@Ryan Ong So your comfort is far more important to you than other people's emotions. How self centred. Maybe take a step back and think about what kind of person you are. A woman lost her husband.
@Ryan Ong so you want reporters to hold their emotions for later while reporting news of their loved ones passing away? How'd you feel if you were in her shoes and someone said please don't cry in front of me I am getting "uncomfortable".
@@user-ei9dh1tx3g I don't have any problem with what he does. Of course that's his opinion and he's entitled to it. I was pointing out the fact that he's so insensitive. Was letting him know that's all.
@@slingshot9150 Not a joke. Military personnel are expected to drive on & continue with the mission no matter how close they were to those killed but everyone else is allowed to stop for a few days.
But idiots would say that she is only doing it for attention or sympathy or money Then breakdown into a senseless argument about women and narcissism It's sad, really
@@firstblessings8777 bruh what no remarrying is bad when ur like that ur husband died how can u remarry its better stay single untill u actuallly think u want to marry or stary a relestionship
Although CNN didn't really have to post about it though. Like were they doing it for their profit or to show someone who had something done to them? There is no hate intended, and i do feel bad for the woman, but I feel as if this was meant to draw views much more than to mourn the women's husbands death
That hurts. My highschool classmate, who became a cop, responded to her kid step-brother's fatal accident. She had to lateral to a another state because she didn't want to respond to another loved one's death ever again. She's retired now. She served with honor and bravery.
Such a weird statement. I guess it’s weird that people who watch subbed anime feel emotion at those shows? Language barriers don’t mean anything really.
I really gave it a thought bt u know what she did only showcases her strength of character and ability to remain calm in a tragic situation. And u know we really can't judge people based on how they react. All are different. Someone may have cried right away bt some people might jst pretend they are fine until everyone is away. U really can't judge them based on this. I adore her presence of mind . May god bless her
My comment was more about the captions, not herself. Saying that she remained professional, as if it would be wrong if she just went away and they would have stopped broadcasting
Oh god I thought she'd announce her husband's death to honor his memory or something, not learn it herself live on air, god that's an absolute nightmare, I feel so bad for her...
If she cried on air I would still respect her. Grieve has no boundary. If you want to cry. Cry. Massive respect for this woman. She has strong heart. Very sorry for what she'd been going through.
As a local radio news anchor, I once read a story about a judge who’d been shot, only to find out the victim was my cousin!! Thankfully, although he had to spend some time in the hospital, he recovered and is fine now.
@@hutch2811 yes, I was..thankfully, my cousin recovered, but while the cops were trying to catch the guy who shot him, my cousin was kept in a secret location, which drove his mom nuts because she couldn’t find out where her son was. They did tell her he was safe.
@@karlaarbella1733 Where did it say that she read the names? In fact, at 00:45 it clearly says that she learnt about it after the show. You really think someone can control their emotions on learning the demise of their spouse and keep on reading the news?
No one in this world has a right to criticize her in this situation. There is nothing wrong with her holding it together any more than there is nothing wrong with her breaking down. She did what she had to do in the situation that she was in.That's not an easy job. Newscasters have to report on so many horrible things and stay calm and collected. They are trained to keep going and not break down no matter what is being reported because they have to be objective. To be just reporting on an incident without the knowledge that her husband was one of the fatalities on this horrific crash but only realizing while talking that she may have just announced her husband's death on air, damn that's brutal.
Why do we think it is objective not to break down over something sad? I would think the opposite. Not breaking down over something would not be being objective because it objectively is bad and you are responding in accurately Maybe all this “professionalism“ is why so many kids are bad at reading people, knowing how they are feeling, and knowing how to react to things.
@@PhoenicianPrincess88 There's another element to it, which is she could have been in a state of shock or denial. If that were me in the moment I think I my first instinct would be to think that it can't be true.
