I get it. When I lost my fur baby I thought I was going to dig a hole right beside her and crawl in it. It aches my soul every single day. As time passes it eases but not a day goes by that I don’t long for her or think of her. Don’t beat yourself up over it. You deserve to grieve the way you want to. Don’t apologize for your grief and don’t care what others think. I love you my friend and I feel you and for you. 🫶🏻
You’re such a good, kind person. What happened was an accident and your sweet baby knows that. She’s waiting for you, you’ll see her again someday. Sending love to you. 💗
Many prayers for you. I lost my soul Kitty suddenly and I cried, sobbed for months. MONTHS!!! I blamed myself and felt like I could have done more. I had a work/life change and had to be gone for days on end and couldn't bring my Kitty. He basically died of a broken heart, his health was deteriorating and I didn't know what to do. Took him to the vet and he didn't survive. He will always be my soul kitty.
Your not a weakling. You’re a beautiful human being. Losing a fur baby is part of your family. Take your time. We are here waiting if you need comfort.
Im usually a silent watcher, but I wanted to comment and say that I’m so very sorry for the loss of your soul cat. My heart is with you and your family. Sending healing thoughts your way. I lost my soul dog (a 13-year-old yellow lab) in October of 2021 so I completely understand your pain. A little over a year later, I got another dog (a corgi) and, while he’ll never replace my lab, having him has been so healing.
My heart is broken for you Lynn. I know you adored that beautiful cat and she will live forever in your heart. I just want to encourage you to keep going and you will get through it one moment at a time. It will get easier and I pray for comfort and peace to cover you. Sending you love and hugs in this difficult time. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I hope one day we may see you welcoming another little fur baby into your family. Life is just not the same if there are no kitties in the house. I don’t mean tomorrow but maybe one day. I have three.
We lost our dog suddenly and I cried for days. Grief is normal. Take your time and let yourself feel it. Those people who judge you have never had to process such awful trauma. ❤ praying for your family ❤
My dear sweet friend. I’m so sorry for your loss. You cry and be in your feelings as long as you want. That’s the healing part, you will always have her and don’t let anyone tell you to get over it. You keep as many memories of her that your heart can handle. I’m part for peace and comfort for you and your family. Sending love and hugs darling…
I can totally relate to and understand your deep sadness and heartache over your beloved cat. Last summer I lost both of my girlies within 3 weeks of each other. One had kidney failure and the other of a broken heart after the loss of her sister. I was devastated and we still talk about them every day. I find solace in knowing we gave them the best lives ever. Big hugs to you, I know how hard this is.❤️
Ignore any nasty comments. How wonderful for them to be so perfect 🙄 Anyone can make a mistake. We are human. She was very loved and she’ll be up there knowing that. Take care of yourself xx
Lynn, Am so sorry for the loss of your fur baby. 😢 These amazing creatures just work their way into your heart. I think they are sent into our lives by God to give us their special, unconditional love, so we are blessed for however long or short we have it.❤
Oh my gosh Lynn I’m shedding tears with you. So so sorry for your loss. There will be a point that you won’t cry daily but from time to time. I will occasionally fall asleep on a tear stained pillow when I think about my Koko 🐶
So sorry, Lynn. I never use those toxic flea treatments on my furbabies. Of course it was an accident; you were always so loving to Jewels. 💞 I lost both my elderly cats the last two years, and have grieved alone. God is good to give us them for a season. I know your furbabies are spoiled and blessed by you all. My cats weren't allowed outdoors, too risky, but they had a large outdoor catio. Praying for your heart. 🙏
Oh my goodness...I'm just finding your channel and am seeing this about your precious cat. Listen. Accidents happen and are called accidents for a reason. I hope people are kinder. It's already very hard for you. I hope that as a family you can heal and find a way through. I'm def a cat person as well. I currently have 5--just brought home two babies yesterday to foster, but they won't be going anywhere. They are just so much joy. And I have a soul cat too and he's getting older. Prayers for your heart and for your family. these are tough days. It's not fun to process and go through it but it is grief. I always say that grief is an univited guest. You must entertain him or he will never go away. Big hugs.
Bless you Lynn! I know exactly how you feel and what you’re going through. I lost my soul cat in 2003 and I’ll never be over it. I have his pictures in the house so I can see him everyday and I talk to him daily. I just can’t handle losing animals…they are my passion. Maybe in some way it will help knowing you’re not alone in your grief…Lynn it wasn’t your fault.
Oh honey, I’m so so sorry you are going through such a heart break right now. I know exactly how you feel. I’ve lost two fur babies and it never gets easier. It doesn’t matter what happened. I personally would never ask. All we know is that they are gone and our hearts are broken. God Bless you sweet girl and know I will be praying for healing of your heart and your families. ❤️🙏🏼
Bless your heart babe! We lost our sweet kitty boy Bear three months ago. I still wear his collar as a bracelet. You and Jewels were so lucky to have each other! ❤😢🐈
You are a wonderful person and we don’t always understand why hard things happen in our lives…..but they do. I pray your memories will bring you peace and comfort.
