I'm with her all the way. But the sad part is some people don't really want you to succeed & they'll purposely discourage you SPITEFULLY. I've always kept my mouth shut I guess I always will!🙏
Same! Now I’m wondering if that is an Aries thing lol. Because I’m thinking Idc who knows I’m gonna make it happen. But this makes sense when she explained it.
To me, never telling people what to do is just as important as stopping people from doing the wrong thing or helping them understand the consequences and working hard at convincing them of this.
The more better you do it just reminds them of what they were not able to do them self could have done it but didn’t . So your success reminds them of what they could have down . And they start to resent your success. So it’s better not to mention your success to them . Be around people that lift you up not drag you down . You don’t want there negative energy dragging you down .
Problem is I only learned how to love people that did that. Took some time and lot of reading to understand it all applying all of very difficult when that negative is stacked against you
I have said this since I was born and people never understood this concept. Present your idea or concept once you have internally established the baseline.
Everything said I have experienced, I realized this just recently how múch energy I wasted on explaining myself, how much I was faced with peoples doubts and opinions and their projections on me, here I am standing and gathering my len strenght and energy, I guess I did it because I didnt know better, only after the experience I see that it was part of the process, next tíme I do it better. Thanks for sharing this video, it helped me to anchor something what I came to realize ❤
This is so true Oprah, you are on point with this. This is something people should listen to once a week, it works every time, every day. Thank you so much ❤
Thank you Jonathan , the message is so meaningful and it validates what Rosie’s Female Minister Years ago , Johnny Coleman said, and I applied it to self and used it as a guide. She said, “Never tell your Dream, because the day you do , there will be many people praying it will never come true. So thank you for your love and understanding, but God ‘s have this!!Amen!!!🙏🏽❤️😍
I never tell people anything I think is person to me. I never tell people’s anything! It’s not a secret it’s my privacy of my self and life it’s protecting me my and I! Alway was like that since when I payed attention to not everyone is your friend or wants the right thing to have for you. And it’s funny how people ask the same ???over and over again in different ways trying to get what they want to hear.
Not a Oprah fan but dammit she's 100% correct a very imperative video, appreciated seriously FONTE THE INTROVERTED VISIONARY published poet /diversified ✍️ writer
This is a very individualistic perspective. Our visions should be in concert with our communities working towards goals that build all of us up. This is coming from a perspective of famine instead of abundance. Speaking actually helps me develop my vision.
It's true to certain degree but then again some people are keen on helping you to achieve your goals if they see your enthusiasm and belief ..at the end we are social animals and can go further by collaborating with others rather than on our own
Thank you for expressing my thoughts. 🕊️✨ Grab a boost from people with positive vibes only. Even the ones that don't know how much sweat and tears you put in each day, can give encouragement if they're Really enthusiastic for you.
I love how she speaks, inspiring to myself. It is really hard to live in todays world full of noise - how to choose the proper way. We need to think about our self to make this world better place to live
I have always thought this. And have witnesses when I have shared how the energy of the room, of certain people shifts. Vs. When I have kept things to myself. There is a difference when I deliver the end result vs the idea, the concept, the process. I dislike the negative feedback from people who think they know me or have a full understanding on the topic at hand. How about when something has happened and people are wuick to crtici? Also another reason why to keep things to yourself. People are quick to add their opinion when they watch a Wins or loss. But they dont care on the efforts it takes to win or even have a loss. Even with the loss we can learn with out negative feedback.
Wow this is brilliant!! Sometimes I think the notion of being 'vulnerable' to connect with others gets miskewed when in reality there is validity and growth in keeping some things closer to yourself
Sounds like Ai, when Oprah speaks it has energy in her voice, this voice lacks energy it actually lowers the vibration of the speech, which is unfortunate because the advice is actually golden. 😥
This is very true with experience my husband spread around all that I was doing todate I have not achieved my dreams and moreover he moved on and left me to struggle on my own
This is definitely AI. The words are on point. If I was just reading them I would never know, but it’s absolutely missing the life force of Oprah herself.
They watch me walking out door if not in the secret camera and mimic it daily. Then say after getting out for gas how they think it is developed from the creation. Then do as much as possible for the moment to rip out heart.lol