@@MrBaronCabron i mean a loved ones death is something impactful, if you can stay calm and do what u have to do in spite of that, to me is something strong
My mother used to be a journalist for a local news station and would often report on accidents. When I was about 6 months old (and when she was about 3 months pregnant with my little sister) the station received word of a bad car accident on a highway just outside of town. Naturally, she prepared to go out to report on it, but just before she was about to go, she was informed that one of the people involved in the accident was my dad. Rather than make her report on it, her boss let her go to the hospital so she could be with my dad. He (along with everyone else) survived, but the accident crippled him. This video reminded me of (a much more devastating version of) the story my parents tell me about my father's accident. Thankfully, I still have both of my parents, but I can only imagine how much pain this woman felt in this moment.
prem suresh lol my bad! my sister and I are 1 year and 10 days apart. I was 6 months old, but my mom was only 3 months pregnant with my sister. sorry I’m really bad at math, but the story is real!
that is an extremely unfortunate coincidence. she should have been contacted immediately when the victims were identified. the fact that the news will find out about the death of a loved one before you is terrible.
cj7 doll Jesus Christ you Trump supporters are delusional. YOU CAN LITERALLY FACT CHECK IT ITS NOT THAT HARD. And what’s with the singling out of CNN? Do you think they’re the only news network that bends the truth?
Can I just say that this woman would still be strong even if she broke down crying on air? There is no wrong way to grieve. 169 comments, must have missed 69. Either way, NOICE. Second edit, it’s a joke calm down Karen.
Actually there is. You can't grieve on air especially on news. Unprofessional, makes the channel look bad and makes everyone uncomfortable. Fact is fact
kieran pearson I’m gonna day this one more time, and I invite any heartless asshole to fuck off. THERE IS NO WRONG WAY TO GRIEVE. For the people in the back... THERE IS NO WRONG WAY TO GRIEVE.
These are sociopaths with underdeveloped emotional intelligence. They won't 'feel' any compassion even it happens to them. It's just one of the sad realities of the world.
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I am so sorry to witness such a traumatic experience that a wife had to go thru in front of a camera viewed by many. May her husband soul rest in peace and her life back to normal soon...
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@@danfernandogaming1851 first off who said I was tough. Second of all this isn't something that you forget. Losing someone like this so tragically doesn't heal
Yes I am crying right now and I am a 40 year old guy but still I am crying. Cannt imagine what kind of emotions must be running through her head when she was reading the news and realising that she has a strong connection with the news
I feel like people forgot the fact that she was just suspecting that her husband was one of the victims and still doesn't know that her husband died until the show ends, that's why she wasn't breaking down on air, but still imagine the huge anxiety she had on air and then learning that her husband is dead is just really sad.
Everything gets turned into a race always. "But I suffered more than you!" "No, It's ME! I'VE suffered worse!" "You people don't know real pain!". We've all gone through some things and that's nothing to brag about or compete about.
I'm so very sorry for her loss this must be such a difficult thing!!!I Pray for God to comfort her and surround her with his love. She did an amazing job in keeping herself from breaking down.
This is why we have STANDARDS in journalism. Do not show pictures of deceased people on live TV. Do not give any identifying information until next of kin can be notified... this includes close up images of cars, license plate numbers, etc. Compassion and dignity are more important than "the story."
Did you guys even watch the whole video?? Read whats written at 0:43 She learned her husband was dead after the show, while reporting she had no idea that one of the dead person was her husband
@@akshay9602 It also said that she started suspecting one of the victims may have been her husband when she was hearing more details and stayed calm even with the blurred pictures.
I can't believe some of the comments, saying crap and stuff like "crying is ok and nothing unprofessional shit" it's the fact she suspected it and WASN'T sure. Instead of acting on suspicion,with sooo much anxiety she still completed reporting, not showing a hint on her face. That's the professionalism being talked about in the video. She's definitely very strong
Can we just stop worshipping "professionalism"? Your employer will replace you tomorrow if you performed poorly or if you died, regardless of how professional you are. Humans have human lives and experiences and we need to normalise behaving as such instead of pretending that life outside of work doesn't exist. Work culture around the world, except for a few places, is so cutthroat that you're ridiculed and your promotions are at risk if you want to take leave, if you're not perky and chirpy 24/7, if your family needs you and you need to take half the day off, or even if you want to go on a well-deserved holiday. You have to pretend that you simply don't have a life outside of work. CNN themselves are exploiting her pain for their profit by uploading such a video. Don't be fooled into sacrificing your human nature at the altar of hypercapitalism; we don't live in a vacuum.