Oh Lynn! I hope you can feel the love you have surrounding you. Mourn Jewel. Go through it. It shows just how much you loved her. Take care & be well, sister. ❤
I am terribly sorry about the loss of your fur baby. It truly is no one’s fault. Accidents happen. As you always say you are loved, you are important. Never forget that.
Feel your feels momma fur babies are still our babies. Especially when they are your soul animal they are family. I feel for you honey. We love you and are sending so much love to you and prayers your way.
The garage looks great, I am so sorry for your loss, big hugs I know how hard it is to lose a pet..they love us for who we are…remember you do not have to explain anything to any of us.. Take care of yourself
Oh Lynn, Words can't express how terribly sorry I am for the loss of your soul cat. Just sending so much love and many prayers. My soul cat is my boy, Victor. I was at a terribly low point in my life and I saw his little face amongst some photos of rescue cats needing adoption and it spoke to me. He is a 4 year old Tabby and from the first minutes in our home he became my little buddy. I seriously credit him with saving my mental state and I love him so very much. I LOVE animals and have had pets before that I adored but Victor is special. Again..all my love to you and your family. Dorothy.
Lynn, so sorry that your heart is hurting. I admire how you open yourself up and share the painful and difficult things as well as the good and happy times. You have such a genuine heart and love deeply. So sorry that your family is missing Jewel. How fortunate she was to be loved by you! Blessings and prayers to you! 💔😥
I was crying with you. I lost my cat to cancer so I know how hard it is. Sending love to you and your family. It's a horrible accident but it's just that, an accident. Forgive and keep her memories in your heart
Oh Lynn, this brought me to tears. I've had cats my whole life, and my daughter and I have two now and they're our soul cats for sure. They're the best emotional support in the world and we're obsessed with them. Losing an animal is an awful, terrible pain and I'm so sorry that your sweet girl is gone. Sending love and light your way.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Please don't pay any attention to the judgemental people! Things happen in life and accidents happen. Please forgive yourself, Jewels would want you too. She doesn't blame you. She knows you would've never intentionally harm her. She's watching over you from The Rainbow Bridge. ❤
Ms Lynn. So sorry for your loss. Hope you all pull through. Just know that no matter what you gave her the best life you could. And she loved you for it. I think it is very brave of you to share your feelings. Losing a pet is so heartbreaking. Sending you hugs ❤❤❤❤
I am so so sorry about your beloved kitty! Please don't blame yourself. Like you guys said, you didn't know. Sadly, sometimes things happen. Forgive yourself. Love yourself. If this happened to your best friend you would never blame them. Treat yourself like you would your best friend.❤
I want to give you a temporary fix to divide your laundry area from the garage. Put your metal storage ahelves across where one day will be a wall. Then on the laundry side, put shower curtains to block off the backside of the shelves. And inside your laundry area it looks nice, and yet it helps to let you know how big of a area you will need. And it frees up wall space in the garage. Ive had to do this before. Just a thought
I promise it gets easier over time. ❤️ We had an accident happen with our dog when I was in high school. It was a moment that will forever be engraved in my mind. It’s something that I blamed myself for years, but now I can give myself grace in knowing it was just an accident. Time definitely helps heal.
So sorry for your loss, I just lost my soul kitty of 17 years, I completely understand the bouts of tears and sadness, everything reminds me of my scooby
Oh Lynn, I’m so sorry for your loss. I understand how you feel, right to my very soul. My dog Mollie was mauled to death by a bear in my back yard right in front of me. I don’t live in the country, I live in town, so it was completely unexpected. It was a mama bear, and the cubs were hidden in some trees. Mama was in my neighbors bird feeder eating suet. This was two years ago, and I relive the trauma almost every day. To make it extra horrible, it all happened on my birthday, eight months after I lost my husband to cancer. I understand. I care. I am praying for your heart to heal my friend.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Sharing your story may have saved someone else from the same heartbreak. I had no idea that there was a difference between cat and dog treatments. I hope that the loving memories will bring you comfort and healing.
