NO CONTACT TO GET HER BACK STEP BY STEP 

To all you guys out there. Been there, numerous times. I'm older now, 40s, and ill save you all the wasted time, energy and emotion. If a woman finishes you and clears off, don't even bother chasing after her. She didnt want you and from my experience probably has another guy on the books somewhere. There's always orbitors, she'll be up to something. Just get on with your life. Yes it'll hurt, you'll miss her, you'll be upset. BUT..... it'll pass and you'll be with another bird soon enough and you'll wonder why you even stuck it out with her for so long.

Off topic! No contact means u dont reach out at all! Get bussy and let go. They will reach out and if they dont then ur better off without them.

Thanks for these videos man. Been watching everyday since my breakup. They help alot 👍

I like your style to Tell these truths. I appreciate you and Lucia D from the Art of love.

Saw this video back in July fresh into the break now 5 month's later this video is even more empowering 🤙🤙... keep it up bro

NC is not easy, but very simple: KNOW THIS, YOU ARE NOT WELCOME IN THEIR LIFE…do COLD TURKEY and never look back…gain your confidence back…and you will thank yourself later

Bro you hit the shock part on the nail

great topic

I’m going no contact been there for her and everything I’m getting my car and just chilling back on my purpose. She said I have too much on my plate and can’t handle her or anything. Im just going to be chilling for now on . I’m happy

Bro this video was posted 5 years back and only now Im listening to the first REAL talk on this subject. Pure facts. I take this view...Distance is key, distance yourself, yes you might reach out initially after the breakup as emotions are high but then you must snap out of it and give her what she wants, that being the break-up. It sucks but act like a man, take it and learn, grow, do you. Try to not reach out, forget all these ideas on when is right, nothing is right if you simp. Give them plenty of distance and then let the Universe return her, let her come back to you. Stay strong, if you feel she's the one, then theres a strong chance she is, but do not push her away by chasing her. Anyway this video is the one !!

my ex reached out after 3 weeks to return my things. she got upset because I said I might not be home. she made another day to bring it over and then never rang me or brought the stuff over... any thoughts?

How do I get on the email list?

Sup bro. Jus had a quick question. Do you recommend unfollowing your ex (if you want them back) on snapchat and social media? Currently on day 24 of no contact. Great video!

So this is my story bro, i broke up if my ex and she blames me, she does have a good reason, after a fight that she started i broke up if her, and o boy how i regret it. On the start, she kept asking me why we broke up and i asked to go back, she said she needed some time...The after a while i asked her if i cold see her and she gave me the blame speech and o just apologize, we talked once more in a casual way and she said that she membered me after seen a movie news and didn't said nothing in her worlds "The time for me to yell you stuff is gone. Anyway, you are a big fan and you probably new it right?", im a weak of nc now, do you think i got a shot? I broke her heart and im really afraid of no chance. We had plans of getting married, use a commitment ring and all.

I'm a lesbian(I'm more femme and her more masculine) that was dating an educated, cute woman long distance (I know!) for 2 months. She didn't end up coming the day before our date, and we got into this weird argument, I started No contact immediately that day, it has been nearly 21 days. I just want to know how I should move forward if she reaches out after 30 days. Thanks.

I am doing no contact mostly to forget about her. She has clearly moved on with a new man. Pretty official: family is involved. I just find easier to deal with to let go by tricking my mind in believing that she might be back one day when knowing Danm well thay the chance of that happening is low.

How do you make people feel so confident about getting back with there Ex. Since I’ve watching your videos I been taking notes as well for my sake hoping they work with my Ex.

What If she says we're not right 4 each other then goes completely cold but refuses to delete my mobile number??

