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James O'Brien admits he is interested by the psychology of Boris Johnson and although he isn't qualified to diagnose him as a narcissist, this analysis of Mr Johnson's Partygate defence reveals hints of the personality disorder.
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@benji.B-side
@benji.B-side Год назад
I'm still grieving the loss of my beautiful, healthy sister to Covid. I could not visit her in hospital and I kept to all the rules. Boris, Rishi and the others will never know how hard that was, how just wanting to hold her hand and tell her I love her, they will never understand because their hearts are shallow and their souls are cold. While we broke our hearts, they broke the law. I will never forget and never forgive them for their contempt. They will never understand the anger that families who also lost loved ones, feel. I want to see justice, I want to see the political downfall of the lot of them.
@ArtyFactual_Intelligence
@ArtyFactual_Intelligence Год назад
Sympathies......comiserations...and aNGER ON YOUR BEHALF.
@benji.B-side
@benji.B-side Год назад
@@ArtyFactual_Intelligence Thank you and blessings to you.
@dragonfly6908
@dragonfly6908 Год назад
Boris can emphasize, his mother died during the COVID Pandemic.
@fionascott3260
@fionascott3260 Год назад
I worked in care homes during the pandemic and I was too scared to visit my own mum who is in her 80s and frail. My son is also vulnerable with ulcerative colitis and on medication that reduces his immune system, and the thought that the politicians were socialising and having partys is insulting and disgraceful. I hope the inquiry can see through the lies and finish the ability for Boris Johnson to cause more misery and hopefully they can limit any further damage he may and will most likely cause.
@alihenderson5910
@alihenderson5910 Год назад
Why aren't you all asking the bleeding obvious question? Which is, why were all those people at the parties NOT scared of catching covid???
@Jettypilelegs
@Jettypilelegs Год назад
“You deserved it”-contempt and disdain for everyone else, especially us plebs. “Your suffering is not as important as mine.” Classic narcissistic behaviour.
@babs66
@babs66 Год назад
Lol I just wrote the same.
@olmostgudinaf8100
@olmostgudinaf8100 Год назад
Worse: "Your suffering is not as important as my minor inconvenience."
@op3129
@op3129 Год назад
"I deserved a party" while "You deserve to be stripped of everything." meanwhile, people in his district will vote for him again bc they value "who is a woman" bs from US propaganda compared to everything else in their own real world.
@op3129
@op3129 Год назад
@@olmostgudinaf8100 worse: 'my convenience is not even on register as ("who are you again?") others' (stress the quote marks) "inconvenience."'
@Tinker1950
@Tinker1950 Год назад
"we plebs" actually. Get it right - you pleb... 😉
@vis7139
@vis7139 Год назад
I'm a social psychologist and been saying this (privately) for YEARS!!! So glad you brought it to the public conversation. Johnson is a textbook narcissist. I would hazard to say he's the grandiose variety. The kind that will flat out deny reality to you. And even to himself he'll bend the entire world to make himself innocent and/or heroic.
@gf88888
@gf88888 Год назад
mmh Munchausen syndrome
@ArtByEmilyHare
@ArtByEmilyHare Год назад
Yeah, and trump has to be in that vein too, or maybe malignant!
@ukqwerty999
@ukqwerty999 Год назад
Imagine if it turns out, your opinion is simply formed by your voting choice 🤣..... kinda makes all that education pointless.
@ArtByEmilyHare
@ArtByEmilyHare Год назад
@@ukqwerty999 someone being a raging narcissist has nothing to do with what political leaning they have, anyone can be one, left or right.
@vis7139
@vis7139 Год назад
@@ArtByEmilyHare Agreed. Narcissism is a statement of how someone thinks, rather than what they think. In fact, they tend not to have any conviction in their beliefs at all, left or right. They believe what they need to in order to inflate the ego. Like Johnson being pro-EU then pro-Brexit, pro-levelling up and pro-austerity.
@ecaeas4439
@ecaeas4439 Год назад
Bodger is a very interesting case study for narcissism. Even for those of us who aren't very informed about the intricacies of Narcissistic personalities. It was clear that he wanted to discredit the committee's legitimacy / competence to investigate whether he misled the HOC. He thought that erudite language and bluster would work in accomplishing that, because that's what has always worked for him. When it didn't work, he started to get angry. Towards the end, when even members of his own party had the "Audacity" to hold up his own statements and submitted evidence as proof that he was just blustering, he got mad. He can't stand losing, and he can't stand people challenging him. All the bereaved families of covid victims deserve nothing less than to see that man stripped of the privilege of being an MP, and hopefully a prison sentence to boot.
@andrewrobinson2565
@andrewrobinson2565 Год назад
Learned it from his dad. (+1)
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....and you supported the Lockdown right...?
@franklettering
@franklettering Год назад
There'll NEVER BE A PRISON SENTENCE,!!!!!
@jonsteele7227
@jonsteele7227 Год назад
As a forensic shrink. I would say yes he is a narcissist
@tapdancer421
@tapdancer421 Год назад
Using the same methods as Trump.
@jeffreyheeks
@jeffreyheeks Год назад
And still he doesn't face prison. What a country.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....don't like his shows on LBC but that's going too far even for this channel...
