I actually like listening to tes xas stories. Even though theyre all similiar in some ways these stories offer lessons to be learned and the real side of people in situation that test who they really are.
If I had that kind of money. Why would I loan the money to someone else to enrich themselves. I would take the money and invest for my family. Don’t trust anyone, including families. You are not a bank, there are banks out there where they can get loans from. Good lesson learned story.
Good lesson learned os phauj Ntxawm. Txawm yog li ntawv es koj tus nyab Toojnkaub thiaj li hais tias kom peb nyob li no xwb thiaj li sib hlub. Tshaj no ces sib hlub tsis taus lawm no mas. Muaj coob tus tsis muaj hmoo muaj nyiaj ces yim muaj nyiaj ces yim muaj plhus xwb. Yim muaj nyiaj ces siab yim lim hiam xwb thiab. Pab hlub tus nyab thiab tus nus no kawg li. Niam txiv twb yug tsis muaj coob los tseem ua li no lawm xwb thiab.
Yus ntseeg tias yus tus nus koom yus 1 lub plab yug, noj 1 tsum mov hlob yuav tsis tua tau yus tabsis 1 co tseem tua tau yus lub siab ua yus lub kua muag ntshav tawm plaws thiab mog es txhob ntseeg2 os. Thaum tseem noj 1 tsum mov ces txawj sib hlub os tabsis thaum nyias mus muaj nyias lub neej lawm ces txawv hlo lawm es txhob ntseeg tag2 lawm os lawv. Yus yuav hlub yuav ntseeg ces hlub thiab ntseeg yus tus kheej xwb mog.
Viv ncaus txhob tu tu siab os mog yeej yuav npam xwb xwb yeej tsis tau noj ntev li os neeg khu khu peb cov nyiaj xas noj coob tus neej puas tag lawm os viv ncaus
Thank pom kiag tsheej pob $$$$lawm ces tseev yog nkauj muam nraug nus or kwv tij koj yeej yuav pom law lub Siab tseeb22ntag .laugh tej laus thiaj piv txojlus nyiaj txiag yog ntiaj teb lub kua muag iab kua muag daw no ces yog li no tiag pab neb khuv xim neb $10000
Ua teb xas mas thiaj paub neeg ntiaj teb lub siab os...lawv aw...kuv ces kawm tiav kiag pem teb xas nrog kuv tus kwv thiab tus niam ntxawm lawm os..kuv ces ua tsaug rau qhov kuv paub me2 vaj tswv es vaj tswv rub kuv tes rov qab los lawm xwb tsis li ces ntshe kuv twb ciaj kiag ib huam nab qab loj lawm os...niaj hnub no ces kuv tsis kam ntseeg ib tug neeg li lawm nawb kuv ces hlub tsiaj lawm xwb kuv pom aub thiab miv tuag ces kuv quaj tshaj kuv pom neeg tuag li lawm nawb lawv aw..😢
Ua cas twb Nyob meskas lawm es yuav qiv nyiaj rau Leej twg los yuav tsum ua kom muaj ntaub ntawv Xee npe tib si yog tsis muaj teeb meem los ok hos yog ho muaj teeb meem ces thiaj muaj pov thawj hos!
Hais Yog kawg os thaum txom nyem ma luag thiaj pom u zoo xwb os thaum luag muaj nyiaj lawm luag tseem cem tias u ua plu es u thiaj hlub luag luag tsis paub u lawm xwb ma lawv txawm li ntawv los tsis ua cas cia lub ntuj mam saib xwb thiaj li ncaj ncees nawb vim u hais tsis tau li cas u yog tus hlub luag los u tseem yog tus txhaum rau luag thiab no nawb txij hnub no mus txhob hlub 2 neeg txom nyem lawm cia nyias phoom nyias thiaj muaj nqi nawb txawm peb yuav tham npawm twg los cov ttseeg kuj muaj cov tsis tseeg kuj muaj thiab nawb cia twg raug twg thiaj paub xwb os
Wow!!! Hopefully other Hmong people will learn from these kinda stories. Don't borrow money to family/relatives. If you must..then write up a contract. If you don't, you have no one to blame but yourself.
All drug dealers, all putting their one life on the line for materialistic things, all of which they can't take with them when they go six feet under. Also, if the sister and bil were that rich, just simply give the brother's money back to him plus a small interest. Trust me, I'm an icu nurse who knows the simplicity of a life and how valuable a life is. Nothing can compare to freedom and life itself!
