Time stamps 0:00 Opening Song 🎵 Keep On Talking By Lionel Quick 🎵 1:50 🎵 Stockholm Love By Mathilda June 🎵 4:10 🎵 Your Good Lies By Vividry 🎵 7:10 🎬 Show Starts, 🕯 Candle Of The Evening Le Labo Laurier 62 🕯 7:45 Fragrances Of The Evening Bond No. 9 Nomad And Bond No.9 Riverside Drive 8:15 Monologue, Modern Women Can Make You Go Crazy, Not Love 19:20 Will Smith And Chris Rock 27:15 Willow Letter To Tupac 28:18 Moving Along 1:09:42 1st Caller , Married, 2nd Caller Angelina , 3rd Caller Raquel age 34, 4th Caller Wendy age 33 1:29:19 5th Caller T age 40 , 6th Caller J age 43 , 7th Caller, 8th Caller , 9th Caller 1:46:40 10th Caller Nia 29, 11th Caller, Back to 1st Caller 2:04:00 Feminine Characters And Closing Words 2:13:44 Outro
This wasn’t a mental breakdown, Will was fine, he laughed at the joke, this was a string being pulled, Jada didn’t like the program she was watching when she saw Will laughing so she kindly grabbed the moken trol (remote control) and changed the channel because she’s the one who’s really in control of Will’s programming.
she said what she did to him at that table bc she felt no threat of backlash or him hurting her or yelling at her. A dude doing all that? He knows he's getting backlash & the women is going to yell at him & hit him. She felt so secure & safe breaking Will down to nothing right down to his face. She knew damn well nothing was going to happen to her. Where are all the women that fake care about mens mental health just in November? clearly Will needs some help in that area. Oh right.. its not November. Its not time for ya'll to start fake caring yet bc you look at it as another "trend" you need to involve yourselves in.
To protect her honor, she must first be honorable. To protect her from disrespect, she must first be respectable. This woman is neither, and her husband has starred in his greatest role at her behest... playing the fool.
I’ve never heard it put this way. You’re 100% correct. The only thing I would add is that in order to protect a person, they have to need protection. Jada is much more masculine and hood than Will. Also, any woman (open marriage or not) that screws her son’s friend, that her and her husband treated like another son, and sometimes screwed him in their home…..is the lowest of the low. If Will had screwed their daughter’s friend under the same conditions, he would’ve paid a very heavy price.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* Here's the answer to your question: _"The further a society drifts from the truth, the more they will hate those that speak it."_ -George Orwell
Imagine your daughter writing a letter to your WIFE’s ex thug boyfriend yearning for a nostalgia she never even witnessed. That letter is sick beyond words bruh
Edit : Apperantly i have to state the obvious I used to (and still do) love 2pac but the truth is he was just an emotional male. He hung around the wrong crowd and ultimately died because of it. He played with the pigs and got dirty , tho the myth of him has grown to exponential heights. I still love his music , but i am not a fool as to who he really was. Rip pac , also pac explained he was will smith , because women called him to nice, to soft.
Kevin, you CAN say she is a narcissist. If Jada isn’t a narcissist then the term has no meaning and should be abandoned. She is textbook. Let’s call it out.
I'm glad he hit on the narcissistic personality disorder. I know he can't say it outright, but any of us who have been through it can see what it is. When he hit on the daughter being more like friends/sisters with their mom with no parenting dynamic, that blew my mind. Because it hit 100% with how my narcissistic ex was with her mom. I never saw that as a red flag before, but there were PLENTY enough. I won't go into the heinous things she did and ways she'd try to emasculate me and constantly make me "prove" my love, but luckily I walked away before any babies were able to enter the equation.
Nobody's truly addressing the issue. She is a full-blown Narcissist. A narcissist has no compassionate empathy!!!! They have no soul. To make matters worse, they have no real personality only a fake personality that must be validated 24 hrs a day 7 days a week addicted to admiration, affirmation, and adulation in order to validate it's false Personna. Research NPD it's real and incurable.
Look at that thumbnail picture. You can see her head has thick stubble. She is nowhere near going bald. Maybe she had a small balding patch or her hair is getting thinner but in now way shape or form is she going bald, yet people are acting like she is suffering from some sort of horrible desease. She shaved her head for attention. Those of us who are actually going bald take offense to this, lol.
You marry a woman who openly told you and showed you and the world that she’s still in love with a dead man, you deserve anything you get moving forward.
