No Genders, Only HONK | Nonbinary Memes 

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Best gender euphoria

That sounds like such a gpod moment. Hope there will be more of those

what a little chad. Proof that children aren't doomed to be "cOnFuSeD" at the existence of queer people, that kid figured it out real quick

@@Romanticoutlaw Yes! Children are pretty self aware, since they have to understand the living experience for the first time. Personally I suspect that the ones saying "they're just kids, they don't understand things yet", are: 1) The ones who have forgot how it was to be a kid, or 2) The ones who doesn't want to think about how open minded they were when they were kids

This is why I’m glad and comfortable to be called literally anything. I prefer they/them so I typically correct at least my family cause they’re super used to she, but ya know. I’ve answered to bingus before so lmao

Yeah, and it's not guaranteed that they get it if you explain it.

@@teritt oh, hey Bingus

@@SteveTholomule. Steve?? :0

@@teritt Donkey!

Choose gender: [ ] Man [ ] Woman [✅] Pockets

I’m too smol for mens pants 😭

​@@maskedmallard537noooo mine is going to be [ ] Man [ ] Woman [ ] Pockets ✅️ No Pockets

Who chooses no pockets?

@@normalhuman9878 Ooh, life hack, get a belt and when you put on xs men’s pants, if you fold the back so in like a sort of two sides over the middle fold way, it fits nicely and the belt holds it in place :D I’ve been doing this with my Dad’s shorts cause I am _very skinny_ and his shorts sometimes shrink in the wash

ikr

If someone asks you if you're a boy or a girl, you could just respond: "Yeah, parttime" And watch as chaos unfolds

@@Yes_this_is_my_cat No one asks, though. People just assume whatever they want, based on the clothes I wear, while I just put on whatever from whatever's section, and end up being surprised by how people gender me myself.

Biggest of moods

My gender is sometimes full time but is zero contract hours

Thx u 💛🤍💜🖤

As long as it’s legal

Adding to your reminder: you’re also valid just as you are in any other terms (outside of identity/orientation) as long as it’s not hurting anyone (:

@@freddiefishton what’s illegal about having a gender identity or sexual orientation? Unless you’re in a country that for some reason one or both are illegal In which case, your comment still doesn’t make sense. Because anyone living in those countries is still valid in their identity or orientation. They just unfortunately can’t be open with it at all

@@eliotb.1219 sorry if you took it the wrong way, I just have my own saying “If it looks legal, sounds legal, and is legal, then who cares” As in if there living adults the why should I take another look

Ikr 😅😅

It works pretty well if you assume Vanessa and Barry are both heteroromantic asexuals. :)

He has a stinger. Transmasc rep?

I don’t think anyone was ok with that in the bee movie. Also the bee was a worker honey bee, which would make him a sterile female. Which means he’s trans?

Most of the cishet people I have known in my life are not at all like that. I hate to say it, but assuming they are is like those of them who do, assume and generalize about all non cishet people. We must all be wary of hypocrisy, or it will be to our own detriment, and the detriment of society overall. Please remember that 70% of Americans want LBGTQIA+ to have the same rights and privileges as everyone else. Most humans in general want peace and prosperity for everyone. But the natural sensationalism of media would have us believing otherwise. Also, in case some here don't follow politics by the numbers, the republicans are Nowhere near "half of the country. At their most numerous ever, in 2020, the entire republican base was less than 30% of the country (74 million out of 255 million). Our greatest weakness, and potential great salvation, are the non-voters. And we have known for many decades now that conservatives almost always vote, so the non-voters overwhelmingly lean left, liberal or egalitarian. I do feel bad for those who grew up in places where being accepted is far less of a thing. Don't get me wrong, there are plenty of bigots in the SF Bay Area, but they are the exception rather than the rule there, and that makes them easier to ignore and the bigots were less likely to think being a bigot was okay. That said, I also remember when I was a child in the 70's trucks filled with homophobe/cowards would sometimes drive through the Castro District in SF and throw rocks at the gay men. It used to make me so mad, and even mad at every adult I could find that didn't say they supported the rights of everyone, equally. But by the 90's I never even heard of that happening anymore. We progress, even though evolution is a very slow process. But each generation for the past century has become noticeably less bigoted than the last. I'm proud of every individual in every generation that has worked to make that a reality. We all stand on both the shoulder of all of society today, and all of our ancestors going all of the way back to when we were just slime in the oceans. The good news is, no one can stop the evolution of their own species, and so bigotry is dying now faster than ever. This is why the bigots are losing their minds lately. They can see their precious bigoted ideals dying even better than we can because we want it to just go away and life just feels good then, but for them their bigotry is all too often seen by themselves as part of who they are. That's ridiculous of course, but it feeds into the fear that creates conservatism and the delusions that create regressivism. _"Given a long enough timeline, we win. Guaranteed."_ --Beau of the Fifth Column Anyway, I wish you and all of my fellow Earthlings peace and prosperity.❤🌍🌎🌏 May we all continue to become even better anti-bigots.😊

Gender: [ ] yes [ ] no

@☆chara☆ I feel like I'm Gender ✅ yes ✅ no which is probably confusing even for non-binary people.

