New beginnings for the first family I ever helped out

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This is the house which began my RU-vid journey. A lot has happened since May 2023 with my channel as well as with this family. I chose this home to start with because, when I met with the homeowner, I could see how much shame she had about her situation and she just looked "broken." I knew how hard it was for her to ask for help and something about her just made me want to do whatever was in my power to help her get to a better place. She was so young to have been through so much. Now, nine months later, she and her son and second husband have moved out of this house because of the reminders of the trauma and abuse she suffered through with her first husband here. They are in a rental while they build a new home and I wish them the very best with this new beginning and hope that she can find some peace.
Also, thank you to all of my subscribers/viewers for making this past nine months incredible. I never would have imagined I would have 42,000 subscribers by now! Your support makes it possible for me to help even more people, so I really appreciate it.
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@deewells79 8 месяцев назад

I think I found your channel when you only had like 5 or 6 videos. I got caught up, and I've been here ever since! Thank you for what you do for others. I wish I could do this, but I'm a member of the limb loss community, and just keeping up with my own home is difficult. It takes twice as long to do things as it did before I became a hip disarticulation amputee (lost my entire right leg) in 2019 due to osteosarcoma bone cancer. I'm only 44, and it has been a long 4.5 years in trying to relearn how to do things that used to be so simple and quick. I try not to complain because at least I can do most things that I could before. Vacuuming and mopping are probably the hardest and now my least favorite chores. I have a prosthesis, but it works nothing like a real leg would. Thanks for seeing us and for your empathy. It makes you feel not so alone. Keep up the great work! You are touching more lives than you know! 🎉❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Awww...I so wish I could help. I can't even imagine how difficult that must be! Not only do you have to learn how to do things it totally different way than you used to, but I'm sure there are also issues with using the prosthesis and lots of neuropathy type pain that you are dealing with on top of all that. I understand the trying to stay positive, but I hope you also allow yourself to feel a little angry at the situation sometimes. I think it's not wrong to be a little upset and mourn the loss of what you once could do. But I'm glad to hear you haven't just given up. That's inspiring! 👏💜❤️😊

@dwynn57 8 месяцев назад

hoping that things get easier! my husband had a good friend that had bone cancer from the age of 8. he has had his right leg taken off in sections since then and now he has had it completely removed. but he has had his own mechanics business and I have seen him lift a transmission over his head standing on only one leg and bolting it in! he used to run on crutches with his brothers and jumping over fences in a pasture! so just wanting to encourage! know that it isn't easy, but I also know that if you are determined it will happen!

@cremebrulee4759 8 месяцев назад

Congratulations on the progress you have made. Don't stop. I'm sorry for what you have been through. I wish the very best for you.

@sellyourhomenowbook 8 месяцев назад

May I suggest a roomba and a robotic floor Mopped? I just got a floor Mopped for under $50 on Amazon and my lower model of roomba was under 200. Anyway hugs and prayers for your courage in fighting cancer!

@analevak9858 8 месяцев назад

So not only you're great at cleaning and organizing, you can do home repairs too! You really are an impressive lady! I don't think you are copying anyone, but if more people copied Mack, or you, that would actually be a very good thing ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Oh, thank you!

@alwaysthesleepless1 Месяц назад

You got so much done. I am sure the home owners were thrilled. I hope they keep it that way and find energy to sort out the containers. Well done, keep up the good work for these deserving people.

@jennifernorris3655 4 дня назад

Im so glad you found the courage to share your feelings on the situation and ask for the respect of communication. Even if you were aware of circumstances behind the scenes, it isnt unreasonable to expect the homeowners to do what they agreed to when you took on the job. You were such a blessing to this family ❤

@tishspirationstation2845 8 месяцев назад

There is nothing weird about wanting to offer your services to people others might overlook. Bravo!!!👏✨

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

😊💜🙏

@bonnieknighton7296 8 месяцев назад

Bonbon! You're not inept!!! You're perfectly ept. You're the eptest. I have rarely seen anyone with your level of eptness. We love you Super Ept!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

You are killing me! Okay, okay, I guess I will accept that I am super ept! 😄 maybe I need a shirt that just says "I am the eptest" and just make people wonder what the heck that means. 🤔 👍💜