I’m so sorry for your loss, our pets are family, I loss my Bella last year, she lived 15 years and it was very hard for us when she passed, but I know and feel that we will meet again one day in heaven ❤ love you Lynn and I am sending prayers for you and your family ❤️
I'm so very sorry for your loss! Nothing in this world is harder! I lost my Oliver dog after 12 years.... heart congestion. You gave me such motivation to do my garage!!! Thank you, prayers and blessings ❤❤😢
Praying for your heart! It sounds like you had a strong bond with her. Animals have a way of grabbing our hearts and it’s ok to grieve. I’m praying for you!❤
Thank you for this great declutter motivation. I loved how you've placed the trash can well visible on camera while decluttering the freezer around 7:40 . It's not something I struggle to declutter, but I wish more people would film like that when decluttering things I struggle to as seeing the nicer decluttered things laying in the regular trash like that is the ultimate way to show that whatever goes in will not goes out anymore (in the garbage truck yes but not in the house/garage like I do most of the time I declutter the things I struggle to 😅). If you ever have magazines, clothes stores catalogues/junkmail or any old clothes that can't be donated, I hope you'll film it like this 😇
Lynn, I have also lost a pet due to a mistake I made. It gets easier with time but I still cry sometimes. At least I know I won't make the same mistake again. Stay strong.
I just want to say I know your pain and sorrow! I want you to know that you and your family are in my prayers! It will never go away but it will get better for you all. Remember her and talk about her that will help!
Oh Lynn I am so very sorry for your loss. They take a little piece of our hearts when they go. This was still a great decluttering video and got the motivation I needed to declutter my kitchen and living room while I watched. ❤
Awe @lynnwhite I am so sorry for your loss ,I absolutely love watching your channel and you motivate me to keep going ,I lost my husband 7 years ago snd it is very difficult. Thank you for your continued encouragement and hugs and prayers for you snd your family.
I've lost many pets over the past years. I never get over it. I've had them all cremated and my husband made a beautiful box to put them in. I talk to them all the time! Losing them is the hardest thing ever! ❤❤
I'm so, so sorry Lynn on the loss of Jewels!!! I completely understand about wanting her collar. We had to have both our dogs put down, 2 years apart and I kept their collars. Prayers for you and the family!!!
I am so sorry for your loss, wish I could give you a big hug! We all grieve differently, it’s been over a year and sometimes it just hits me and I do the ugly cry. ❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️
Oh Lynn my heart goes out to you and your family. I still miss my dog and cry in a second over her and it’s been years. To the point I cannot get another animal. The soul animal thing is so real, it’s really a different kind of love! I will prayer for you. ❤
i’m sorry sorry for the loss of your jewel. i have to tell you, my daughter’s friend had about 6 cats, she treated them all like her babies., she went to a pet store to get flea treatment for them, even asked questions to make sure she was getting the correct treatment… well, it ended up being the wrong one! Her babies all died from that!! She said it was like losing a child pretty much. But I wanted to tell you, I’m empathizing. So so sorry!!
We rescued sister puppies from the local pond. You have to by law to have any rescues fixed. Both pups went in on the same day and we had to leave Sis because she had an allergic reaction to the sedation medication. We rescued another pup (Lillian aka Lily) as a companion for Sophie. We’re treating Lily for heart worms.
Sending prayers `and comfort to you Lynn. ~I know how you feel, it rips your gut out because it hurts that much. Two years ago, I had two chihuahuas,brother and sister, and Yoshi was hit with something which caused a fatal injury and we had to,put her asleep. I can’t reveal who and what because it’s too painful still. I never will get over it but processing it to where I can deal with it is a challenge, so Lynn when you have to darlin, cry your little heart out but try to hold on to those special memories of Jewels because they are dear and precious. I feel ya girl❤️Love ya lots Lynn💕💕❤️💕💕🥰🥰🙏🙏💕💕❤️💕💕🐈💕💕🙏
My heart breaks for you. You need to take your time to grieve. Each day will get easier, though you can’t see that now. We lost two dogs a couple years ago within six months of each other. I still have days that I break down and cry. Lynn, authenticity includes sadness and happiness. Be kind to yourself. 🥲🐱🙏❤️ I love that you put her collar on the cat statue. We put our late dogs’ collars and harness on the stuffed dog we keep on our bed. That helps. God bless.
Oh Ms Lynn surrounding you with loving arms. So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you and your family. Thank you for your video knowing on what happened....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am so sorry for the loss of your Jewels I know how you feel Lynn, I lost my soul dog Piper at 3 years old (5/16/16-5/25/19). She was my everything and I replayed everything that happened and what could I have done differently. I cried over her for months and think of her every single day. I know she sent me my dog Paisley and she has so many traits of her and my other dog baby who i lost on 4/2/17 from kidney failure at age 12. All of our fur babies are family members and the are like have another child. Praying for you and your family and your time of healing. Healing takes time.
Omg just what I needed, just this morning I used some choice words when I went to get something from my garage and could not even walk in there without tripping over crap. It's bad. Tomorrow Ruthless Declutter. I'm so sorry for your loss, take your time to heal. You don't need to explain or answer anything.
First, your garage looks amazing. Second, Jewels was so lucky to have you and be loved by you. Third, tragic mistakes are just that - mistakes that are tragic. Fourth, anonymous people who are mean and hateful and judgmental are sad people and we just to feel sorry for them. Fifth, I’m giving you the biggest hug ever.
