True. And it's not the first time I have seen people using the term in incorrect ways. Which is confusing to say at least. Because it could actually have been such! I definitely see a possibility that someone decides to also come out out of the closet, since a true near death experience is an overall life changing experience and brings someone closer to his real being in general.
@@jakeblitzcoffie4859 right cuz they totally deserve to go to hell. And you guys deserve to go to heaven so you can smother your insecure God with adoration and reassurance that he is a great god and not a vengeful one. You get to do that in heaven for eternity while some of your love once who rejected him suffer in hell for eternity. Wishing you to have such a pleasant eternal life after life if it even exist.
God bless the gay people in this world, let them be their self. Being a gay person is not a bad thing. Hugs and kisses to you all who struggle ❤🙏🙏🏻❤🙏🙏🏻❤🙏🙏🏻❤
God bless gay people indeed. But you want a bless him not to be gay because God does not like gayness. So for you to condone it and say it's okay to be gay it is not the Bible says so how you can call yourself a Christian and say that it's beyond me. I have lots of gay friends and they're really good people and I pray for them not to be gay anymore because they do and will go to hell if they don't stop being gay there's abomination to God says so in the Bible if you're a Christian you should know that I just think you're a snowflake leftist and probably get yourself. Why didn't you guys come to church have no problem with that as long as they're coming to church to seek the Lord and to be reborn again which means getting away from all the evil things which gayness is one of them. And again I won't judge them or hurt them or not like them cuz they're gay I have lots of friends as I said that are gay enter some of the nicest people in the world except for one of them he's my friend but kind of an ass. But I still pray for all gay people to be straight especially ones that are good people I hate to see them go to hell over their sexual preference. But no real Christian should say let the gay people be gay I tell my gay friends don't be gay LOL I don't say it that way but I do tell them about the Lord and tell them maybe they should pray about it and it's okay to love Jesus while you're gay if you love him enough and you really want to turn away from your sins ask him to help you stop being gay gay is not only abomination to God but also a sodomy is abomination to God whether it's a man or a woman together it's still an abomination. So to be a Christian and go around and teach people that being gay is okay and that you would be accepted in heaven and God loves you just the way you are is very untrue and you're doing damage to them and the world and to the Lord above by condoning it. I love you as well I pray for you that you see the light yourself. Because I think you have a real problem on the perspective of the Bible and religion. As I said gay people can come to church but not come to church as gay couples there's gay people they need to come to church to ask God to help them stop being gay such as I go to church to ask God to help me stop doing drugs to help me be a better person to help me forgive people bring yourself to the Lord the way you are and ask him to help change you don't bring yourself to Laura and say I'm good like this and I can make it to heaven like this because you can't. I love all people because I have to I don't like having to love all people I don't like having to forgive all people but yet I do so because that's what the Lord wants me to do. So if I was gay I would have to ask the Lord to help change that too even if I liked being gay. I used to like having a sodomy sex with a woman but I don't do that no more because it's an abomination. every day I try to make myself cleaner and cleaner and better and better for the Lord Jesus Christ. And one of the things God hates the most is for you to mislead people away from his flock by telling people it's okay to be gay is leading them astray and when you lead someone to stray you are responsible for them. I may not say nothing I would be responsible for not telling you the truth and letting you believe that and letting you teach other people that. I love you with all my heart my fellow Christian and I will pray for you that you have a different perspective on these things if you think I am wrong pick up the Bible and start with the ten commandments you will find things right there that are wrong about your way of thinking thank you I love you and God bless you and I will pray for you. I know you would be very rude and nasty back to me which shows that you're not a real Christian. Or you would think about it ask God about it and you will give me a thank you letter and return. I have nothing against this guy. But unfortunately he will not go to heaven if he's gay and I would like to see all people go to heaven God needs every soldier he can get right now and so is the devil and right now the devil is using you as his soldier by saying love the gay people it's all right to be gay it's not all right you can love them but you can't tell him it's all right cuz it's not again thank you love you pray for you God bless you I hope you see the light in the errors of your waist I am not perfect neither I am a Christian who is still on one drug was on many I am down to one and battling it as we speak. I am not perfect no one is no one ever will be. Hopefully you will be nice Christian and pray for me to get off the last drug that I am on. It is a drug that was subscribed to me it's Xanax because I lost my son but it's been 4 years now and I think it's time for me to stop taking them at least God thinks it's time for me to stop taking them yes they were needed but I think it's time for me to stop now and I am trying cuz I love the Lord and I wish to please him as much as I can and be a better Christian day by day I pray the same for you amen
It's an installed desire. It is not really part of us. I remember when they installed them during practice sessions prior to arriving here. We have characteristics but the "attraction" desires are all of them temporary. GOD Is The Best Guide. GOD will give you everything and GOD will show you things about you which you don't realize. Material desires, all desires of this world require help from GOD to understand and act upon correctly - at least for one or two of them and sometimes more, for each person.