@raystation8
@raystation8 Год назад
@@chatham43 do you only troll James..?
@alanpage3973
@alanpage3973 Год назад
​@@raystation8 wouldn't bother with him he's a idiot
@Martinbeef
@Martinbeef Год назад
@@raystation8 Doff that cap.
@gedscouserable
@gedscouserable Год назад
drop the o,r and y from country.
@cpuuk
@cpuuk Год назад
Remember what his school report said, "wants to be head of the team, but doesn't want to put the effort in".
@maynardmckillen9228
@maynardmckillen9228 Год назад
His ambition outraced his ability. He lacks the courage to examine and critique the former, and lacks the drive to develop the latter. The result is a thoroughly useless, self-absorbed and dangerous fool.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....James did work on a building site briefly so a little unfair...
@McCoyLord
@McCoyLord Год назад
​@chatham43 Go on....I assume you think that's relevant, so please elaborate.
@petyrkowalski9887
@petyrkowalski9887 Год назад
his form master also said “Johnson doesnt think the rules apply to him”.
@maynardmckillen9228
@maynardmckillen9228 Год назад
The nation is being held hostage by Johnson and his fellow Tories, who fail to even attempt to earn their salaries. Parliament, and Number 10 Downing Street, are the worst possible places to confine and concentrate the nation's useless clots, this moniker being another apt synonym for the Tories.
@Glasgow_kiss
@Glasgow_kiss Год назад
Boris Johnson is to truth what Suella braverman is to empathy Jacob Rees mogg is to progress Matt Hancock is to fidelity And what Dominic raab is to intelligence.
@mahnaznadeem902
@mahnaznadeem902 Год назад
Wow 👏👏👏
@Rosskles
@Rosskles Год назад
PFP: Legend Username: Legend @name: Legend Comment: Legend Legend confirmed.
@bee-eu6cg
@bee-eu6cg Год назад
Nearly the 7 dwarfs.
@lewis72
@lewis72 Год назад
Why should anyone show any empathy towards people who come to this country illegally without ID or background checks ?
@Rosskles
@Rosskles Год назад
@@lewis72 lol OK topic that is totally not the one being discussed here. Do you know the difference between a migrant and a refugee?
@MrStoneyburke
@MrStoneyburke Год назад
Boris Johnson - His Goose is Cooked - in fact id say It's Oven Ready.
@drummingtildeath
@drummingtildeath Год назад
Well at least something is oven ready.
@lewisg7614
@lewisg7614 Год назад
Leftovers will be in the fridge...
@adamlee3772
@adamlee3772 Год назад
I admire optimism. I don’t share it. I suspect the charlatan will get a five day suspension. But not the ten days needed to trigger a recall petition.
@cuebj
@cuebj Год назад
Better remove the oven and incinerate it. Don't think I'd ever want anything cooked in that oven ever again
@QT5656
@QT5656 Год назад
I've made that same joke previously... I hope that your timing is more appropriate 🤞
@garrybowers414
@garrybowers414 Год назад
Narcassitic people never except they have done anything wrong .worked in mental health for many years .
@Norton1531
@Norton1531 Год назад
*accept
@misslanapaulford
@misslanapaulford Год назад
100 agree. My father abused ( beat up and punished my mum and his first 4 children from his first marriage.. He never admitted wrong doing and his excuse was his father never taught him how to be a father. Always excuse, never took responsibility even before he passed. Its a choice. He choice never to change and grow and he was always the victim.
@frankdsouza2425
@frankdsouza2425 Год назад
If Jacob Rees-Mogg did not exist, it would be impossible to invent him.
@chriswilliams2865
@chriswilliams2865 Год назад
I like that 😂 👏👏
@ArtyFactual_Intelligence
@ArtyFactual_Intelligence Год назад
The Beano invented him decades ago.
@Nonegiven14582
@Nonegiven14582 Год назад
@@ArtyFactual_Intelligence Yes there are thousands of people like this in public schools.
@nicholasglanfield9221
@nicholasglanfield9221 Год назад
JRM should be in a museum, as a Stuffed Exhibit.
@johnscrimgeour4888
@johnscrimgeour4888 Год назад
​@@ArtyFactual_Intelligence "Walter" 😅😅
@funkfireman
@funkfireman Год назад
The very first words he used "hand on heart" telling the truth are known as a qualifier often used when a narcissist is lying.
@darrylsimpson4744
@darrylsimpson4744 Год назад
I thought straight away “You haven’t got one”😊
@James_Doyle83
@James_Doyle83 Год назад
I thought he was trying to use hand on your heart words from the song hand on your heart song by Kylie 😂
@bjrneirikstrkersen1021
@bjrneirikstrkersen1021 Год назад
I would seriously doubt that he has a heart, that it is his own hand, and that it is placed where a heart should be.
@tomthomassony8607
@tomthomassony8607 Год назад
Narcissistic Boris: What’s your favourite lie?” You: “I don’t tell lies.” Narcissistic Boris: “That’s my favourite lie as well.”
@dragonfly6908
@dragonfly6908 Год назад
I will never be convinced about the outcome of Saint IKEA Starmer's "Beer and Curry gathering" wink, wink in Durham.
