Heya. I mentioned in my France road trip video about how violence affects me, and I think that message brought about some confusion. I also mentioned in my video on All About Love how I want compassion and love to be my big guiding framework for life, and I think that is really unlocked with nonviolent communication in mind. So today, I’m going to talk about Nonviolent Communication, what it is, and - namely - how it is that our language can be violent. I don’t think people realize how impactful their judgments, criticisms, and shame can be on others, and so I’d like to talk about that today, within the framework of Nonviolent Communication.
I don't think people seriously consider how damaging their comments can be to others. The violence in people's language deeply impacts others, and doesn't just impact those who are considered "weak" or "not strong enough," “snowflakes” or "fragile." The language we use with others affects their emotions deeply, affects their body chemistries, and stays with them for years, to the point that some even internalize the message, and then cause violence to themselves. The things we say to others have long lasting impacts, and bigger impacts than we choose to acknowledge. It's not the receiver's fault for being impacted. I think it's time we look at the language we're using, if it's serving our goals, and if we're ethically and morally comfortable with the damage we're causing to others.9
Compassion and kindness are always available to us. Please be kind. You'll be surprised how much good it can do.
In Part 2 of this video series, on my channel @SimonsBookClub, I’ll be discussing how the Nonviolent Communication process works, and I’ll give examples on how violent statements can be translated into something more compassionate, and more likely to be connecting, mindful, and beneficial to all parties. Check out Part 2 here:
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There's a lovely community of people over on the Discord, where we talk about nonviolence, compassion, mental health, mindfulness, and lots of really wholesome, healthy stuff. If this sounds like a community you'd like to be a part of, I'd be very happy to connect with you there.
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If Nonviolent Communication interests you, check out the book. There’s so much more in there than I could talk about in these videos.
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Here’s that video on Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs I mentioned
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And along with that, here’s NVC’s List of Feelings..
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…and their List of Needs
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Both lists are from
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If you’re interested in Nonviolent Communication, the Center for Nonviolent Communication is starting a ten month program this weekend, as of November 12th. I’ll be participating in it as well. Check it out!
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0:00 Introduction
27:08 Moving from “All About Love”
1:40 Violence blocks opens and honest communication
2:50 What is Violence
4:02 WHO’s Definition of Violence
4:54 My definition of Violence
5:41 “Life Alienating Communication”
6:32 Fluency in Violence
7:56 Disconnecting from what’s alive in us
8:41 Tragic Expression of Our Needs
10:02 Two Questions about Punishment
11:51 Violent Communication to Control
12:42 Power and Violence
13:51 Moving towards Love
14:43 Anti-Semitism met with Nonviolence
17:09 The benefits of compassion over violence
18:26 Is Nonviolence on RU-vid possible?
20:32 Is Nonviolence anti freedom of speech?
23:06 Is Nonviolence toxic positivity?
24:43 How to speak with Nonviolence
25:31 Discord Invite
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20 июл 2024