Cov neeg ua xas no es twb hnov tias tsuas pub ua 99 tsob xwb no es cas ho yuav muaj txog 2 daig, 3 daig? Cov no ua luam qab rooj loj li loj. Txhob ntshaw, tsis ntev ces yuav tau mus hlob kav hlau thiab nws cov nyiaj yuav bond tsis tau nws tawm os.
Lawv tseg kiag txoj kev nus muag thiab viv ncaus tsis txhob mus ua xas ua kev li nawb txaus ntxub thiab txaus ntshai lub maib no thiab tseem muaj ntau yam tshaj qhov no thiab ho
Nej puas paub hais tias lawv mus uas los xav kom nej paub nyiaj ib yam li lawv thiab xwb os...Peb nyob CALIFORNIA Tabsis peb twb tsi mob siab nrog lawv uas li os...Vim tsi ncaj ncees rau yus thiab lub STATES CALIFORNIA NO vim lawv tsi them taxes li os.
You go into that business expecting your sister to sell it for you? No, could just took your $100k back. Yall was greedy and expecting too much in return
Cov mus ua xas ces siab tawv heev lawv tua tau neeg pov tseg. Lawv tsis care tias koj txheeb ze lawv, it’s all about Benjamin. Never loan any family money or get into business with family. Neb tus muam tsev neeg no ces koj tus txiv neb kav tsij hlawv xyab ntawv foom xwb kav liam. Nws twb yog tus pluag es tuaj txais neb nyiaj ua ntej nkawd thiaj ua tau xas. Nkawd mom neb txheej. Lessons learned.
Money is the root of all evil. Keep your own money. Dont lend it to anyone unless you are just gifting yo families. People are so selfish and greedy when they see money. But the audacity of the people who borrowed your money and then dont want to pay back. If i borrow my sibling or friends $20 i cant even face them until i pay them. Its such shameful. Smdh. If you dont want to pay or cant pay, dont borrow it. If you have proof of lending money to whoever, and they dont pay you, itemize it at tax so you can get credit for it. Ask your tax preparer about it.
True...when it comes to family ces most of the time its free lawm xwb nawb. Don't give full amount they ask only give a bit es if they don't pay back you won't hurt as much. Nice people are too giving. Lesson learned for me too. Even if we come from same stomach our hearts are not the same. 100k is a big amount I doubt they will want to pay it back since there is no paper proof either.
Nco qab ntsoov tias Banks muaj nyiaj ntau, leej twg yuav nyiaj ces kav tsij coa nws mus txais tom Banks…. Nws tsis them ces nws tau bad credits xwb…. Txhob cia nws los txais ntawm yus es thaus kawg ua teeb ncuab nawb
Peb Hmoob lub siab thiab tus cwj pwm ces yeej hloov tsis tau li os txawm yog kwv tij niam txiv yug kiag ib plab los txog thaum pom nyiaj ntau lawm ces yeej tsaus muag xwb xwb li tseem yuav sib tua es txeeb los yog qaum nyiaj yuav Pab nrog neb tu siab kawg li os nawb
How in the world Hmong people have so much money. Most of the stories I hear, they have 50 K and up. While I'm struggling..what are their secrets.. Maybe stealing from the government.😢
LMAO! Luag twb tias thaum txais thiab thaum hais mas ntuj aw txaus ntseeg 100% tabsis hmoob lo lus tias thaum mus mas luag ntxhi tabsis thaum yuav rov mas ntuj aw yeeb ncuab ces muaj tseeb li no LOL!
Hmoob mas lwj liam tiag tiag. Cov xa ko muaj dab nyob hauv cov xa xa yuav xyob nej kom nej raug teebmeem sib cab sib ceg sib ntxub sib rhuav tsis sib haumxeeb naws. Xa xyob cuab xa xyob yig. Xa yog ib cov dab ntxwg nyoog naws. Nej cog xa los tua txhuas haiv neeg cov me tub me nyuam naws. Nej cov niag xa ko mas nej cog los tsim txom txhuas haiv neeg cov tubkis ntag. Yim ua yim raug teebmeem yim cog yim yuav lwj liam mus. Nej ntxim ntaub tshaj
Tus muam yawm yij ko siab phem tiag2 li nawb, yuav npam nkawv xwb mas. Twb txais neb nyiaj ntau tag npaum li ntawv neb twb kam txais rau es tseem ua tau siab phem npaum li ko thiab tus muam ko mas ntxim tuag tsis ntxim ua neeg lawm siab phem dhau. Niag muam dev ko tom ntej no nws yuav pluag2 tshaj qub tuaj vim nws siab phem muaj lub ntuj pom kawg.
