He saying stuff that was true but men were scolded, berated, and shamed on for speaking out! It's not our fault that BW's are overweight, sh×tty attitude and a single mommas. Blane feminism not us
Notice how she got kind of excited at the point Kevin almost lost his cool...That’s truly what she wanted...She wasn’t in this to debate perspectives and theories. She wanted an emotional exchange. A lot of women frustrate men with arguing because men try to reason with a person whose goal isn’t to be reasonable, her goal is to bring a man to her level of emotionality...I believe it’s a subconscious way of emasculating and dominating a man. Always stick to the facts, no emotions.
@@NderituNduhiu Absolutely bro...Our advantage is our logical mind. Once we get into our emotions, it’s a losing game. A woman is built for emotion, her primary hormone (estrogen) is a hormone that intensifies emotions. Women are experts at emotionality, best equipped to process emotions......Though we have emotions, we are literally not built to OPERATE off emotions. That’s why emotional arguments with your girl will DRAIN YOU, but 30 minutes later she’ll be cool, like nothing ever happened. The only way to lead a woman is through LOGIC. Our minds naturally work that way. It’s our strength. Don’t play their game, make them play yours. They are supposed to follow our lead.
Black men are the ones who need to be out here getting the phD‘s .. so they can be the head of the household and the leaders of the community .. and women could take their rightful place behind their man .. instead of having to be a solo act all the time .. men need to get their shit together and stop playing the victim! 😒
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady Us men get skills and others go to college and we don't want all that debt before we start really making money. Women get into debt and want the man to pay for everything once were married men ain't working themselves to death for ungrateful women to still complain about not making enough
This video proves that arguing with a person who has renounced reason is like administering medication to the dead. Excellent content Kevin keep it coming. You say what a lot of men are afraid to say or don’t know how to say. And you do it with class and back it up with facts, numbers and statistics 📊, merged with real life experiences. The Real men out here applaud you and Thank You 🙏🏾
"You're focused on facts and I'm focused on real life conversations". U can't make this shit up folks, Kevin deserves a damn medal of honor for dealing with this shit
Josefrio .... For real. I could not deal with a woman like this. There is no doubt I would have to get away from that insufferable khunnt or seriously hurt that masculinated freakazoid
Men and women who agree with Kevin, we must come together to pray for his protection. This brother is working to restore our beautiful black families. Please do not allow him to be silenced!!!
I hope these platforms don’t attempt to silence his content for some trivial reason BUT let one of these clout chasing or well known black feminist take issue with it and watch how fast they start meddling with his channel.
It’s so sad to see his message get lost He wants to make Black men and black women better!!! I went back and did my research and I’ve learned a lot from his previous videos he posted 2-3 years ago
Great podcast Kevin. Timestamps: 18:40 - Show begins 19:45 - Talks about last nights IG Live + Fragrance of the evening 22:05 - IG Live clip: 40 yr old Black woman from Bronx, New York 29:00 - Get the likes up music 👍🏾 30:20 - IG Live in-depth analysis continues 1:05:06 - Kiss the Ring music 1:12:15 - Caller 1: 20 yr old Black woman with 57 yr single mom 1:16:15 - Caller 2: 25 yr old Black woman (engaged twice) says its hard to find a Black man ready for marriage. Kept 2 engagement rings (LOL) even though not married to either of them 1:27:30 - Caller 3: ?? yr old woman. Men can be destroyed by false accusations 1:33:50 - Caller 4: ?? yr old Muslim woman references Sharazhad Ali. Answered the podcast question 1:38:33 - Caller 5: 55 yr old Black caller grows up with mom that was emotionally/psychologically abusive(?) to men 1:49:00 - Caller 6: ?? yr old 1:50:38 - Caller 7: 39 yr old woman. Most Black women didn't grow up with 2 parents. She did (dad was military and moved around a lot) 2:02:00 - Caller 8: Advice coming from hurt women like aunts, mothers. Focus on themselves, no one else 2:10:45 - Caller 9: 26 yr old woman investigator has seen men as the victims of domestic abuse. Women don't see it [abuse to men] as a problem. 2:13:25 - Conclusion
@@marcusgarvey630 I don’t think so. She all but admitted she was there to discuss something Kevin had been said he wasn’t wanting to discuss. Since this is his show he has that right. Everyone has the right to start their own show and discuss what they want. He cut her off just in time.