@@itsHappening-ry2ef Don’t be a moron. It is better for a man to be single than to be with a woman who doesn’t respect him and is a liability. That being said, I have a fit, feminine, young, submissive woman who respects me and brings value. If you’re going to troll the space at least try to say something remotely intelligent.
Willow as a child writing that letter is very disturbing. This means that Jada pumped into her mind as a child how much love that she had for 2pac all while married to her father. There's so much wrong with that.
6.5 months ago I left a woman who was diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, after a 1.3 year relationship. No contact currently. I had my own business generating $250,000 annualized in my first year of operations. We lived together and I was looking at wedding rings. The relationship cost me nearly everything, and almost my life. I only left when I became aware of this disorder. The lovebombing, mirroring, devaluation, discarding, gaslighting, stonewalling, lying, thieving, stalking, hoovering, triangulation, cheating, flying monkeys, etc...is all crazy making and she did it all. I was able to escape before she could accomplish her real goal. Thank God. Thank you godfather for discussing this. 🙏
@@karithema9ician657 silver lining, I know ALL of the red flags for cluster B personality disorders now and it'll never happen again. My eyes are OPEN now! These kind of people are really out here ruining lives for pleasure.
I found you Kevin about a month ago. I'm a seventy year old white man. I draw much inspiration and from you and appreciate what you're trying to do for the human race. May God bless you and keep you. Rest easy my friend
A big part of my sanity is setting boundaries with everyone & everything. A man without boundaries end up self destructing one way or another. Remain independent and sovereign respect yourself love yourself and no one can harm you. Peace
The video of Jada after he assaulted Chris, spoke volumes as well. She laughed at the assault, sat there and didn't console Will either.. Normal women would never let that happen no matter how much you want to cover it up as a 'protecting your woman'. Still sickened by the whole thing.
Yes. She wanted that to happen and Will knew it. She should have immediately intervened when he slapped Chris and talked him off stage or out of the crowd and to a spot to calm down. She scowled and eye rolled at the original joke then got positively GLEEFUL once violence was happening and then again once will screamed with his face shaking Awful woman
I have searched and couldn't find a video showing her reaction to the slap. They show her reaction to the joke but not the slap. Where is the video you are referencing?
@@dontehunt3184 that’s exactly what I thought. I would’ve ran behind him, gown and all to stop him from whatever he might do. Even if it was to just talk to Chris. I would’ve told him to wait and talk backstage. She could’ve spoke peace in him, just him getting up for her was enough for that moment. It was the Oscars! Talk to him backstage.
Will knew society would condemn him for hitting a woman, so he waited for an opportunity to release all his frustrations on another man. Everybody and their momma know who really deserves to be slapped. I don’t mind protecting black women from violence, but making a harmless joke on a woman should not be grounds to assault someone. These women nowadays think they are entitled to too much protection even when they treat other people poorly.
@@truthinyan9050 Right. You have a lot of women screaming equality but they are the ones that can’t handle even a lesser negative reaction from a man even when the treatment they give to us is much harsher. If a woman cheats, we can’t publicly call them a slut without being criticized by other women. If a man cheats, he can be called everything derogatory in the dictionary and they expect no push back. Women need to understand that equality also means having to accept responsibility and critique when you do something wrong, but they want to be free and absolved from having to deal with that side of reality. So in essence, it’s them that are proving everyday that we’re not equal.
Will Smith should have told Jada, "it's just a light joke... you should be happy he's not joking about your infidelity. You are emotionally over-the-top"
That’s the problem with PRlDE of oneself. It overshadows all the interesting moments in a room because it wants to be special, or seen to be special. That’s sad for Mr. Jackson. What did he win the Oscar in? He’s definitely a hardworking actor.
G.I. Jane? A strong female lead overcoming adversity to become an elite warrior? As a combat vet, I can't picture Jaeda Pinkett Smith putting duty over self.
I personally believe that she was more mad seeing Will laughing at the joke than she was that Chris said the joke. I think that "look" she shot him was more of a "you just F'd up" and Will realized what was coming his way so he redirected the conflict within himself towards Chris with no thought about the consequences. It tells me how toxic she really is because he threw away all concern for his image in fear of what was coming his way from her.
Unfortunately, this is only learned the hard way. I've even allowed a narcissistic woman break my heart and she really could care less. Know your worth fellas and voice your boundaries and the issues that matter. It takes two to tango and don't tolerate any red flags or crap thrown your way. If ignored it only fills the black hole of an ego a narcissistic person has. It'll destroy you and take you away from your core being. Don't disrespect yourself that way. Hopefully Will can realize this for himself bc what he did was embarrassing.