@ShellyCline 8 месяцев назад

Bonnie I just had to pause the video to say that the humility you must have to be willing to share the text you sent her and the fact that there turned out to be extenuating circumstances is truly remarkable. Im sure it wasn't easy for you to share that with us but you did, because it might help us be more understanding of others and prevent a lot of suffering as a result. You're the sweetest. ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you, Shelly! I don't want people thinking I'm a saint. I have my moments of frustration and overwhelm just like anyone. I don't love it when people only put the positive on their social media, so I figured I would throw in a little real life here and there. And I'm learning that there is almost always a good reason for people behaving in a way that can be frustrating. I think I've learned more about The Human Experience in the last 9 months than I have my whole life.😄

@ShellyCline 8 месяцев назад

@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp that's amazing Bonnie. And it really is so good for all of us to see that and learn from it too! Win-win! 😁😊

@leannekirk74 8 месяцев назад

Oh my goodness, you not only clean and organize but you can repair stuff too. I teel like you don't realise how talented you are! This seemed like quite a drawn out mission and you can be proud that you saw it through to the end!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!

@annw1395 8 месяцев назад

Move over, Bob Vila. Here comes Bonnie! I was blown away by your handyman skills! Definitely above and beyond. Did they get rid of all the bugs? Otherwise that stuff going to the thrift store could spread them.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

I haven't seen any live bugs since the first month I worked there because we have been treating everything with Borax and some other chemicals. I also washed all of the clothes before donating them. They went straight into a garbage bag and into the back of my truck, so I don't think there is any way that we sent anything along that could cause an infestation. I was trying to be very aware of that.😊

@Michele_Williams 8 месяцев назад

Your weird matches my weird, so I’m glad to see you just be yourself. If others judge negatively because of it, well, they’re just a bunch of pelicans! You have my support, and your entire channel subs behind you, cheering you on, and absolutely enjoying the work you put out there for us to watch. You’re such a vivacious and lovely person, you can just feel your heart in your voice. Bravo, Bonnie! 👏👏👍👍🫶

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you, Michele!🥰🙏

@AshleyDiamondPaints7 8 месяцев назад

I am deep cleaning some areas in my home I have put off doing for years. Honestly ptsd associated with stuff..emotional attachment..and bad memories...bad energy in a space. is such a real thing. I am so proud of myself for what I have accomplished. It's slow going..and I stop alot because it emotionally paralizes me sometimes... and feeling guilty for parting with items is also a huge monster in my mind, but im doing it!!.. I have alot more to do but videos like this encourage me to keep pushing. 💪

@alirpa77 8 месяцев назад

💜

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

I'm proud of you, too. Having seen that struggle firsthand, I know how hard that must be for you. Great job!👏💕

@christine1373 7 месяцев назад

I had a major surgery that took close to 8 hours and when I woke up I was so bloated from the IV fluids it took almost 2 weeks before all the fluid was gone and I could move my legs. That was extremely humbling! You inspire me to tackle the problem areas in my home one at a time. Even small increments of time here and there are a success!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

That sounds rough! And a lot can happen to a house in 2 weeks, so I'm sure the amount of stuff you needed to do was just piling up. Yes, one small area at a time can make a huge difference.😉

@carolynoquinn4573 8 месяцев назад

You're a doll, I wouldn't have had the patience for that family.

@TammyB-x2h Месяц назад

I’m always so thankful when a cleaner will put laundry in their videos because I love doing laundry!! I enjoy cleaning too, I know that’s weird. I’ve often thought about doing laundry for others.

@cat-mum-Jules 8 месяцев назад

Don't worry about feeling weird. We are all a bit weird in our own way 😅 (I'm sure I am!). I'm impressed with your diy skills 💪

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you!! 😊

@lisabee2314 8 месяцев назад

Thank-you for helping this lady and her family, I'm sure it made a huge difference in her life! Loved seeing all that folded laundry! 🙂👍🇦🇺

@RobinSpencer-wc6hj 4 месяца назад

What a job! I wouldn't want to move. Thank goodness she had your help. Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

@KPMomma74 3 месяца назад

You are amazing and I love that you show your humaness!!! Thank you for that!

