Neurotypicals Don't Understand How Annoying They Are 

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The real issue is that neurotypical people expect neurodivergent people to conform and expect us to be able to do things that we can’t. That’s what’s truly annoying.

Hard disagree on the phone calls. Don’t call me unexpectedly ever, I will never answer

Neurotypicals are the real npcs

I prefer people who don't shout

When i think of neurotypical people, I think of the apocalypse already existing on earth

neurotypical people can be really annoying when it comes to things that are different too (hint hint), it's strange how when one small little thing is not like the others they tend to freak out or become disturbed in some way that i'm almost convinced they're just this big hivemind looking for a future where everything is normal and samey and it's a complete and utter dystopia... or maybe that's my sometimes overactive imagination.

This video should be retitled "An Annoying Video About Things that I Personally Find Annoying".

Because you don't ghost them soon enough

I'm not only ADHD, but also autistic. And I related so much to this video.

Well, if you're all gonna be annoyed with me anyway, I might as well give you a reason.

No, we're not annoying. You just wish you were one of us, and you know it.

I agreed with everything except your stance on self diagnosis. It is incredibly difficult to gain a diagnosis. It is an expensive and time consuming process that not everyone has access to.

The "unable to get to the point" person that I am feels offended

My autistic self is about to send this to my autistic gf so we can both laugh at how accurate this is

my neurotypical relative can't get why i can't learn a foreign language my final grade in spanish was d- she says spanish is 'easy' then she sounds like talkin' barbie ' math is hard' when i get an a in calculus no pleasing these people my learning is visual adhd

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I prefer to receive texts over phone calls. The phone calls are way too loud on my ear. And I have to disagree with you on self-diagnosis. It's litterally impossible and way too expensive to get an official diagnosis in my country. Vietnam's psychology support for autism is rather limited to severe cases. For high-functioning ones, there are just no diagnosis or help available.😢

Autistic girl here. Have to disagree on the diagnosis part. Many people are not actually able to get access to services that can diagnose them. Saying somebody can't be something if they're not diagnosed is quite a harmful viewpoint towards neurodivergent people.

To add to this: Stop contradicting yourself Say what you mean Dont try subtlety Dont be arrogant, you dont know everything. Dont ignore us when we try to talk or suggest something USE YOUR BRAINS! If its not logical.. dont do it! Even if its the standard or custom or everyone else does it or your ancestors did it or you were told to do it by some stranger.

Why is it my responsibility to change my behaviors and mannerisms to suit your sensibilities?

My husband never answers his phone no matter who calls. What do you consider important? We don't go into the middle of the intersection waiting for oncoming traffic because we don't want some idiot to run a red light and hit us. The rest of the list, I have no problem with. I'm neurotypical, and he has adhd/autism.

Self diagnosis IS a thing. In fact, neurodivergent people tend to be extremely accurate when diagnosing themselves. Yes, of course there will be neurotypicals misdiagnosing themselves. (Because they don't spend hours upon hours researching a topic, before posting an opinion.) But to say self diagnosis isn't a thing, is patently absurd. Heck, when i figuted it out, I said to the doctor, this is what I have, this is why I believe I have it, and here's my research notes, correlating between the brain type and my daily actions and way of thinking. The doctor just blinked, my official diagnosis turned out to be exactly the same as what I diagnosed myself. This shows that I self diagnosed to the accuracy of a professional.

Why is every single "neurotypical Vs neurodivergent" media session just "we smart they dumb"? Are you confused about how every person has different experiences and levels of education and intelligence? If this is all a spectrum, why don't you realize that every person you interact with will be a slightly new and different experience?

Love the commentary, Christopher. Exactly on point.

Oh my gosh I've just had that exact experience where a cyclist nearly trapped me and a queue of cars at a red light. She decided to saunter up slowly and block the left turn junction as she was going straight on. I felt so furious by it. I feel she should cycle next to the cars going straight on, not block the left turning cars. It drives me crazy.

at least you can drive. It's hard to get around since the US has terrible public transportation.

Sounds like a cope.

Thanks for this I needed to hear that And also greetings to your daughters from a fellow flower shark girlie 😊

I like squirrels though.

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Im surprised didn't make communication it's own thing, like how they speak makes no sense, they are never direct, they drop hints to what they want and they think they way of speech is the only way, they can do anything BUT communicate clearly

I was diagnosed with adhd, but my doctor said I might be autistic as well but he didn't recommend me getting diagnosed cause like what's the point if im on the low end. Like even if im on the low end that still counts. I can see that I have had it in my childhood. but anyways... doctors am I right.... also My mom does not validate me being Autistic. I mean she hated my adhd journey so she's definitely not on board with this. I was trying to educate her but she doesn't want to hear it. Like she sarcastically said this to me, "ugh! oh it must be your autism," Like with everything. I felt attacked with her stern voice. I need to validate for myself but its sad she won't listen. Like she even said oh I must have the adhd and autistic then.

I am not sure if i am neurotypical but these annoy me as well.

This is so relatable!!!!

I never used TitTalk

OOOOOOOOOOOOOO SNAP! And I’m soooooooooooo glad I trashed the TikTok app.

I literally went into a full on conniption @ 0:33

I get the point is to show them how they sound when complaining about us though this isn't really productive. Im not sure if people by and large really learn from this kind of thing, regardless of neurotype

Praying for you guy. Hate never teaches. ❤️ Love is never wrong and overcomes evil. ❤️

2:02 hahaaa

I had to stop watching when you said don’t self diagnose. Not everyone can afford a diagnosis, especially in Australia. If you would like to donate $6-$8,000 for me to see the slew of professionals needed for a medical diagnosis, I won’t say no.

I can't close my mouth when i chew. Because I've had my jaw and nose broken so many times by neurotypical people, that I can't breathe through my nose, and I my jaw doesn't line up right. Don't worry, I fought back everytime and I fought back well. We are all monkeys.

I'm so tired of these mediocre people who use their "I got ADHHGIJGGU mental disease, woe is me" people >:/.

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Flip that around, let's call neurodivergants annoying. It's so easy to be rude when it's socially acceptable, isn't it?

Let me put it this way: we (NT people) didn’t learn about ADHD or Autism unless we have a degree that involves these subjects. We have not met every single ND person on earth so your unique experience isn’t something we would know if we don’t actively know you. Many of us know that plenty of people have conditions that make them act differently but we don’t know every detail of these disorders that just became popular to discuss. We cannot read minds. We assume when someone says they don’t like broccoli that they mean they don’t want to eat it, but we’re free to have it on our plate when we go out to eat. We don’t expect someone we met yesterday to go in for a hug and/or try to cuddle with us because it’s not something we usually do. We don’t get close to people after a 5 minute conversation so we don’t expect someone we just met to get mad when we didn’t text them back right away due to being at work or doing something that would make answering our phone rude. We don’t mean any harm when we say ‘so what’s the appeal of fidget toys’ when we find out how much people spend on them, and not a judgement or personal attack. When we bring up articles that talk about pseudoscience cures for different diagnoses you mentioned having, we likely just want your input and aren’t implying that you should consume nothing but kale and apple cider vinegar for 3 weeks. Most of us want to be accommodating but don’t have the 8-10 years necessary to get a doctorate in psychology, while majoring in your specific diagnosis. So miscommunications happen. But if we said that people with these conditions were annoying, we would be rightfully crucified. We cannot become just like you to appease you, just like you cannot do the same to appease us. So the need placed on us to be understanding should go both ways.

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