’m trying to stop that… i really don’t mean to do it… but i make sure to apologise when i’ve done it because i know it’s rude but it just kinda happens at this point. Getting better at not doing it!
People that always try to outplay another person's achievements. I can't even fathom why some people won't learn to shut up and let other people be good at something. If one person has done something and aren't even trying to make a big deal of it, don't then come in and say "I did such and such better or faster or something that makes your achievement look like shit." Especially when you don't even make an effort to say why you've done such things, or how it benefited you. You say it to be a bitch, and because you like staying at the top of everything rather than letting others succeed. It's not a cute look.
I have one best friend but we always say we wish we had a sisterhood I’m friends with quite a few women but my bestie my only sister outside of blood line right now 🥰😩
I agree with most of almost all of these. But I will say this, it IS definitely safer to just not loan out money cuz of people like that. But I sometimes have to borrow money and I actually pay it back. I will tell you heads up that I’m not sure when I can pay it back but give a guestimate and communicate in regards to it, especially if it’s a lot like $100. It depends on what all necessities I need to juggle at the time. But I also borrow from people who are close to me and see me all the time too so there’s no hiding. I do think it’s odd to brag about not getting along with other women and most guys probably do find their female friend attractive or at least have some judgement about it. But it’s kinda sad to just say they’re only her friends cuz they wanna fuck her. Like that’s all she’s good for. Wtf? Not every guy is interested in EVERY girl. I have multiple guy friends and female friends and I ain’t sittin here with all them females lined up in my head fantasy of fuck. Calm down. :U
The people who try to one up somebody whether it's telling a story, drinking, or just anything. I call them one uppers because they're favorite phrase is "You think that's great? Let me do you one better!" Bruh I don't care about your better story or that you have an idea that's better than mine. I'm talking about MY situation and sharing my experiences.
6:53 how is that the problem people getting into situations with police brutality sexual assault or any other type of physical violence literally happens because they left their house 9 times is not eight times out of 10
People who feel the need to make a comment on someone's appearance that they don't even know, Like people need to mind they godamn business God I Hate people 😭🙄