@friendoftherese1 8 месяцев назад

I applaud you blossoming and being your true self on your channel. You're delightful!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

🥰

@BigMamaCat 8 месяцев назад

I really admire your organisational, cleaning and handyman skills. If you're ever in Australia, I could use your help. LOL 😁

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Deal!😁

@BigMamaCat 8 месяцев назад

@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 😁👍

@AngelaZsiga 8 месяцев назад

Great patch up job. Thanks for showing how to do that. I learned something. Amazing transformation. Also closet and laundry motivation.

@momtrips6783 8 месяцев назад

good job on the railing re-mount too!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

🙏

@aurorauniversalis1633 8 месяцев назад

This was incredibly satisfying! Patching and sanding and folding and vacuuming and dusting and organizing and painting and packing. You did so much--and I really enjoyed it all. 🌟

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

I'm so glad!🥰

@annlamade91 8 месяцев назад

Don’t be shy about who you are! We love you. I’m a laundry nerd too. And weird. 😊

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

😅

@dalornaballard9329 8 месяцев назад

Great job doing that banister n organizing all those rooms

@---------------------------... 8 месяцев назад

Thanks for putting out a video this weekend. And also for telling us some of the frustrations happening behind the scene; we appreciate it!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Well, I didn't expect anyone to say they appreciated me sharing my frustrations, but thank you for allowing me to get that out there because sometimes this RU-vid thing, especially the editing part really is a struggle for me.😫😁🙏

@SharaLee60 8 месяцев назад

You are a delight Bonnie, you are a sweet person. I know when I needed to tell a person or child something bad I had a heck of a time doing it. So I understand! You are good at what you are doing. Thanks so much for helping these people! Thanks for sharing! ♥️☺️🫂🐾🦉🍄🧶🧵🪡🖌🎨🖼📒📚✨️

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thanks so much😊💕

@LisaThrockmorton 2 месяца назад

"Laundry Nerd" would make a great T-shirt!😊😊😊

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 2 месяца назад

That is one that I plan on doing for sure. I just am trying to decide if I want a graphic to go with it or just the text.

@dougandlina 8 месяцев назад

Very nice what you are doing in the video, you remind me of my wife.. The kind things that you do for people, you will get repaid with kindness from someone someday.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

I already feel very blessed just because of the things that I am learning about myself as well as the struggles that other people have. It makes me incredibly grateful for what I have.😊❤️

@lauriivey7801 8 месяцев назад

I'm the same way about surprising people ... I always do a little 'above and beyond' the expected, just to give them something to smile about - - "I'm a little weird" ... honey, aren't we all

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

🥰

@mariwillalwaysgivethanks 8 месяцев назад

Your multi purpose skills were put to good use helping this homeowner. You're very talented and kind!❤

@johnkelly9451 8 месяцев назад

Agree! Bonnie's handy work is impressive, inspiring!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you!😊

@dianethompson2458 8 месяцев назад

You did a great job on this one. You are not weird, you are unique. I have always been called weird by my family and others. I love to clean any house or building. I love history and hate technology, I am happy, silly and optimistic. I drive most people crazy. Those friends that do love me, really love me though and I love them. Just be yourself my dear you are awesome just the way you are.♥

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Yes! Love this. 😁❤️

@shannonw6604 8 месяцев назад

I don't think Mac would mind a bit if people copied his kindness and generosity.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Very true. I know he wouldn't at all.😄 I only brought it up because poor Barbie gets told all the time to stop copying Aurikatariina. I don't know why they pick on her particularly about that. In my opinion, she is dealing with way worse situations than Auri, and she doesn't have the enormous help of sponsors. She's getting pretty good at ignoring those trolls, though. That girl is tough!

@shannonw6604 8 месяцев назад

@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp you are all doing amazing things that directly impact the people you help and indirectly help and inspire us viewers. There is room for all of you and.your unique traits. Haters gonna hate but maybe we can drown it out with love.