Dwayne Wade, Will Smith, Kanye West and Stephen Curry are the poster childs of money can't buy happiness if it comes with a complementary gift of a modern woman.
The problem is these guys don't really have the mindset of men who have money and high socioeconomic status and SMV worth when it comes to dealing with women. It's like athletes and rappers who got rich fast but lack financial literacy and are stupid and then go broke. If you want to have money, wealth, success, stability and power you should learn to be emotionally detached at first.
If Hollywood offered Jada the lead role in GI 2 you know she would you take it in a heartbeat. "Entanglements" is used to soften the reality of adultery.
I added a few minutes ago that she should have hollered back at Chris that he should produce or direct it. The moment would have been funny, and they could have both secured that bag.
If I knew my husband was about to go on stage and do that I would have stopped him. Will’s legacy is being tarnished & overshadowed by the issues between him & Jada. I’m so disappointed & I really feel bad for Chris Rock, he didn’t deserve that.
@@jruedas81 She will let her husband engage in a battle that she is sure the husband will not survive from coz to her , her ego is more valuable than her husband's life.
I am a Nurse. I live in California. I dated someone recently who essentially said I wasn't enough due to the wages I make (which are not even bad) and the success I achieved. I always thought well of myself till this person tore me down. The most insane thing was she would make me feel like the problem for the longest time will demanding praise for who she was. She even tore me down based on my genealogy. I was not datable due to habits of my mom and how she passed. I never dated a narcissist until then. Men if they abuse women its physical and illegal. Yes sometimes its mental. But women can do this without repercussion mentally and that is their default path of toxicity. It is legal and even put up with. No one cares. This last relationship has taught me so much and I would rather be alone then be with someone who can be narcissistic and manipulative. As I continue to try and date I've realized how social media has conditioned narcissists everywhere. Not bagging on a gender. Everyone is guilty of something and we should all improve. This is just my experience in dating however.
that is why you must be QUICK to cut a woman off and ALWAYS have sexual options. This is why alot of men tolerate this behavior. They typically cut off ALL of their sexual options OR never had any at all. So they tolerate madness because they still want intimacy with said woman and if she gets up and walks youre left with no sex. There is a rule of thumb players have. You must always have at least FIVE women you can casually have sex with on demand. That way if you ever meet a toxic woman you can EASILY get rid of her and on that very same day you kick her out have another woman come give you sex. They say this method is frowned on BUT ITS A LIE its how men retain thier POWER because if you KNOW you dont need the toxic woman to have sex. You can EASILY discard her the moment she displeases you. You gotta be an axxhole with women today. Maybe in the 1950s and before the nice guy approach worked but ever since the 70s to right now thats done. Women respond to being treated poorly and casually this is why the biggest axxholes in the world have the most women and the nicest of men either have no woman OR are being treated less than optimal by the one they have
"The most insane thing was she would make me feel like the problem for the longest time will demanding praise for who she was" feel ya bro. these girls are EVERYWHERE. they can do this and many other things. they have all the rights and no resposibilities.
What’s crazier to me is that they’re trying to portray Will as this savior that should be proud of himself for ruining his night, his relations in Hollywood, everyone else’s night including other black icons and two of them being black women. When really Will is just what they wanna see. A black man who will sabotage his and everyone else’s life for the egotistical image of protecting his “wife”
I've been telling this to other people and the reaction is usually stunned silence as the realization hits. Because of this, they never quantify exactly what they want because it's a moving target or bottomless pit.
I’ve experienced this first hand . Bought the wife a brand new Jeep Cherokee 50 racks she complained remodeled her bathroom she complained bought my grown son who has no gig a 2022 hybrid Corolla she complained. I’m close to giving up and I keep asking myself why do I work so hard .
I wanted to point out the damage to Willow. That little girl should know nothing of her mother’s past like that. How confusing must it be to know your father cannot make your mother happy. What this shows me is that Jada is emotionally abusive to her children. Your children deserve to not know everything about you. That is truly disgusting.
@Lisa Solier Thank you for addressing an urgent issue that has plagued so many black people...generational parental abuse. My heart goes out to his 2 children. The other son came from a better woman who cared more about her son's health and welfare. I can only imagine that Jada's mother had men in and out of her bed while she raised Jada.
