Very interesting. The story about the 'absent minded' Abuja guy. He was not only lying but manipulating your friend by making sure every now and again she is a puppet on his string. He knows what he is doing, some men prefer their woman slightly broken.
SylviasWorld oh! U think? Well, I always looked at the situation as him being absent minded wen it came to their r/ship but who knows. Like u said, he might jst be playing on her weakness towards him. Anyways, Thanks for your contribution babes!