@sama3033
@sama3033 Год назад
James, I've been involved in a narcissistic relationship which is why I know what he is; he has all the traits, entitlement, inability to ever apologise, total lack of empathy, dishonesty on an atomic level, unstable relationships and cheating on partners at the drop of a hat, blame shifting. These are all the signs. I was in this relationship for six months. Three years on and I'm still in recovery. They're monstrous human beings.
@jankodes197
@jankodes197 Год назад
So, he is an Eton graduate...
@robertwhittall8874
@robertwhittall8874 Год назад
I was in a relationship with a pw npd For 15 years. What seems hard to believe is that people could not see it before Bo Jo Was elected. Why did people vote him in it was so clear to see when you know
@rogerwilco2
@rogerwilco2 Год назад
Sociopaths and psychopaths are really scary people if you get to know them. I hope you survived without too much damage and hope you find real friends and love in the future.
@misslanapaulford
@misslanapaulford Год назад
Agreed There is no ounce or remorse or acknowledgement of what they have done.
@alfredotebasco
@alfredotebasco Год назад
They truly are. My parents are alcoholic narcissists, I'll be recovering from that upbringing my whole life.
@danielclift3068
@danielclift3068 Год назад
"And if I did, you deserved it." - maybe that last line is the bit that he doesn't feel the need to say out loud - you can see it in his body language to the committee members. He just feels that everyone else is beneath him, and probably deserves everything they get.
@maynardmckillen9228
@maynardmckillen9228 Год назад
In the mind of this man-child, anyone who doesn't worship this self-declared genius deserves the consequences of his misdeeds.
@mspjmason
@mspjmason Год назад
The point is that anyone who has ever been abused may not be able to name these traits, but they'll certainly recognise them, once they have shaken off the belief they've had instilled in them that they, as they've had drilled into them, that they are the ones at fault, and therefore who "deserved it". That last line is the classic abuser's reason (excuse) for their vile bullying behaviour.
@56postoffice
@56postoffice Год назад
The excuse was that one of the parties Boris attended was a leaving do......who didn't leave until 39 days later. Couldn't make this up. But Boris can.😔
@alanholt269
@alanholt269 Год назад
I’m looking foward to boris johnsons leaving do, 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@petefl1818
@petefl1818 Год назад
"Couldn't make this up. But Boris can" that's why you don't need to make it up.
@tessatriumph4317
@tessatriumph4317 Год назад
Narcissists believe their own lies. 😮
@masquarra
@masquarra Год назад
And they will demand you believe it as well
@peterparker219
@peterparker219 Год назад
It's not that they only believe it, they're convinced they create reality.
@cuebj
@cuebj Год назад
No. They don't even remember their own lies five minutes they utter them. They believe nothing
@gwynfrynevans6467
@gwynfrynevans6467 Год назад
Johnson is certainly a narcissist but its not that they believe their own lies. They make up their own truths.
@mikesummers-smith4091
@mikesummers-smith4091 Год назад
One thing which struck me towards the end of Wednesday's shitshow. Johnson lacks both the imagination and the empathy to realise that the seven MPs questioning him were remembering the inconvenience they had been put to and the trouble they had taken during lockdown to avoid infecting other people. They had no need to mention that, and they rightly didn't; but none of them can have been won over by his indifference and charmlessness.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
...and you supported the Lockdown....
@artistinbeziers7916
@artistinbeziers7916 Год назад
The aspect I find the most incredible, is how on earth anybody would even want to touch a sweaty heap of blubber!
@davidsearle1207
@davidsearle1207 Год назад
*A multi millionaire sweaty heap of blubber
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....boris or james....either way offensive.....
@hmq9052
@hmq9052 Год назад
Status
@hmq9052
@hmq9052 Год назад
In the primate world status carries about three times the weight of decency
@ArtyFactual_Intelligence
@ArtyFactual_Intelligence Год назад
Carrie on Lying.
@arronstone177
@arronstone177 Год назад
Rather than Hands Face Space it should have been Lie Deny Blame.
@julezpanda14
@julezpanda14 Год назад
​@@David-kk5fx Including Reform, it's full of Tories!
@purplepeopleeater6880
@purplepeopleeater6880 Год назад
I was raised by a narcissist and spent over 14 years with one and had two children by them. I didn't know any better. It's soul destroying and your heart felt sorry for people like me brought me to tears. Thankyou. Your sentiment has healed a part of my broken spirit
@philthebus
@philthebus Год назад
Let's face it.. Boris Johnson misled parliament every time he stood up and opened his mouth.
@alihenderson5910
@alihenderson5910 Год назад
You still did what he told you though. So who's the fool?
@steveosborne2297
@steveosborne2297 Год назад
Don’t you remember that he said the doctors & nurses were having a drink after they finished their shifts
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....no I don't...but don't let that stop you..
@jbconno
@jbconno Год назад
That was Michael Fabricant who said that.
@adambrickley1119
@adambrickley1119 Год назад
​@@jbconno U mean bjs stand in?