This is exactly why Willow said she wanted to be in a Throuple, which is living with or married to a man and woman. How wierd for a really young person to say but this comes from that little Jada whom I've never cared that much for. 😥
Choosing was only the beginning. His actions rewarded the bad behaviour for many years. If he had any dignity and self-worth, he would have been giving her nothing and openly banging younger hotter women
It’s takes 9 narcissistic traits to be diagnosed/ qualify as a narcissist. She’s already basically told us she was a narcissist. Will is a Co dependent male( #1 prey for narcissist) She’s said she was a sex addict, she triangulated Will with august, devalued will, at the red table talk we saw (gaslighting , word salad, lack of empathy, not taking ownership). there are videos by Dr, Psychiatrist, therapist on RU-vid called “ the narcissist is jealous of you and your success”. Narcissist will ruin you big moments (OSCARS). Female Narcissist are big on putting men against each other… i was with a narcissist and they want to break you. They want you in the mind frame like Will.(in a trauma bond). I can keep going
One piece of input... it doesn't take 9 traits to meet the criteria for NPD. It's about 5, I believe, without the DSM in front of me. So a little lower bar for her to hit enough bullet points. I don't honestly know much about her, though. Never followed her closely - and I can't remember the last thing she did besides humiliate her husband and talk about Tupac occasionally. I wonder if Will's success had anything to do with her seeming to not work much over the years.
His wife does not respect him and he’s trying to Get respect from his wife That is NOT defending your family and protecting his wife that is being impulsive, emotional and irrational behavior that is getting praised as “protection” 🤦♂ Will can stand up against other men but not his wife? That’s why he and this family is chaotic! So basically you can have my wife and do what you will with her but keep her name out your mouth even though she getting ran threw and hasn't "felt good" in a long time according to Red Table talk. He will never win if she dies before he does she will be with Tupac again 💀
They don’t think like that, I heard they were swingers. They ain’t look at women as being ran down on Hollywood. That’s bm that think they own everybody’s sexuality. Maybe Will tangled with them, you don’t know that. That’s his business if he a freak but don’t won’t you talking about his wife. Y’all just hate bw. Smh
I don't care why he did what he did, what were his emotions at the time. All the empathy about that, whatever. But about accountability ? He should have been escorted out by security out of there, his nomination forfeited . Period. Why was he allowed to stay there and get a reward ?
I'm glad you hit on the narcissistic personality disorder. I know you can't say it outright, but any of us who have been through it can see what it is. When you hit on the daughter being more like friends/sisters with their mom with no parenting dynamic, that blew my mind. Because it hit 100% with how my narcissistic ex was with her mom. I never saw that as a red flag before, but there were PLENTY. I won't go into the heinous things she did and ways she'd try to emasculate me and constantly make me "prove" my love, but luckily I walked away before any babies were able to enter the equation.
Wow!!! You sound like my son and what he went through with his ex wife. My ex daughter in law is crazy!!! She abuses her own mother, physically, I don’t see what my son ever saw in her. I’m concerned about my granddaughter, because she sees how her mother verbally abused my son and verbally and physically abused her grandmother, what hope do I have that she won’t grow up and be just like her mother.
- Laugh at the joke - Lean over and kiss your wife on her bald head - Continue laughing at the joke - Allow the show to continue - Accept your award - Enjoy the rest of the night - You have just made history - Hand divorce papers to Jada the next morning - Give her what ever she wants. You'll make it all back in 5 to 10 years or so - Get a new 28 year old Latina - The sun sets and life goes on
totally agree...but you think woman think Will Smith was wrong? maybe not! they will not think jada got nothing to do with it they also think Will Smith was right! bc as long as you do something in their favor and for them they can careless about right or wrong bc as men all we are is their porn!!...they have 2 men kill each other over their bad decisions
I feel sorry for everyone who was/is impacted by a narcissist. No matter which gender, narcissists are destructive everywhere. A lot of women have to deal with men who have such traits, so for us, it's nothing new.
Damn that Willow letter is WILD. I can’t imagine if, as a dad, I saw my daughter write that about another man. This runs deep. It was so funny to see people make the argument that this was about some hair loss condition joke. This shit goes so deep, James Cameron couldn’t get down there (props if you get that joke/reference 😁)
That’s the same thing I said, I can’t imagine my daughter writing a letter like that to a dead man, I’d really have to leave that marriage because that means my wife has already corrupted my daughter. I would have to leave
That letter situation got me really sad for Will! 😮 so Jada was talking to her kids about her ex who died! This is wrong of her, I feel for will “So my mommy and I can be happy” what???? And her dad is there 😫 😢
@@jamalhaleemtucker8425 I wonder y he didn’t leave her! And for him to be saying I wish I was like pac to her!! What??? he spent the whole time trying to please her when everybody else would give the world to have her Will!!