@lauramitchell6725 8 месяцев назад

@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wpI can’t understand all of this,like the negative comments on Barbie’s channel.Why would people care if they copy someone else? That’s how we learn and grow,we see someone do something more efficiently,quicker,easier,etc. and make it our new way.😵‍💫

@johnkelly9451 8 месяцев назад

@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I wondered when someone on facebook was showing Barbies videos under a name that was Auri's when all the negative comments about the pink gloves were happening. She mentioned on one of her lives. I'm thinking it was a huge misunderstanding on the commentor's part. Love your channel, Barbie's, Mack's, Mira's and Colines Channel! Auri's too. Thank each of you for helping people and inspiring us all too!

@johnkelly9451 5 месяцев назад

I heard Mack say on a video, live...somewhere, he hopes the free cleaning can be everywhere that people need help. I second that too. So often someone will comment, I need your help, but they live too far away. I hope to see this community grow and grow to help others. 🙏 ❤

@DebbieBurns-y5e 2 месяца назад

We are all weird in our own beautiful ways. Great job 😊❤

@irenefitzpatrick6480 8 месяцев назад

Your channel is so inspiring and you are a lovely person.😊 Looking forward to seeing your next video. ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!

@AndiE-pq6xp 7 месяцев назад

Be you!! Be weird, ramble whatever just Be you! I love it and i love your videos its amazing ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

Okay, I will! 😁🤪

@ImallamaToo 8 месяцев назад

Love your channel, Bonnie! You're doing an awesome job! 😊

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!

@josephdaly2015 8 месяцев назад

Well done on everything you got done here including diy. Wishing this family a great new start. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏👍💪💐🙏

@brendarose3941 8 месяцев назад

What is the limb loss community? I lost my right arm in 2012. I had a fall and destroyed the blood vessels in my arm and it wasn’t able to be saved. I am sorry that you lost your leg. I wish all good things in your life. Take care.🙂

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

I think you may be the person I was talking about on this video. Either you or someone else had lost their arm and told me about some of the things that they have to do differently and how they have adjusted to doing those things and have gotten pretty good at it. Bless you! That must be so difficult. 🙏

@brendarose3941 8 месяцев назад

That’s me! I’m the am the person who lost my arm . I am trying to find out more about the club she mentioned.

@PeelingAwaytheClutter 8 месяцев назад

I'm so glad they are on the way to a new chapter in a new house. Bless you for all the work you did to help them!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thanks, Mira!

@colinecleans 7 месяцев назад

Haha, I smiled when you said "I just wear what's comfortable". That is so me! If it was only appropriate to live in loungewear 🤗 Love 🩵 Coline

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

I pretty much live in loungewear or leggings 99% of my life. 😅

@anitarajput11 6 месяцев назад

You’re an amazing handy woman Totally impressed

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 6 месяцев назад

Thank you!

@Karaisawesome 8 месяцев назад

You made me laugh so much on this. Love your videos. You’re amazing. 😊

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Glad you enjoyed!😁

@amybcopy1 7 месяцев назад

You are lovely and kind. I admire you so much for helping with compassion. You inspire me all the time , so thank you! I'd love to help if you are ever in Northern New Jersey!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

Thank you so much! It would be so much fun to travel to different states and clean two or three houses in each place. So, if I ever make it to New Jersey, I'll let you know!😁🥰

@giannaraquel4622 8 месяцев назад

You do you! I enjoy your channel and admire your work!!👍🏼😍

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!

@rebeccaashton5390 8 месяцев назад

Loved your video. I wish this family all the best. Thank you for helping them. It was all worth it! I don't think you are weird, but if you are then it's a good weird.😊 Cant wait for your next video.❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

😁❤️

@AngusHenry09 8 месяцев назад

Always sincere, thoughtful, caring, wonderful job with the most lovely, my kind of weird cause I am too, beautiful lady doing life changing things. ❤❤❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

😁🙏

@a.t.6535 8 месяцев назад

Here's my weird household quirk: I love sanding. Not the accidents that lead me to have to patch walls, but sanding the putty/wood filler/what have you so it's smooth and even... that's the good stuff, LOL. Watching it is a close second! I'm also glad for your honesty in talking about your frustrations with the work. Not that I'm glad you were frustrated, but I always wonder what goes on "behind the scenes" so to speak. Pretty much every channel like this only talks about the upsides, which I can understand why, but y'all are human, after all, dealing with other imperfect humans, and so I'm always thinking, do they never get taken advantage of? Am I a bad person because I would get frustrated in their shoes? Are they actual saints with endless stores of patience beyond us mere mortals? What's the secret and can it be bottled for purchase?!? But no! It's all about the editing decisions to not discuss roadbumps. However, I'm grateful that you did here. No bad guys, just real people on both sides living their complicated, real lives... we really don't know what's going on in other people's heads. A good life lesson. :)