I would like to know why my ex is saying we are still together, says coming home on certain dates, never shows. I ended up finding out she's with another ex, and cheated on me with him, but this ex supposedly abuses her. Why leave me and go back? But then again I called her out on her lies, hiding and sneaking stuff from me, and her broken promises, that's why she left. But since gone we were talking the whole time, until an argument, then she would block me, then reach out 2 weeks later, this has been going on for 6mnths. But whole time she has been in a relationship and living with her ex while talking to me. Well she came to get a few things (some clothes) and important papers, she was one here phone the whole time texting only to find out she was hiding her ex down the road from my house. My neighbors friend contacted him cuz her ex sitting in front of their house and was worried about a running vehicle in front of their house. So he came to me, everyone comes to me, because I'm an ex deputy. So I walked down to see didn't go up to him. Upon walking back I see my ex hiding behind my front door and bedroom. She moved fast thinking I didn't see her. I ask who brought you and what they driving? Girl and a white car, I said hmm ok. Well my ex was seen getting into that vehicle... Hmmmm...? But when she told me she was coming it'll be only 5mins, which she ended up staying an hour... Hmmmm...? Well as I was moving around and soon as she came into the light I noticed her eye... Her eye was blood red! Broken blood vessels, I asked who hit you in the eye? She was quick to say oh I just woke up with it. BS! I said hmm I don't believe that. But who time here she acted really funny... Like scared... But before she left she gave me a bear hug and a kiss, told me she loved me, upon holding her and talking to her, she turned her head so I couldn't get a good look at it. Then she had to go, I asked for another hug and kiss, and her cell number, she said no. Upon that night, that was the last I seen or heard from her, then she started ignoring me, so cuz my background I started digging, to find she was with her ex, vehicle, address everything match to what I seen. So I called her out on it, wasn't nasty or anything, I said if your gonna keep what your doing, I'm walking away and called her out with her ex. Next I know she got mad, called me names n told me to leave her alone. I said fine you got it! If with someone else I'm done. Next thing I know she blocks me on that account. (Now she was supposed to come see me on 25th of October, home for good on 30th, never showed or hear anything.) But still friends with me on her other account. Never unfriended me, or block me on that one. 2 1/2 later she contacted me saying she's not with her ex left him months ago. This on Thursday. I read but made it as I didn't, 3 days later I responded, wasn't nasty or rude. Just said what I feel from the heart. No names or anything. She hasn't responded.... But the thing is if don't love me, want me or marry me, why stay connected to me? And why keep reaching out?

I have a new video topic for you, "No Contact while living with her" that means, no kisses, no sex, no making coffee for her in the morning etc!

Help pls

What if she was the opposite of cold and just really pissed off from mean things i said

But what if you love the idea of getting kids and growing old with somebody? I have hobbies and Im fine being on my own, but in the end I am a guy who really likes the idea of settling down. I dont want to be needy, but I do want a relationship in which I can be myself. And Im just a guy who likes to be able to share my thoughts, I dont want to seem weak, but I love the idea that you can trust somebody to a point were you can also share your insecurities and fears. I mean I know its gonna be allright with me, I do feel confident. Im even confident enough to be open about my weaknesses. The idea that I need to be pretend to be over confident the rest of my life is for me unacceptable. I want to go into philosophy sometimes and question the meaning of life. Its not that Im depressed or despair, I just like working shit out and asking the important questions. If that makes me come accros as doubting myself its retarded. By asking these questions and talking about it it shows that Im actually caring about who I am and working on myself to be a better man. Which Im confident I can be, but not if I always being arrogant and not question myself. Questioning yourself in the right way seems to me the right way to actually honestly reflect and improve. Always being confident is a form of arrogance and ignoring that you have flaws. So I wonder, all these videos give me the idea that its a 'bad thing' to open up about things because it makes you seem weak, needy or not confident. However I think it takes much more courage to actually open up then to act confident all the time.

what about dan bacon guy who says opposite basically, to get her on a phone call and reattract her asap?

Man the music in the background just annoying

i dont agree with finding a New hobby, just because it reminds you of her. in that case she would be winning, i would say continue your favorite hobbys but find someone else who enjoys them with you, as much as you!

Does no contact work if your the one that cause the breakup

What’s the music in the background?

You are definitely way better than "Corey Wayne" 💯 plus!

I'm in long distance relationship, my girlfriend started acting cold and distance. I went into no Connacht with her. She unfollowed me and block me. I didn't react and now she started following me and liking my post. What do i do and what does that mean?

Should I contact my ex who dumped me and got sick while doing no contact? Should I wish him well? Help me.

This haircut is so sexy!

what song is playing in the background

I cheated and got a second chance but she felt I wasn't showing enough reassurance, I didn't beg her really and took the break up but I told her I didn't mean to keep hurting her. We were together for 2 years. Do you think I still have a shot if I just let it go? Because I feel really bad.

What do u do when your ex finds another guy and wants to just be friends?

Next time could you cut the music out pls

shouldn't chew gum during your sessions

Hate that music it’s so unnecessary and makes it hard to listen you to