@@jamalhaleemtucker8425 Alot of these new age women have done this to their daughters Its not a new thing it's just not spoken much These women who think they settled for less When in fact it was the man who lowered his value That man could live a decent happy life
The narcissistic woman always compares you to someone irrelevant from her past, casually mentions the "success" of other men (which should be irrelevant), shares things that other people have supposedly said about you to plant seeds in your mind, always poses themselves as the victim even of their own decisions, attempts to grandstand and upstage you every chance they get, and gaslight about everything (professional liars).
@@Tenrou2 Absolutely!!! Now add to that this pop culture, one size fits all television therapy and "life coaching" teaching narcissists to LOVE THEMSELVES EVEN MORE????? Really? lol. Meanwhile, that kind of therapeutic affirmation tool is ONLY meant for serious victims of actual abuse over extended periods of time. Insane. Literally training modern women to become narcissistic.
@@johnreyes7835 Yes, regular women are basically trying to emulate actual narcissists and see it as empowering. I think most are a lost cause, if I'm being honest
My older sister is 72, she did not know of Chris Rock till now. I asked her, damn, how could someone take that hard of a hit, and not even tear up? Cuz that was a HARD slap. And she said, he probably went through a lot as a kid, and learned how to take it! Damn if my older sis wasn't right!
You have a wiae sister. Often, we develop defense mechanisms to protect us from our bullies in our youth , that carry on to our future. If we don't get therapy, which I recommend for all people of color , because we suffer from.ptsd. we should get the help we need, heal.and then help others heal before we destroy our lives and the lives of others around us .
@@CH4RLYG777 single mother households, our communities recovering from the crack epidemic in a time where half naked female, and gangster rapping men celebrities are idolized. The black community is severely damaged
As a white man, I listen to your stuff a lot. It’s no difference at all in how all these women act. It’s ridiculous and I feel sorry for real men trying to find a wife nowadays! You spit nothing but facts!
@@SirShiv7 True. I think the guy was just trying to say that this phenomenon likely transcends racial lines and it's probably universal - or at least in western culture. Probably it has more to do with the country you're living in and its political culture than someone's racial origin. I think I've seen this among peaple of different ethnic origin.
@@davebellamy4867 Yeah, I don't think he was consciously pulling the race card or anything. Just a shame that we feel such distinctions need to be made in the first place but I digress.
There’s a video of her laughing when will went to smack him and her laughing after Chris said Will smacked me. While Will is sitting down cursing the two of them show no eye contact is weird . She didn’t speak to him or stop him
Respectable women don’t let their men act like this they do whatever they have to not to make the man embarrass himself due to anger cuz we know men get angry
It's not even a bad joke. How can you be mad with someone saying you are potentially grooming yourself secretly to earn 300million dollars. It's like me getting mad at being likened to Super Man just because I have muscular inflammation or something.
@@tomite2001 No, it would be the same as if you were a paraplegic and someone made a joke about you being in the running for Superman. Then as you did, one could ignore the subtext making fun of your similar situation to Christopher Reeve and act like it's a compliment that you could be the next Superman. Not defending either side, just making the correct comparison for your statement.
I started following his RU-vid account a couple months ago. There's gems on there such as "I'm crying again." No woman on earth wants her man to be crying in public always emoting n shit. Jada may be the devil but this is ALL Will's fault
@@Charlie_Alpha_Lima When PEOPLE don't address their issues from childhood, EVERYONE will suffer!! I agree with Kevin, we must get PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HELP!!!
I’m still trying to figure out what happened in Will’s first marriage because it was like he made an excuse that they wasn’t compatible or something, but I noticed he’s still close with his ex wife to this day
That's why we need to speak and act in the spirit of Jeremiah, the prophet of the Lord, and speak up against evil. Not just in this case, but evil in general. To see it for what it really is and rebuke it.
I’m from Baltimore and a lot of men have lost their freedom and life behind defending a woman that was in the wrong and called a man and he is in a grave or behind bars for the rest of his life .