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

I love this comment so much! Yes, we absolutely get frustrated behind the scenes, but don't always show that because I don't want to bring a lot of negativity into my videos, but I also like to be honest from time to time that it can be very frustrating/overwhelming to deal with some of these situations. I know Mack did a live rant session where he just went off and was cursing and just so upset, but he ended up taking it down because I think he regretted doing that a little bit, but I actually loved that he let all that frustration out because there are moments that this is really, really difficult. Things I never would have thought of when I started this, like dealing with all kinds of personalities. To be perfectly honest, I had my first panic attack in a few years when I very first spoke to the homeowner of this hoarder house I'm working on because she was talking so fast and throwing so much information at me that I didn't know how to deal with it. I finally had to just stop her and let her know that I was feeling a little overwhelmed and could she please wait until we met in person to give me all the information because my brain was about to explode. And now that I have worked there three different days, I am actually really enjoying her different personality, but I really thought there was no way I was going to be able to work on that house with her there. I have learned probably the most important thing to get along with all of these different personalities is just to hear them out. They have been through so much trauma and people have abandoned them because of all of their issues, so they really just need someone to listen and not judge them. It's amazing what just that simple thing can do to be the Catalyst for some change in their lives. That was a super long response, but it felt good to get that all out.😊 Thanks for asking those questions. No, I'm not a saint, but I am learning a lot about how trauma and mental illness affect people differently. It's been very eye-opening and has been a huge blessing to me to see the most vulnerable parts of people.

@ImNotaRussianBot 8 месяцев назад

You are such a beautiful soul inside out. Such a beautiful heart, such a gorgeous face. ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Wow, thank you!😘🙏

@weclean4free 7 месяцев назад

the DIY, the mammoth tasks at hand and ❤ the cupboard and undersink items disappearing take a lot of time, FANTASTIC JOB AS ALWAYS ❤❤❤❤🟢🟢

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

Indeed, they do! Just barely installed my new software, so I'm crossing my fingers I can learn it quickly!!

@weclean4free 7 месяцев назад

@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp good luck with it xx

@carolynoquinn4573 8 месяцев назад

Bonnie, you look so cute!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Oh, thank you!

@ncbowwest 8 месяцев назад

My spouse has only one real leg, but does use a prosthetic most of the time. She does use both shoes when she use her fake leg, but obviously can't otherwise. But she has a buddy that is missing the opposite foot, and they often joke around about exchanging the shoes they don't need.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Oh my goodness. What a way to make the best out of a tough situation! That's hilarious! After I put this video out, my sons pointed out that most people would still probably use both shoes because they probably have a prosthetic and use a shoe on the prosthetic. So, I guess there isn't too much of a need for single shoes.🤷‍♀️😁

@emilynicholson4999 7 месяцев назад

Great job Bonnie. I for one love getting to know you better with each video you share a little of your “weird” side! Take care, from the UK Xx

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!

@dreamer6943 5 месяцев назад

Hey don't beat on yourself for not knowing what was wrong with the family and why they'd made no progress. "Be kind" works both ways. They don't know what you might have been going through either and they chose not to be kind and communicate properly but instead to make excuses after excuses to prevent you coming back. Anyone would feel messed around by that, then to show up and with no explanation from them to find they hadn't done what they had said they'd do - well, what are you supposed to think? Communication is a two way thing and what happened is on them as much as on you. I'm glad you got the job completed in the end anyway. You do such great work on these hoarded houses, it's nice to see the end results.

@michellesimpson6734 7 месяцев назад

Hi Bonnie You are a Blessing. Thank you for sharing.