@petyrkowalski9887
@petyrkowalski9887 Год назад
Guess what…he lied
@steveosborne2297
@steveosborne2297 Год назад
@@jbconno I do apologise , you are quite correct , but obviously they were sharing the wig that day
@ryanbell3195
@ryanbell3195 Год назад
It is absolutely amazing what a person can get away with once they remove the ability to feel shame.
@lpk6372
@lpk6372 Год назад
Well not really when society and people just giving people with no shame power and respect. THATS WHEN IT IS BEYOND THE PALE.
@JohnDoe-bw3tz
@JohnDoe-bw3tz Год назад
Well, no, that kind of narcissistic behavior is actually caused by shame... these guys will do literally anything to avoid the feeling of being ashamed.
@AWorld180
@AWorld180 Год назад
Once there is no shame in a person there is no hope for that person - give up and get on with your own life
@capt.bart.roberts4975
@capt.bart.roberts4975 Год назад
A consciencectomy?
@sidsuspicious
@sidsuspicious Год назад
@Raymondo666 Whataboutisim 101.
@PWMoze
@PWMoze Год назад
Thsoe of us who enjoy the odd bit of amateur psychology diagnosed Boris many years ago. The real tradgedy is that despite the warning signs, the evidence and the recklessness of the man, he was allowed to get to a position where his actions had such horrible implications for the nation.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....so you were totally against the Lockdown...totally agree.
@olmostgudinaf8100
@olmostgudinaf8100 Год назад
@@chatham43 Who TF said anything about lockdown?
@jonrinckes
@jonrinckes Год назад
Yes, I well remember the quote by a lead member of the Conservative Party on why they elected Johnson as leader of the party, as opposed to Jeremy Hunt, who had the necessary skills; 'Because we thought he'd be more fun." Who's laughing now? Just shows you the stupidity of the Tories...they should be drummed out of office and consigned to the dustbin of history where they so rightly belong.
@jdev1591
@jdev1591 Год назад
COVID was of course not meant to happen. If it hadn't, he would still be in power and love bombing the public with gifts and distraction. Ironically, thanks to COVID he was forced to lead properly and failed.
@PWMoze
@PWMoze Год назад
@@jonrinckes Exactly. Even Boris' Head Master reflected in one of his school reports how Boris was 'disgracefully cavalier', had shown a 'gross failure of responsibility' . Most significantly he observed that Boris thought it 'churlish' of people 'not to regard him as an exception to the network of obligation that binds everybody else.' How prescient and accurate that turned out to be. We were all warned by Rory Stewart three years ago, but no one appears to have been listening.
@leighgold7502
@leighgold7502 Год назад
Did Johnson’s nose get longer during his evidence, or did my iPad inadvertently move from portrait to landscape?
@pansepot1490
@pansepot1490 Год назад
😂😂😂
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....not very original...
@23merlino
@23merlino Год назад
@@chatham43 - troll
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
...excellent contribution...
@leighgold7502
@leighgold7502 Год назад
@@chatham43 is that you Boris, or are you lying in your teeth again?
@jhet75
@jhet75 Год назад
The elephant stomping around the room is the acceptance and normalisation of alcohol at political levels of government. Along with impaired judgement and behavioural whilst partaking.
@justasplanned8023
@justasplanned8023 Год назад
For me it’s the fact that there were so man parties during a period where they were restricted and there was serious work to be done. How often are they partying under normal circumstances? It sounds like the government is a student Union bar
@bumblingborisbuffoon6259
@bumblingborisbuffoon6259 Год назад
I’m sure Boris Johnson said it was commonplace for people ( staff in his case ) to drink on Fridays.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....took the words right out of my mouth barry...😊
@babs66
@babs66 Год назад
I think if you were a business man you might wine and dine a contact at lunchtime to win a contract. What I'm trying to express is that certain types of people think it's normal to mix work alcohol and smoozing together. The rest of the world has moved on apart fm Coronation St where they still drink at lunchtime but then they don't have combi boilers so clearly don't have central heating to pay for. That must be how they afford it.:)
@kopperbird6665
@kopperbird6665 Год назад
He even refused to say that the committee was unbiased. Implying he would only say they were unbiased if they found in his favour! 🙄
@romanmontoya8827
@romanmontoya8827 Год назад
Boris Johnson = Donald Trump. The comparisons are uncanny!
@patriciaoreilly8907
@patriciaoreilly8907 Год назад
Trump ❤ 2024 😊
@hrothgar64
@hrothgar64 Год назад
I've said it before. Johnson is just a couple of chapters behind Trump in the Steve Bannon playbook.
@danmayberry1185
@danmayberry1185 Год назад
​@@patriciaoreilly8907Do it. Isolate. Pity and ridicule was the free world response in 2016. America's standing in the world would fall sharply if it happened a second time.
@Paul-pf6rm
@Paul-pf6rm Год назад
Trump was the best thing to happen to America. Look at the state of it now the corrupt Dems have been in charge.
@Paul-pf6rm
@Paul-pf6rm Год назад
@@mothersuperior2000 Utterly deluded post.
@alex_n8863
@alex_n8863 Год назад
Nailed it again, James. 👏
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....you give robots a bad name...
