Father Would Rather His Son “Be a Murderer in Jail” Than Be Gay. 

you tube 425 you are in this world because of your mom… be thankful of it. you are big because of your mom… if your mom were a monster you would have died before you were born. be thankful for all she has given to you… feeding you when you were a baby, giving you clothes… be thankful for it otherwise oneday you will feel the pain of your mom

Please my friend. Forgiving is more powerful than hatred. By forgive your mother you surely has the biggest love and heart inside of you. It is hard but I know you can do that. Because if you don't forgive what's the difference between you and the hatred?

... yeah, no. Your mother was a terrible person and failed at her job when she wished death on her own child. She didn't do anything great by taking the bare minimum amount of responsibility for her own kid. You don't owe her shit, least of all thanks.

you tube 425 my Son is gay and I love him and support him totally. I’m sorry that you had to go threw that.

yeah fuck her. People treat us like shit

I have no kids, but I wish that I did.. If any came out as gay I would be as supportive as possible.. I just don't understand how some people can be so misunderstanding...

e2sguy what is wrong with you

@@e2sguy the fuck?

@@e2sguy What in God's name is wrong with you, man? WAKE UP! THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY!

e2sguy WOAH WOAH WOAH just bc ppl are gay or lesbian or bi or pan or trans doesn’t mean they deserve to be seen as different and evil!

THIS ^^^^

Exactly!

@@toastandbutter7367 👌

Yeah when I came out to my dad the worst he did was say that it was a Choice and compared it to his job. I cant imagine what other parents do to there children when they come out ;-;

So you want the whole Middle East and Africa to stop reproducing? Lol

*REALLY?! You realize that words like yours are WHY GLBT's are taking their own lives. You really have no feelings whatsoever.*

John Lee *LGBTQ

mystuff thats a good parent

e2sguy How is being gay make you a pervert? They just happen to like the same sex. Other than that their’s no difference.

@@e2sguy poor homophobic people, having to go to hell for hating on others, which said in the Bible not to do... Yet we CANNOT control sexuality, so god wouldn't make us go to hell for being something we can't control, yet you CAN control hate! You go to hell "love your neighbor" as said in the Bible...

That's nothing. In Portugal, some parents would like their kids be prostitutes or drug addicts than being attracted at the same sex.

unfortunately its not new

@Gore4ever FulciLives maybe someone with that mind set should. (No offense but yes offence)

@Gore4ever FulciLives idk man why you gotta be like that it would be you child's issue not yours. Everyone lives a hard enough life without people like you, and if you didn't want the discussion to happen you should have thought about the consequences of your actions. In no way am I trying to rude btw but I just find your conservative 1900's outlook very questionable i personally don't understand why people have to act like this. I mean if you think about it if everyone love and accepted each other like we are suppose to then, everyone could live happier. Instead of flaunting your hatred as this way.

@Gore4ever FulciLives thats pretty f'ed up for hating people who love others. So basically you hate people for loving. Great so nice of you.

InaudibleBoom shame on you bitch

InaudibleBoom I clearly said harming someone for their *SEXUALITY* I didn't say harming *EVERYONE* don't twist my words, wtf is even an unhealthy sexuality? Are you just making up words? How does being gay make someone unhealthy?

are you 12? honestly. you're trying to equate rapists with homosexuals? that's like opponents of gay marriage equating it with marrying an animal. there is no rational logic in your argument. what is harmful is your attitude and lack of awareness of what it means to be human and come from a place of love versus a place of hate. you're Christian, aren't you?

you are a severely wounded human being. I feel sad for you almost. you're going to have an extremely fucked up miserable life and people are just going to hate you. sad.

This father isn't nothing, that would imply that it's the same as not having a father, having that guy for a father would be much worse than having no father at all. That guy isn't nothing, he's worse.

sexual orientation doesn't exist. if it was possible for people to be born gay, then people would have been gay from the start of humanity's existence. considering how much easier it would be to find a male partner as opposed to a female partner in caveman times, logically all, or most cavemen would have been gay and at no point in time would it have been looked down upon. your sexuality is entirely up to the human brain, and is also usually due to wanting attention from others or the inability to find a sufficient partner of the opposite gender (which, as I said before, is usually more difficult) Other than that I agree, even if I didn't agree with my son being gay I wouldn't straight up disown him - i would at least try to talk him out of it calmly, as any parent should

the tracer yes but still. You need to try to accept him. Don't talk him out of it. It's who he is...