Chris handled the altercation with complete professionalism under live television. He wasn't in a situation where he could defend himself since he had to place the Academy's needs ahead of his own. He made light of the situation in an entertaining manner: "Greatest night in the history of television". Chris Rock proved himself to be a true professional while under significant distress. Bravo!
I actually respect Chris rock and the fact that he didn’t move off of his spot. He was caught off guard and Will had full intent to injure him. Chris took it and held back the jokes/ insults he had in his head. That’s maturity imo
Y’all calling him soft, but he was professional and didn’t react like an emotional girl. He will continue to be invited to get his bags, Will on the other hand needs to recreate his image.
It's different. Had Chris fought Will I guarantee you his public image would go down the drain as well but honestly he's a better man than me because I woulda went harder on Jada. My next comment woulda been, "I'll keep Jada's name out my mouth the second she takes other men out of hers".
I would have cried that is SO wrong! Can you imagine your own blood turned against you without them even being aware of it. Oh I swear I would have slapped the shit out of her for that I’m sorry
I just feel sorry for Will that he ruined his own big moment for someone who doesn’t appreciate his sacrifice, nor does she appreciate him. A moment he’s worked his entire career for. Running up on Chris was absolutely unnecessary and it’s probably going to have more repercussions than we know now.
Exactly! My wife and I talked about this the next morning. And she said exactly what you did. My thought was if he cared so much about protecting his wife? Then he did the wrong thing. That was the time to console her and show support. Touch her hand, lean over and kiss her on her bald head, say “I love you”. But what happened shows you the true dynamics of their relationship. Very dysfunctional, disrespectful and violent.
I wrote a college essay on how I idealized Will Smith on his positive mindset, career and happy family. The struggles I see that he's exposing is what I experienced being nice and being codependent. Luckily, Im not married with no kids. No more. Thanks for this. Today we need to vet women
Will's happy family? Yeah on the outside perhaps but the reality is that family is a train wreck, you obviously didn't pay attention as a college student to the details, open marriage, transgender kids etc a recipe for disaster.
I've dated several women who had narcissistic tendencies or Cluster B personality issues and it was heartbreaking. I had to go to therapy, work with relationship coaches, take leadership courses, get close to God, pray, journal to get my head and heart right. It's taken 10 years but I'm now seeing a feminine woman that truly cares about me and she shows me everyday. Rebecca Lynne Pope called out Jada for her evil ways. Keep preaching KS.
Me too sir.... She devastated my self esteem and brought triangulation into the mix. It was a nightmare that I saw no escape from. Thank God I found channels like this and learned the truth.
Sitting here crying.When someone speaks the truth from the heart you feel the pain if what men feel... Now when i look back at pictures of will his eyes are always so sad - troubled - yet hes always smiling putting on a 'good face' - he must be so tired.
I had an idea about Will actually trying his hardest to make Jada notice, but I had no idea it was this bad. Willows' letter, Will living in a deceased Tupac shadow still, him as a 9 year old seeing domestic abuse between his parents...it just adds up to what we commonly know. And also Chris Rock's past, being bullied and abused. It's shocking how people, especially allot of women, don't see what influence women can have on a man. That is a certain power over somebody's mind, if abused, can break a person
Boo fu++ing hoo. We ALL deal with crap, and somehow, most of us refrain from simpdom, violence, and narcissism. Make no mistake, anyone who walks that red carpet suffers from some level of narcissism. It's in their DNA. It's why they are in Hollywood in the first place.
A lot of women do realise it's damaging to others they do not care, hence they take advantage of it as there's no real consequences for that behaviour and it's hard to prove it openly. The consistent bias in divorce court actions for women settlements and instantly taking the side of women in allegations even when they caught twisting things and no harsh consequences is more proof. It is a compound result of the behaviour you mention. People tend to act right when they realise there's consequences directly on them, which is hardly the case for women. Either no consequences or hardly anything. So no reason for them to change as they benefit. However long term it backfires when children grow up realising what was told to them by mum was either lies or twisted half truths. Take away the benefits of settlements and believe women instantly, likely see a lot of misbehaving women behave and change very quickly when they know they will be eating rats and rice and worse because of their actions.
Noone could ruin Will's reputation so Jada set him up starting with red table to help him ruin himself. She never deserved him 😔Will should have stayed with his 1st wife. She truly respected him.