You're doing gods work. To be frank I understand why a recent viral clip doubled Mr Samuels sub numbers. His presentation of these long form shows could be a lot slicker.
Lol ikr? Her disowning the *feminist* label is like one who disowns a child, you're still a *parent* whether you want to acknowledge the label or not...
Also an important point Kevin fails to bring up is that when a woman casually divorces her husband she destroys the family capital and the future accumulation of wealth which are supposed to be the children’s inheritance . As a result the next generation is poorer. Imagine giving your kids inheritance to a divorce lawyer, having to sell the family home and move into an apartment etc.
Remember: one only needs a grade of "C" to graduate and that includes medical and law school. Regurgitating info for an exam is easy. Applying what one learns to life requires actual work. 💯🔥
It's just a matter of time before the "other people" notice him and SJW him off of RU-vid for abusing "women", "Me too", and being "homophobic". (When has this society not tried to assassinate the character or life of our strong black men?) I hope we support him when he has to move to a pro 1st Amendment platform.
Shawn Oakman, projected first round pick in the NFL draft pick also a viral meme got falsely accused. After he was found innocent missed the draft along with millions, the woman faced no punishment.
They love to sabotage us. They were brought up to compete with their men. When they can't compete or the man is winning they lie to destroy their men. . My wife called police on me this week ,but I wasn't arrested. It is not worth living with them
@Morelli Khast This reminds me of “AlL LiVeS mAtTeR”. Why when people point out problems in the black community, they’re “hating” or “racist”? What’s wrong with the black community? Y’all hate taking accountability and it doesn’t matter if it’s male or female. Then y’all bash and shame each other! 🙄
@@clarkkent52 I definitely talk to other women... I encourage my friends to get married, be better women, wives, and mothers. I’m starting a Non-profit; to help our community. This rabbit hole goes deep. We have a lot of corrections; to do.
Married for 10 years with 3 kids and been divorced a year..........I would like to tell these women to stay married to your husband. There is nothing out here for you! Single men like me with NO kids don't want you out here. You are IN THE WAY!
I think you are correct. No point dating a divorcee with kids while you are a single childless man and you don't want her. I see hope a and love and fun for these single mommas though: 1. Friends with no benefits to y'all childless men (you can learn from her mistakes and get to the women mind better, they make great pen pals as well). 2. MILF kinda relationship if she free enough to have fun after her duties and he a young and stamina full man looking to learn smth. Single mommas are very attractive lots of times and done her selfeducation on the erotic part of life, while being alone. 3. Romantic relationship with another single father (travelling together etc ) keeping all kids away from this and kinda waiting until they grow up so then this part time relationship turns into a full time thing. 4. Blending family with another single father, all kids are ours. I really think the divorcee with children still have a lot on the market for her tbh.
Like the PhD in CT from a family of Nupes and is a woman of Delta Sigma Theta: most women have had ample opportunity to find a man, from undergrad all the way to their 40s, and think time is always on their side. Professional events, balls, parties, etc. Here, we have a woman who was engaged twice. TWICE. Ladies, the problem seriously is NOT that good men didn't want to marry.
This really says a lot about the value of an education these days. Lately I’ve found that the longer a person stays in school the further their feet are from the ground. It seems like these universities are really scrambling a lot of people’s brains.
You are so right woman, their minds are scrambled to the point that reasoning with them is like trying to reason with a drunkard to walk straight with soundness of mind
I don’t think it’s being educated. Just because someone has a degree doesn’t necessarily mean they have common sense and that’s the problem with some people not all people and in this case not all educated wemon , but some educated wemon.