Sorry, what? It's highly likely that people *have* been gay from the start of humanity's existence. In fact, homosexuality is something that has been found and depicted throughout history for roughly as long as humanity has known how to record and document, but the start of humanity's existence is not documented, making your claim nothing but one big unfounded assumption. Then you go into this argument about how most cavemen would be gay, as a male partner would be easier to find than a female partner, but you ridiculously fail to understand what sexuality is or how it works. We don't know much about sexuality, but from what we do know, the general consensus is that your sexuality is not able to be influenced by any sort of factor or variable, and anything of the sort has never been observed. Your argument that your sexuality is dependent on wanting attention or inability to find a sufficient partner of the opposite gender is not only nonscientific and not supported with any sort of verifiable evidence or a reputable source known to man, but is ridiculously easy to disprove with the experience of any average gay person or middle-aged virgin. How do you explain incels, by the way?

I also meant to say that it's good you wouldn't disown your child for their sexuality. I may not agree with anything you said, but as long as you care for and support your child, what I think doesn't really matter.

Aunt Jemima at least we agree on that. But honestly if it was completely natural for some people to be gay, it would have been accepted a long time ago surely. The idea that 1/3rd of all men are gay but are just too worried to reveal it doesn't make any sense to me. Surely in modern western society, where gays are widely accepted, everyone who believes they are gay should probably have come out by now. Even if scientific studies show that being gay is natural for 1/3rd of men, it's more than likely a condition/psychological issue. I will get a lot of hate about that but literally - people in my country used to provide therapy for people who thought they were gay, and they were banned. Why? Couldn't tell you. Probably SJWs who just get offended by everything if I'm being honest. I'm still convinced most people do for attention. To stand out from the rest, while still following trends. And while that may not be scientifically proven, I have seen what the media has more recently started to promote and it follows logic that people will want mass attention by making themselves part of it. One example is a parent literally putting his 3 year old son in a dress and calling him transgender. Why? So that THEY can benefit from it. They have taken advantage of their son's oblivious mind not knowing what transgenderism even is.

yayayayayayayayism he said Jeff is his ex lolll

@yayayayayayayayism it's his ex 😂🤦

@yayayayayayayayism hhahhaha

@yayayayayayayayism he was his ex and then they dated again

Kielsul Summers damn you. Are. Fine

My father was even worse then this. when I tryed to come out to my mother. I asked her what she thought of bisexuals. Gays@Lesbiens she could expect . She shrank back in pain@shock,sickness from me. She told me that bisexuals are all perverted the verry worst of the worst. She died in 2017,Gus's what I'm a bisexual! What she said scared me for life.

his father is a role model

@@hmmm3210 his father in name only is a poor excuse for a human being.

@@hmmm3210 Filthy homophobes.

Why? He's an embarassment

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😂 lol

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chauncy primm id kick him in the nuts

InaudibleBoom you can’t choose to be gay and no one is perfect. Everyone sins

InaudibleBoom I’ve never met anyone in my life who would accept an offer from anyone to just suck their dick. The could have an STD or they could just be a rapist. Straight women aren’t like that either

InaudibleBoom everyone wether their heterosexual or homosexual has the choice to say no

InaudibleBoom wait what are you talking about. I said that no one is perfect, because you said he should be disappointed that he sinned

John Doe are you for fucking real?? Both of these stories are inspirational. Get the fuck off this video you homophobic piece of trash.

Kizza Koo its okay leave John Doe alone...hes watching this video because hes gay too but hes afraid to tell anyone

John Doe SHUT UP BEFORE I BEAT YOUR HOMOPHOBIC ASS!

'thats why everyone hates you you want love and respect.' *Mr. Doe...HOW CAN YOU SHOW LOVE AND RESPECT TO SOMEONE WHO'S ANTI-GAY...SUCH AS YOU?!*

InaudibleBoom you obviously didn’t read what H P had to say. They clearly said that not every gay person was molested (in this dudes case unfortunately he was) but it doesn’t change the fact that their are thousands of gay people that have never been molested

You're both wrong. The dad was upset that his son is now homosexual and has more hurdles to go through life and that was his way of dealing with the pain. The dad was never really homophobic but just scared and confused.