@connierohall4248 5 месяцев назад

Love watching you fold laundry

@katd114 7 месяцев назад

So gratifying to watch! Very inspired to get things done now! Thank you.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

❤️🙏

@connierohall4248 5 месяцев назад

I love to watch you run the sweeper

@PhyllisDalton-r2v Месяц назад

Everyone is a little weird. It's what makes us unique.😊

@SamuraShima 3 месяца назад

5:15 that was nice of you to patch up the corner ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 3 месяца назад

It was fun to do something different for a change.😊

@julipolito7761 8 месяцев назад

We are all a little weird, Bonnie. Everyone has freakiness. It makes us individuals. 😘♥️

@debby891 8 месяцев назад

Awesome job Bonnie and in awe of your home repair talent❤. I’m going to try that drywall repair on a couple of small spaces that have been avoided for too long. I know easier said than done but don’t be too hard on yourself. People need to that if you don’t know then you can’t expect to be compassionate to a situation. When we know better, we do better. You certainly went above and beyond and I’m sure she very much appreciated what you did❤. Debby, upstate New York

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Go you! Get after those repairs! 👏😊It was really fun to surprise her with this, and she sent me the most heartfelt thank you when she discovered what I had done the next time she was over there. 🥰

@ralphperez1524 Месяц назад

I have a friend who didn't develop her right side the same as the left so her shoe size is different on each foot. She has to buy two pairs of shoes to get one usable pair. And her right hand only has three fingers but she plays the piano beautifully. 🙂

@lisatrucken 8 месяцев назад

We are all weird in our own way!! ❤

@lucilleward806 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for helping so many people in need. You are inspiring me to clean and declutter my home.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

I'm so glad!💕

@dorenedaniels7493 8 месяцев назад

I did enjoy this very much and thank you God bless you 🙏💗

@delphablankinship519 8 месяцев назад

Bonnie, you are such a hard worker and so compassionate towards others. I love your videos!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thanks so much❤️

@CammyHell 7 месяцев назад

Wow 🤩 what an amazing pile to go to the thrift store!!!! ❤

@debbysouthworth5606 7 месяцев назад

You took that house from pig pen to a home. This is what happens when it gets away from your control. Thank heavens you gave them back the reigns on their home!

@Demi-qn4gb 8 месяцев назад

Oh you are good!!! you have the best approach of all cleaners in RU-vid my dear....

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Wow, thank you!😘🙏

@julianneeaker8738 7 месяцев назад

I love your video. You and Mack are so wonderful. Vent all you want if it helps.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

😁❤️👍

@Sheryl777 8 месяцев назад

It's completely understandable that you were upset with people when they didn't follow through, even though as you found out later, there were good reasons for it. The reason I say it's understandable is that there ARE people, (even though it wasn't these people), who seem to have one emergency after another ALL the time...at least one per month. Real emergencies can happen frequently at times I know, which makes it hard sometimes to decide who really has had that many emergencies and who really hasn't. For one example, I was helping a woman and her husband to the tune of 200 to 300 dollars a month for a handful of months, because every month there would be some new emergency. I finally figured out, in that particular case, that I was being used because they knew they could get money from me and were very manipulative, so I've stopped being a doormat. As I said, sometimes in the beginning it's really hard to know who is being real and who isn't though.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

You are absolutely right. There are people who will totally take advantage of you. I should have known based on some of my interactions with this homeowner that something else was going on, but in the moment of frustration, I made an error in judgment rather than just asking what might be going on. But she was also very understanding and apologized profusely for not having told me what had been going on, and it was totally legit. You were good to recognize that you were being a doormat and cutting off that financial lifeline. It's unfortunate that there are those types of people out there.😞

@Sheryl777 8 месяцев назад

@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 👍❤

@lawaincooley6788 8 месяцев назад

Wow!!! You are a God-send for this family!!! Moving is overwhelming. Having some help is such a load-off.

@hannahkennedy2259 7 месяцев назад

I love your content. Also I really love laundry 🥰👏👏👏

@suemax231 3 месяца назад

I think the word you might have been looking for the word “disappearing “ when working on that shelving in the last part of the video. It’s all good.

@CammyHell 7 месяцев назад

Mac wouldn’t care even if you did copy him ❤ It’s the highest form of flattery haha After watching your laundry video I feel like copying you 😂 It looks so good on that big wooden table ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

Haha, thank you!💕

@ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq 8 месяцев назад

❤❤❤❤ awesome ❤❤❤❤

@SparrowStockwell 8 месяцев назад

Excellent work, Bonnie!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thank you!