Look up Yuri Bezmenov videos from the 1980's. He was a Russian KBG officer who defected to the USA. He describes how Marxist indoctrination was used to overthrow countries. He says that once they have been indoctrinated that even when presented with truth and facts they will still refuse to accept them.
The ironic thing about these conversations Kevin is having with all these women is that they are outing themselves! He's not putting words in their mouth. His simple questiong exposes the under belly of the DELUSIONAL STATE society has gotten and their own rhetoric and track record is proving his valid points. Good job Kevin!
Yes, and in actuality he barely needs to say a word at all. They open their mouths and a revealing flows of blame, emotion and unearned self-importance all come to the surface. They're free to act and cling on to whatever they choose, I'm free to reject that and keep it out of my life.
I literally had a relationship with a woman that told me I "argued like a lawyer". I thought that was a joke, but women that say things like this woman did are simply looking for a reason to berate someone to validate their erroneous world view. Hard to believe the delusion.
@@reesejohnson2788 These women don't care about that..if they did they would make themselves suitable wives...Alot of them say my son, daughter, grandbaby loves me so they will take care of me..That's selfish as hell...Maturity has no intrinsic value to most women who live this hope mentality..SMFH
These women anger me! I gave the ring back when I ended an engagement. He cheated on me, told me all about it, and I made him take the ring back. Diamonds aren’t cheap! I didn’t want a ring to remind me of how very much I loved him and how it all ended. I knew he was sincere in his apology, and we tried to make it work for 7 more months. He didn’t want the ring back, but I made him take it. I loved him, and I knew he could sell it and get at least some of the money back.
I can attest to this. This is exactly what happened to me. My wife at the time, of 8 years, decided that she was no longer happy and ended our marriage. Even after I suggested that we get counseling from our pastor. She did not want to work on it. 5 years after our divorce, she now admits that she had "Father issues", and didn't respect men and wasn't raised to respect men. SMH!
I have to admit! I started watching the videos cause I was shocked/intrigued in the beginning... Now probably 100 videos in I think I finally understand what you are trying to do and I respect that very much. I think your message might need longer to kick in but when it does I believe it can do a lot of good for men and women in general!
I agree. I saw the infamous viral “you’re average at best” clip. After watching it, I was curious to see the ENTIRE clip. I then decided to watch the entire show. I caught a live show, too. This has opened my eyes, and I’m now a Kevin fan.
@@Teddy-fm9nt Because there are certain things as a woman you are never told and never think of ... same as there are certain things men do not know... Some things you are never told, and then when you hear it for the first time it just sounds very rude or unfamiliar. Thr tendency for human beings is to not take in what is unfamiliar at first. I believe this is why he has to be so forcefull in his message cause otherwise the message would not get through.
She's an author so she has influence over people she has the ability to contaminate people's opinions and perceptions. The fact she hasn't been checked until now is scary. This is what we're up against.
Thank you for advocating for men Kevin. I don't think people understand how important you really are in todays western culture..you're like...a prophet without the religious component..women get treated like kids while men live in a down to earth reality
“They needed black men to be abusers like Mister, to justify them leaving.” Kevin pleaseeeeee stop because they are not ready for this message!!!! Yes, Kevin yes!!!! I am over here ecstatic watching you break this down lol and I’m a black woman.
@@henryhall2403 no we shouldn’t say “community” if in fact we are specifically speaking about the “black community”. There are times when I use both terms, so not sure what you mean by “they are not there yet”
@Morelli Khast you can do an Asian or a white show, and I wouldn’t be concerned about it. You are right about one thing - we all have “crap” that happens to us, but sometimes as a black person, there is a particular kind of crap that happens. It shouldn’t offend you that I’m specifying.
@@henryhall2403 I use the term “black community” when I am discussing issues that seem to be prevalent in said community. Such as, 80% single motherhood rate. I don’t understand what is hard about understanding the language I’m using. So, Wherever “there” is that you’re talking about, I hope I don’t get there because you seem confused.