I feel like Gender: []yes []no ✅ most of the time

@☆chara☆ I'm kinda fluid between yes, no, and male and apparently it's hard for people to understand ^^'.

@☆chara☆ That's really cool! I've kinda been struggling to explain why I want to medically transition ftm though I am non-binary, to me it makes a lot of sense though.

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I'm 44 and it's only been a year since I realized I'm non-binary. Since I've been on social media I've heard stories from other enbys and finally found the words to describe what I've been experiencing

Sending lots of love to all the older non binaries here. Slay.

I'm so happy for you!

Same! I really knew somewhere that I didn't fit gender in any normal way - when I was a teen "girl"in the 90's, I refused to wear makeup until I saw Robert Smith, David Bowie, Trent Reznor, Peter Murphy, and other goth/glam guys looking good in makeup, and I wanted to look like them! Now, after years in the kink and queer communities, I figured out that I'm non-binary in the last 5 yrs, and it's been really freeing. I just wish I could decide whether to T or not to T...

41, and I went from a world where you were either Boy or Girl (and if you didn’t feel like either you kept it to yourself) to a world where not only is there a word for how I’ve always felt, but people are talking about it openly! I started figuring things out in my mid 30s and this is my first Pride month completely out as non-binary. It feels amazing. To the younger folks: thank you so much for supporting us, and for being brave enough to be yourselves in your own time instead of letting yourselves be packed into the closet. Things are so wildly different now than they were when I was growing up, it’s difficult to believe sometimes. I promise that even though we’re playing catch-up with some of the language and concepts, the older folks have your back and are rooting for you all the way.

My enby cousin was given a rather gender-neutral name at birth and has decided that they aren't going to change it. They're undeadnameable.

Recently, being misgendered hasn't bothered me as much!

​@@StormsofPeril same here. A lot of times I don't even tell people I'm Non-binary, I'll just say "I'm trans" and let them sort it out

True, except "all pronouns" is very rarely an option in situations when there's a menu. And the other option is not listing pronouns, which feels like a political statement. Being forced to choose one set of pronouns when you're an "all pronoun" person could be a whole series of memes. 😆

I’m still deciding between all pronouns and just they/them, but honestly I don’t really care which ones you use.

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*Honks in approval*

Honk!

Only *HONK*

HONK

Nice!

congratulations, that is great news.

Nice!! :D

Congrats! -:)

Yay!! So happy for you!! =)

I love that! At 45 I'm probably too old to get that question, but if I ever do, now I know what to answer.

Wooo 🥳!!

@Robin She clearly IS your BEST FRIEND

Ur valid and deserve the best 🩵✨

You are valid and wonderful and worthy of love

I mean, thanks, but I also want like people in my life not just like trans friends but like people at a workplace or uni or at hobbies or when dating to be respectful and I don't really trust they will be.

@@toni2309 I get that. I don’t have any lgbt or supportive friends either (to be fair I don’t have friends at all except online) It can be pretty lonely and feels like there’s no one to talk to who actually understands. Is there a way to message ppl on here or something? I know I don’t live where you do (I’m in the USA), but even having someone to message about these things can be really helpful. Im a trans guy FtM. If there is any way to message on here we could share details for somewhere better to talk, if not I’m willing to take the social brunt and give you my social media info in the comments lmao Figured I would offer, let me know if you want a friend who can (almost) fully understand what you’re going through Im 20y/o not a minor

Oh yes, I totally feel you with the new pronouns. (I'm Swedish, if that's of interest) Can't stand it, if I were to be gendered by others by the new words, I would feel even more misunderstood. I'm sorry that you have it that way, for what it's worth. 🫂

What's good for the goose, is good for the gander. lols But also, a gander is a male goose.😉

HONK!