YOU MIGHT AS WELL COME OUT BECAUSE MOST OF THE TIME OTHERS ARE JUST WAITING FOR YOU TO BE THE ONE WHO BRINGS IT UP AND THEY ALREADY KNEW THE WHOLE TIME.
I think what is powerful is the message that a crisis creates a precedent that can no longer be ignored. His near-death experience removed any uncertainty and became an imperative - to come out and be authentic, not only to himself but to his parents. A moving and memorable story.
You are so well spoken and articulate very well. You have a warm heart and the strength of a Lion, I thought you were going to speak about going to the other side and being told that all these politics don't matter. I know that Love is the only thing that matters on the other side and that you are to remain genuine and kind in life for your best review when you do pass. Blessings
Why watch youtubes of guys talking about homosexuality, if you think it's so sinful, evil and all the rest of the things said here? I don't get it at all!
Talking about near death experiences I would say just be yourself whatever you are as once you turn to the spirit world you're neither male or female you're just pure Spirit
Do you really think it is so easy for us to come out to people and say hey I'm transgender know it's fucking not it's the hardest thing you could ever do in your life
People who are trolling hate themselves so they hate others who are genuine and real. They are watching videos like this to see what its like to be authentic then they dislike it because they dont have the balls or the cooch to live free its a sad life for the trolls.
I am repulsed by the number of people who came here to merely say "this is not a near-death experience." The man nearly died. He has an important story. This is not the place for you to be obnoxious about the technical definition of "near-death experience." There is no place for you to do that.
The point is that a NDE refers to something like an out-of-body experience and a temporary look into afterlife, before waking up into your body again. I understand your point too, it's definitely an important story and I appreciate it. But the video title just causes some actual confusion, and that's what people respond to, including me. But it was probably not intentional though, this YT channel is great. 💜
Christhian, thank you for this powerful witness to goodness of self-authenticity. You are the best, your life is pleasing to the Divinity and you are most happy for being who you are..........thank you, bro............Ray
I am with you as i came out to my parents when i was 20 and i was fully accepted and loved and then at 22 lost my parents in an auto accident just 7 days before christmas and although it was tragic at the time, i was and still an so pleased i was accepted and loved by them as their gay son
What a very unique and beautiful story. I loved the way he portrayed his father's reaction to him coming out. If only more parents could be as loving and accepting as his parents were to him, the world would be a little brighter. Once again, what a beautiful story.
Peter Turner Its Gods way not Peter's way. God Loves all but ur either with him or against him. His word says any man that lays with another man the way he lays with a wife is an Abomination. That is his word.
He did not have an NDE. His spirit didn't leave his body. He didn't experience the things that a true NDE'r experiences. He just felt that since he could have died, he hadn't come out to his parents.
You seem very nice and genuine, and deserve great praise for what you did. My experience was the opposite. I knew I couldn't cope with my mother knowing I was gay. So as long as she was alive, I told no one. She died when I was 32, and I felt nothing but relief. Two years later, I met someone online, and told him that I was gay. I had never told a soul. No one knew. A year after that, when I was 35, I plucked up the courage to tell my father. His reaction was, "Thank God your mother's dead, and doesn't have to hear this." And I think he was right. That was 20 years ago, and I am still relieved that I never had to tell my mother. I have never told any other family members, but there aren't many of them and I'm not close to them, so it's much the easiest thing just to say nothing.
Good advice, Richard. The person thinking of coming out to their parents needs to ask themselves two questions. 1. How do my parents react to other gay people? Are they relaxed about them, or hostile? 2. What power do my parents have over me? In particular, am I dependent on them for money? If you are, and they are hostile to gays, it might be better to wait. I knew one married couple who were very pro-gay and had lots of gay friends. But when their daughter came out to them as a lesbian they went to pieces. They did come round in the end, but even people who regard themselves as being pro-gay can turn out to be less enthusiastic when they discover that their own child is gay.