You are wrong, Charlie Chang. When a parent is scared of the harm that will be done to his gay kid by society, their first instinct is to protect that child, not be the first person to actually inflict that same harm they're worried about. A good parent who is worried about their child will protect them, not disown them. In this case, the father was only worried about his own reputation. And his gay son tarnishing that.

His son has always been gay. He didn't "become" gay. But I get your point.

This is precisely the reason why it absolutely makes sense to disown your child.

Fuck you! Dumb bitch-ass who is going to hell!

@@e2sguy why would you want to fuck a a womans pee lined hole when you can not get what your personally attracted to

Please stop t series Umm not a lot of people actually do that, mostly just joke about it.

@calo10able wow ha ha lol !

@@e2sguy Why do some folks go to sex when talking about homosexuality? Not every gay person is sex addicts nor care for sex at all.

U will be a great mom👏👏👏

Shut

Sadly this was not uncommon-!

Your profile picture is wonderful

Capronice he is probably gay too.

Most people who hate gays are normally scared to came out, they hate that their gay.

Capronice it makes me feel better too XD

Hahaha sam

e2sguy you don’t know what your brain was designed for

Jim Feig it is a shameful act to sodomize a man so yeah it ought to be

e2sguy do I smell a homophobe?

FreezingGamer that smell is probably a result of playing in your boy friends poop

@@e2sguy fuxk you

@@e2sguy we dont play in shit

unfortunately, I've not had the opportunity to watch it😑. But now it's definitely on my list of must watch films.

That was definitely my first gay movie 😍

MOTat18 id go on a different planet. heck on the regular i travel different dimensions to be away from ppl.

MOTat18 , I agree wholeheartedly! Toxic people.....family or no family.....needn’t be paid any more attention!

MOTat18 did you really hate your parents

@@hassanabdulkadir1961 if they are an abuser like the father of the person in the video, yes they deserve to be hated

Tell that to little Jimmy who thinks he’s king of the world for feeding two cows wheat in minecraft

@@thewallthatsuffocatedjoerg6307 lmao

Just because you're born doesn't mean you're know how to be a proper child..Time to put an end to that thing..

Everyone deserves a second chance When I came out to my mother she was petrified, calling me the worst things and not talking to me for weeks. She was a devout Muslim, I could not blame her, people are conditioned to feel that people unlike them are the worst and should die. My mother always loved me and after that she did not know what to do and broke down, it was me who went downstairs after weeks to comfort her during my coming out It takes a while for people to acknowledge that such a thing does not define who someone is and you should respect the people who are willing to show regret and come to terms with that. My mother had a worse time than I did, she shows remorse and treats me like her son now When listening to what she had to say, it became clear to me that accepting this is harder than you might think and it isn't as simple as we would want it to be So is life There are people in my family who will never accept me, they will realize as a gay person and forget who I am entirely not my problem, I stay the same and remove the hateful people in my life It is their grief, because I can make some good ass fucking baklava and they're not getting it anymore

No, this story? Why does it take people time to realize that gay people are people and you don't hurt them. And why do we automatically have to forgive them for their prejudices? Spoiler alert: We Don't It is no different than racism, misogyny, antisemitism, etc. Someone was brainwashed (AKA psychologically conditioned) at childhood to believe hurtful, prejudices. It doesn't take a psych student (which I am) to recognize this.

Some people feel terrible that they will never have a grand daughter or grandson. I feel like it would be common sense but you do you bud. I personally wouldn’t talk to my son. 🤷‍♂️

Trashy_Transbøi that’s because God says it in the Bible . She’s right it’s the same sicko acts

@@e2sguy where?

@@e2sguy I dont remember reading that in my bible.

Kossolax the Foresworn that’s because you never read a bible !

Darrian Campbell romans Leviticus Corinthians Jude genesis timothy

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Adrian Ghandtchi seems like the father already disowned him

@@monopolymoney4066 lol

Disagree with hate and think you are wrong! The man loved his son but back in the day being gay meant one was devil almost! This man obviously learned to hate! Hate is an evil and sinister thing! This beautiful young man showed his father love and forgiveness which means this young man is amazing and powerful!

Terry P Well parents are people and people are fucked up, parents rape and mentally and physically abuse their children some daily. That’s just the world we live in, we’ll never have eternal peace. Not saying it’s right but..

matthew baca Sure... of course you would have.