@alex_n8863
@alex_n8863 Год назад
@@chatham43 like Robbie, R2D2, ED209. That kind of thing? 🤔
@alex_n8863
@alex_n8863 Год назад
@@chatham43 is it Johnny5?
@alex_n8863
@alex_n8863 Год назад
@@chatham43 C3PO?
@alex_n8863
@alex_n8863 Год назад
@@chatham43 T1000?
@byzantium8851
@byzantium8851 Год назад
They wanted to take back control: parliamentary sovereignty. And yet, when asked whether he accepted the validity of the parliamentary committee before which he was appearing, he said that depended on whether they concluded he was innocent. Consider the utter arrogance of that conclusion.
@nathanu6759
@nathanu6759 Год назад
As someone who was raised by a narcissist…. It’s been obvious since the start of his political career that boris was a narcissist.
@crose7412
@crose7412 Год назад
@nathan u Can you always tell someone's lying from their demeanour, do you need proof of a lie or is the implausibility of what they've said enough?
@nathanu6759
@nathanu6759 Год назад
@@crose7412 for me personally. I can usually tell from their body language and wording used. Most people will be able to detect it after some frequent occurrences. Unfortunately there’s still people in this country that still fall for his waffle
@mementomori7825
@mementomori7825 Год назад
@@nathanu6759 More still that don't care that he's lying, because he's telling them what they want to hear. Even if it's all lies.
@mspjmason
@mspjmason Год назад
@@nathanu6759 For me, it's the weasel words and the ability to 'embroider' on stories which are supposed to be retellings of their memories, especially memories of things which happened to them, they caused, or which they were involved in. They are inveterate liars, viz pathological liars, incapable of telling the truth, even when doing so would be in their own best interests. They simply expect to believed in whatever they say, because it is them that is saying it; like feudal lords, they believe their own words to be gospel and for them to be perceived as such. When they are not, that's when they can turn really nasty; they'll do heaven and earth to denigrate anyone who takes such a view.
@thecommonsensechannel6268
@thecommonsensechannel6268 Год назад
I wanted one of the committee to ask him if he honestly expected them to believe he thinks a leaving party is essential but sitting with a dying loved one for their final hours isn’t?
@janswimwild
@janswimwild Год назад
Sadly there are more BoJos than we realise and quite often it’s their families who are most aware of who they are. They use their frightening ‘plausibility’ as a dangerous weapon, which destroys or undermines the health and sanity of the people they live and work with. That Narcissist’s Prayer conjures a silent scream in the heads of those of us who have experience of such people. Thank you for that ‘so sorry’, you surprised me and reduced me to tears. It also needs to be remembered that while this was going on this man was the Prime Minister, it seems to me that we need to keep reminding ourselves that he was not a recalcitrant teenager but the man with the greatest responsibility in the land, and the buck always stopped with him!
@damionk3258
@damionk3258 Год назад
The video of Boris' interview needs to be taken and used as an example of textbook narcissim for all future psychology and mental health students.
@hakanozaslan9571
@hakanozaslan9571 Год назад
I grew up with a narcissistic father and two older siblings, they will ALWAYS go further and further with their abuse, lies, gas lighting etc. if you let them. They always rely on the things that you either want to hear or makes you dependent on them. They don't feel shame as the only thing they care about are the things THEY want, no matter the consquences to others.
@cfneveu
@cfneveu Год назад
Dayna Craig forgot "Besides, that was a long time ago. Why are you still obsessing about it?"
@amorfati8084
@amorfati8084 Год назад
The narcissists mindset is that they are better than you, therefore any perceived slight towards them, ie a criticism, is not acceptable in their mind. Consequently their response to you is deserved. You deserve to be treated badly because I'm brilliant(the narc) and you must see this!
@moore_news
@moore_news Год назад
"You deserved it" is "You voted me in knowing exactly what I was like"
@lokischildren8714
@lokischildren8714 Год назад
The same excuse Stanley Johnson used when he broke his dead wife's nose
@ArtyFactual_Intelligence
@ArtyFactual_Intelligence Год назад
Stanley Johnson is the perfect egalitarian. He wanted his wife's nose to look like his family heirloom.
@time4change878
@time4change878 Год назад
To be fair to Stanley sh was not dead at the time. That would have barred him from the knighthood
@geraldthomas8948
@geraldthomas8948 Год назад
And her children didn't protect her,poor soul.
@paulwhittaker5195
@paulwhittaker5195 Год назад
@@geraldthomas8948 His son wants to knight him.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....and you were there to witness it thank goodness...😊
@nedlangman8846
@nedlangman8846 Год назад
I have a memory that almost fits that last line about "you deserve it". While I personally never heard it said out loud by Johnson himself, I clearly remember his friends publicly defending him by saying "everyone else in the country was secretly breaking the rules", as if that made it ok.
@terryfinch9319
@terryfinch9319 Год назад
I'm so glad there is someone like you that actually speaks up and says the truth. This government is rotten to its course and I don't understand why the British people are so complicit with it
@a.e.a.porter7045
@a.e.a.porter7045 Год назад
It says something about the man when he was having an affair while his wife was being treated for cancer. Given his wife-beating father's lack of remorse perhaps it is heredity!