@jerridavis6462 8 месяцев назад

Enjoyed from Texas!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

So glad!

@annafalciglia5165 2 месяца назад

Lovely surprise! 💞

@Frankieloodles 7 месяцев назад

Inept is definitely not a word I would use to describe you. Youre wonderfully weird and its fantastic that you can help others with your gifts ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

Awww, well, thank you!💕

@JOSIE19643 8 месяцев назад

Wow !! You are amazing !! Stay safe 👍❤🇨🇦

@cathyprosser1050 8 месяцев назад

Good job! As always! You are amazing to be able to figure out and do some home repair stuff too😊! I am so completely lame when it comes to anything like that and most always have to have someone else come do those projects. And you are not weird, Bonnie. You are unique in all the world. There's only one you and you are very special and gifted at so many things. Your heart for helping others is always shining through. ✨️ So just keep on shining ✨️ 💛 😊

@elainelittauauthor2218 7 месяцев назад

You always do such a great job!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!

@timetochange3002 8 месяцев назад

Great video 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼your so helpful 💕

@ginas.1110 8 месяцев назад

Great to see the wrap-up of your first series!

@jemreandeau3583 8 месяцев назад

Great video, hurry back. ❤

@lauraharshbarger9486 8 месяцев назад

Maybe check with Mac. He seems really smart about that stuff.

@plaidspolitics 8 месяцев назад

So true about not knowing what folks are going through. Even if you are trying to be in someone's life and think you have a view of it all, you may find out how very much there is trouble beyond what you could have guessed. We started finding out a lot more about a family member's situation when a sudden trip to the hospital turned into needing to be in this person's home and step in to help with day-to-day living. It was shocking to find the disarray of not only the property but also finances and seeing so much more of the issues that were a concern be just worse than we had guessed. We all are just one sudden event away from everything being in control to just complete chaos. And some are better at appearances and keeping things together well on the surface, but then something unexpected comes up and that facade can't keep going. Thanks for your videos, your insights and reminders, and for getting into the messes and bringing the beauty into it.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Exactly. Thanks for sharing!😊

@sheilacaine 8 месяцев назад

❤ yes good luck to the family. You are awesome too. ❤

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

🥰

@KettyFormaggio Месяц назад

love you!

@sellyourhomenowbook 8 месяцев назад

Watching you fold the laundry i felt your love for the lady of the house. ❤ that was so nice.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

😊 thank you

@SparrowStockwell 8 месяцев назад

Bonnie, to me nothing you said sounded weird. 🌸🌼🌸

@dennisrecktenwald386 8 месяцев назад

Love your maintenance skills. I enjoy helping friends and family with projects and love to see the different reactions when job is completed. Next time a song pops in your head you should sing, everyone would love that. Great job on this house too. Have a great week!!! 😀😀

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Hmmm...not sure everyone would love the singing. I can't carry a tune to save my life! 🤔😅 I might have a while slew of people unsubscribe. I guess there's only one way to find out...but I'm definitely not rapping!😄

@dennisrecktenwald386 8 месяцев назад

I’ll be watching, lol

@jarcha4200 8 месяцев назад

Humans tend to judge others. Stinks but it’s true.

@marriedagain2008 8 месяцев назад

Yes, your laundry nerd is still here. 😁 I was glad to see you were able to edit the footage from this place. As for Eminem....going to listen, again. I hadn't thought about that song for a long time.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

I had a friend send me a link to that song after I put this video out. It's a good song. I do prefer the clean version, which is what she sent me... haha!

@kathybeal4408 8 месяцев назад

Great job!

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

Thanks!

@Mindy-c5z 8 месяцев назад

Good work! I know we have taken down handrails when moving in order to get beds, large furniture out.

@saratalajlo8972 8 месяцев назад

Hi, maybe Mack from Midwest Magic Cleaning has used that Editing software, mabe he could give you some help or advice? Love your videos & how honest you are about things.

@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад

He actually uses Premiere pro, which is probably the most complicated software to learn, but I already hit him up to see if he knew anything about my editing software and he doesn't, unfortunately. He has been helpful in other aspects of my computer and storage, etc., though.