Excellent. I am the Whoose. The Goose who's just a wee bit of mischief and mystery

Hjonk hjonk am goose

“Thanks for inviting me to your party, but I think there was a typo on the invitation. This is a gender reveal, right?” “IT MOST CERTAINLY IS NOT 🦢🦢🦢”

So true ;-;

Literally- Especially since like I'm afab and still like clothes like skirts and dresses so I just look like a cis woman, but I am very much not female so it's just like fhkfhkdh. Just trying to manifest nb energy somehow through my general behaviour and other more eccentric clothes and accessories or something :'D

​@@millakatariina64Gender feels transgressive to me. Having that "hidden" just feels wrong, somehow.

Ik. And just the thought that people look at me and go boy or girl is painful

my nonbinary ass who presents mostly androgynous and masculine "i look nonbinary!"

You:"Well what do you think" Kid you have never met before in your life: *Honks goosely*

That sounds weirdly fun.

I think another question/answer could be "why does it matter?"

I find it satisfying when people ask me "what gender I am", regardless of the persons age. ...I wonder what the heck is going on in the heads of the adult strangers that asks this though. 🤨

@@Foxiz As someone who is currently in this phase of taking testosterone where I look kinda androgynous, and also presents varied/androgynous, I wonder what goes on in the heads of the people who gender me in a binary way.

Add DUCKLINGS.

That's a fowl joke!

you're such a silly goose

😂😂😂

Malicious compliance is more Lawful I think

i live in texas i’m gonna do this

Mine got thrown in the junk mail and I emptied it before I could look.

which one did you order? i think it may have been delivered to me by accident

you guys ordered genders?

Fortunately, literally everything in our world is on a spectrum, not a binary

I'm agenderfluid, though I usually just say nonbinary. I would need a separate slider under the first to denote whether I'm feeling a gender at all.

I love that!

wakko is truly iconic

So you could trick a 5 year old? And you're proud of that? Hopefully, you realize how crazy you sound.

congratulaations

Congrats!

How ?

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*welcome to the fold*

Please accept some mama hugs. 💛🤍💜🖤

Be kind to yourself while healing. Whatever emotion you feel, let yourself feel it and resolve to address it once you're healthy. I had a bisalp last year - not NB here, just childfree. Best decision I've made, but I had weird bouts of regret in the first few weeks afterward during post-op depression. Luxeria's vid on her ffs procedure helped me be braced for that possibility before going in. Hope your surgeries go great!

@@HaleyJo1992 thank u ❤️ I'm childfree too lol it just went hand in hand with the dysphoria solution :))

@@missnaomi613 thank u 🥺❤️

That seems about right, You're not alone -:)

@Foxiz thank you, it seems so complicated I don't even know if it's valid sometimes... but gender is like that ig

@@realbedo It's always valid. I know I'm just a random person on the internet, but I wanted to tell you that :)

@nathryl03 thank you

Love this 💟 it's very reminiscent of my own experience. Other people's genders seem so much less complicated than mine !!

strongly disagree

But I'm moderately disagree 😭

yessssssssssssssssssss

the RPG stat spread of gender

The irony of my ADHD ass being a focus. 😂

YESS SSIR

Ahh congrats!! 🥳

Happy new life!

@@Jammidodger thank you so much! I really needed to hear that I don’t have a supportive family. I appreciate everything u do!

@@Foxiz thank you!

YESS SLAY👏✨ i finally found your comment hehe

I'm AMAB / demiguy, masculine presenting in how I dress, but even with facial hair I still manage to confuse people. I decided that changing my look to reflect being more "in between" would probably just wind up being redundant. People already have a sense that there's something "off" about me, and if I start presenting less masc, the outcome will probably be even more confusion / people thinking I'm a woman.

I do speak binary. It's my second language, however

I had this problem on a job application. Because I'm not out publicly yet, and I just had this vision of a coworker accidentally outing me to my family (which would NOT be a good thing to have happen in public), but it left such a bad taste in my mouth to say I was a woman.

that can be a few things, two notable ones are agender and genderfluid. if you find yourself re-questioning your gender identity after trying to pin it on one thing like 2 or 3 or 4 times, you might want to look into the two of them, i hope this helps! remember, whatever pronouns you use at any point in your questioning process or when its complete is all valid, and its worth the effort to think about it and try to find an answer that makes you happy and comfortable

We've always been with them. (I'm in the "+" part of "TQ+") Those anti-TQ+ people are outliers, not the norm. They imagine they will somehow be magically accepted by the cisgender heterosexual majority if they act "normal" (read as "conform to other people's expectations".) They're wrong, of course, because at their core, their sexuality remains non-conforming, and that will never be acceptable to those who want an unrealistically simple world where there are only cisgender men and women conforming to ideals of masculinity and femininity, and heterosexuality. Tossing us under the bus to please the unpleasable is a lose/lose for everyone.