@bob_the_bomb4508
@bob_the_bomb4508 Год назад
As I recall, a regime once said “if you’re going to tell a lie, tell a big one. People will always believe the big lie”. Somehow I’m reminded of this.
@danellis-jones1591
@danellis-jones1591 Год назад
It's great to hear this, because I have been in a narcissistic relationship and I've mentioned a few times that the country is in a narcissistic relationship with Boris. Obviously nobody reading this would know that! 😂 But it's really affirming to hear James spell it out.
@shawardara
@shawardara Год назад
Truly vile. On a par with Trump at every level.
@plammo1775
@plammo1775 Год назад
Different context for deserve but I get what you mean. The narcissist says you deserved it in the context that if I did it then you brought it on yourself or you made me do it.
@JohnDoe-bw3tz
@JohnDoe-bw3tz Год назад
Speaking of pathological narcissism... the rate of neurotypical, psychopathic mental disorders under CEOs is vastly higher than in the overall population (4% up to 14% compared to under 1%). Data shows these guys will find their way into these positions. And they don't mind any damage they cause, they just don't.
@cuebj
@cuebj Год назад
Yes. Seen a few studies on that. We had some of it in Local Authority Social Care. Counter-intuitively, Enforcement & Safety, Development, Building Control, and Planning were all more empathetic, leaders listened and worked with front line staff, took responsibility rather than blame underlings.
@shtarpark7938
@shtarpark7938 Год назад
Speaking as a member of the neuro-diverse community...for want of a better phrase...I think another interesting study would be to look at the characteristics of people in the neurotypical population that support, and often vote for, the systems that allow these people to achieve the positions they hold. It's not just that there's data (going back many years) to demonstrate the prevalence of such people in positions of wealth and power, or that our social and economic systems require some degree of that behaviour for 'success'...it's that we actively reward the behaviour of people who have no business being anywhere near wealth and power by giving them wealth and power. And the only reasons that people who support this can give are based on fantasy and fairy-tales and a wilful refusal to look at the world as it is. To me, that suggests there is a significant number...in terms of the electorate...of people who have a particular sort of mental disorder that is as yet 'undiscovered'. But of course, being someone with a 'disorder' myself, it's easy for people to dismiss my views.
@babs66
@babs66 Год назад
@@shtarpark7938 I think they're just thick or nieve. Plus he wouldn't have got in if it wasn't for Brexit and the smearing of Corbyn.
@MYFATHEREMMANUEL
@MYFATHEREMMANUEL Год назад
YOU HAVE NAILED IT JAMES. SPOT ON 👌🏾
@andrewliu2526
@andrewliu2526 Год назад
Wow. I know this applies to Boris Johnson, but man. It applies to Donald Narcissistic Trump perfectly
@BritishRosie-es3zr
@BritishRosie-es3zr Год назад
I think we all know the two things that will result - 1. He will get away with it, and 2. The public will forget about it conveniently quickly.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
...perhaps they have a life...?
@boogaloo4640
@boogaloo4640 Год назад
The right wing media seem to have dropped the story already. Presumably to help people forget
@corn985
@corn985 Год назад
Unfortunately, you are probably 2 for 2 on this one.
@alihenderson5910
@alihenderson5910 Год назад
@@boogaloo4640 There's only ONE media, 'left' and 'right' is just a ruse, and THEY will tell you when to move on to the next distraction.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....they've already forgotten about it....outside twitter world.....
@chrissilver7719
@chrissilver7719 Год назад
James why did they not question the presence of the interior designer, were they an essential worker ? Given you would want to protect No10 staff as 'they were all working so hard ' . Why would you allow the ID into No10. This to me is another the rules do not apply to me. I know people who were stopped by the cops going to their work as a delivery driver, he was an essential worker. So who gave her clearance ?
@trevorstanding6462
@trevorstanding6462 Год назад
Johnson got away with 'get Brexit done' and 'oven ready deal ' so why couldn't he get away with 'Partygate ' ?
@wendysimpson6395
@wendysimpson6395 Год назад
How about 'you deserved it' for voting for me.
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
...it's called democracy Wendy...you obviously have a problem with it....and that's OK....because we live in a democracy...
@wendysimpson6395
@wendysimpson6395 Год назад
@@chatham43 You're incorrect. I have no problem with democracy. Non. Just the Tory party membership who were responsible for his abominable rule.
@stephensarkany3577
@stephensarkany3577 Год назад
If you vote for a Boris or a trump, you will ultimately get what you collectively deserve.
@AlexAlexon3897
@AlexAlexon3897 Год назад
I'd bet he blames his mum for "provoking" his dad. That's the level of trust and respect I have for the man.
@time4change878
@time4change878 Год назад
That is the perfect description. They have an alternative reality as a defence mechanism for their twisted ego
@seanconcannon7922
@seanconcannon7922 Год назад
Boris is just like Trump....he used to phone up the National Enquirer in the 80's...pretending to be someone else and telling them about Trump having affairs with multiple women...they both get off on this kind of thing.....maybe they think it makes them appear as great lovers like Casanova or Lothario...Boris loves a bit of Shakespeare.
@exsalafi393
@exsalafi393 Год назад
Bojo has strong Narcissistic traits and more concerning is how those who support him are easily manipulated and misled....
