Never Put a Woman on a Pedestal 

When a man places more value on a woman than he does on himself women automatically lose desire and respect for that man.

Y’all got uncle rom cussing and speeding. Smh. Madness.

MADE THAT MISTAKE BEFORE NEVER AGAIN!

This is straight facts. I been dating women in the top tier lookswise since I was teenager and dudes used to ask me "man how did you get with a chick like that?" My answer was always "by not thinking like that." Any chick is attainable.

Unc seemed genuinely disappointed in the defeatist attitude and rightly so, just because a women is good looking and stuff doesn't make her a goddess or some thing and rightly said that you don't need a qualification to talk to them. Afterall they are just humans. Great video and motivational in a way as well.

Brother Rom, all the real players support this message. Men with high self-esteen don't put limits on themselves. Never idolize women!!!

A tip to add to what Rom is saying guys: Beautiful women who seem to have a stuck up attitude, respond well to a man who is not fazed by them. Even if these women tell you "Boy, bye" they will remember you. And not in a bad way.

Good message. As a man you'll never know the caliber of woman you can get until you talk to women 💯 Peace

Even if you love her, you can never make her out to be BETTER THAN YOU

When you put a woman on a pedestal above yourself, you’re just giving her a platform from which she can look down on you. When she’s elevated above you, she feels she’s superior and that you’re beneath her, because she is looking down on you in the literal and figurative sense.

I wholeheartedly agree with this sentiment. I'd go further and say never put *ANYONE* other than yourself on a pedestal.

I'd lost count of how many times I've done that. Definitely was fed the wrong information growing up.

Facts Uncle Rom 💯💯

He spoke no lies only words of words

I've never seen Rom in this mode. But it's authentic lol!

Rom these guys don’t love themselves nor they don’t know their worth

Putting women on a pedestal...now we know that topic gets Unc Rom heated haha. Good vid as usual

Fellas I've been following Bro Rom for about a year. He's pissed. This is going up there with the Toxic Masculinity and the Paternity Fraud ones. As men you have to get rid of that simpish defeatist attitude. That's not just towards women that's towards LIFE. Thanks for the upload Bro ROM have a blessed day.

I agree Rom; I never place a woman on a pedestal no matter how good she looks. I start her with the basics of politeness it's on her to work her way up on my respect meter.

I made that comment, and I appreciate making a video response to it. When I made it, I didn’t believe that because a woman is attractive that I shouldn’t talk to her. I believed that I need to get my own shit together before I engage with someone. I’m not in a good place in my life where I feel confident about anything in general, not thinking “oh this woman won’t be checking for me”. It’s not “she better than me, pedestal time”. I’m thinking “I got a lot of shit to work on for myself, I need to focus on that first”. I want to get to my “best self” and don’t believe I need to be making connections when I’m not at the best version I can be, whether that be making friends with men or women. But I learned from this video, and apologize for ticking you and the viewers off. Back to the grind.

Too many boys are raised to put women on pedestals. By their mothers aunts school teachers, etc. We need more Master Teachers such as yourself to change this narrative for the next generation!

Y’all got Uncle Rom dropping the F Bombs 💣😳😱

Facts👍the title says it all my late father once told me the same thing and @45 it still resonates today. Respect Brethren✌

U hit the nail on the head low self esteem that’s the brother who out here spending all his money on dates and can’t get the brakes fixed on his car lol

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Take heed fellas. Uncle. Rom has spoken once more !!!!!

Do you think some men think this way because of their deep insecurities. I have low self esteem so it's definitely my problem and and not the fault of the women. More men should work on themselves and focus on their self worth before even dealing with women. You're correct sir a beautiful women approached me and actually spoke to me.She was very friendly and loving which surprised me. I assumed she was way too atractive for me but i was obviously wrong.You're a very wise man keep up the good work sir.

200% Facts. Something that as Men who Value themselves have to Internalize.

I’ve made the mistake of putting women on a pedestal...it NEVER ever ends well. You put her on a pedestal , you automatically put her in a position to look down on you..and they don’t respect that at all. I’v learned this lmao

Word! A lot of young dudes are just insecure !

I have said it before and I will say it again. The best videos are the ones when they go hard

Indifference Is The Key. 🔑

Uncle Rom flooring it. 😂

I'm going to be polite to someone that says hello and give you a smile. I'm very approachable. Lot's of people automatically think I have an attitude because of the way I look. Just step to me with respect.

PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN TO BE ALONE. SOLITUDE. MEDITATION 💯 DOPE VIDEO MY BRO

I am married. But I am ALWAYS polite to everyone. Sometimes I hold conversations... sometimes it's brief pleasantries. My husband was shy and he went for it!🥰 We are married! But I respect my husband, but I am never rude. And ladies speak to him. So there is no problem. There is no harm in a lighthearted exchange. It's just good manners. @rom wills

Unc is in rare form today; and I love it! There was a time long ago, when I intimated by very attractive women, until I dated a few models over the years. Man, the essence of death that comes out of that bathroom after they drop a load, humanizes them immediately. Remember, they're just people and funk up a bathroom like anyone else.

Truth. These men are putting broads with no talent on a pedestal.

Sometimes people bring out the best in you,bring out what you never thought you had in you, in a good way that is,parents do not always plant a good seed or any seed at all you were one of the lucky one!!!

Stay Encouraged Uncle Rom thank you for blessing us with your wisdom even though you don’t have to do it Happy Memorial Day!

Easily.....EASILY MY FAVORITE VIDEO OF YOURS MR. ROM!! YOU HIT IT OUT THE PARK BROTHER✌🏽 We breath the same air, why TF would I be nervous to speak to any woman? Shiddddd she more than likely wishing hoping and praying you come over & break the ice💯

That damn sure ain’t Pookie and Ray Ray attitude LMFAOGTFO

Thank You uncle Rom! This message needed to said loud and clear👏🏾

Well said. It needed to be said to be honest. Even when i was broke and no place of my own i was never scared to talk to a woman like she's some alien and i was never afraid to shoot my shot.

facts, low key I killed it twice with few perfect 10's. The interesting part was that they did show kindness and willingness to speak like normal human beings when we bumped into each other, but I messed up by letting fear get to me n freezing up. not knowing how to keep a conversation going. Awesome video!

Damn, who pissed Uncle Rom off?

We don't live in a caste system where a peasant can be killed for trying to talk to the princess. Talk to whoever the fuck you want to talk to.

I needed this one💯. Speaking true facts while laughing my ass off soaking it all in done made my day😂

Have a mindset of abundance fellas. We are Kings. Let’s act like it consistently.

Appericate the REALNESS OG ! 💯💯👊💯💯 1st of all women don't have standards,they have emotions so if you as a man can catch her in a good or vulnerable mind state & all you have to do right then is just don't "F" it up .. Just 1 smile or laugh in that moment can place you a spot in her world for a while or as long as her emotions want to continue to chase that carrot ..

Uncle Rom LMFAO every man goes this stage but unlike many I learned stop making excuses and applied. Peace & Love and thank you for always keeping 💯.

Love it when you really SAY SHIT AS THEY ARE. Greatly respected. Keep this golden work up mr Rom

Real men tired of these simps messing up the game, great video, regardless of your background never let another human look down on you

Damnnnn uncle rom is going ham in this video 🔥

Yo Uncle Rom got pissed off and hit the gas yall peep that? 😂

One of the most simply and important lessons I learned from you bro years ago. Just a simply hello.. Preach Bro. Rom!

What makes my skin crawl: When a man begins a conversation with a woman with "Hello Goddess..." or "Hello Queen..." I knew none of this 3 months ago, and even on an instinctual level, it just sounds like you're currying favor with an actual Superior.

Yes Yes Rome!! I read that same bullshit comment and I wasn't feelin' it at all!!! Right on

I totally agree with the title of the video.

Men, it’s not a Privilege to pursue her. But it’s a privilege for her to pursue you. You treat her like a celebrity, then she will treat you like a fan. Don’t be a clown all for the sake of her entertainment. Because at the end of the day, you’re the prize fellas.

Uncle Rom ain’t playing I needed to hear this hear video thanks for this video

Never saw you so passionate 🤘🏾 But I agree completely.

Wow. This is powerful. You are so right.

Focus on improving yourself and women will come to you. Like my dad tells me you are the prize as a man so be confident and nonchalant.

Sounds like whoever made that comment needs to read my book, Illusions of Happiness. It's a modern tale of a young man who learns to overcome his fears and anxieties of approaching women. Another great masterpiece of a video Uncle Rom.

thank you for this wonderful video

Do not place women on a pedestal _above_ the Most High who *is* Love. If you do all the greedy/carnal lust things with women God tells you *not to do* , *then* you place women on a pedestal _above_ God. In order to *get* what you *want* ........ Better snap out of that, or there comes a moment you'll be *very, very* sorry!

I made that mistake when I was 17, I’m happy that I learned from my past and I’m never ever gonna put a women on a pedestal.

