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The part of rekindled flames gives it away about Matty.. pretty sure they had a fling or knew each other before Joe briefly right?

@@louismarquis42202014! So mentioning decades and stuff like that in other songs are Matty too

I think it is Joe he wore suits also and he is a coward.

I think some parts are Joe and other parts are Matty

​@louismarquis4220 and the "should of let it stayed buried" that makes no sense in regards to Joe but perfect sense for Matty.

Thanks for the comment! Im glad you enjoyed my reaction. I really liked this song and I cant wait to react to more Taylor.

Yes you can. I had one.

you know.. many times before, Taylor has been mixing in ideas/situations from different relationships into ONE SONG. Like what she did for Stay, stay, stay or I Did something bad or Getaway Car...where she will talk about an ex for the 1st half and then ANOTHER EX for the next half of the song.

Yea I really liked this one and I will def react to more TS.

Thanks so much for the comment and suggestions! I cant wait to react to more Taylor.

Thanks so much for the comment! I really liked this song and I cant wait to react to more Taylor.

She had me there... XD

I mean London Boy is referencing Joe so she definitely has referred to Joe as a boy. I don’t care about who the songs about, just wanted to clarify

I also think this is about Matty

@@ashryvern6485 that is a good point. I do believe it's the only song she does this in though, and it was fairly early on in their relationship. Also, I can't recall her ever calling Joe a boy in a derogatory way...whereas she rips Matty to shreds with the word across this album 😂😂😂

@@ashryvern6485 yeah, I tend not to care too much about who songs are about either. But I do care when the reactor guesses incorrectly and the comparatively innocent Joe gets accusations attached to him that he didn't earn. I was also quite miffed with Taylor when she said in All Too Well (10 minute version) that Jake Gyllenhaal only kept dating much younger women after Taylor... Because it just wasn't true 🤷 There has to be some accountability between lyrics and reality if any reactor is going to start making judgements as if they know.

⁠@@emmavinkBut, All Too Well was originally on Red, which came out in 2012. She apparently wrote the longer version back then also. So, at that time, Jake Gyllenhaal had gone on to date another young woman Taylor’s age. Since then, his girlfriends have not been as young.

Because women have biological issues that men don’t!!!!! Men can have babies and families forever, 6 years doesn’t mean anything for them. 35 + is considered a “geriatric pregnancy” and you are considered high risk and often fave fertility issues Understand now? Unfortunately women have biology to deal with it’s just a fact that sucks!!

I don’t think Joe is innocent in it but neither is Taylor, she certainly was emotionally cheating on him and she wrote about it often.

@@Suprachiasmatic for sure I agree. Any relationship is a two way street. What annoys me though is that people act like Taylor was just responding to Joe making her feel insecure. I call BS and argue that this is what holding on to Matty did to Joe. And of course you emotionally pull away if you don't feel fully emotionally safe with someone. Sadly, the worst thing I think Joe did was letting the relationship go on so long when he knew he couldn't fully commit because he didn't feel secure. Obviously I don't mean that he was perfect in every other way. No one is 😢

@@emmavink I think Taylor is guilty of letting the relationship go on too long too because she didn’t want to face the media’s and her haters’ jokes about her when it ended. Her relationship’s are always fodder and she didn’t want to give them even more fuel. Plus her fans were SO into what they thought that relationship was that I think she let shame keep her there way too long.

@@Suprachiasmatic I totally get that and it's a very natural thing to do. We've all stayed in relationships, friendships, platonic relationships with toxic family members, etc., out of shame and embarrassment. I just think it needs to be acknowledged that this came from both sides. I've been listening to Lover a bit more recently during my TTPD journey because Lover was the first full TS I really let myself get into (in 37 now and honestly, before 2019 I was still super busy with my MA and working and just stuck to my favourite artists at that point). Anywho, my point is that we need to look at a song like Afterglow to get a hint that Taylor really hurt Joe badly less than 2 years into their relationship. I suspect this was partly because she was still writing about Matty and partly because she kept accusing Joe of stuff he wasn't doing because of her serious trust issues after John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhaal. Of course Joe played a part in the relationship ending too. But to pretend it was a one way street is so deeply unfair 😢