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
...but thankfully you're not...
@exsalafi393
@exsalafi393 Год назад
@@chatham43 Yes, and definitely not one of his flying monkeys
@stevehanson2398
@stevehanson2398 Год назад
Personally, I think "narcissistic" is not the most accurate word to describe Boris Johnson's character. I offer a more accurate description in the word "sociopath". Definition: "Antisocial personality disorder, sometimes called sociopathy, is a mental health condition in which a person consistently shows no regard for right and wrong and ignores the rights and feelings of others". I rest my case. The same can be said for Suella Braverman and Jacob Rees-Mogg, in my opinion, and all those that partied during the covid restrictions.
@pennypickle64
@pennypickle64 Год назад
I agree, I was married to a sociopath, worst 19 years of my life. Boris is definitely one. The bumbling idiot facade cuts no ice with me.
@simonpaine2347
@simonpaine2347 Год назад
Until you come to accept and truly believe that karma exists, some people have no reason to act with any decency or moral responsibility.
@susannehartl3067
@susannehartl3067 Год назад
I don't believe karma exists and yet I think I am a decent and moral person. It is down to principles, the capability to feel empathy, being able to make emotional connection with people.
@maritadean2905
@maritadean2905 Год назад
Brilliant James
@chosen4purpose628
@chosen4purpose628 Год назад
Narcissists don’t have a conscience 😢
@Loner-Wolf
@Loner-Wolf Год назад
Seeing Boris put his hand on the bible and swear by it to tell the truth is the funniest thing iv seen and heard in ages
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....must admit that was amusing.....😊
@shumoon1
@shumoon1 Год назад
James, once again, you nailed it. Point by point.
@chrissilver7719
@chrissilver7719 Год назад
Goebbelsesque, lie until it becomes the truth. The guy is a moral vacuum, his whole life . Johnson has never changed but he has been allowed to get to where he is and it's those who are really the villains couldn't have gotten anywhere without those who just didn't care as long as they could hang onto his coattails.
@vietashroffoliver2521
@vietashroffoliver2521 Год назад
What makes me despair is how many people loved him and voted again for the party that ensures their downfall. Unbelievable
@RichardSmallwood-du9qb
@RichardSmallwood-du9qb Год назад
What he was actually saying was "So What" last line!
@huskym6
@huskym6 Год назад
I have a grandson with medically considered behavioural issues, the most disturbing of which is his belief in the reality he creates to absolve himself of having to face responsibility... The parallels are quite alarming :(
@lynjago6022
@lynjago6022 Год назад
I do seem to remember that gatherings of any sort were not allowed at that point for 'the rest of us'.
@derekibison6644
@derekibison6644 Год назад
Yes but he had to earn his £165K in his role of Prime Thanker (that’s with a T)
@rollyunicorn
@rollyunicorn Год назад
You should know Mr O'B.
@b00ts4ndc4ts
@b00ts4ndc4ts Год назад
Slow clap to all those who voted for him.
@b00ts4ndc4ts
@b00ts4ndc4ts Год назад
I remember saying to myself girlfriend when he won the vote, I said this will end bad.
@pipins3616
@pipins3616 Год назад
A democracy you mean
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
...we've got no time for that here....😊
@mikesummers-smith4091
@mikesummers-smith4091 Год назад
No - you tell the person you betrayed that it's their fault.
@errisgloshfan
@errisgloshfan Год назад
I worked for a narc once. Terrible individual though highly valued in the organisation. I got out. Before I left I walked him into a big error. He wasn’t that smart you see. Narcs only ever get away with it for a period. It’s never a long term success story.
@elipa3
@elipa3 Год назад
Brilliant. To the point.
@GeorgeI996
@GeorgeI996 Год назад
Jacob Rees Mogg, the self styled intellect. He is the kind of bloke who could work out the surface area of a banana, but would not know how to peel it. I am just awaiting a scandal involving him, it must be out there somewhere.
@MsPeabody1231
@MsPeabody1231 Год назад
Jacob and Nadine sitting in a tree...
@linmac1686
@linmac1686 Год назад
Lying
@BuildingPersephone
@BuildingPersephone Год назад
Many times, "I don't deserve this" is the same as "you deserved that".
@trippymchippy8586
@trippymchippy8586 Год назад
Comes as a shock to nobody.
@shaddozer0ne115
@shaddozer0ne115 Год назад
When you find yourself trying to understand the psychology of people who would support someone as amoral as Boris, your mind would be lost in their method less madness.
@ecaeas4439
@ecaeas4439 Год назад
Reminds of that woman who said she supported him (after admitting he was a liar) because it makes him "human". Some people are so desperate to "stick it to the system" in British politics where admittedly most politics have been fake and very surface, that they'll vote for him over anyone more competent. It's really weird to see.
@davidbrear8642
@davidbrear8642 Год назад
I think it is helpful to think of narcissists as devoted adherents of their own personal 'religions' which are focused on themselves. In other words, severe and inflexible narcissists are engaged in total self-worship, and those who fall for their psychologically-dominant act of moral and intellectual authority, and who worship, and/or enable them, are what the medical profession describe as, co-narcissists.