Right wing propaganda is what that is. The reactionaries are deathly afraid of solidarity among marginalized people so they will pay unscrupulous jerks to push out divisive bs.

Is it pronounced the same or differently? I love learning about language stuff.

@@wintergray1221 it is pronounced the same :)

@@Lulu._.1 Cool, thanks

We in Austria do too ^^

Hate isn't innate; it's something people learn. Just know that you're shaping a generation of people who are going to be able to drop the arbitrary standards of gender assigned to them and truly explore who they are without restriction.

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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH (it’s still 31st May in my time zone but shhhh) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🩵🤍🩷

Happy pride month! It’s also my birthday month! 😃🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🎉🎉🎂🎂

@@stargirl7646 I wish I could’ve been born during Pride Month (only three and a half hours left in my time zone!), but alas, I was born in April

@@stargirl7646 HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN ADVANCE 🥳

The most you can say about it is that is was very movie

HONK

I'm a Yakko enby myself! We should find a Dot enby and join forces!

@@NekoChanSenpai Animaniacs enbies unite!

sorry, no dot here. just yakko

A month later and I'm wondering if you've had a realization or if you still don't consider yourself nonbinary lol

I like to see how fast I can say it 😅

​@@Jammidodger I've noticed. 😂

Why hello there fellow aroace!!

@@simplymeowlogical hi! :D

AYYYYYY! Found the fellow aroace thread! 🧄🍞

Just like they hated on Turning Red for mentioning stuff like pads.

"gender soup" - I like that one!

Yess !! I want more aro videos in particular

"When life gives you a flat tire, make pottery." It's weird, but somehow satisfying.

Good luck

@@KateWick1997 what?? it totally is what are you talking about bruh

@@KateWick1997 Said like a person who has zero understanding of how hard it is for people to come out - because of people who go around spreading hate. Find something better to do with your life than harass us in RU-vid comment sections.

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​@@barryledgister4496 Male and female are not genders

@@barryledgister4496 LMAO, damn, what a way to be a drama queen.

@@pathevermore3683 Always is. You tell them reality, and you're infringing in their rights lol

Tough question, especially for those who don't want to be pigeon-holed into a singular category. It may not be practical for having to parse large datasets, but I'd say three choices: Man, Woman, or Fill in the blank (Please don't give it a label of "Other" - that's irksome by itself.) Maybe a 4th category for "Refuse to answer". If you start trying to come up with a finite list of possible options, you're certain to upset someone who feels unseen / left out. (As someone who doesn't fit any of the letters in any of the versions of the unwieldly LGBT + whatever letters are added, I can speak from experience about that.) For those who want to self-report their gender identity, some of us would rather define it for ourselves, than be told it has to fit into this or that option. I know it's inconvenient. I've had to sort out catchall categories myself processing surveys - though it's usually been a question about culturally-defined race. Since there isn't uniformity, it's just a pain in the neck no matter how you try to accommodate people. Of course you'll have the fun of deciding how to fit those things into how the grant presumably classifies gender. Complete accuracy probably isn't possible.

@@TransIsBest Exactly. We can clearly see who the authoritarian was in that exchange, and it wasn't you.

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All bathrooms need bins. I'm from US so I'm guessing they're the same as trash cans? 🗑️

@@silverghostcat1924 yeah, just sth to throw a way sanitary products in general would be useful

Omg haha

Finally! Somebody else that understands bees!

​​@@maskedmallard537 remember, applying any gendered pronouns to bees is equally wrong :3 which means they are all equally right too The bee sexes are worker, drone, and queen

Have you looked into being agender?

consider looking into agender, cassgender, and gender apathetic

No one can figure it out but you in the end, but just know there’s no pressure to put a label on anything in any sort of time frame. Just try some things out, learn who you are more deeply as a person, and in time it’ll all get figured out

@@toni2309 I recently found out about agender & that does seem to fit a bit more with how I feel about my own gender but I am going to read more about it.

@@SeraphGamingYT I recently found out about agender, but have not heard of cassgender & didn't realize gender apathetic was actually a term. I am going to be reading more about each of these to see if any of them feel right for me. Thank you for the information.

Yep. It's not my ADHD hyperactivity making it hard to sit still, not my weird issues to read in line it's THAT I DON'T SPEAK BINARY

@@toni2309 precisely :-)

_high pitched honk honk_