Hmoob cov DR. Yog DR. Xas xwb lawv...Thiab cov tib neeg pluag mas yeej rov taw tuaj ntuj tag mus li os lawv aw...Neb ruam tshaj li thawj thawj phaum lawv tub khu tag lawm ntseeg thiab hmoob aw...AUB NPAM TIAG LI YOM HMOOB AW.
It's really sad...don't trust others too much even your own blood family members. Kuv ces lesson learned os yus pab2 yus cov niag sibling but when they are better off or can take care of themself, they will surely cem yus pluag nawb. They don't remember who was the one that helped them all the time. It's okay hais tsis tau lawm ces leave it up to karma lawm xwb. I feel bad for your late husband he did as much as he could to love his sister but she became a snake at the end. Next time if you loan alot of money to anyone make sure you have paper proof nawb like my dad loaning money to my uncle and aunty teb xa. They did pay him back. You cannot trust anyone these days.
Hmoob ces muab hais ces ruam . Tej yam phom sij rau yus lub neej los yeej nias siab qees ua underd the table kom nplua nuj tag kis tabsis yus lub neej phomsij rau yus txoj sia yeej tsis quav ntsej li lawm ces pab tsis tau cov neeg no, cia kom ib hnub twg lawv rov sib tua lawv hlwb txaws tag nram teb los yog lawv teeb meem , hos lawv ho mag mus hlob kav hlau tag lawv lub neej los yog lawv teeb meem xwb os.
Koj niag txiv nws yeem nws es. Nws xav rho nyiaj yuav nws muam kev hlub na has… muam hlub nws taub hau do dus😂 No smart and conscious person would hand a stack of cash for someone to borrow
Cov neej neeg tes xas sib txais nyiaj los sis sib qev nyiaj ua business no mas dhuav siab tiag2 ua Hmoob style na... twb tsis yog yus los yeej muaj ntau yam ruam heev. Mloog kom txaus2 ua kev kawm os peb ib tsoom hmoob.
Oyo yus nros yua ruam es yus niam tag nrho yus tej nyiaj txais rau lawv ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb mas. Yog lawv phem es tsia them es yog neb zoo zoo cas tsis hlawv xyab hlaws ntawv rau kiag ma. Ntshe neb los yeej tsia zoo thiab es lawv thiaj li ua phem rau neb. Neb ces nyiaj poob tag thiab tseem ua hauj lwm qab rooj li ko ces mua noj tshuaj tuag tau lawm os
Ua cas neb yuav tsuam ua luaj li os cov xas es lawv dag tias tas npluaj muab khuj tag no tsi yog os yog neb tus yawm yij nkawv khuj neb noj xwb os cov txiav ko los yog neb tug yawm yij xwb os.
While I believe that Hmong-American should not invest in corruption and criminal activities (weeds growing without proper licensing), I have sympathy for you and your family. My advise is NEVER EVER loan family members $ for business operation. It never ends well.
Okay, just horrible disrespect and greed. Yes, it is a choice and so many choose it. So very sad. Business Investment Capital Under the Table - understand what it is worth. There is no accountability. It is just an honor system among people who know and understand much less. So, how can real honor survive? The risk is so high that it's suicide much like this story. And after all, there is not much respect, integrity, or pride for anything "under the table". Some people love their dogs, but that's usually where we feed them, under the table. See, dogs do know where occasionally food will fall, however those on the table usually care very little about what's happening underneath it. Make decisions wisely and stay on the table.
Niam tais aw!!! Cas neb ruam ua luaj na !! Nyiaj los txais rau , lawv tuaj nyiag yus khoom los tseem tsis tua kiag thiab yog lawv tua yus ces yus kawg tuag dawb !!! Pab neb khuv xim ib puas phav kawg nej khwv li cas nej thiaj khaws tau nyiaj ntau ua luaj .
Tus me viv ncaus… Lawv phem lawv tus tub tuag es koj tias yog kev npam. Ua li koj tus txiv ne…tuag es hos yog li cas?? Puas yog kev npam thiab?? Los yog kev dabgsi?? Tsis make sense