Jada must have asked the most powerful witches in Romania to put a spell on him because even in his acceptance speech he looked like he was in a trance..... Chris rock looks and acts normal
That’s wtf I’m saying. Everyone is so focused on Will Will Will. Yet when you watch the replay, it’s clear as day who’s spite and vindictiveness was fueling 90% of that slip. Hint: It wasn’t Will’s
I somewhat agree with you, I don’t think she purposefully trying to ruin him, it’s just how these modern women are built. Which is Basically to “Only Worry about themselves” at all cost without thought for anything or anyone else!!! That kind of Woman is a Man Killer! That’s why Men have to be Dominant Alpha Males to survive that type of Woman.
"A Narcissit can do with a glance, what a novelist can't even do with words." Damn Kevin that was good lmao , that arrow flew true and straight into my heart when you said that one.
@@VINOCHILEZI When a negative person has conditioned someone over time- to jump when they say jump, soon enough all the narcissist has to do is begin to speak, and their victim will be in mid air already. Without having to read a single command.
I've been saying this about Will and Jada for years, so I'm not at all surprised about anything that has transpired with this couple. She is toxic and has broken Will all the way down. I also find it disturbing that people gloss over the fact that she had an affair with her son's friend. Jaden brought August into their home. Can you imagine how disgusted people would be with Will if he had had an affair with one of Willow's friends that she brought into the home? It's bad enough that she had an affair and had no remorse about it, but the fact that it was with her son's friend takes it down to another low. Also, I hate that Will chose that moment to try to prove that he can be as tough as Tupac. Sad and disgraceful.
I think the majority of people glossing over are women! Men finally have a platform and voice look at how they are constantly attacked fir speaking truth. No its not all women but a critical majority.
@@jarvisaddison8560 As a woman, I find that so disappointing. During the whole entanglement thing, I was shocked that so many women actually supported and celebrated her for that.
Will Smith is a coward. He’s right. him being small and unable to do anything when he was a kid didn’t make him a coward. Him being controlled confusingly by a woman is where he’s being a coward
@@darrellphy7128 he needs understand that his wife and himself are helping to destroy his legacy. And I don’t think his wife cares too much about his legacy. It appears she wants to be the biggest star in the house at her husband’s detriment.
Kevin saved me from getting with a girl just like this. I'm pulling 130k at 33 and cannot believe I thought it was 'manly' to compromise on some of these things.
I'm telling you Tupac ghost must tired of his name ringing in thst house imagine a dead man is the problem in Will and Jada relationship is appallingly
She knew Will was going to Win that Oscar just as everyone else knew. She was trying to make the night about HER! And let him know she come first! Will fell for her manipulation. All these women in hollywood and he messing with someone who still waiting for Tupac to ask her, "How does she want it!"
Thank you godfather Kevin. I’m a young white man, but your the dad I needed growing up. Nobody invested much time in me and I had to learn lessons the hard way. This community is so welcoming. It’s my home
Wow Chris' monologue in the beginning. I felt my heart hurt even more for him. I am so proud of how he carried himself. But even more insightful is that what Will did literally could've retriggered Chris' childhood trauma. Strength is really in restraint, not in compulsion.
I thought that Will Smith embarrassed himself. He is a very highly educated man and surely should have been able to understand the context within which the joke was made. Besides which, GI Jane is a strong, beautiful woman - where's the insult in that?!!
@@PassportPowell Robin had a long history of major depression and he basically used his comedy to hide behind. He ended up minecrafting himself. Sometimes the demons inside win =(
'Fun girls' don't necessarily make good wives. In my experience, they tended to be flighty and impulsive. Good girls make good wives as they tend toward modesty, prudence, and stability. The nice girl some of us fronted on back in high school is the one you take to meet your family and friends. Too Short spit game on that topic well over 20+ years ago. I can't judge anyone, since from personal experience, I learned quickly the distinction between the two. I expressed no desire for commitment with fun girls upfront, but I would consider good girls for relationships. The distinction between types was crystal clear after a few minutes of conversation. Admittedly, I met my wife with bad intentions (she was looking fine and built) since I wasn't meeting any women I could take seriously; however, her bearing, articulate nature, and positive disposition turned my lust into intrigue. Now, we're going on 23 years of marriage.
@Big Stacks -You are 100% correct. Luckily, I had an uncle whom taught me this at a very young age. The problem is in the black community, not too many pass down this priceless advice and some are informed but choose to ignore.