There is a lack of being personable in these social media times. This is a good reminder for someone even like me who don't give a fuck about what a female think. Just talking, putting yourself out there is a good way to learn and even find opportunity. I usually just get at females for 1 or 2 reasons. But, talking to a bad female, and learning about her archetype... I guess there could be more to that than just simping. I think I took it to an extreme of only going for kitty and that has closed me off too much. Appreciate the knowledge.

I agree with you Rom.

The Queen of England is a 10 hands down ... A 10 minus 10 😂😂😂😂😂

Great video Rom

I just gave a small donation. I really like your videos. They have really helped me, thanks.

Teach Brother!

100 Percent FACTZ APPRECIATE YOU ROM KEEP THE CONTENT COMING

I love this video.

Much respect brother

Its always good to hear the Uncle get at that neck.. U can't be scared of the word No.. Rejection, flaking, and curving makes u stronger..

romy grate video my G

Preach Rom🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

I'm scrubbing toilets right now (got other things cooking) for some extra money and plenty of women at this facility (high paying jobs) (very attractive) won't let me sit in silence without running up on me and at least saying hi...even when I tried to keep to myself at work at first. Even the ones that don't talk to I'll catch staring with predator eyes from time to time. I got other things going on though, I used to try way too hard and turn women off. I just do what's good for me (unapologetically) and things fall into place. It's that energy they want subconsciously so they they can harness it for themselves (so they think). Dudes out here with much more than me, doing too much,offering the moon and the staaaars and the sky! and the girl they want will be staring me down after they know I've just cleaned 17 toilets 😂. And I'm lookin at a robin right before you mentioned it on vid as a side note.

Thank YOU. Even my momma barked that to us growing up!

Never put anyone on a pedestal.

I been a coward Rom! I'm a handsome guy with a ten body (ex-fighter). I've fought in front of thousands of people, but scared as hell of women. I haven't had sex in 7 years. I shit you not. If you saw me you'd be like u lying. Not anymore!!! Im Determined to change and stop being so afraid of women. Thanks Rom.

Unc pissed !! Got me hyped asf!!

He said “her butterfly collection”😂

Man this video!!🔥🔥

Rom spittin facts!

Cell phones and social media messed the game up. Rom tryna help y’all 😭😭😭😭😭

This man is speaking facts.

You right Doc

Its so simple …Yet some make it so complex

Preach Unc!

Uncle rom straight 💯

Good vid bro

Much respect 🙏

Great video as usual. Don't want to go off topic but men also need to let their female friends know that he is a man. A woman should never see you as one of her girlfriends. This means keeping it business with female friends. You should be talking about how to make money, improve your career, get fit, etc. The minute she wants to talk about her relationship issues, you need to change subject asap.

Facts💯

👏👏👏👏👏👏 I kinda gave you this🤔 b4 cause I have seen This rant from various dating coaches from the strange attitudes that men have nowdays & in my opinion is a generation raise in the internet(lacking ppl skill) & Now with these movements(ME too& sexual harassment) oh men! dudes r afraid to approach but you got to talk there's no other way around it & the reason that I had left a comment on the personality video & then I took it off cause ppl don't believe me it's because once upon a time i was that dude! Didn't have no game all my friends had girlfriends were getting some & I was not & its because you all can do it! But you got to snap out of that attitude and especially putting women on pedestals the reason that I was able to pull these hot women was because I did totally the opposite I didn't put them in no pedestal I broke them down with confidence with what some women will say arrogance & didn't give a hoot about walking away or turning them down,ignoring them I had them approaching me & they came off that cloud but without the attitude of am too fine & these were STRIPPERS! making more $(80s) in 1 day than me & when they did change & became submissive I was entertaining with my mouth piece & topics of conversations & they feel that comfort vibe that I have been around women but I went through a learning process & failed & played the fool but I learned & you know what WOMEN! told me what I had going 4 me & like Rom some pimping ran in my family & didn't know it but anyways I had these women taking care of me buying me clothes but why? You got to lay it down! Got to be meticulous with your clothing,grooming you r selling yourself you r a brand You r the prize! Am older now & I got young thangs hitting on me peeping me out hard! Why cause of the way I dress & you got keep your shoes tight! I lost 2 raps because of it MR Rom is giving you GAME! I didnt have this! Listen to learn & learn to listen just b4 the NEW YEAR I bid adieu cause it falls on deaf ears ppl take it the wrong way I like to thank Rom with all these videos cause I was able to see gems that I had & "friends" women hated instead you don't have to be good looking it's harder 4 good looking men it's more challenging(Josh Allen) Go out there & do your thing & have a wonderful life, Happy New Year & God Bless✋

Real words spoken

Thank you for that. I have. And she threw it back at me. Only to make me realize I was a fool.