25:15 when that lady talks about females putting up with their husbands cheating back in the day because they had no options? I know 3 females right NOW that are putting up with their husband's cheating because they are ALPHA's. In fact one dude told his wife outright, I want to sleep with this female I know from work and if you don't like it there's the door... she's still with him and they have been married for 6 years. Females will put up with cheating because they feel like their man is a catch if other females want him and as Patrice o'Neal said "females want men who are pre-selected"
My mother's parents were married for 65 years. My mom decided to be selfish and an idiot and attach herself to a drug addict. That's how I came across abuse. Other than my father, I have yet to come across women getting their ass kicked at the level these women are talking about. However, I've seen men emotionally and mentally abused by women. I actually had to stop a woman from talking crazy and trying to fight my brother once. He did nothing to her and it was totally uncalled for. She had gotten comfortable doing it and forgot who she was around. My husband divorced his ex wife for cheating and abuse (emotional and mental). These women need to take accountability and look in the mirror.
I agree, I’ve seen women who have gotten used to the fact that a man will try to walk away and not get physical that they will follow him around trying to continue to argue and then get physical with a man, and then play the victim or trash him when/if he does end up reacting. It’s a lose-lose situation, he gets called all kinds of punks if he doesn’t do anything and gets called the same if he does.
Lee Daniels put out the movie Precious. I never heard any BM view that movie as a historical truth about BW. Most BM I know refused to view the movie because of its horrible portrayal of black women and black people in general.
If you want to ruin a community, go after the women first and deceive them like Eve in the garden; men who don't stand firm with principles will shortly follow...
It's crazy that BW want recognition for allegedly making BM successful but will then shame a man for not pulling himself up by his bootstraps..... The double talk is disturbing until you understand that the BWs goal is to not be in a functional relationship with a BM, it's to cover up the lack of cooperativeness. 🤷🏾♀️
I'm trying to figure out how exactly are they "building up" and who are these men that they "built up"? Like these men in STEM fields have they paid for their room and board and college tuition? Paid for their books? These ball playing dudes, are they buying them clothes and shoes, meal plan in college, like non blank women do with their daddies credit card? These actors, are they paying for them a place to stay while they are living in their cars like Omari Hardwick, paying for their acting classes? I hope access to sex is what she means by "built up".
@Mark Harris You're right at least white men have antifeminists and female allies who are accredited. It seems like the black female professionals rather use their education against black people, especially the BM not for the good of black people.
@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 well that's all part of the mind game or what I call "the swag game". By overvaluing sx the women can use it as a m@nipulatì0n tool and also be promiscuous without being called out. It's about making masculinity dependent upon their approval instead of a man's autonomous achievements and value. That Achilles heel can be used to "make" or break a man as it's used as a tool to validate manhood. If these women instil within men value that's not under *their* control, the man has agency and will abandon them so statements like "we made/built you" are almost reverse psychologies.
@Mark Harris No black woman has sacrificed her life to change anything that black people benefit from today? Do Harriet Tubman and Rosa Parks not exist in your world?
You've turned a 90s Jerry springer type show with millions of viewers world wide into a proper session of real talk, advice and confidence building through realistic expectations. You need your own show- but I feel like you do your best work here. Keep it up Kevin. From Scotland.
The women I’ve date like to take on their homegirls problems. That has nothing to do with their actual relationship but they make problems that aren’t there or even exist to say that they can related their homegirl. A real woman would say, “girl that’s your problem but me and my dude aren’t going through all that” we are good over here. So I can’t really speak on that because I can’t relate. That’s what she is supposed to say.
Yes absolutely. Women need to learn how to say, “I’m sorry that’s happening to you, but that has nothing to do with me.” Real good friends don’t call their friends to talk about all their issues anyways. But a lot of people aren’t ready for that conversation.
True. And also the dramas they watch on tv. Thats why I stopped watching reality tv. And I definitely dont talk to girlfriends about my relationship. Many women would be happier if they stop comparing.
I must be the anomaly, because this has always been my attitude since I came up. I couldn't care less about other women's relationship issues. Even my homegirls, I kept distance from. I'll offer help and some advice if you need it, but your issues are you issues.