Mary K Baxter DIVINE REVELATION OF HELL testimony on youtube will convince all gays that GOD DOES NOT CONDONE NOR WELCOME INTO HIS HOLYMOUNTAIN such lifestyles...Don't believe a lie and damn youreternalsoul. Please dare to listen to Mary K Baxter s testimony. She is telling the truth about such lifestyle that she actually saw in torment
God would never hate you for who you share love with. A Reasonable god wouldn’t want to force you to live a way that makes you unhappy…..Even in ancient religions long before Christianity it was believed the soul laid in the heart. Those with good hearts go to heaven those with bad hearts go to hell. If god cared so much about all these rules it would make no sense to give us this freedom in the first place
Who gave you the keys to the Kingdom? Who are you to judge who is acceptable to enter heaven? I believe you will have a harder time than this truthful man! Small minded people are sooooo sad!
No Marilene, God will judge us (regarding our salvation) based on whether we trusted and loved His Son Jesus. Our works don't save us, only our faith in Jesus Christ. (Romans 10:9) (Ephesians 2:8-9) (Galatians 2:16) (John 3:16-18)
If you were 'really' dying or close to death, I would think 'coming out' would be of no consequence. You would not be thinking, I forgot to come out. Seems irrational and nonsensical to me.
God Bless you man. You have a long life ahead of you. Stay strong and always believe in yourself. Don't EVER let OTHERS tell you that you are a sinner , or that something is wrong with you. God made you and loves you. HE DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES ! 👍💙🇺🇸🙏
@@adrianaf3793 oh my dear, you are not going to hell, heaven and hell are not what we think. You are LOVED by God more than you could ever imagine. Talk to God. God will answer you in ways you can understand.
@@adrianaf3793 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” Samuel 16:7 My son is gay and I always remind him of this verse.
I challenge you to listen to Mary K Baxter s testimony of Divine Revelation of Hell on RU-vid where she was shown by GOD the torment of those who rather not listen but damned their own soul by believing a lie. Otherwise read Leviticus... If it was wrong in biblical times, it is wrong in 2023 cause Jesus Christ is the same yesterday today and forever
You do not need to ask for anyone's acceptance! Like why would you? They either like me or they don't! Nothing you can do about it one way or the other! So unless they are paying my bills or sleeping in my bed--- what's the point to saying anything??? It is no one's business but my own! I don't need to tell everyone, everything!!! I'm an adult!!! (Thank goodness!) And I look only for or need my own approval/approbation!
Leviticus in Holy Bible proves you cannot have such a lifestyle and believe GOD will welcome you into His holy Heaven. It is an abomination to have such a lifestyle.
Unfortunately this poor guys story is being trolled by shallow gays about his looks religious wingnuts and over sensitive people about the title. No one seems interested in his actual story.
We are all creations of God, homosexuality is therefore in fact also a creation of God to. It's one of the quality's given in life. If you don'' t like this, then try to deal with it! If you cannot, you're a little sad actually.
Kathie ellis Sorry to say, but what do you know about God's standards and rules. Did he tell you he doesn't like gay people? Never heard him say that. I think he loves them just as much as you.
I'm attracted to women too, it's just I found guys taste better. Really, women are fine for breeding purposes, for pleasure, give me a clean young man-- any day!
Your an amazing guy I am gay also and NEVER let anyone tell you God hates gays God made us gays for a reason so don't worry! I loved this video and I wish you the very best! Who ever ends up with you is a lucky guy because your a GEM!!!!!!!
Not technically a "near death experience." You have to actually clinically die, and cross over to the other side for it to be considered an NDE. Still a heartwarming story though
@@theyetti90 you people are missing the whole point: he accepted being gay. He realized he could die at any time ,because really nobody knows weather this day could be their last. and then without telling his parents they would never know who he really was. sometimes you get a moment of clarity, and realize if you want to say something to somebody, you need to say it now because there might not be a tomorrow.
@@frankpaya690 😆 no you're missing the point. The type of "near death experiences" we're looking for are where people actually die, and them come back to life. Go away now. Edit: a soul is not a sexual orientation, so it's not "who he is". That's like saying I almost died without my parents finding out I love pineapple. 😄
Pensé que este video trataba de una persona gay que habia "muerto" clinicamente y que habia pasado por un tunel hasta llegar al otro lado. Mi curiosidad era saber si iba a ser enjuiciado por haber sido gay, ya que los religiosos siempre dicen que los homosexuales van para el infierno. Pero, bueno, esta experiencia no pasó de ser un simple susto que por poco le cuesta la vida.
