In Singapore, 1 in 4 secondary school students experienced bullying. More than that, 1 in 4 turned out to be bullies themselves. It's either... you get bullied or you are the bully.
Hear Erin and David bravely share their stories and shed light on what it's like to be bullied and how one of them became a bully eventually.
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▬▬ In this video ▬▬
0:00 "Have you ever been bullied?"
00:16 Intro
00:31 "One in four secondary school students actually experienced bullying."
01:09 "How many of you have gotten bullied before?"
01:50 "Did you eventually bully people?"
02:06 Erin's experience of bullying
02:44 "I was always the butt of the joke."
03:23 Plot twist
04:30 David's side of the story
05:48 From victim to villain
06:50 Confession time
08:05 "Throughout this whole time, you don't feel damn fake meh?"
11:23 "Did you ever try to fight back?"
16:57 The moment David reevaluated his life
23:11 "Was there any point you all sat down to talk about this?"
25:06 "Anger is like drinking poison, expecting the other person to be hurt."
26:10 "I don't want to be angry anymore."
27:28 "I am not that strong to even admit that I was wrong."
28:52 "Actually the bully moves on with life so easily, but the bullied that carries all these things."
29:30 "Do you carry any of these into your adulthood?"
30:15 "I realised that my identity is not based on peoples' perception on me."
31:45 "I was able to process my emotions."
32:43 Words to encourage people who went through bullying
37:29 Conclusion
► Resources
- For children aged 7 to 12, Tinkle Friend helpline at 1800 2744 788, or online chat at www.tinklefriend.sg
- Coalition Against Bullying for Children and Youth's consultation service at www.cabcy.org.sg/e-consultation
- Touch Cyber Wellness's TOUCHline at 1800 377 2252
- Help123 helpline at 1800 6123 123
- SheCares@SCWO: Text 6571 4400 or call 8001 01 4616
- Samaritans of Singapore: Text to 9151 1767 or call 1767
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9 июл 2024