Good content....I seen both sides of domestic violence. Everytime I seen a female assaulted it was in the response to an attack she initiated. Me myself, I been assaulted many times...by women. Now I'm 6"4 365lbs here....I have called police before and they never came... i have called police in a separate situation to press charges on a female assailant who tried to knock my head off with a wine bottle and also sliced up my car tires, but when the police arrived she told them I choked her and I went in cuffs and was denied bail....3 months sat in jail over a lie, had 19 neighbors come to bail hearings to defend me, and the judge wouldn't even hear them in my defense. All charges were dropped (because she lied) and she got off scotch free, while I damn near lost everything in the process. This video touched me heavy....because I KNOW
@Mark Harris yep it will trickle down to the kids. How are you ✌️ educated ✌️ but your kids aren't the top students in their class. I keep telling them being able to remember information and say back what was teached to you doesn't make you intelligent
My issue with her is that she just doesn't want to admit that even as an educated woman you fell for a stereotype about your black men. Don't worry, I, as an educated woman did the same until I realized that I didn't even grow up with this stuff so how can I speak on it. She says she don't want to go based on analysis, but your whole degree is based on books and analysis. Has she challenged her professors citing her tv sources and friends? You can't even cite your friends in a social science class. You can't cite tv as your main factual source when doing a professional body of writing. She's an author ...smh. I'm disappointed as a fellow college educated woman.
I was a bit torn and angered about some of the dialog. Its weird because I agree with 90% of what Kevin says but in the video When they were debating about how black men marry at a certain rate when they reach a certin level of status. I felt like when it comes to black men marry outside his culture when he is as a value he tends to deflect and bring in stats. Now as we seen for many years that these black men that has value let's say celebrities, sport figures, and millionaires. 9 times out of time is always laid up married to white, Asian, or any women other then a black women.
@@duvell1 I think that has to do a lot with Media. Lebron is one of the greatest basketball players of today and the media for a long time didn't show his beautiful black wife. You knew her name, but she was consistently at his games and the cameras would pan past her. The worst is, she received the most backlash from the black community for looking "regular".
That woman doesn’t care about facts. She is going to continue with her man hating falsehoods because she is making money off of her lies. Gas lighting women’s insecurities about men. Especially black men. And we wonder why our communities are in the state that it’s currently in.
I have a Police report sitting in my drawer where I was convicted of "Domestic Violence" Even though in the report it says my mother and daughter by Thier own admission grabbed me. All I did was push them off me and yell obscenities @ them both and I was convicted of "Domestic Violence" and given a 5 year do not contact order and barred from ever possessing a gun. Keep in mind, by my mother and sisters own sworn police statement (which I have in writing) they grabbed me first. Explain that one to me. You wanted to hear a man's experience, so I'm telling you. I will never contact my mother or sister again.
I appreciate your work Kevin being a young black man without growing up without my father these videos help out a lot and answer a lot of questions keep it up godfather 💯
Dr. T Hassan Johnson is a great channel for black men. He is a PhD professor at Fresno State. One of his courses is Black Male Studies. He states more than half his class every semester is non black women. Guess why they are there. He states they have no hesitancy in stating they are their to learn more about black men to date them or continue a healthy relationship with the one they have now. Hmph. "Sistas" think they know us and really don't. "Sistas" need to take Dr. T Hassan Johnson course on black men because they've been goofy about us for far too long.
1:46:26 according to my now Exwife I was paying all the Bills and put it down in the bed room. Come to find out she was having an affair (at the job I pulled strings to get her) with a female that dresses like a boy. She Expressed I was getting better as I got older (36)And guess what , she said the affair was my fault. She wanted it all and couldn't tell her nothing. We have 2 boys. I was the Petitioner. She had zero accountability. Bait n switch is real. Thank you Kevin For your work
The part about BW being responsible for brothas successes had me chuckling. I've lost count of the amount of brothas that told me they didn't start moving forward in life until *AFTER* they decided to leave BW alone.