@fatedtolive667
@fatedtolive667 Год назад
Anyone remember Billy bunter? 😂
@DavidWilliams-DSW558
@DavidWilliams-DSW558 Год назад
How could any self-respecting woman even have an affair with such a person, let alone allow herself to be seen with him?
@aidancaulfield6302
@aidancaulfield6302 Год назад
If you cannot agree with me your wrong, his last line
@RachelFayLovelyDay
@RachelFayLovelyDay Год назад
The most insulting element of his 'evidence' was the juxtaposition between the alleged necessity to have an event to say goodbye to colleagues who were leaving Downing Street to go to another job, and the moral and criminal prohibition on the general public to say goodbye to loved ones who were leaving the world for ever.
@SarahMould
@SarahMould Год назад
"out of control shopping trolley" - a perfect description!
@Alex-cw3rz
@Alex-cw3rz Год назад
The fact that the trolls in the comments can't even defend Boris they are just crying that James is talking about the former prime minister
@Chris-xl6pd
@Chris-xl6pd Год назад
Self preservation under public scrutiny will just follow the narcissists prayer.
@grahamdavid007
@grahamdavid007 Год назад
excellent James - the reason you can't fit Johnson's last 'defence' is because the wise author of 'the narcissist's prayer' hadn't envisaged the extreme narcissism of Boris - he's ''progressed' the prayer !! 🙂
@masquarra
@masquarra Год назад
We missed one major one of the narcissists’ defense: stop dwelling in the past
@boogaloo4640
@boogaloo4640 Год назад
Yep. "Time to move on" as his supporters are so fond of telling us
@ImmaculateKSkogemyr
@ImmaculateKSkogemyr Год назад
I am in utter amazement with the British people
@reeling-in
@reeling-in Год назад
The Victor Meldrew of the radio strikes again!!😂😂
@chatham43
@chatham43 Год назад
....and. you believed it.....😊
@michaelcoward1902
@michaelcoward1902 Год назад
lol, imagine convincing a man to leave his wife and children for you and then being surprised that this same man doesn't take responsibility for anything...
@alexhale6582
@alexhale6582 Год назад
His defence was as watertight as a sieve, and his delivery was petulant. I thoroughly enjoyed watching his feathers getting ruffled personally, sadly he will still go on being a terrible creature.
@michaelseibold9977
@michaelseibold9977 Год назад
But James, he got Brexit done! And GB is doing so great! I mean, 10.4% inflation is perfect! That will get rid of all the poor people won't it? I mean aren't the work and alms houses there to take care of these losers! If everyone was like Jacob Reese-Mog you wouldn't have this poverty problem. And Boris is the most truthful PM ever!
@moniclare4214
@moniclare4214 Год назад
I need to get a copy of the narcissista prayer.. I think I had that experience of a charming hubby who.... I think ypu have just saved my sanity !
@moniclare4214
@moniclare4214 Год назад
That prayer needs additions .... ie... but I did tell you... Yes I did... I know I did... you must have forgotten or not listened... . After 60 mins or more of this variation..- well I always talk to you in my head so I must have thought I told you.. They watch your jaw drop open as you try to get your head around that... as it's been said quite a few times.... numerous hundreds actually. .... your brain is doing summersaults. He's a sentimental chappie... no he is not.... by the thousandth time he must realise this takes on a nasty theme... but look at the bewilderment and hurt in his eyes. Perhaps we need to work on this he doesn't understand... by then he has jumped to round three and your jaw drops again... .
@keithyboy123
@keithyboy123 Год назад
It takes a (self confessed, look it up btw) narcissist to know one Jim O'Biggot
@alantheinquirer7658
@alantheinquirer7658 Год назад
Bottom line of his defence: I made the rules for *YOU* - I don't have to follow them at all.
@richardcooley9730
@richardcooley9730 Год назад
The average person loses more integrity when they cut their hair than Johnson has ever had in his entire life.
@hotfightinghistory9224
@hotfightinghistory9224 Год назад
I worked in an IT call center during the fun, helping keep my co-workers connected from their home offices. Don't get me wrong, my employer showed their appreciation financially and they were VERY fair. But we *almost* had to wear these full space suit things to do it. We begged and swore to heaven that we wouln't break the social distancing rules so we were allowed to get away with masks and gloves and social distancing. I cant even imagine the idea of having a party at work during that time...
@CeiliogWaspflake
@CeiliogWaspflake Год назад
Jacob Reek Bogg out of touch? When asked to comment on the Northern Ireland Secretary, Steve Baker, called him a Pound Shop Farage, Reek Bogg said that he's like to be known as a Woolworths Farage. Woolworths UK went bust in 2008.
@alistermunro8724
@alistermunro8724 Год назад
He means, you knew who I was before you made me prime minister." If I did, YOU deserve it!" Yes it fits
@philipshore6924
@philipshore6924 Год назад
The last line fits ... "And if I did, you deserved it". His defence was he had to keep the morale of government workers up in difficult times - i.e. he broke the rules for our benefit.
@widgibob27
@widgibob27 Год назад
To be fair to Boris the parties he's used to all his life will if been so decadent and debauched that to him it wasn't even pre-drinks
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