Prison ain’t it. His Dad needs therapy.

Sometimes, you don't need to be vengeful. Showing a better person than the other is what makes you great.

Many people are so quick to accuse those who aren't comfortable with homosexuals of actually being closeted themselves. That may be the case with a few but in general I don't think such a simplistic explanation is the correct one. It almost sounds more like the kind of childish insult someone might fling while in a heated argument about it, more so than a real attempt at explaining what may be going on, and the root of attitudes like these.

Yes!!!

@@addylupe5997 thank you

@@addylupe5997 I bet my left testicle that there's WAY more homophobes who are secretly NOT straight that aren't. It makes sense. Common sense. I don't need studies to tell me this. I have experience.

@@addylupe5997 Oh...and also how'd you get the info that "in general" this isn't the case? Are you even gay? Bi? Any other? If you're not, then you don't know what you're talking about and if you are then you've had no experiences whatsoever to make that claim.

Hawk eye go see your dad and apologize for being a sicko

@@e2sguy You need to go see the front of a bus. While its traveling down the highway at 60 mph.

@@e2sguy Fuck off demon. I've been reading your responses to other people on here. You shouldn't be tolerant of evil people. Demons like you are never tolerant so you dont deserve tolerance in return.

@@e2sguy Funny how you want tolerance when everything you do is spreading hate against homosexuals. Love the logic. Go back to your bible and learn spreading love and not hate 💁‍♀️

Stuart Ashbourne-Martin did you really hate your father

@@nuuraabdulkadir7555 in one word yes

Stuart Ashbourne-Martin I’m sorry

If a parent kicks a minor out of their home, they can end up in jail. That is a crime in many countries. So another advice could be search a lawyer.

@@dubon9999 but at least they can put them up for adoption

KG, good advice. I started coming out to people in order from the least to the most important. The first people I told were my colleagues at a part time job that I could quit any second if things went sour. I wanted to test it out and they were very supportive. Then I came out to some friends, then siblings and finally parents last. It was a good strategy to take baby steps. It also helped to build my confidence about people's reactions.

Same 😭💖

The San that lights up my life did you really hate your mother and your father

After all the terrible abuse.....the filthy name-calling, the phone calls to all of my friends' parents, telling them to keep their kids away from me because I was "queer", all the friends I lost, the sheer embarrassment and shame that I experienced at the hands of BOTH of my parents for being gay, ot was more than I could bear, so I stopped talking to them back in 2007. Cut to last year, when my youngest brother comes to visit me out of the clear blue, and he tells me that our dad has come out to our mother, first as bisexual, then eventually, 100% gay. I wanted to laugh, I wanted to say, "Good....they both deserve each other," but I couldn't do that. They have still never apologized to me, but that's ok, I'm finally over all of it, and I'm happy to be living my life without them in it. Sometimes, the hurtful things damage us so deeply that we just decide to cut our losses and stay away and move on with our lives; it's the only way I can finally get peace in my life. "Perceive it, then say goodbye to it; don't hold on to any one moment, you've got to love it and then release it." "Perceive It," written and performed by Melanie Safka.

pwrhouse81 did you still love your mother

pwrhouse81 did you really hate your mother so much

pwrhouse81 did you really hate your mother so much

pwrhouse81 did you really hate your mother

Yes gives hope that there are still good parents out there

Sushi Dog o hope a lot of other people are accepting if it too for you

Bad parents

Deep down your parents are sad and now they're caring a burden to accept you being gay

@@Glock18401 More likely they are decent people and feel just fine with their son being gay.

@InaudibleBoom why?

InaudibleBoom Dishonor?What are we in,the medical times?

Our community must be united against hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

Lol

Taco Lps did your friends have grandparents

Bruh how lol

Thats kinda gay

IKR

Ew his body yeah 😍 Not his face

Nope

I'm not straight, but man his eyebrows are fine

hey if you ever need to talk about the trauma I can recommend this great hotline that I also use because I was abused and homeless too (541) - 754 - 0110

SunFire Samurai did you really hate your mother

SunFire Samurai did you really hate your mother

I concur 😍

Jesus Christ but Jesus your hair is gorgeous

Please stop t series Why thank you 😏

thats deep