Mr. Samuels, your point about female initiated domestic violence and lack of consequences for false accusations is problem that the US Armed Forces is rampant in the ranks. Their training on either of these topics always places men as the culprits and women as the innocent victims.
It’s crazy that woman kept the rings. WHY? She wanted to keep this for memories? The life that could’ve been?? Trying to be like Tom Brady collecting rings for each finger- what?! Engagement rings are a GIFT ON CONDITION! The condition is YO ASS GOTTA GET MARRIED. Wedding’s off? Rings off! 👰🏾❌💍
He’s right it is hyperbolic. I was married to a woman that cursed scratched punched and yelled abuse. No one believed me till I recorded her and her peoples didn’t have shit to say. Never even apologized to me for things that were said. Happily Divorced!! And HV
I admit , with shame that I use to push my man verbally to his angriest point then play victim. Having such a amazing man and treating him that way haunts me and I’m thankful that he stuck around til I pulled my head out my ass. Now I worship the ground he walks on because of his patience with me and honestly he deserves more. I know this is a mans channel but I come to take notes on how to keep my man for a lifetime.
Dude drops so many gems. A lot of the things he speaks on are simply the universal dynamics between women and men behavior and I learn so much every time I listen. This man has already changed my life and my relationship! As a white guy following this channel I just want to say Thanks Kevin! All of us men need you now more than ever. These conversations are so important
No other country has women disrespecting men this much🤦🏾♀️!!! Why is she yelling????? Gentlemen, please know that not every woman including myself behaves this way. Ladies, respecting a man is like pumping oxygen into their souls.
@@maryjane7387 Obviously, you have to make sound judgement about who to respect etc. That's common sense. No one here said, "Every single man on planet earth." Also, what he's addressing is other "communities" don't dog their men out like the ones here. Even here, you don't see white, asian and latina women talking about their men in this manner. If you can't understand that, you're just here to argue or vent your frustration.
@@maryjane7387 do you beleive that women crave and affection naturally? Do you beleive that women thrive when they are loved and adored? Men thrive when they are respected. They do better with respect. They become healthier a and are likely to become wealthier when respected. Trust, a man who is respected can move mountains and easily make things happen.
I bet she was the type to mush her man in the face or threaten to.....(call the cops/child support/her a,b,c,x,y,z) if her husband said something she didn't like.
Regarding the historical memory, I think it works like this. There is a town back in the 1950s. Most people lived normal lives, no abuse. One family in town has abuse. The story is salacious and becomes widespread as a result. People look back at the time and that's what they remember; that story. Not all the cases of non-abuse. Its a flaw in human thinking.
I'm 29 male and watching this channel the last few months have shown me how bad it really is between black men and woman. Didn't realize how divided we are as a group and all it takes is simple conversation to fix this stuff. Really sad this woman looks at black men this way
It is sad but the issue goes both ways unfortunately. I see on this page and others the men bashing black women. Just this morning, I saw a post on Paris Milan where the women were bashing black men. To be honest it all sickens me.
By refusing to address the elephant in the room. This is also why Kevin’s content is so polarizing. You got the folks who’ve never been told they could ever be wrong before and the folks who’ve been waiting for someone to get to the root of the problems.
@@joimumu the level of delusion here is big, but if I see what’s going on in the US it scares me because all trends come to Europe with a 1-2 year delay. But thinking about it...nah, it’s already as bad. However, we don’t have a strong red pill or whatever you want to call it voice over here yet.
@@FreeAgent99 It's so bad in Europe now, that KS would arrested for hate speech. I keep warning black people in America to stop supporting people that don't respect free speech, but alas.
Back in the day if a husband gets upset because you’ve spent $60 on a dress and $20 on groceries and you’ve only got $100 to your name on a Tuesday? THATS NOT FINANCIAL ABUSE. Black folks didn’t have a lot of money back in the day. And yes that “over education”of BW and giving them jobs that BM should’ve normally gotten was planning!