@@freesparks1931 Right, my pop (RIP) taught me to be discerning when it came to women. Plus, my mom (RIP) was a modest, conservative woman so I had a template for wifely attributes. In fact, I was shocked when I saw my mom dance for the first time, doing 'The Twist' while cooking when it came on the radio (she cut quite a rug too). 😁😁😁 I think a lot of the wild stuff is learned vicariously by seeing such behavior growing up. Plus, my generation (Gen X) was less sexual than this current generation. For instance, getting a kiss was an accomplishment for us whereas getting some he*d is common now, so I hear. Back in my day, being a fun girl wasn't reinforced as much as it is now. Very few girls got pregnant in high school back then as well, so norms in that regard were a bit stricter. In essence, fun girls were easier to distinguish from more proper girls back when I was single.
Here's where the issue lies though. And this goes from men and women. People end up creating the problem they don't want. Fun Girls do not make good wives but wives pay dearly when husbands go and cheat with these fun girls. To a wife and husband who is a good man or a good woman, when they get cheated on for a thug or a fun girl, they feel they either have to become that for their partner to want them or they end up leaving or becoming bitter or destructive... Like Will. By people taking advantage of good men and women, they ended up creating a very thing that endangers good men and women.
Kevin, I was one of those men who become whipped, perpetually trying to appease a controlling woman. It’s humiliating when you pull into the garage and have to gather courage to face the hell that awaits inside your own home. My kids needed an intact father and a better example so I found my balls, held my ground, and eventually needed to divorce to protect myself because she was going to destroy me if she couldn’t dominate me. I should never have sacrificed my self respect nor adopted an appeasement strategy. Teach young men so that they don’t make my mistakes.
@@rod_da_poet Very ugly divorce. I survived it because I recognized how she operated and prepared accordingly with the best attorney in town. How well did I know her? I warned my attorney by email that she would probably flood the house to prevent it's sale (she wanted it for herself). Guess what happened 4 days later? It's the kids who suffer the most now. I got as much custody as possible for the sake of the kids.
I feel you right now I’m in the middle of a similar situation. I’ve step up for now but we have two children together. It’s sooo hard to separate and I’m stuck in this situation where I rather be single.
Jesus Christ loves you! I'm sorry to hear about what that women did to you. I found in the Bible that God lays out the Family home and how the Order is in His eyes. Traditional living is biblical living, and any man can have that, just go to the Lord for it. How? Having your own personal relationship with Him. Talk to Him in private and start to live His way and call upon Him. ❤️💯
She made a fool out of her husband in public by having these affairs and deep down she is professing her feelings for another man but as soon as Chris Rock cracked a few jokes she can't take it .
I do believe there was a buildup. Since Red Table, Will's reputation has taken a beating. He tried to 'up it' by doing the body makeover videos, acting more manly, etc. However, the world was having none of it, because they couldn't get past the 'son's friend screwing Jada' thing. I do think he snapped, and I absolutely do believe it was because Jada didn't like the joke. I agree with Kevin though, in that this was Will's fault as he was the one who chose the action. But I believe it was the culmination of many years of living with a public narcissist.
Will Smith said about Tupac: "I hated that I wasn't what he was in the world, and I suffered a raging Jealousy. I wanted Jada to look at me like that"... Why not find a woman who DOES look at you like that! To many women Will would the apple of their eye, a capable and dynamic man that's extremely attractive that makes them feel something in side. Why try to get a woman who doesn't see you like that to see you like that?
Love or infatuation or whatever Will has for Jada is not rational. It doesnt matter there are 1000s or even millions of women who can do that for Will. He wants JADA to look at him like that. Not anyone else. This can be fixed but in order to fix a problem Will has to realize that she is a problem.
I was in a relationship with a narcissistic women previously, and the similarities are uncanny. The triangulation, the manipulation of reality (gaslighting), the erosion of Will's self-worth and her refusal to take any accountability. I hope Will can find a great therapist who specialises in supporting survivors of narcissistic abuse.
Same here. Your comment is 100% on point: The similarities are uncanny. Jada Pinkett is a mentally VERY abusive woman. Will Smith is the victim in this marriage. She's playing nacissistic "mind games" day and night ... this guy is completely mentally screwed ... and him losing it at the Oscar's is the result of that.
@@itsHappening-ry2ef It depends on the company. If you are not in good company when you are alone then you have a serious psychological problem. The best company you can ever have is yourself.
I will be married to my wife for 20 years as of next month. One thing that I established with her early on was that there would be no arguments, disagreements or negative displays in public. We leave those things for private discussion. When we’re in public, we are one.