That’s not a near-death experience. He could’ve died but did not. A near-death experience (NDE) is when people’s energy or soul leaves their bodies, but then they return to their bodies.
You’re in Puerto Rico at the catacombs? Why did the ground disintegrate, why concrete everywhere? What’s there an earthquake,a terrorist attack? Why wasn’t this explained?
David Norwood how well do you know god? Does he speak to you? Because that’s the only way you can be sure that that’s what he wants. I mean you can say you get it from understanding the bible but humans picked out what books to place in the New Testament. So human error could have forgotten the most important book that actually held what god wanted to say. So the only way for you to get a unbiased message from god that is not effected by human error would be for it to be a direct message. How close to god were you to hear this message?
A near death experience is actually dying & seeing your body while your soul departs elsewhere- towards heaven or hell. I seriously doubt he would be trying to come out as gay if he seen what others who have had real near death experiences- he too would probably repent & believe the Gospel ( John 3:16) had he gone far enough. I’m glad he made it through & survived.
I want to tell my mom and dad that I'm trans but I don't know how to tell them. Because my mom asked if I wanted to be a boy and all i could think of in that moment is no I don't but really I do want to be a boy but when she asked me that I stared to fill sick. So I said no. And the reason why is she said "do you want to be a fucking boy" and i got really scared. But I have told some of my friends and they are good with it. And I'm trying to tell my brother but he is 16 And I live two states away from him so it's hard and I hope that someone can help me come out to my mom and dad
Honestly I don’t think any Christian religion gets deities or afterlife exactly right. I’m part of a Catholic family and recently it gave me a horrible anxiety (along with my toxic and emotionally abusive parents), I now see therapy for it. I believe there’s something but not anything Christianity describes (even ideas of other cultures sound better)
They were having a dry hump orgy. The earth moved, they all fell into a hole and had an existential crisis. Then told the truth of himself to those he believed need to know.
This is a horrific experience. But, it is not a post vital sign trip to the other side. Thus, not an NDE where he meets God. They should use the term "almost dies" to be more accurate.
There's nothing about any NDE that stipulates that you have to meet God. Otherwise everybody would be bitching about whether he'd actually met God or not...
Why should anybody care if someone is gay anymore than why should anybody care if somebody has black or white hair! We are supposed to love each other, I don’t see in the Bible where it is written that certain people are not to be loved! Jesus taught just the opposite “ love your enemies “ Mmmm something to think about!!!
How do you know? If a gay person, muslim, jew, or anyone who isn’t a Christian had an NDE then you wouldn’t believe it, but if a Christian had a NDE then you would automatically believe it.
Sourdough Girl #Sourdoughgirl You obviously didnt watch the video or didnt understand what you watched. He was in an earthquake, he thought he was going to die (near death experience) he decided he had to come out to his family before he died. He came out to his family. He lived. What part of that did you not comprehend?
robyn alofivae - I think you are confusing this with an "After-Death" experience, LOL! That’s the kind where a person dies, sees the light, but is revived. "Near" death can be a number of things, a near fatal illness, a serious crash, being held hostage at gunpoint for a few hours, whatever. And yes, I can personally attest that these experiences (two anyway) can be life changing events. Deif could have been a bit more polite, sorry. But I’m on Deif’s side. 😎 (Ducking)
for those looking for traditional NDE videos, this is not one of them..he had an on the job accident and got scared and decided he should come 'out of the closet' to his immediate family.. just saving some people time, as others have done for me.
That is not a near death experience by the standard definition. Generally it is someone who has non pulse or heart beat for a matter of minutes. A death scare or a traumatic earthquake experience would be a more appropriate title for This type of experience
He wouldn't have to tell me that he's gay, what with that San Francisco accent of his. People with short left index fingers date women, and people with short right index fingers date men, just look at the backs of your hands.
Oh it's not a paranormal near death experience well way to find something ridiculous to nitpick. Words can have different meanings based on context and not everyone is in your niche online community so not everyone uses the word that way! It's not that this isn't an NDE, it's that THAT'S NOT HOW LANGUAGE WORKS!
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This is not an nde. Wrong to have put nde in title. Big thumbs down for bait title. Glad he survived and had a wonderful reaction from his parents, though.