@@yeonkimin2566 i lost three grandparents in one year. 2 of them have lived together with me since i was born. And that was the saddest year in my life cuz i've never lost my family before
Breaking News are only summarized and edited in such a short period of time and had to be given to the reporter at the same time they had to broadcast it, thats how live news works if you havent known yet.
Jesus.... imagine losing the thing you love more than anything else! And it was only 18 months after their wedding.. this world is unfair and too cruel..
It’s Kali-Yug bro. Demon Kali or as Christians would call her, Satan or Lucifer is ruling us all from behind the curtains. We’re doomed and there’s no escaping this shit for the next 427,000 years.
The fact that she stayed composed is just shocking and admirable to say the least, I can never imagine what she went through at that moment, truly heartbreaking.
@@pianist-yx6ot Do you think that Indians are the only scammers out there? I'm American and I had American scammers from my state call my home and thought I was going to fall for it. I'll bet someone in your family is one of them.
I'm watching it 4 years after. But still I pray to God , give her power to surpass her pain. We can't imagine how was she stopping herself to make sure his husband's condition and cry on set. It was really tough. But she had every right to cry but she didn't. She is very courageous.
You know her? If not how do you know what she is feeling...If it was a male and his wife got killed I would’ve said the same thing......It is sad to loose a loved one no matter your gender or race
This reminds me of something that happened in my community. There was a really bad accident and a guy stopped to help pull people out of the car then he realized that one of them was his mom and she unfortunately died on the spot 🙏🏾
This reminds me of something that happened in my community. There was a really bad accident and a guy stopped to help pull people out of the car then he realized that one of them was his mom and she unfortunately died on the spot 🙏🏾
I know of a similar story about a deputy sheriff in my hometown. He was called to a car accident that sent a vehicle into a local river. His home was in that river valley. When he arrived on scene, he recognized the car as his wife's vehicle. She was the victim of the accident. Terrible tragedy. Something like that would break most people, including me.
I know of a story even more dramatic.. A paramedic responded to a deadly crash where his son, his pregnant wife with their second baby and his mom were involved. No one survived.
18 months only. I would honestly die inside for the rest of my life or even just die if a heartbreak if I married my bf and he passed away in 18 months. That’s too less time together and too early. It would shatter me into a maniac.
@@MarendraNodi5.6-inch with a name like that and values like yours, I can say you are pathetic. Neither you know to respect the Prime Minister nor other's emotions.
@@ryuk6517 Respect the Prime Minister?😂😂😂😂😂 Is he my daddy to be respected by me? Are you here after having cow dung chyawanprash? The PM doesn't himself respect the dead or alive. His only expertise lies in killing people either via riots or lack of oxygen. Chal ab dafa ho ja yahan se. #bhakt
If if was me that news room would have closed and would have probably lost the job. I cannot imagine what she went through at that time of seeing the images.
There wouldn't be any problem if she started grieving on AIR, but her tolerance and her passion to her job and that professionalism is just too good .....
Actually there would be because she didn’t know this person who died was her husband till after, so I would’ve been unprofessional to jump to conclusions and grieve without knowing for sure.
I remember seeing an old guy walking around in my town. I always saw him walking. Wasn't sure why I always saw him walking. He had his work uniform on, and always walking all over town. I found out later he lost his whole family in a car accident. The trauma was enough that he refused to get inside another vehicle ever since. I would hate to lose a family member like that.
Wow, I've never heard anything like this before 😥 Can you even begin to imagine how hard that was for her? Her new husband, only married a year. But ultimately she showed what a strong woman she is, and that strength will give her the will to move on with her life, and hopefully in time find happiness with someone new. 🙏
